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"...I have to go for dinner out the outlaws today. About 8 years ago we went for the Xmas meal at their house and her brother outed me at the dinner table. Started making comments under his breath about "the things that I do," &c &c. Her father was like, "What do you mean, he dances at both ends of the ballroom?" Her mother nearly choked on her food. I wanted the ground to swallow me up... And the other half? She came to my aid... "You don't understand, it's nothing to do with you anyway..." Which was extremely kind, all things considered, but it was excruciating. So now I have to be in a room with him for another lunch. Question is, will I manage to keep the peace? "quite honestly i dont know why you are agreeing to be in the same room as the odious little man, apart from revenge..which i am sure you can pull off in style. dont keep the peace so you never get invited again.. i am banned from such functions, purely from the threat that i wont keep the peace if i have to go..works for all of us..its the most loving thing i could do | |||
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"yes you do.. you rise about it and do it because you embrace you wife/gf/mother of your childs family.. and get the satisfaction of knowing your less of a cunt than he is "what about her supporting him, in the fact he shouldn't have to put up with, this kind of crap?  | |||
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"yes you do.. you rise about it and do it because you embrace you wife/gf/mother of your childs family.. and get the satisfaction of knowing your less of a cunt than he is "Aye but I wrap all the pressies in our house, so his get special care and attention, ie they're wrapped so tight it requires a diamond toothed drill to get in. | |||
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"You should wink at him and lick your lips. At least once" And touch his leg on occasion too | |||
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"yes you do.. you rise about it and do it because you embrace you wife/gf/mother of your childs family.. and get the satisfaction of knowing your less of a cunt than he is
what about her supporting him, in the fact he shouldn't have to put up with, this kind of crap? "Goes without saying he shouldnt have to tollerate it, but the question was 'should he (joe) keep the peace.. he already has the love/support from his mrs he is attending this get together for her sake.. im sure if he truly had a choice he'd not wanna share oxygen with a narrow minded person | |||
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"You should wink at him and lick your lips. At least once And touch his leg on occasion too "I like this option | |||
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"yes you do.. you rise about it and do it because you embrace you wife/gf/mother of your childs family.. and get the satisfaction of knowing your less of a cunt than he is
what about her supporting him, in the fact he shouldn't have to put up with, this kind of crap?
Goes without saying he shouldnt have to tollerate it, but the question was 'should he (joe) keep the peace..
he already has the love/support from his mrs
he is attending this get together for her sake.. im sure if he truly had a choice he'd not wanna share oxygen with a narrow minded person "^ this. I have to play the game, on occasion, and this is one of those times. Asshole | |||
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"You should wink at him and lick your lips. At least once And touch his leg on occasion too
I like this option "omg please do it.. seductively eat a bannana haha | |||
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"yes you do.. you rise about it and do it because you embrace you wife/gf/mother of your childs family.. and get the satisfaction of knowing your less of a cunt than he is
what about her supporting him, in the fact he shouldn't have to put up with, this kind of crap?
Goes without saying he shouldnt have to tollerate it, but the question was 'should he (joe) keep the peace..
