FabSwingers.com forum: Name and shame page

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who on here thinks there should be a name and shame page to stop others from nasty messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who on here thinks there should be a name and shame page to stop others from nasty messages "

not me...I just block them, or if extremely abusive I report to admin..let them sort it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr no, that's what the block button is there for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please name me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, it can be abused.

For instance.......

That Lingerie Queen told us to go fuck ourselves and jump off a cliff.

Totally not true of course but do you see how it can be misused by others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as dem is da rules init.

xxx

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

And if they cannot use the site responsibly in the first place why would a 'nsme and sham' page suddenly be the solution. Just somewhere else to make claims and counter claims IMHO.

Just report abusive messages etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the page in itself could be open to abuse with potentially innocent people being labelled for no reason. Think it's best to keep it to the admins

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Who on here thinks there should be a name and shame page to stop others from nasty messages "

No, it will encourage nasty messages.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

How many times?!!

No!

If abused notify admin. Too many petty people around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Admin havnt done anything though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, just report and block

Kinky

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"And if they cannot use the site responsibly in the first place why would a 'nsme and sham' page suddenly be the solution. Just somewhere else to make claims and counter claims IMHO.

Just report abusive messages etc."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Admin havnt done anything though"

Give them time, they get 100's if not 1000's of reports daily.

Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Admin havnt done anything though"

Admin ain't fairys with Magic wands they are volunteers who have hundreds of reports to see to daily.

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

no, would just be nothing but problems beside if you get any abuse report it and hopefully move on, there are plenty of nice people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Admin havnt done anything though

Admin ain't fairys with Magic wands they are volunteers who have hundreds of reports to see to daily."

Oi, you're trying to nick my common sense answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is longer than my friends list.just block and don't waste yer energy being bothered by them.they're small loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Admin havnt done anything though

Admin ain't fairys with Magic wands they are volunteers who have hundreds of reports to see to daily.

Oi, you're trying to nick my common sense answers

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like where bitter people can publically announce they are about to go UNLOS

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The silly tit for tat nonsense that goes on would make it completely unworkable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ty all fair points x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Admin havnt done anything though"

How would you know that?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Admin havnt done anything though"

Sorry, but that doesn't make your solution any better, or less open to abuse

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Well I'm nominating myself to be on there. ..I've got myself on my own hot list friends list, I wink at myself.. so why not..

how many votes do I need ..someone second me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who on here thinks there should be a name and shame page to stop others from nasty messages "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who on here thinks there should be a name and shame page to stop others from nasty messages "

How would it stop nasty messages?

In answer to the question, no. Bad idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm nominating myself to be on there. ..I've got myself on my own hot list friends list, I wink at myself.. so why not..

how many votes do I need ..someone second me please

Yeah I've messaged myself before.thought I was replying in forum but sent meself the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Admin havnt done anything though"

They don't. Just block you and the sender

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Well I'm nominating myself to be on there. ..I've got myself on my own hot list friends list, I wink at myself.. so why not..

how many votes do I need ..someone second me please

Yeah I've messaged myself before.thought I was replying in forum but sent meself the message

I did this 7 yrs ago and I still haven't replied to maself, what a sad timewaster I must be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please name me "

Rumplestiltskin!

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fear this sort of page would not get used properly, purely because of jealousy!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Nope. How does angrily shaming people actually help?

Just block and move on.

There are reasons why naming and shaming are against the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who on here thinks there should be a name and shame page to stop others from nasty messages "

Do you mean aside from the fact that it is against site rules?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

How do you know admin have done nothing?

Just because the person who allegedly sent nasty messages hasn't been banned, does not mean admin haven't sent them a warning.

And do remember admin are unpaid, I believe. They are only human and cannot respond to the hundreds of complaints/requests immediately. It might take a few hours before your anyone has the time to look into your complaint.

Patience...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who on here thinks there should be a name and shame page to stop others from nasty messages "

No, don't be ridiculous, it would be wide open to abuse. Block the sender, report to admin, move on.

If the nasty messages bother you that much, maybe you shouldn't be on the site. You certainly shouldn't be trying to dictate how the site is run.

If there were a name and shame page I would leave the site, for fear of false accusations.

Also one person,s idea of what is abusive and another's will vary. Sometimes things said in jest are taken the wrong way ect.

There will always be the odd one or two who can be nasty, it's the internet.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"Admin havnt done anything though"

admin wont reply to you but will take action in the back ground

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

You never know what go through peoples minds on here. Catch somebody on an off day an you are fucking a flesh light for life *so I hear

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,it could be open to abuse .People who have been rejected or have a grudge would use it I think

Miss

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I think a name and shame page would just be full of single women that haven't answered mens messages, they don't realise 40 mens timewaster is one mans fun afternoon

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Mr 12 inch woman splitter sent me a rude message....shame him!

Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard that Gothams finest are top shaggers

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Admin havnt done anything though"

Another reason they shouldn't be shamed then ....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I would like to name and shame Granny Crumpet.

The tea she made was horrible.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Never.

Just help yourself and others by improving your skills levels.

Sinking to the level of shaming is just wrong.

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