FabSwingers.com forum: Shocking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the most shocking experience or thing you've seen or heard about on fab?

I'll tell mine later. I promise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That people actually like my random ramblings in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The abysmal adult literacy levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People's blinkered vision of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The woman who messaged me to say "I don't like black people, but you don't look that black so I'm willing to give it a go" and then got all shocked and offended when I sent a polite thanks but no thanks message back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The woman who messaged me to say "I don't like black people, but you don't look that black so I'm willing to give it a go" and then got all shocked and offended when I sent a polite thanks but no thanks message back

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry...

And I am laughing...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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That cos u is white innit bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That cos u is white innit bro

Shhh, I'm trading on being dark and mysterious here and your messing it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That people have had bareback sex and survived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That people have had bareback sex and survived "

And that people have had bareback sex and are now dying, HIV and AIDS haven't gone away yet you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That people have had bareback sex and survived "

Need coffee ... need to shake my head ... need coffee....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Shhh, I'm trading on being dark and mysterious here and your messing it up

Cool, fancy some rice chicken & peas for dinner then

*said in a non stereotypical way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That people have had bareback sex and survived

And that people have had bareback sex and are now dying, HIV and AIDS haven't gone away yet you know"

I'm more afraid of children.... HIV/AIDS Will kill you , children are forever.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"That people have had bareback sex and survived

And that people have had bareback sex and are now dying, HIV and AIDS haven't gone away yet you know

I'm more afraid of children.... HIV/AIDS Will kill you , children are forever.

How to deviate a thread from the USA Pt.1

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"That people have had bareback sex and survived

And that people have had bareback sex and are now dying, HIV and AIDS haven't gone away yet you know

I'm more afraid of children.... HIV/AIDS Will kill you , children are forever.

Lol indeed

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

The way some men to talk to me on here shocks me everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here long enough now, so nothing really shocks or surprises me anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That people have had bareback sex and survived

And that people have had bareback sex and are now dying, HIV and AIDS haven't gone away yet you know

I'm more afraid of children.... HIV/AIDS Will kill you , children are forever.

How to deviate a thread from the USA Pt.1

They come over because their forum is pretty empty ... very sad ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sheer level of rudeness that some people seem to think is acceptable.

The shocking literacy levels.

The widespread lack of understanding of human biology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here long enough now, so nothing really shocks or surprises me anymore."

Same as.some annoy me but they don't shock me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Been on here long enough now, so nothing really shocks or surprises me anymore.

Same as.some annoy me but they don't shock me"

Yer bum wants spanking though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here long enough now, so nothing really shocks or surprises me anymore.

Same as.some annoy me but they don't shock me

Yer bum wants spanking though

Its a very nice bum ... I've been admiring it from a far for a while ... I am not a perv ... or bi ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people on a sex site thinking they are better than others hahahahaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a female i was on my way to meet and she cancelled as i got just into her town!

Wouldnt be so bad but was a 45 minute drive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its the pickyness that some display on here. Even if you fit the bill, you're likely to be totally ignored. Guess thats the difference between online sex sites, and meeting someone in person. When you're online, the normal rules get thrown out of the window.

Oh, and really aggressive profiles. Can't be doing with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The increase in abuse just for saying no

Mysogony is live and kicking and sadly not claimed by the curse of 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of hi messages people send.... then I have to inter_iew you to get a conversation going , when I reply

The amount of people that don't update their ages and pics on profile ..... if this has happened to you , you now become paranoid before your next meet and always ask for recent face pics or webcam. Then get abuse and called a time waster/ pic collector because you don't want to show up to a meet and find out you have been catfished.

The amount of people that are afraid to say they like NSA bareback on the forums. You would be shocked and looked at people differently if everyone was honest about enjoying bareback sex

The contempt for people that are married but playing away.... this one is the best. It's like being in Prison and the bank robbers won't associate with the car thieves.

Last but not least..... I'm not really shocked by this but I find this funny. When meeting a couple and the husband wants to suck me off or any variation of bi/gay sex . He will always say it's the wife that wants to see it... like she is forcing him.

We are 2 men fucking your wife. Just say look I want to eat her pussy while you fuck her , or I want to suck you dick because I like it.

No need to blame your wife.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site."

