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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys?

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys? "

I've only been with 2 vwe guys (10" +) and both were very selfish lovers. I'm sure there's plenty of vwe men who aren't selfish though.

Katie.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys? "

No, they are lazy sods. Go for a more average size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I though that just the feel and the look of a big cock was enough for woman to experience pleasure, I have got it all wrong

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys? "

It's not just you it's Generally my experience as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys? "

The saying it's not what you've got, it's what you do with it, works well here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are right about that.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Not my experience so far, the term it takes two to tango springs to mind

Get him horny enough and i'm sure he'll work for it if hes has to

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was around nine or ten inches and he was one of the least selfish lovers I've had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys? "

You've just met lazy guys.

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Ok... So if vwe can be lazy... What's the point at which guys are not lazy?

What size should we look for to get good foreplay AND a satisfactory shag? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok... So if vwe can be lazy... What's the point at which guys are not lazy?

What size should we look for to get good foreplay AND a satisfactory shag? :D"

Three people backed up your assumption - two didn't.

You seem to be jumping to conclusions quickly! (And also suggesting that all human behaviour in bed can be mapped to penis size - which is quite clearly just bullshit)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've met the wrong guys.

I've found no correlation between cock size and effort or skill.

It's just something people tell themselves to make them feel better, a bit like how good looking people are all shallow or clever people have no common sense. Nope, sorry, some men have big cocks and are also excellent lovers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've met the wrong guys.

I've found no correlation between cock size and effort or skill.

It's just something people tell themselves to make them feel better, a bit like how good looking people are all shallow or clever people have no common sense. Nope, sorry, some men have big cocks and are also excellent lovers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my experience so far, the term it takes two to tango springs to mind

Get him horny enough and i'm sure he'll work for it if hes has to "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever come across one guy I'd class as huge. He knew exactly what he was doing with his cock but by his own admission had no idea about oral or what to do with his fingers and wasn't really interested in learning.

I wouldn't let it put me off though as I think there are lazy men both bigger and smaller and cock size doesn't determine how good they are . Attitude does though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our experience (especially in our cuckolding days) there are some guys who use having a big cock as their only selling point. But there are vwe guys who aren't like that.

(shrugs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round "

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've definitely been meeting the wrong men. I've met a couple of VWE and they were both fantastic lovers. One was exceptional.

I think you've just been unlucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband. "

I guess we know who is running this show

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

no cant say as iv noticed some men are especialy good at one thing more than another though.

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Ok... So if vwe can be lazy... What's the point at which guys are not lazy?

What size should we look for to get good foreplay AND a satisfactory shag? :D

Three people backed up your assumption - two didn't.

You seem to be jumping to conclusions quickly! (And also suggesting that all human behaviour in bed can be mapped to penis size - which is quite clearly just bullshit)"

That's a fair point sorry

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I met 2 BBW's and the lazy bitches just lay there.

And me a god like lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband. "

Soft swap couple?

Voyeurs?

Building up to it?

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband. "

There is something for everyone on this site, we more of a voyure than a swingers, so nothing at all to be intruged about, if you still are please air it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys? "

I'm average and still a lazy shag, so...

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

I guess we know who is running this show"

Who is that might be then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

There is something for everyone on this site, we more of a voyure than a swingers, so nothing at all to be intruged about, if you still are please air it "

Sorry if you thought I was having a go. I wasn't, I'm genuinely intrigued, as per my own circumstances that's all. I never meant to cause offence.

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

Soft swap couple?

Voyeurs?

Building up to it? "

Who knows what the future bring

At least some people on here got educated now

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

There is something for everyone on this site, we more of a voyure than a swingers, so nothing at all to be intruged about, if you still are please air it

Sorry if you thought I was having a go. I wasn't, I'm genuinely intrigued, as per my own circumstances that's all. I never meant to cause offence."

Honey no offence taken at all I just thought to clear that point.

Merry Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

Soft swap couple?

Voyeurs?

Building up to it?

Who knows what the future bring

At least some people on here got educated now "

I've learnt nothing new as I know all about voyeurism, soft swap etc. More curious about your relationship dynamics but it's no worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

There is something for everyone on this site, we more of a voyure than a swingers, so nothing at all to be intruged about, if you still are please air it

Sorry if you thought I was having a go. I wasn't, I'm genuinely intrigued, as per my own circumstances that's all. I never meant to cause offence.

Honey no offence taken at all I just thought to clear that point.

Merry Xmas

"

And you xx

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys? "

I've met guys of varying sizes (that should be the start of a limerick I reckon) and have found no correlation between endowment and effort. I suspect if I were specifically looking for VWE and they sold themselves on that sole facet of their sexuality then it may be different. Oh, and the laziest lover I have ever had was also the least endowed. It was the former reason that led to him becoming an ex-lover (maybe because I am lazy; there's not room for two lazy arses in one bed).

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

Soft swap couple?

Voyeurs?

Building up to it?