he already has the love/support from his mrs
he is attending this get together for her sake.. im sure if he truly had a choice he'd not wanna share oxygen with a narrow minded person "i wouldnt want to share oxygen with the person..therefore i wouldnt go..simple..dont do things to make other people feel better about being a tosspot,im not a martyr. i dont really understand why condoning behaviour, is seen as a necessary game, to play.. | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it "*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist* | |||
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"You should wink at him and lick your lips. At least once And touch his leg on occasion too
I like this option "Make loads of eye contact so he feels uncomfortable too | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
"When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart. | |||
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"Maybe he's moved on in his thinking, 8 years is a long time." lets hope! A lot has happened in the world in that time | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart."He's too stupid to understand any of that! His sister got all the best genes | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart."pity is not loving | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes "He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried. | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried."what? that you can lie? great example..not.. | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not.."I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be. | |||
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"Maybe he's moved on in his thinking, 8 years is a long time." I doubt that. Lol. But I shall be charming and friendly and not too cutting for a few hours. Won't kill me | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be."Compassionate whilst licking his lips and touching his leg | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be."playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take?? | |||
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"...I have to go for dinner out the outlaws today. About 8 years ago we went for the Xmas meal at their house and her brother outed me at the dinner table. Started making comments under his breath about "the things that I do," &c &c. Her father was like, "What do you mean, he dances at both ends of the ballroom?" Her mother nearly choked on her food. I wanted the ground to swallow me up... And the other half? She came to my aid... "You don't understand, it's nothing to do with you anyway..." Which was extremely kind, all things considered, but it was excruciating. So now I have to be in a room with him for another lunch. Question is, will I manage to keep the peace? "How long had you known your other half by then ? I don't announce my sexuality on meeting relatives and I see no reason why gays or bi sexuals should do so. You don't make it clear as to why you found it so painful or as to whether he did it from malice or ignorance. I'd like to think it was the latter. If he is as bit a 'tosspot' as you say then ask yourself why you expect better of him. 8 years is a long time. Don't bear grudges the only person they eat away at is the grudge bearer. You don't have to see him again for another years. | |||
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"BIG a tosspot not bit a tosspot. " Yes mum. Just letting off steam mum. Promise to be well behaved mum. | |||
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"Think of everyone in the house today Joe....yes he has an axe to grind, but today is a family occasion and one to rise above the self, and be part of a sum, not the whole of it. Peace, I am about to do the same. " inner peace comes from being authentic, not part of over unity disease | |||
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"Think of everyone in the house today Joe....yes he has an axe to grind, but today is a family occasion and one to rise above the self, and be part of a sum, not the whole of it. Peace, I am about to do the same. "  My more irritating and intolerant relatives arrive imminently. My grin is already fixed in place. | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??"And sometimes when it comes to family we all have to do things we don't want to. | |||
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"BIG a tosspot not bit a tosspot. Yes mum. Just letting off steam mum. Promise to be well behaved mum. " I know you are. I have every faith in you and ya gotta have f...( Poor George ) | |||
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"Here's a thought for each poster on the thread. For every finger you point. There are two pointing back at you. Stop irritating your relatives. " If only they could stop being so bloody irritating. I just drinky way through it, they know what I'm like now | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??
And sometimes when it comes to family we all have to do things we don't want to. "i choose who i see as my family, many don't deserve the title. i never do anything, i dont want to do... its not impeccable you want other people to be impeccable then you must set the example... otherwise you must be doing it for some other reason, mainly cos it serves you in some way... ..not everyone decides to live their life as a lie to themselves or others..that is the least 'peaceful' thing i have heard | |||
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"...I have to go for dinner out the outlaws today. About 8 years ago we went for the Xmas meal at their house and her brother outed me at the dinner table. Started making comments under his breath about "the things that I do," &c &c. Her father was like, "What do you mean, he dances at both ends of the ballroom?" Her mother nearly choked on her food. I wanted the ground to swallow me up... And the other half? She came to my aid... "You don't understand, it's nothing to do with you anyway..." Which was extremely kind, all things considered, but it was excruciating. So now I have to be in a room with him for another lunch. Question is, will I manage to keep the peace? What a bloody pillock her brother is! Rise above it, he's not worth the drama " | |||
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"Think of everyone in the house today Joe....yes he has an axe to grind, but today is a family occasion and one to rise above the self, and be part of a sum, not the whole of it. Peace, I am about to do the same. My more irritating and intolerant relatives arrive imminently. My grin is already fixed in place. "I find drinking gin helps ease the pain | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried."I'm with you on this one pauly xxx | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??"Not its not its about being the better man and being an adult. | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried."Wise words | |||
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"Here's a thought for each poster on the thread. For every finger you point. There are two pointing back at you. Stop irritating your relatives. If only they could stop being so bloody irritating. I just drinky way through it, they know what I'm like now "She drinks a whisky drink, she drinks a larger drink ....she drinks a drink to remind her of the good times........ I'll probably just go n sit in the shed. | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??
And sometimes when it comes to family we all have to do things we don't want to. i choose who i see as my family, many don't deserve the title. i never do anything, i dont want to do...
its not impeccable you want other people to be impeccable then you must set the example... otherwise you must be doing it for some other reason, mainly cos it serves you in some way...
..not everyone decides to live their life as a lie to themselves or others..that is the least 'peaceful' thing i have heard "suzy if it was just me id be with your opinions and id stand my ground and not go because im stubborn and its principal.. joe is doing this (against his better judgement) because he loves his mrs and turning a blind eye (kinda) for one afternoon. Could be wrong but it sounds like you are very much single and have no children and doing what you want all of the time kinda works for you with families sometimes its just easier to bite your lip and crack on with stuff rather than dealing with drama | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??
