FabSwingers.com forum: lack of black

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is a definite lack of afro Caribbean ladies on this site, does anyone else agree,

Is there some reason for this?

I really didn't know how to phrase this in a way that doesn't cause offence so I hope I haven't x

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

May i be allowed to make a suggestion. Think of them as ladies first and forget the colour. You'll be surprised at how better a response you may get

Now im just gonna sit quietly cause i jave sneaky suspision this may be a fun read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you write to Santa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you sure OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there only interested in the BWC

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Maybe there only interested in the BWC

MWC or none for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe there only interested in the BWC

MWC or none for me."

Man with cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe there only interested in the BWC

MWC or none for me."

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Lack of black, ACDC?

Lack of black, empty my sack

Grab that fat ass and give it a whack....aching..for chocolate skin....no white chic gonna quench my whim

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See, I tried to post a non racial serious point

It was just something that I noticed when looking at who is online

I honestly respect all ladies I love them all, big small black white etc etc xxxx

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"There is a definite lack of afro Caribbean ladies on this site, does anyone else agree,

Is there some reason for this?

I really didn't know how to phrase this in a way that doesn't cause offence so I hope I haven't x "

You must be new here...

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"There is a definite lack of afro Caribbean ladies on this site, does anyone else agree,

Is there some reason for this?

I really didn't know how to phrase this in a way that doesn't cause offence so I hope I haven't x

You must be new here...

A good point.

Trust me someone will always be offended here.

Usually on behalf of someone else they have never met.

Don't worry about offending people, it is unavoidable, just try to be respectful and give thought to what you say. On the whole you will get shot down in flames more often than not, especially with your misguided ownership of a penis, but trust me, plenty are reading who are actually sane. But the squeaky wheel gets the grease.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is a definite lack of afro Caribbean ladies on this site, does anyone else agree,

Is there some reason for this?

I really didn't know how to phrase this in a way that doesn't cause offence so I hope I haven't x

You must be new here...

A good point.

Trust me someone will always be offended here.

Usually on behalf of someone else they have never met.

Many thanks xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many thanks xxxxx"

You're welcome

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"May i be allowed to make a suggestion. Think of them as ladies first and forget the colour. You'll be surprised at how better a response you may get

Now im just gonna sit quietly cause i jave sneaky suspision this may be a fun read"

He didn't mention the colour of these ladies.

He spoke of their ethnic background.

That is reasonable.

Same as asking for Italian males or Swedish ladies. Etc.

Colour doesn't have to come into it.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Good point I think your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May i be allowed to make a suggestion. Think of them as ladies first and forget the colour. You'll be surprised at how better a response you may get

Now im just gonna sit quietly cause i jave sneaky suspision this may be a fun read"

This is one reason why we stay hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an admirer of ethnicity...there is certainly a lack of Female colour...

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I am an admirer of ethnicity...there is certainly a lack of Female colour...

Aye all these colourless females are a pest. Can see right through them. Massive turn off.

Luckily some are more opaque.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"May i be allowed to make a suggestion. Think of them as ladies first and forget the colour. You'll be surprised at how better a response you may get

Now im just gonna sit quietly cause i jave sneaky suspision this may be a fun read

He didn't mention the colour of these ladies.

He spoke of their ethnic background.

That is reasonable.

Same as asking for Italian males or Swedish ladies. Etc.

Colour doesn't have to come into it.

Was skin colour not mentioned

D'Oh !!! My mistake

English isn't my first language, so i make mistakes occaisionally (or frequently depending on someones point of view).

By the way what's the heading of this forum thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish there was a black ladies fan club...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"May i be allowed to make a suggestion. Think of them as ladies first and forget the colour. You'll be surprised at how better a response you may get

Now im just gonna sit quietly cause i jave sneaky suspision this may be a fun read

This is one reason why we stay hidden

I honestly never meant any harm nor offence, I'm just a bit gutted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why are there so, so many white dudes on this site? For the life of me I just figure it out.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"And why are there so, so many white dudes on this site? For the life of me I just figure it out."

Nobody ever mention yellow...it's all about black or white...or sometimes chocolate or mocha.

where are the yellowsssss...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why are there so, so many white dudes on this site? For the life of me I just figure it out.

Nobody ever mention yellow...it's all about black or white...or sometimes chocolate or mocha.

where are the yellowsssss...!!"

In hospital.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"And why are there so, so many white dudes on this site? For the life of me I just figure it out.

Nobody ever mention yellow...it's all about black or white...or sometimes chocolate or mocha.

where are the yellowsssss...!!"

Or the Eskimos come to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why are there so, so many white dudes on this site? For the life of me I just figure it out.