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Nothing shocks me but am surprised that guys still send fancy a fuck as an opening line and that there are so many "I'd love to impregnate you" and "will you shit in my mouth" fantasists about!

Also I'm surprised at how many adult topics are off limit on forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shhh, I'm trading on being dark and mysterious here and your messing it up

Cool, fancy some rice chicken & peas for dinner then

*said in a non stereotypical way

I've endeavored to not conform to racial stereotypes all my life, but put a plate of fried chicken or brown stew chicken with fried dumplings in front of me and watch me go super ethnic lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want."

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"That people have had bareback sex and survived

And that people have had bareback sex and are now dying, HIV and AIDS haven't gone away yet you know"

The people who had bareback sex and had a child ..... happens every day. Okay, not to someone on here, but just saying ....

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"The amount of hi messages people send.... then I have to inter_iew you to get a conversation going , when I reply

The amount of people that are afraid to say they like NSA bareback on the forums. You would be shocked and looked at people differently if everyone was honest about enjoying bareback sex

The contempt for people that are married but playing away.... this one is the best. It's like being in Prison and the bank robbers won't associate with the car thieves.

We are 2 men fucking your wife. Just say look I want to eat her pussy while you fuck her , or I want to suck you dick because I like it.

No need to blame your wife.

Your age gets updated automatically on your birthday wheather they were lying about it in the first place is a whole different thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?"

???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone messaged us and directed his message to B and asked to borrow H in a hotel room for one night! We didn't even know him.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?

???????

I just find it odd that people are allowed to have whatever attitude they want, apparently. The attitude of the woman you turned down is therefore acceptable to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?"

Is he complaining about others having "attitudes"? Or do you just have an issue with his?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?

???????

I just find it odd that people are allowed to have whatever attitude they want, apparently. The attitude of the woman you turned down is therefore acceptable to some."

And how do you propose to "fix" her so that her attitude is acceptable to you? Public flogging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fount my next door neighbour on here

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?

Is he complaining about others having "attitudes"? Or do you just have an issue with his?"

I literally have no idea what your problem is here so I'll leave you to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it odd that some people take the attitude that everyone should have their attitude,which is the "enlightened" one, and therefore the only one to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, as I'm unshockable.

Although if I had to choose something, it would be how aggressive and offensive some people can be in these forums. NEVER any need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of grumbling about other fabbers.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I find a lot of what goes on here profoundly shocking, what some people get off on beggars belief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?

???????

I just find it odd that people are allowed to have whatever attitude they want, apparently. The attitude of the woman you turned down is therefore acceptable to some."

Yeah, I get that, but can you see how someone might be a little uncomfortable being pushed forward into someone else disagreement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?

???????

I just find it odd that people are allowed to have whatever attitude they want, apparently. The attitude of the woman you turned down is therefore acceptable to some.

And how do you propose to "fix" her so that her attitude is acceptable to you? Public flogging?"

I reserve public flogging for the ladies I really like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The old fashioned attitudes some people still have towards certain sections of society. But then, that't not particularly specific to this site.

But it's a free world, right? So they can have whatever attitude they want.

Are you going to post this reply to KinkyButler too?

???????

I just find it odd that people are allowed to have whatever attitude they want, apparently. The attitude of the woman you turned down is therefore acceptable to some.

And how do you propose to "fix" her so that her attitude is acceptable to you? Public flogging?

I reserve public flogging for the ladies I really like

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over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There must be something still. I'm no different in my opinions of people here than in the wider world - I'm still a little surprised how people are so different from others, including me. But that's also some of the pleasure of life.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The abysmal adult literacy levels.

Lack of manners by some members, the same stupid questions in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The abysmal adult literacy levels.

Lack of manners by some members, the same stupid questions in the forums.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

The amount of men that send me 'can I make you pregnant' messages then get offended when I turn them down.

That adults use the word 'nawty'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it shocking how little regard men give to Adam or myself when messaging.

Directing a message at me and telling me what they would like to do to me in a very crude manner is just disrespectful. I think people forget they are messaging a married couple who are in love and will get peeved off if one or the other is treated unfairly. I would never dream of addressing a couple in such a manner.

It's crazy but ah well. I remain polite with my answering rejection but sometimes a little sarcasm does slip through ha ha.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people on a sex site thinking they are better than others hahahahaaaaaa "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" can accommodate after 9pm when kids go bed. Their bedroom door will be locked so they won't walk in on us"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was surprised at the poor levels of literacy from people.

