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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having made contact with a guy, shared details ideas picts even postcode and mobile --- next msg says "am calling it off" and their profile becomes hidden????

HOW frustrating

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Happens all the time OP. People change their mind for all manner of reasons.

I don't accommodate but if I did I wouldn't share address/postcode details until the day of the meet.

You could try a social meet first in a public place. Just go for a culpa or a pint and a chat. There is no pressure that way and less likelihood of people getting cold feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than them just standing you up on the day I guess. It is frustrating but you have to respect the fact people change their minds. It would be nice if they told you why but it tends not to happen. Could be a whole host of reasons, look at whether there were any red flags that might have given you a clue, chalk it up to experience and move on.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi Op!

About 70% (minimum) of the meets I arrange with guys not on the forums turn to shit! I find that when I arrange meets with fellow forumites - though they can take more arranging due to distance etc - they tend to happen - and when they do they're invariably great because we've gotten to know each other on the forums! Hence my favourite men on fab are fellow forumites - though sadly live quite a way away so I don't see them as often as I'd like!

Even more of a lovely treat when I do though!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Not sure it's wise having your mobile number for all to see though, maybe comes across as a bit desperate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many thanks to each of you for your honest thoughts - I do appreciate all that you say and it really helps me to understand how other fab folk view my possible actions to meet .

May you all have a good Xmas and a superb New Year meeting HAVING fab fun xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having made contact with a guy, shared details ideas picts even postcode and mobile --- next msg says "am calling it off" and their profile becomes hidden????

HOW frustrating "

They hwve a partner

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very annoying,but that's the nature of the beast at least you got told! Which was decent of him most just go quiet and keep you wondering.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Having made contact with a guy, shared details ideas picts even postcode and mobile --- next msg says "am calling it off" and their profile becomes hidden????

HOW frustrating "

People aren't allowed to change their mind? !!

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