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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So once again I've been on my own since lunchtime Christmas Day, and I'm already eating myself into a carb coma and talking to the Christmas tree for company.

Anyone else struggling to keep the spirits up?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Food coma here, not even hungry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Food coma here, not even hungry "

I'm still eating

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Food coma here, not even hungry

I'm still eating "

me too, cheese board and love actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite a hottie over for some distraction? x

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"So once again I've been on my own since lunchtime Christmas Day, and I'm already eating myself into a carb coma and talking to the Christmas tree for company.

Anyone else struggling to keep the spirits up?"

I've held several spirits up in my drinking hand this Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughters have just gone back home after being here since yesterday lunchtime and I'm glad. Had a lovely day but boy can they bicker! peace n quiet now in my flat. Xxx

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

I'm keeping busy by doing the washing, drying and packing ready for working on Thursday. Oh and filling in my time sheet & expenses form.

Merry Boxing Day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Invite a hottie over for some distraction? x"

I did but he's going out haha x

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I like my own company so I'm all good as long as I got my wow its all fine and as I have manflue, I cant be asked to get out of bed to go to the kitchen to eat so all good on that front too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So once again I've been on my own since lunchtime Christmas Day, and I'm already eating myself into a carb coma and talking to the Christmas tree for company.

Anyone else struggling to keep the spirits up?

I've held several spirits up in my drinking hand this Christmas. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My daughters have just gone back home after being here since yesterday lunchtime and I'm glad. Had a lovely day but boy can they bicker! peace n quiet now in my flat. Xxx"

Ahh sounds lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been alone since about 1 yesterday afternoon. It was all carefully crafted, now I'm annoyed at myself that I'm a bit lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughters have just gone back home after being here since yesterday lunchtime and I'm glad. Had a lovely day but boy can they bicker! peace n quiet now in my flat. Xxx

Ahh sounds lovely x"

It's bliss. I used to be horrified when my ex mother in law would have my girls packed up n waiting by the door for me to pick them up but know I know how she felt. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been alone since about 1 yesterday afternoon. It was all carefully crafted, now I'm annoyed at myself that I'm a bit lonely. "

Yeah that's the same as me. I spend all year enjoying my own company and have one day feeling like a weakling for craving some human contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been all alone all Christmas no nice food or Christmas dinner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been all alone all Christmas no nice food or Christmas dinner "

I had a tin of spaghetti and sausages for my dinner yesterday

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've decided (not recently) that I'm an introvert. Yesterday I could feel my anxiety levels rising and actually I'm not really an anxious person but I know when that happens that it's time for me to go home. As soon as I get home all is right in my world. The anxiety leaves and I'm back in my comfort zone. It's not really anxiety as such, I know lots of people suffer, but it's the only word I can think that describes it. Antsy maybe is better. I like to be alone. I spend time with people and after a while, I'm happy not to have to talk to anyone. Maybe I'm just odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I had Ravioli on toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided (not recently) that I'm an introvert. Yesterday I could feel my anxiety levels rising and actually I'm not really an anxious person but I know when that happens that it's time for me to go home. As soon as I get home all is right in my world. The anxiety leaves and I'm back in my comfort zone. It's not really anxiety as such, I know lots of people suffer, but it's the only word I can think that describes it. Antsy maybe is better. I like to be alone. I spend time with people and after a while, I'm happy not to have to talk to anyone. Maybe I'm just odd. "
your not odd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've decided (not recently) that I'm an introvert. Yesterday I could feel my anxiety levels rising and actually I'm not really an anxious person but I know when that happens that it's time for me to go home. As soon as I get home all is right in my world. The anxiety leaves and I'm back in my comfort zone. It's not really anxiety as such, I know lots of people suffer, but it's the only word I can think that describes it. Antsy maybe is better. I like to be alone. I spend time with people and after a while, I'm happy not to have to talk to anyone. Maybe I'm just odd. "

Yeah that sounds familiar. I can fewl quite awkward and anxious away from home and in certain social situations and often hit a point where I just need to be by myself at home. I think it's just making me sad the last 24 hours, I feel more lonely than alone. I don't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the first Christmas I have spent on my own and it's horrible. I hope to never experience this again and also my pocket couldn't handle it either as the contents of the fridge are nearly all gone and have started to look in the cupboards already x

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By *ndyuk7Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

im alone at xmas too and all through the year as well nothing knew there

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've been alone since about 1 yesterday afternoon. It was all carefully crafted, now I'm annoyed at myself that I'm a bit lonely.

Yeah that's the same as me. I spend all year enjoying my own company and have one day feeling like a weakling for craving some human contact "

This is exactly how I am feeling as well, so unlike me, but I have now poured a wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been alone since about 1 yesterday afternoon. It was all carefully crafted, now I'm annoyed at myself that I'm a bit lonely.