And sometimes when it comes to family we all have to do things we don't want to. i choose who i see as my family, many don't deserve the title. i never do anything, i dont want to do...
its not impeccable you want other people to be impeccable then you must set the example... otherwise you must be doing it for some other reason, mainly cos it serves you in some way...
..not everyone decides to live their life as a lie to themselves or others..that is the least 'peaceful' thing i have heard "Oh to be able to live as you do Suzy | |||
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"...I have to go for dinner out the outlaws today. About 8 years ago we went for the Xmas meal at their house and her brother outed me at the dinner table. Started making comments under his breath about "the things that I do," &c &c. Her father was like, "What do you mean, he dances at both ends of the ballroom?" Her mother nearly choked on her food. I wanted the ground to swallow me up... And the other half? She came to my aid... "You don't understand, it's nothing to do with you anyway..." Which was extremely kind, all things considered, but it was excruciating. So now I have to be in a room with him for another lunch. Question is, will I manage to keep the peace? "Perhaps asking him if he wants a blow job again may encourage him to think twice before being such a toe rag? Seriously just avoid people like that, you can't educate stupid. | |||
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"Ignore him. ..he's obviously got a small cock! !" So if a man behaves a certain way, it's because he has a small dick? And women wonder why men worry about their size... | |||
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"Ignore him. ..he's obviously got a small cock! ! So if a man behaves a certain way, it's because he has a small dick? And women wonder why men worry about their size... "Oh ffs! ..take a joke can't you! !   | |||
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"Ignore him. ..he's obviously got a small cock! ! So if a man behaves a certain way, it's because he has a small dick? And women wonder why men worry about their size...
Oh ffs! ..take a joke can't you! ! "Apparently some people on this thread had their humour taken away for Christmas | |||
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"Ignore him. ..he's obviously got a small cock! ! So if a man behaves a certain way, it's because he has a small dick? And women wonder why men worry about their size...
Oh ffs! ..take a joke can't you! !
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Oh ffs! ..take a joke can't you! !
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Oh ffs! ..take a joke can't you! !
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??
And sometimes when it comes to family we all have to do things we don't want to. i choose who i see as my family, many don't deserve the title. i never do anything, i dont want to do...
its not impeccable you want other people to be impeccable then you must set the example... otherwise you must be doing it for some other reason, mainly cos it serves you in some way...
..not everyone decides to live their life as a lie to themselves or others..that is the least 'peaceful' thing i have heard
Oh to be able to live as you do Suzy "takes inner peace and that takes honesty and work, not many people are prepared to do..no one wants it,.,they are totally prepared to go about their lives and moan and whinge all the time..apparently it makes them happy... | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??
And sometimes when it comes to family we all have to do things we don't want to. i choose who i see as my family, many don't deserve the title. i never do anything, i dont want to do...
its not impeccable you want other people to be impeccable then you must set the example... otherwise you must be doing it for some other reason, mainly cos it serves you in some way...
..not everyone decides to live their life as a lie to themselves or others..that is the least 'peaceful' thing i have heard
Oh to be able to live as you do Suzy takes inner peace and that takes honesty and work, not many people are prepared to do..no one wants it,.,they are totally prepared to go about their lives and moan and whinge all the time..apparently it makes them happy..."Like now? | |||
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??
And sometimes when it comes to family we all have to do things we don't want to. i choose who i see as my family, many don't deserve the title. i never do anything, i dont want to do...
its not impeccable you want other people to be impeccable then you must set the example... otherwise you must be doing it for some other reason, mainly cos it serves you in some way...
..not everyone decides to live their life as a lie to themselves or others..that is the least 'peaceful' thing i have heard
Oh to be able to live as you do Suzy takes inner peace and that takes honesty and work, not many people are prepared to do..no one wants it,.,they are totally prepared to go about their lives and moan and whinge all the time..apparently it makes them happy...
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"yes you do.. you rise about it and do it because you embrace you wife/gf/mother of your childs family.. and get the satisfaction of knowing your less of a cunt than he is
what about her supporting him, in the fact he shouldn't have to put up with, this kind of crap?
