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When you get cheated on !!!!

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By *p4funlocal OP   Man
over a year ago

brentford

Don't feel bad about it..get even !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But surely that would make you as bad?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Really?

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By *p4funlocal OP   Man
over a year ago

brentford

I'm not saying sleep with someone else,if your cheated on u think they care wat you do in that department ??!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to make someone feel as shit as I did being cheated on???

People shouldn't go around deliberately hurting other people... It's just not cool at all.

Treat people how you WANT to be treated.

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By *p4funlocal OP   Man
over a year ago

brentford

I had a chance to sleep with her sister not after I was cheated in but what would that make me if I had ???

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By *p4funlocal OP   Man
over a year ago

brentford


"Why would you want to make someone feel as shit as I did being cheated on???

People shouldn't go around deliberately hurting other people... It's just not cool at all.

Treat people how you WANT to be treated."

So how do you deal with the hurt that person causes ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you just learn a lesson in what that person is really like -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone cheats on you, walk away, its that simple.

When you lose trust in someone there will always be that little bit of suspicion in your mind, and I wouldn't want to live like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a chance to sleep with her sister not after I was cheated in but what would that make me if I had ???

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A twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a chance to sleep with her sister not after I was cheated in but what would that make me if I had ???

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Well that says a lot about her sister.

And it would have made you a douchebag of the highest order.

But luckily you didn't, so you're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a chance to sleep with her sister not after I was cheated in but what would that make me if I had ???

A twat."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you could just move on.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Don't feel bad about it..get even !!!"

Get even ? This isn't school you know, why let it eat you up? Have some dignity and self worth and move on

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Dear O.P.

If you don't cheat first, it's just not the same.

It's like.... You're fat! Yeah well you're fat.

You have to call them fat first.

Now. Just leave her. Not cos she cheated on you but because she's a liar and disrespected you and if you are not going to leave her ..... fuck off whining.

Have a lovely New Year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear O.P.

If you don't cheat first, it's just not the same.

It's like.... You're fat! Yeah well you're fat.

You have to call them fat first.

Now. Just leave her. Not cos she cheated on you but because she's a liar and disrespected you and if you are not going to leave her ..... fuck off whining.

Have a lovely New Year. "

I think I you Gran!

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Being cheated on is shit , cheats are selfish ! Walk away and make a fresh start , won't necessarily be easy but time is a great healer , is she aware of your fab account ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basic rule get rid, once they lie they always lie,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't work for me. I'm not a vengeful person and don't get any satisfaction from getting my own back.

Cheating back would make me as bad as the cheater.

I prefer to be the pure one, who can look at the other person, with disdain, shake my head, and walk away knowing I'm the better person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a chance to sleep with her sister not after I was cheated in but what would that make me if I had ???

A twat."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear O.P.

If you don't cheat first, it's just not the same.

It's like.... You're fat! Yeah well you're fat.

You have to call them fat first.

Now. Just leave her. Not cos she cheated on you but because she's a liar and disrespected you and if you are not going to leave her ..... fuck off whining.

Have a lovely New Year. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear O.P.

If you don't cheat first, it's just not the same.

It's like.... You're fat! Yeah well you're fat.

You have to call them fat first.

Now. Just leave her. Not cos she cheated on you but because she's a liar and disrespected you and if you are not going to leave her ..... fuck off whining.

Have a lovely New Year. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anger leads to hate ... hate leads to the dark side ... dark side leads to being a twat ...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Anger leads to hate ... hate leads to the dark side ... dark side leads to being a twat ... "

Yes. Remember what happened to Darth Vader.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Dear O.P.

If you don't cheat first, it's just not the same.

It's like.... You're fat! Yeah well you're fat.

You have to call them fat first.

Now. Just leave her. Not cos she cheated on you but because she's a liar and disrespected you and if you are not going to leave her ..... fuck off whining.

Have a lovely New Year. "

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Don't feel bad about it..get even !!!"

If you 'get even' you started doing it for and because of them and thus get entwined in their drama and their agenda ... whatever you do should be for you and your relationship, if you want to salvage it' any 'cheating' happens because of some issue in the relationship, so if possible sit and talk about if there is anything to savage or anything you want to salvage. It may be a way of getting closer or it may not .. it may bring things to a head. Anyone who thinks that by keeping it in the family they will solve things, is seriously deluded. What type of sister is this?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Ha! Your last verified meet was three weeks ago!

Perhaps you're made for each other?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Ha! Your last verified meet was three weeks ago!

Perhaps you're made for each other?"

And being on as a single guy for over a year with no mention of a partner?

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"I had a chance to sleep with her sister not after I was cheated in but what would that make me if I had ???

"

If you had a partner & had the opportunity to sleep with her sister, unlessit was with your partners consent that would make you a cheat surely?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why get even? do it better than they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They end up on fab lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best revenge is living a happy life without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best revenge is living a happy life without them. "

I second this

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By *iolet2000Woman
over a year ago

Ormskirk

Cheats.liars. Leopards.spots.

Move on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best revenge is living a happy life without them. "

Well yeah, but that involves taking responsibilty for your own happiness....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best revenge is living a happy life without them.

Well yeah, but that involves taking responsibilty for your own happiness...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you want to make someone feel as shit as I did being cheated on???

People shouldn't go around deliberately hurting other people... It's just not cool at all.

Treat people how you WANT to be treated.

So how do you deal with the hurt that person causes ????"

Have a cry, dust yourself off and carry on being the better person

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

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