Yeah that's the same as me. I spend all year enjoying my own company and have one day feeling like a weakling for craving some human contact "

The worst thing is, this happened last year too.

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By *exmanMan
over a year ago

Stainforth

Home alone south Yorkshire but I'm happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh wish you could all come here I do a boxing day buffet and there's alcohol and cakes and there's only 6 of us (Kat) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided (not recently) that I'm an introvert. Yesterday I could feel my anxiety levels rising and actually I'm not really an anxious person but I know when that happens that it's time for me to go home. As soon as I get home all is right in my world. The anxiety leaves and I'm back in my comfort zone. It's not really anxiety as such, I know lots of people suffer, but it's the only word I can think that describes it. Antsy maybe is better. I like to be alone. I spend time with people and after a while, I'm happy not to have to talk to anyone. Maybe I'm just odd. "

Nope you just discribed me perfectly. I even get pissed off with the other people talkin in thier own flats! Gobby bastards xxx

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

First Christmas on own... Been OK but now I am slowly crawling the walls, may walk in to town just to get out of house... Actually looking forward to work tomorrow afternoon

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

First Christmas alone and found it bit strange.

Ate way too much cheese & biscuits and drank too much wine.

Feeling the need for some chat now

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've been alone since about 1 yesterday afternoon. It was all carefully crafted, now I'm annoyed at myself that I'm a bit lonely. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I was going to be home alone for the whole thing. A vanilla friend invited me to theirs last night, which was lovely

Today is just another day. I've not had any Christmas food and nothing in either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be glad of the peace.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

You can also feel very alone in a room full of people!

Just wondering how many on the thread are close enough to perhaps pic a mutually suitable place and have a drink (didn't put social for a reason, as no connotation of anything)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"You can also feel very alone in a room full of people!

Just wondering how many on the thread are close enough to perhaps pic a mutually suitable place and have a drink (didn't put social for a reason, as no connotation of anything) "

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home alone here,but I enjoy my own company.Had hot and spicy chicken wings from Tescos with chips really enjoyed them.Watched telly and played Solitaire on the computer.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"You can also feel very alone in a room full of people!

Just wondering how many on the thread are close enough to perhaps pic a mutually suitable place and have a drink (didn't put social for a reason, as no connotation of anything)

Good idea "

Agreed!

Gosport in Hants anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are worse things than being alone.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Been to the families but home in bed got work tonight feeling a bit lonely but not sure why used to been alone and happy with it most of the time guess I am just feeling soft today

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"There are worse things than being alone."

There are better things too. If people are feeling lonely then that's just how it is

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By *ezmanyorksMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"So once again I've been on my own since lunchtime Christmas Day, and I'm already eating myself into a carb coma and talking to the Christmas tree for company.

Anyone else struggling to keep the spirits up?"

To be fair I usually spend Christmas Day on my tod, but for the first time in years I have had my son all Christmas, plus had friends over, whilst not exactly a debauchery filled time, it has been enjoyable all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First Christmas by myself so must admit I'm feeling a bit sorry for myself right now.

Has been a pretty lonely couple of months all in all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So once again I've been on my own since lunchtime Christmas Day, and I'm already eating myself into a carb coma and talking to the Christmas tree for company.

Anyone else struggling to keep the spirits up?"
no but struggling to keep the spirits down

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Have been home alone since about 3pm christmas eve, still quite content though...

Have even been more restrained re stuffing my face today

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

And after this we've got NYE to contend with

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Was home for 5 pm last night put the great escape on and curled up in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm stuffed .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are worse things than being alone.

There are better things too. If people are feeling lonely then that's just how it is "

Sure, and whether or not to wallow is a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spent yesterday & today decorating

I know, I'm a bit strange

But the place looks great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can also feel very alone in a room full of people!

Just wondering how many on the thread are close enough to perhaps pic a mutually suitable place and have a drink (didn't put social for a reason, as no connotation of anything) "

Ooh now there's a good point.

I've been on my own since yesterday tea time. Kept busy with work today so not so bad. But then one can feel alone in a room full of people. But im a watcher too so it's not so bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh this reminds me of the film castaway that I had seen 2 days ago, When tom was marooned for 6 years on a desert island. The only company that he had to stop him from going insane, was a soccer ball that he called Wilson.

I called my balls Bill & Ben. Sadly I'm not double jointed, so I am unable to kiss then goodnight

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My daughters, son-in-laws and grandsons have all left. Ben has gone on an "emergency call" for an old lady friend of his. Funny, her boiler had a fault last Christmas too! So I'm now alone.

One daughter is a vegan the other two pregnant so they declined the rum and raison Christmas pudding and Baileys cream. I've just demolished a family pudding and a carton of cream ...I'm in bed as I feel

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