Nobody ever mention yellow...it's all about black or white...or sometimes chocolate or mocha.

where are the yellowsssss...!!

Or the Eskimos come to that

Inuits innit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt seems that it's usually white women who dislike white men preferring black girls that seem to have an issue with it.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

OP, there's nothing wrong with your question. Not even in the slightest.

It is a sad reflection of our times that white people can't describe another person's background without being cagey and worried about it. No wonder we can't talk about race and its issues honestly and openly.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

"l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt seems that it's usually white women who dislike white men preferring black girls that seem to have an issue with it. "

Wow, this is interesting. Not something I have given much thought to. Now that's someone I'd like to know more about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why are there so, so many white dudes on this site? For the life of me I just figure it out.

Nobody ever mention yellow...it's all about black or white...or sometimes chocolate or mocha.

where are the yellowsssss...!!"

My good lady here on the rock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt seems that it's usually white women who dislike white men preferring black girls that seem to have an issue with it.

Wow, this is interesting. Not something I have given much thought to. Now that's someone I'd like to know more about."

lt's my experience here. l like black girls and have only ever had shit for it from white women.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt seems that it's usually white women who dislike white men preferring black girls that seem to have an issue with it.

Wow, this is interesting. Not something I have given much thought to. Now that's someone I'd like to know more about.

lt's my experience here. l like black girls and have only ever had shit for it from white women."

And what traits do afro carribbean women possess that are unfound in other women? Please do enlighten me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt seems that it's usually white women who dislike white men preferring black girls that seem to have an issue with it.

Wow, this is interesting. Not something I have given much thought to. Now that's someone I'd like to know more about.

lt's my experience here. l like black girls and have only ever had shit for it from white women.

And what traits do afro carribbean women possess that are unfound in other women? Please do enlighten me."

Skin colour?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt's my experience here. l like black girls and have only ever had shit for it from white women.

And what traits do afro carribbean women possess that are unfound in other women? Please do enlighten me.

Skin colour?"

Afro Carribbean? Not necessarily. Black, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt's my experience here. l like black girls and have only ever had shit for it from white women.

And what traits do afro carribbean women possess that are unfound in other women? Please do enlighten me.

Skin colour?

Afro Carribbean? Not necessarily. Black, yes. "

Well the post you quoted says black girls...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt's my experience here. l like black girls and have only ever had shit for it from white women.

And what traits do afro carribbean women possess that are unfound in other women? Please do enlighten me.

Skin colour?

Afro Carribbean? Not necessarily. Black, yes.

Well the post you quoted says black girls..."

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"l don't see how this could be offensive. He just prefers traits that that ethnicity posses.

lt's my experience here. l like black girls and have only ever had shit for it from white women.

And what traits do afro carribbean women possess that are unfound in other women? Please do enlighten me.

Skin colour?

Afro Carribbean? Not necessarily. Black, yes.

Well the post you quoted says black girls..."

Hmm, not in the opening. It says ethnicity. Yes, I'm being pedantic but a failed attempt at correction brings out the pedant in me. Unless of course black and afro carribbean are interchangeable ethnicities? I dunno.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Anyways, OP. Just like in society, afro carribbean women are a minority demographic. Certain areas have more ac women, so it stands to reason there will be more on here if you are in those areas.

They do exist - they aren't the new unicorn! But then you enter the grounds of fetishism - unless it's part of their usp (like men who advertise as BBC) it's unlikely they want to be treated that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No beating about the bush here! there is not that many black ladies on fab swingers (fact)

I have some my research.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the black women I know (and I know a lot of them) dismiss this site as "nastiness" but I don't know every black woman in the UK, so that statement is based purely on my own personal findings, and nothing more, its not a scientific evaluation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geographical search and radius searches

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Most of the black women I know (and I know a lot of them) dismiss this site as "nastiness" but I don't know every black woman in the UK, so that statement is based purely on my own personal findings, and nothing more, its not a scientific evaluation

Reminds of a trip to the food place right next to Xstasia. I asked the black, Jamaican lady what type of club is that next door, knowing full well what is was, her reply didn't surprise me, she said it was a "white peoples club". I asked her a few times what she meant, she avoided the question until she just blurted out "that's where they do their narstiness!" I pointed out that they must be good source of income, she said that they couldn't wait to move and find an alternative location, and they did.

Point being when growing up this was the stereotype I was accustomed too, obviously not all but it seemed the norm, different attitude for black men though but there were some taboos there also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point being when growing up this was the stereotype I was accustomed too, obviously not all but it seemed the norm, different attitude for black men though but there were some taboos there also."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Spot on! My black friends were aghast when I told them I met Ben via the Internet. They assume match.com and said I should be careful as the internet was full of white men into nastiness...Some even wanted to put their head between your legs...

they were horrified and disgusted!!!