Goes without saying he shouldnt have to tollerate it, but the question was 'should he (joe) keep the peace..
he already has the love/support from his mrs
he is attending this get together for her sake.. im sure if he truly had a choice he'd not wanna share oxygen with a narrow minded person
^ this.
I have to play the game, on occasion, and this is one of those times.
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"I'm just letting off steam before I actually have to do it
*thinks: sleeping pills in the wine and slaps his own wrist*
When someone criticises your life, or feels the need to out, expose or judge, it is because they are deeply unhappy with their life. So rather than feeling animosity, feel pity. Make the effort to be nice, be the bigger man, if it is snubbed or returned with venom, then you have tried, you have shown your true colours, that yes you may be a tart (a proper strawberry), but you have a heart.
He's too stupid to understand any of that!
His sister got all the best genes
He doesn't have to understand it... you are missing the point... do not try to change him, that is a fools errand, but do not sink to his level or humiliate him, through your actions and your words you will either conceive peace or demonstrate that you tried.what? that you can lie? great example..not..
I don't think I asked anyone to lie... I suggested that Joe was compassionate, a man I know him to be.playing the martyr is lying, being compassionate when you dont want to be is lying, telling yourself you have to do things, to keep people happy is lying..whatever happened to you cant be loving to others, until you can learn to love yourself? being loving doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. have compassion for yourself..maybe you then become unconditional and unconcerned about what face 'love' has to take??
And sometimes when it comes to family we all have to do things we don't want to. i choose who i see as my family, many don't deserve the title. i never do anything, i dont want to do...
its not impeccable you want other people to be impeccable then you must set the example... otherwise you must be doing it for some other reason, mainly cos it serves you in some way...
..not everyone decides to live their life as a lie to themselves or others..that is the least 'peaceful' thing i have heard
Oh to be able to live as you do Suzy takes inner peace and that takes honesty and work, not many people are prepared to do..no one wants it,.,they are totally prepared to go about their lives and moan and whinge all the time..apparently it makes them happy...
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"...I have to go for dinner out the outlaws today. About 8 years ago we went for the Xmas meal at their house and her brother outed me at the dinner table. Started making comments under his breath about "the things that I do," &c &c. Her father was like, "What do you mean, he dances at both ends of the ballroom?" Her mother nearly choked on her food. I wanted the ground to swallow me up... And the other half? She came to my aid... "You don't understand, it's nothing to do with you anyway..." Which was extremely kind, all things considered, but it was excruciating. So now I have to be in a room with him for another lunch. Question is, will I manage to keep the peace?
Perhaps asking him if he wants a blow job again may encourage him to think twice before being such a toe rag? Seriously just avoid people like that, you can't educate stupid. "oh god yesss do this op!!!! or give him back his monster fist dildo that he left at your place | |||
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"Oh! Racist joke bingo!
see as much as id try and bite my lip id probably fail and openly retaliate with 'do you honestly believe that to be acceptable or indeed remotely funny?!'
and yeah id say that infront of everyone with a straight face..
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"I wouldnt go. I wouldnt waste my time with people that dont deserve it. Nor would my partner expect me too. And vice versa. Done and dusted. Happy children, exhausted adults. Job's a good 'un "I find this guy to be worth less than shite you'd find under your shoe, you was the better person for going again regardless of his previous remarks, if it was me, I'd have put my fist through his face...... but that's just the way I am. | |||
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"I wouldnt go. I wouldnt waste my time with people that dont deserve it. Nor would my partner expect me too. And vice versa. Done and dusted. Happy children, exhausted adults. Job's a good 'un "Mad crazy world where people do stuff like that. I had a great afternoon in the company of 31 thousand friends | |||
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"...I have to go for dinner out the outlaws today. About 8 years ago we went for the Xmas meal at their house and her brother outed me at the dinner table. Started making comments under his breath about "the things that I do," &c &c. Her father was like, "What do you mean, he dances at both ends of the ballroom?" Her mother nearly choked on her food. I wanted the ground to swallow me up... And the other half? She came to my aid... "You don't understand, it's nothing to do with you anyway..." Which was extremely kind, all things considered, but it was excruciating. So now I have to be in a room with him for another lunch. Question is, will I manage to keep the peace? "Sit next to him at dinner and slip something into his food. I am sure you can find something suitable...I know what I would do, but I wouldn't express it on a public forum as I may need it myself sometime. | |||
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