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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How far would you push your privacy in your personal life just to get laid or gain popularity?!

Me - not a thing, no way would I want to be recognised but many aren't as bothered as some, which is totally there prerogative but even to a point of your kids being as risk ...when should one draw the line....your thoughts please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laid? Like the American meaning? I won't compromise one bit, especially on fab. I find it way easier to pull irl than on Fab anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people are just open and enjoy being that way. so long as we aren't stupid/naive as well it's all good.

wouldn't do it to get laid or be popular, especially not on an NSA site where nobody really gives a shit about you, i just enjoy being open and would love to find more of my type of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me recreational sex is just an itch I can scratch or ignore .....

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

As much as I love sex(fortunately I've got a good memory) nothing would make me risk my privacy

I turned down the only real chance of a meet at my place that I had this year as I had my kids staying over and the couple insisted it didn't matter that they would be in the house.

They got arsy and insisted I was a time waster but strangely had can't accommodate on there profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one iota...my privacy is paramount. Couldn't give a toss about being popular, nobody other than those I've met or plan to meet could recognise me out and about, and I will never publicly post any pics that show my face/hair/tattoos.

I can get laid whenever I want without resorting to attention seeking statuses and pics, and I'm not looking for fabs or false flattery...it screams of desperation to be desired imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My privacy is paramount. I wouldn't be stupid enough to take any unnecessary risks.

Imeep my "real" live and my "fantasy" life totally seperate. The two lives will never collide.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The last time I had sex was in 2014...long story.

When I am crazy horny, I do not think straight ( no pun intended) BUT I do think twice before agreeing to let some random woman come to my house. I need attraction-physical and mental. Therefore, a social meet up is necessary. Unlike some guys, I cannot have sex with a woman for the sake of having sex...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great responses girls n guys & good to see that many of us know the difference between "fab life" & "real life"

What shocks me & will always do so, are the fools that never learn lessons

My tongue n cheek get out clause is "it wasn't a mistake, it was a learning curve" yet I know when I've fucked up (not fab life just in general) yet some never learn & is make me very sad that "fab world" is all they have x

Peace out fabbers x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not one iota...my privacy is paramount. Couldn't give a toss about being popular, nobody other than those I've met or plan to meet could recognise me out and about, and I will never publicly post any pics that show my face/hair/tattoos.

I can get laid whenever I want without resorting to attention seeking statuses and pics, and I'm not looking for fabs or false flattery...it screams of desperation to be desired imo "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not one iota...my privacy is paramount. Couldn't give a toss about being popular, nobody other than those I've met or plan to meet could recognise me out and about, and I will never publicly post any pics that show my face/hair/tattoos.

I can get laid whenever I want without resorting to attention seeking statuses and pics, and I'm not looking for fabs or false flattery...it screams of desperation to be desired imo "

You might be as to have sex whenever but not with whoever you want, they might not want you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not one iota...my privacy is paramount. Couldn't give a toss about being popular, nobody other than those I've met or plan to meet could recognise me out and about, and I will never publicly post any pics that show my face/hair/tattoos.

I can get laid whenever I want without resorting to attention seeking statuses and pics, and I'm not looking for fabs or false flattery...it screams of desperation to be desired imo

You might be as to have sex whenever but not with whoever you want, they might not want you."

You know nothing...I've got this site nailed thanks!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Surely all the while you have "Two Lives" you run the risk of cross contamination whether by accident or through envy/vengeance whatever.

One life, one world, our friends know, H's family have obviously known for years she was bi & she had girlfriends stay over when she was living at home so nothing to hide there. The fae/pagan world she mainly moves in are far more open too. On here her pics are mostly liked by guys/couples. In the fae world its mostly women.

We have had little in the way of negativity but have had more than one straight male friend hitting on H simply because we are on a swingers site, obviously the word "swingers" stuck in their heads rather than the word "bisexual" They were soon put right though and tbh if they were on here would be of the type to have multiple cock pics & one line profiles sending shit crude messages.

The other side being that she has become more "friendly" with some ladies at work who know she's bi, even though they may not fully appreciate our wants via here.

Our kids are too young to be interested but our eldest knows that some prefer same sex relationships and that there is nothing wrong with that no matter what she hears from others via school etc.

