FabSwingers.com forum: Exhibitionist

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've always classed myself as being an exhibitionist but reading previous posts in the forums, I'm not too sure anymore.

I do enjoy sex and taking pics of a lady or them taking pics if me, outdoors but for our own benefit, so no one else sees us. I don't want to get arrested for indecent exposure. I've not yet found the best place to enjoy this pastime, suggestions would be helpful. Ladies get in touch if you have similar interests

Am I classed as an exhibitionist even though lime being out door, but not in the public eye as such?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being watch which is why we started going to clubs.

I'm in a reportable job. If I got caught outdoors my employers would be informed. That has always been enough to put me off outdoors meets so clubs are ideal to get my kicks in a safe way.

Hubby was less bothered by outdoors and less keen on clubs but we both love them now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've yet to find someone to experience a club with. I suppose I'm too shy to go to one by myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've yet to find someone to experience a club with. I suppose I'm too shy to go to one by myself."

Plenty of single guys do. It's probably easier to overcome your nerves than find someone to take you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose he nervousness stems from past earlier experiences, I never used to find I could chat up women when used to go out with mates; I'd get tongue tied and after a few instances of being laughed a, used to hang in the background. It's something that has never really left me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose he nervousness stems from past earlier experiences, I never used to find I could chat up women when used to go out with mates; I'd get tongue tied and after a few instances of being laughed a, used to hang in the background. It's something that has never really left me."

Clubs aren't about chatting up women like in a bar. Everyone is there for the same thing. Just being friendly and respectful could well get you an invite if the woman/couple are after single guys. However I was suggesting clubs more for your exhibitionist streak. You can play solo knowing people are walking by/in the room etc etc.

Our first few months of visits didn't involve others, it was just the kick of being watched.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Suppose that's different since you first went as a couple and not as a single person.

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