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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else feel slightly sad when they lose a verification?

When somebody who has verified you goes UNLOS or blocks you and you can't see it any more you've lost that little record of the time you spent together.

I've lost two from one lady recently who said some very nice complimentary things about me and I miss reading them a bit.

Maybe it's just because I didn't have that many to start with and those who have more don't even notice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I screenshot all mine just for records

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't go back and look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Sometimes our visible verification count drops and it takes me ages to figure out who went unlos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. The day I start re-reading veris, yet alone missing them, or worrying about the length of our friends list it will be time to leave fab.

Her

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol just me then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care if I'm blocked by someone who fucked me (and it's happened), or someone left the site. My verifications aren't important to me.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not really - they come and go

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

I lost mine when I left the site,has never worried me not having any since I got back.

I am who I am.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Lost all mine when I deleted single profile much easier now we only use our couples profile

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i think about them sometimes and remember how nice it was to meet them. its a shame sometimes the best ones leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol just me then! "

no. its nice to have other people say nice things.

theres some freakish cold people on here don't let them get you down!!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Lol just me then!

no. its nice to have other people say nice things.

theres some freakish cold people on here don't let them get you down!!!!"

It's not freakishly cold to not get overly emotional about losing a verification.

Verifications are nice to receive for sure but to get over attached to the words left by an actual person but not be bothered about why they left the site etc is skewed in my opinion.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Op, I understand your sentiment..

We all love a compliment.. even those that say they don't care are telling big fat porkies..

Everybody likes to be complimented for something they do...

Equally,don't dwell on the past, live for the future..

Just move on and keep the good memories alive in your mind..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, I didn't mean to portray that I was particularly attached to these people or that I was even particularly upset to lose the verifications, more that it is nice to read nice things about yourself and it's just a shame when they are gone.

Rightly or wrongly I do have a small sense of pride when I get a particularly positive verification as I like to be liked and to know someone has enjoyed my company.

I didn't expect everyone to feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand what you mean. Veris are very important to us guys, as a lot of women and couples won't meet someone without one. It took me ages to get my first meet, we gave each other great veris, then a week later she went UNLOS (she assures me it was nothing to do with me). She rejoined, did me another veri, then about a month later went UNLOS again Luckily I managed to have another meet from a more reliable lady who gave me a veri.

So yes, I feel your pain as for us veris are hard earned and essential to meeting new people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel sad at the loss of a veri but I have on occasions thought awwww.....as it's meant a good fab friend is no longer on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel. I've also lost 2 verifications from the same guy. Strange that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I screenshot all mine just for records"

why on earth do you do that

I don't care either way, I'm not big on leaving verifications and if any of mine disappear I couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I screenshot all mine just for records

why on earth do you do that

I don't care either way, I'm not big on leaving verifications and if any of mine disappear I couldn't care less "

That's because hot women get plenty of attention here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like your trying to use your verifications like a bed notch ?

I steer clear of people with to many lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a veri.....

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