At the end of the day though we try not to live in a conformist world, we do what we want to do not what society at large tells us we should be doing & we are fucked if we are going to run around in the shadows like naughty teenagers because others dont like it.

Are we breaking a law? No...then why unless we are of a religious persuasion do we have to keep it some sordid little secret?

xx

S&H

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I have sent messages to people advising that in one or more profile picture you can make out quite clearly children's / family / people's faces in photos behind them.

I was surprised that they got through the picture checks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you mean people with face pics or those that get outed and leave and come back with the same pics then act all surprised when they get outed again ???!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who else is wondering what specific member this very thinly veild passive agressive post is aimed at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what do you actually mean by push your privacy though.

Cause accommodating for anyone instantly voids your privacy completley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who else is wondering what specific member this very thinly veild passive agressive post is aimed at?"

everyone. she'll spit it out she has no discretion that one which is why it's really funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who else is wondering what specific member this very thinly veild passive agressive post is aimed at?"

It's clearly about someone specific, isn't it?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So who else is wondering what specific member this very thinly veild passive agressive post is aimed at?

It's clearly about someone specific, isn't it? "

Yes you can practically smell who it's about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who else is wondering what specific member this very thinly veild passive agressive post is aimed at?

It's clearly about someone specific, isn't it?

Yes you can practically smell who it's about "

I mustn't have been paying enough attention this year because I've got no idea but it's obviously personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent messages to people advising that in one or more profile picture you can make out quite clearly children's / family / people's faces in photos behind them.

I was surprised that they got through the picture checks. "

you must be looking with a magnifying glass to pick out stuff like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent messages to people advising that in one or more profile picture you can make out quite clearly children's / family / people's faces in photos behind them.

I was surprised that they got through the picture checks.

you must be looking with a magnifying glass to pick out stuff like that "

No I've seen one like that and it was totally obvious. Kids in a big canvas print on the wall behind a woman rolling around on the floor with her tits out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent messages to people advising that in one or more profile picture you can make out quite clearly children's / family / people's faces in photos behind them.

I was surprised that they got through the picture checks.

you must be looking with a magnifying glass to pick out stuff like that

No I've seen one like that and it was totally obvious. Kids in a big canvas print on the wall behind a woman rolling around on the floor with her tits out. "

OMG... what are people thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent messages to people advising that in one or more profile picture you can make out quite clearly children's / family / people's faces in photos behind them.

I was surprised that they got through the picture checks.

you must be looking with a magnifying glass to pick out stuff like that

No I've seen one like that and it was totally obvious. Kids in a big canvas print on the wall behind a woman rolling around on the floor with her tits out.

OMG... what are people thinking "

profile pic of a man stood next to an open top car with his kids in the back. i reported him. some people are just creeps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have sent messages to people advising that in one or more profile picture you can make out quite clearly children's / family / people's faces in photos behind them.

I was surprised that they got through the picture checks. "

I have done this several times with guts that message me - selfie taken witness pictures of kids n wife on the fire place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..speculation of passive aggressiveness could only be seen as that by one who is paranoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..speculation of passive aggressiveness could only be seen as that by one who is paranoid! "

Nah ive not got kids.

But come on spill beans who's this thread inspired by

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"..speculation of passive aggressiveness could only be seen as that by one who is paranoid!

Nah ive not got kids.

But come on spill beans who's this thread inspired by"

Why would it be aimed at anyone ...what gives you that idea,..????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty I really do not feel the need to do that

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm an open book and don't care who knows. But I'm here for me, zero interest in popularity, pictures being fabbed or being part of any clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure why there's so much judgment going on about privacy. I had face pics at one point, because I chose to. I couldn't care less if my private life and Fab life collide, mainly because I'm not ashamed about being on this site. It has nothing to do with getting laid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no children

I have no wife

I do not work in a sector where my sex life is a factor

Swinging is not illegal

So there you go...

Paul is my real name, and yes, unfortunately, that is my real face.... the cock pic is from a body double though... fairs fair

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I'm not sure why there's so much judgment going on about privacy. I had face pics at one point, because I chose to. I couldn't care less if my private life and Fab life collide, mainly because I'm not ashamed about being on this site. It has nothing to do with getting laid...

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