Black women I know wouldn't let me drink out of their cups if they knew where my mouth had been!

Op, you haven't said anything offensive at all!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Sodareyou's second law ...

The more niche your requirements the longer you'll need to search..

Have fun looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you will be pleased to know there are some black women who view 'nastiness' as hedonistic pleasure!

In our 'culture' certain sexual acts are so called taboos which is laughable and hypocritical when other things such as liberal sexual assault via incest and the such like are swept under the carpet and not 'talked about.'

Viewed as a 'right of passage'

So when I hear about 'nastiness'

I seriously bellyache.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well you will be pleased to know there are some black women who view 'nastiness' as hedonistic pleasure!

Viewed as a 'right of passage'

So when I hear about 'nastiness'

I seriously bellyache."

What a glorious lady xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

they were horrified and disgusted!!!

Black women I know wouldn't let me drink out of their cups if they knew where my mouth had been!

Op, you haven't said anything offensive at all!"

Many thanks I really wasn't being in any shape racist or indeed suggesting my love of one colour over another as I love all you ladies equally

xxxxx

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

they were horrified and disgusted!!!

Black women I know wouldn't let me drink out of their cups if they knew where my mouth had been!

Op, you haven't said anything offensive at all!

Many thanks I really wasn't being in any shape racist or indeed suggesting my love of one colour over another as I love all you ladies equally

xxxxx"

Don't worry a lot of folks are validated by wheeling out their offence roulette wheel at every thread. It allows them to get attention and to show how clever they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they were horrified and disgusted!!!

Black women I know wouldn't let me drink out of their cups if they knew where my mouth had been!

Op, you haven't said anything offensive at all!

Many thanks I really wasn't being in any shape racist or indeed suggesting my love of one colour over another as I love all you ladies equally

xxxxx

Don't worry a lot of folks are validated by wheeling out their offence roulette wheel at every thread. It allows them to get attention and to show how clever they are. "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Many thanks I really wasn't being in any shape racist or indeed suggesting my love of one colour over another as I love all you ladies equally

xxxxx

Don't worry a lot of folks are validated by wheeling out their offence roulette wheel at every thread. It allows them to get attention and to show how clever they are. "

I'm not sure anyone has been offended or shown anything like that. But good tangent/rant. OP, no one thinks you're racist. Good luck in finding what you're looking for OP.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Single ladies are the smallest demographic on fab in general

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Many thanks I really wasn't being in any shape racist or indeed suggesting my love of one colour over another as I love all you ladies equally

xxxxx

Don't worry a lot of folks are validated by wheeling out their offence roulette wheel at every thread. It allows them to get attention and to show how clever they are.

I'm not sure anyone has been offended or shown anything like that. But good tangent/rant. OP, no one thinks you're racist. Good luck in finding what you're looking for OP."

Many thanks again

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More South, Midlands so I'm extending my search for the forbidden fruit ...If I have to travel the extra swing way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black girls don't kind of go with the swing thing. ...more stylish and focus on being inspired ..I love black girls .heritage..and relaxin hair .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soul sessions

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Black girls don't kind of go with the swing thing. ...more stylish and focus on being inspired ..I love black girls .heritage..and relaxin hair ....."

Yes the colour of a persons skin is the deciding factor on how stylish they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still a lack !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently heard, seen the expression mudsharking being used. Is that a racist word? I ask as I'm not in mainstream society, living on an island and do not wish to offend.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've recently heard, seen the expression mudsharking being used. Is that a racist word? I ask as I'm not in mainstream society, living on an island and do not wish to offend."

Never heard of mud sharking just brown sugar. Thanks to Mr Jagger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently heard, seen the expression mudsharking being used. Is that a racist word? I ask as I'm not in mainstream society, living on an island and do not wish to offend."

It is very offensive to a woman.. never use it.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I've recently heard, seen the expression mudsharking being used. Is that a racist word? I ask as I'm not in mainstream society, living on an island and do not wish to offend.

It is very offensive to a woman.. never use it. "

Offensive to black men too in its most common context. A very racist term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently heard, seen the expression mudsharking being used. Is that a racist word? I ask as I'm not in mainstream society, living on an island and do not wish to offend.

It is very offensive to a woman.. never use it.

Offensive to black men too in its most common context. A very racist term.

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I hope everyone who is giving the OP a hard time over his thread is consistent enough to dish out the same to female and couple profiles who are only looking for "BBC"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Checked my urban )and yep it's deffo a No No....

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