I was horrified to find out what dredging was.

I was surprised about the number of people interested in meeting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shocked at how rude people can be (as in abusive not cock pics)

Shocked at a few things ..like my brain forgetting things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it shocking how naive many adults are about human nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shocked that Sydney university wasn't a thing

Amazed at how quickly a thread can sometimes turn into a bundle and not even a naked one!

Stunned that my wobbly arse and tummy are lusted over!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I find it odd that some people take the attitude that everyone should have their attitude,which is the "enlightened" one, and therefore the only one to have."

me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't like what you say. Then who cares?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

How judgemental, homophobic, transphobic, racist and narrow minded sexual libertines can be

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By *EATHERLOVER02Man
over a year ago

manchester

Someone actually replied to a message once !!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How judgemental, homophobic, transphobic, racist and narrow minded sexual libertines can be

I didn't think swinging would have a place for some of these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People thinking that because I'm on a swinging site I'll fuck anything. Some may. Me nooooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that has shocked me, and twice might I add, is for whatever reason I am not good enough and they don't want to meet me. Okay no drama, not for everyone. Then they come back and flirt and then I don't take their meet requests seriously and think it's just harmless flirting and then get abuse because I wasted their time and should have said I wasn't going to meet them.

Ummm... uh... but surely the rejection was from them first? They didn't want to meet me cos I wasn't good enough. So when I have changed my mind it's now my fault cos I'm not falling at their feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people on a sex site thinking they are better than others hahahahaaaaaa "

Or heaven forbid not having self eestem issues! Fuck Yeh I'm better than alot of people on here. So what! ! Other shocking news - some people are better than me.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I wasn't actually shocked but I was surprised how many

"Hot" "Gorgeous" "sexiest Woman on fab" use the chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" can accommodate after 9pm when kids go bed. Their bedroom door will be locked so they won't walk in on us"

This wins. Just no.

Eve. X

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"people on a sex site thinking they are better than others hahahahaaaaaa "

The so called important people, ones with good jobs who earn good money, on here they are no better than anyone else, we are all dirty buggers arent we.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

The first thing that genuinely surprised me in here was how many messages I got.

I'm sure a lot of women had the same?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not shocked, but surprised at the rudeness and narrow mindedness of some on Fab.

Naively, I expected something different from people on a sex site.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shocked that people actually believe what is written in newspapers!

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I'm shocked that people are shocked on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How judgemental, homophobic, transphobic, racist and narrow minded sexual libertines can be

I'm only one of those, and no doubt life will come up with a way of stooping me from being judgmental, just like it did with the rest of your examples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was shocked at how tough it was to get talking and meeting people.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Shocked at how weird some people on here are and how much some men hate women even though they want to have sex with them also how hateful some people are in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shocked at how weird some people on here are and how much some men hate women even though they want to have sex with them also how hateful some people are in general."

I have been think that a lot recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shocked at how weird some people on here are and how much some men hate women even though they want to have sex with them also how hateful some people are in general."

Have to agree with that everyone getting so offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shocked at how weird some people on here are and how much some men hate women even though they want to have sex with them also how hateful some people are in general."

I've seen far more man hating tbh. Especially from one user who comes and goes. She claimed things like men are lazy and stuff like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd that some people take the attitude that everyone should have their attitude,which is the "enlightened" one, and therefore the only one to have."

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

The sence of entitlement amongst some on here...

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Shocked at how weird some people on here are and how much some men hate women even though they want to have sex with them also how hateful some people are in general.

I've seen far more man hating tbh. Especially from one user who comes and goes. She claimed things like men are lazy and stuff like that."

I thought it was more women hating other women.

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Some guy wanted me to sh#t in his mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sence of entitlement amongst some on here..."

I think you will find I'm entitled to feel that way

*joke, not a good one, but a joke none the less

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"Been on here long enough now, so nothing really shocks or surprises me anymore.

Same as.some annoy me but they don't shock me

Yer bum wants spanking though

Its a very nice bum ... I've been admiring it from a far for a while ... I am not a perv ... or bi ...

You must be undercover Bi you mentioned it more than once

Come out we will all understand lol

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

Nothing shocks us anymore

It is a game either play it or not

Simple

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