Who knows what the future bring

At least some people on here got educated now

I've learnt nothing new as I know all about voyeurism, soft swap etc. More curious about your relationship dynamics but it's no worry "

What is so curious about my relationship dynamics so I can explain it sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

Soft swap couple?

Voyeurs?

Building up to it?

Who knows what the future bring

At least some people on here got educated now

I've learnt nothing new as I know all about voyeurism, soft swap etc. More curious about your relationship dynamics but it's no worry

What is so curious about my relationship dynamics so I can explain it sweetie "

I've tried to PM you as I don't want to discuss it in a forum x

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"Sorry I can't input to this thread, as the only guy I ever had is my hubby and he is very good all round

I find that intriguing that you're on a swinging site yet only ever been with your husband.

Soft swap couple?

Voyeurs?

Building up to it?

Who knows what the future bring

At least some people on here got educated now

I've learnt nothing new as I know all about voyeurism, soft swap etc. More curious about your relationship dynamics but it's no worry

What is so curious about my relationship dynamics so I can explain it sweetie

I've tried to PM you as I don't want to discuss it in a forum x"

I can't get any PM Hun as I am on my phone but mail me if you feel you need to know further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys?

I've met guys of varying sizes (that should be the start of a limerick I reckon) and have found no correlation between endowment and effort. I suspect if I were specifically looking for VWE and they sold themselves on that sole facet of their sexuality then it may be different. Oh, and the laziest lover I have ever had was also the least endowed. It was the former reason that led to him becoming an ex-lover (maybe because I am lazy; there's not room for two lazy arses in one bed)."

Were any of them from Devizes?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys?

I've met guys of varying sizes (that should be the start of a limerick I reckon) and have found no correlation between endowment and effort. I suspect if I were specifically looking for VWE and they sold themselves on that sole facet of their sexuality then it may be different. Oh, and the laziest lover I have ever had was also the least endowed. It was the former reason that led to him becoming an ex-lover (maybe because I am lazy; there's not room for two lazy arses in one bed).

Were any of them from Devizes?"

How did you guess?!

(One was quite small and of no use at all but the other was large and won prizes)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys?

I've met guys of varying sizes (that should be the start of a limerick I reckon) and have found no correlation between endowment and effort. I suspect if I were specifically looking for VWE and they sold themselves on that sole facet of their sexuality then it may be different. Oh, and the laziest lover I have ever had was also the least endowed. It was the former reason that led to him becoming an ex-lover (maybe because I am lazy; there's not room for two lazy arses in one bed).

Were any of them from Devizes?

How did you guess?!

(One was quite small and of no use at all but the other was large and won prizes)"

*applaudes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I do like the look and feel of a big cock I have found vwe men to be less willing to put as much effort into the other ways of pleasuring a woman

Am I right or have I just met the wrong guys?

I've met guys of varying sizes (that should be the start of a limerick I reckon) and have found no correlation between endowment and effort. I suspect if I were specifically looking for VWE and they sold themselves on that sole facet of their sexuality then it may be different. Oh, and the laziest lover I have ever had was also the least endowed. It was the former reason that led to him becoming an ex-lover (maybe because I am lazy; there's not room for two lazy arses in one bed).

Were any of them from Devizes?

How did you guess?!

(One was quite small and of no use at all but the other was large and won prizes)"

Yassss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met 2 BBW's and the lazy bitches just lay there.

And me a god like lover"

You do strike me as being a god like lover

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I met 2 BBW's and the lazy bitches just lay there.

And me a god like lover

You do strike me as being a god like lover "

Yes I have a look of Buddha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The two men with large peckers that i have been with have been my best sex ever!

E V E R!!!!

Saying that it wasn't because they were well endowed, it was because they were filthy, tried loads of positions for mutual pleasure and were really attentive and sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met 2 BBW's and the lazy bitches just lay there.

And me a god like lover

You do strike me as being a god like lover

Yes I have a look of Buddha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a lazy, selfish and unimaginative live and yet not at all VWE....work that out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's individual men, not the size of their willy. I've chosen well luckily. Some get put off from the questionnaire I have them fill out, to apply for a meet... That's how I judge if they are lazy sods or not .

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I think it's individual men, not the size of their willy. I've chosen well luckily. Some get put off from the questionnaire I have them fill out, to apply for a meet... That's how I judge if they are lazy sods or not . "

Ooh - may we see the questionnaire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the wrong guys. I've had a few who think they're gods gift but most have been great fun.

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By *ildatlantic3wayCouple
over a year ago

donegal

Find big cocks sore. I'm nice and tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find big cocks sore. I'm nice and tight."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go for guys who have been in relationships. they tend to know what they're doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm nice and tight."

I'll be the judge of that.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

I've been with a few vwe guys and majority were selfless lovers. In fact one last week was hell bent on making sure I had as much pleasure as possible and WOW is all I can say )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been with a few vwe guys and majority were selfless lovers. In fact one last week was hell bent on making sure I had as much pleasure as possible and WOW is all I can say )"

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