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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

I just don't get why most women have there setting on nearly all private so you can even see if they have looked at you I just get like 300 men a day looking at me why so private?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do you want to know if we've looked at you?

that will give you a clue as to why we don't want you to know.

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

I have found that if you look at a profile and then disregard the potential person it is soon followed up by a message that says you looked at me fancy a chat-meet and then i need to decline politely. Or i like just to perv anon...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have our profile set so it doesn't show that we've looked but we still get messages saying "I noticed you were looking at my profile"

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Gotta love a bit of ninja perving

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"why do you want to know if we've looked at you?

that will give you a clue as to why we don't want you to know."

Well if I good looking fella looks at you do you think yea I'll message him sure you do well it's the same for me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get why most women have there setting on nearly all private so you can even see if they have looked at you I just get like 300 men a day looking at me why so private????? "

You know the answer. If you wish to avoid men, set your filters accordingly.

If you wish to attract the ladies, make yourself attractive to the ladies.

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hahaha sometimes yea but sometimes you migth want them to see you have looked

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If someone messages me, I look at the profile first, if the profile doesn't interest me I just ignore the message.

I do not want any follow up that says I see you have looked at my profile, why haven't you replied to my message?

That kind of shite I can't be arsed with, so I am stealth mode all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because desperate guys start messaging "you looked so you must be interested" type stuff

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Oh I dnt get me wrong I swing more then most men do on here just be nice to see if anyone new is looking

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier


"Hahaha sometimes yea but sometimes you migth want them to see you have looked "

A wink or a message gets their attention

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yea but sum even have them blocked in couples profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have our profile set so it doesn't show that we've looked but we still get messages saying "I noticed you were looking at my profile" "

Yeah stealth doesn't always feel stealth too many coincidental crossover looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do you want to know if we've looked at you?

that will give you a clue as to why we don't want you to know.

Well if I good looking fella looks at you do you think yea I'll message him sure you do well it's the same for me to "

no. and this is exactly why we hide that we've looked.

also if a guy messages me and i look at his profile but don't reply striaght away he gets imaptient for a reply and starts pestering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get why most women have there setting on nearly all private so you can even see if they have looked at you I just get like 300 men a day looking at me why so private????? "

What action would you take if a woman had looked at your profile yet made no contact OP?

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"why do you want to know if we've looked at you?

that will give you a clue as to why we don't want you to know.

Well if I good looking fella looks at you do you think yea I'll message him sure you do well it's the same for me to

That's sum fellas on here not all

no. and this is exactly why we hide that we've looked.

also if a guy messages me and i look at his profile but don't reply striaght away he gets imaptient for a reply and starts pestering."

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Well it's if she looks at it a few times must be looking for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply because I don't want everyone I look at to message me. I look at people for various reasons but most will assume I'm interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do you want to know if we've looked at you?

that will give you a clue as to why we don't want you to know.

Well if I good looking fella looks at you do you think yea I'll message him sure you do well it's the same for me to

That's sum fellas on here not all

no. and this is exactly why we hide that we've looked.

also if a guy messages me and i look at his profile but don't reply striaght away he gets imaptient for a reply and starts pestering."

it's a lot of men, yeah not all but enough for it to be a problem.

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Simply because I don't want everyone I look at to message me. I look at people for various reasons but most will assume I'm interested "

I get that so the fellas that take your eye you message then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply because I don't want everyone I look at to message me. I look at people for various reasons but most will assume I'm interested

I get that so the fellas that take your eye you message then ? "

No I don't message anyone anymore.

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Simply because I don't want everyone I look at to message me. I look at people for various reasons but most will assume I'm interested

I get that so the fellas that take your eye you message then ?

No I don't message anyone anymore

. "

Oh so just uses this to talk with friends then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did that once. Got messages saying 'I see you looked at my profile...'. It's easier in stealth mode. I look for various reasons, and mostly am not looking to chat/meet to those I look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply because I don't want everyone I look at to message me. I look at people for various reasons but most will assume I'm interested

I get that so the fellas that take your eye you message then ?

No I don't message anyone anymore

.

Oh so just uses this to talk with friends then "

No. Just because I choose not to message people doesn't mean to say I don't meet

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Simply because I don't want everyone I look at to message me. I look at people for various reasons but most will assume I'm interested

I get that so the fellas that take your eye you message then ?

No I don't message anyone anymore

.

Oh so just uses this to talk with friends then

No. Just because I choose not to message people doesn't mean to say I don't meet "

OK then I dnt really message anyway see most people off here in clubs better taking to someone face to face they get to no the real you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply because I don't want everyone I look at to message me. I look at people for various reasons but most will assume I'm interested

I get that so the fellas that take your eye you message then ?

No I don't message anyone anymore

.

Oh so just uses this to talk with friends then

No. Just because I choose not to message people doesn't mean to say I don't meet

OK then I dnt really message anyway see most people off here in clubs better taking to someone face to face they get to no the real you then "

So viewing in stealth doesn't really matter then.

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By *ester! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Simply because I don't want everyone I look at to message me. I look at people for various reasons but most will assume I'm interested

I get that so the fellas that take your eye you message then ?

No I don't message anyone anymore

.

Oh so just uses this to talk with friends then

No. Just because I choose not to message people doesn't mean to say I don't meet

OK then I dnt really message anyway see most people off here in clubs better taking to someone face to face they get to no the real you then

So viewing in stealth doesn't really matter then. "

Well I've seen you loads of times in cupids. But sum people dnt play in clubs more private so be good to see who is looking that's all

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