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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Right after coming off a rather long phone conversation with my mother who for the whole conversation was questioning me as to why I am still single after 3 years.

I said I don't know why I am single if I had the answer I'd be with someone. Now I have never thought about my relationship status as I have had some great laughs. However my dear mother made me think for about 20 mins after ohh god yes I am single... yikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She sounds like my mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right after coming off a rather long phone conversation with my mother who for the whole conversation was questioning me as to why I am still single after 3 years.

I said I don't know why I am single if I had the answer I'd be with someone. Now I have never thought about my relationship status as I have had some great laughs. However my dear mother made me think for about 20 mins after ohh god yes I am single... yikes "

I get a similar message from mine. I was tempted to say i can get all the cock i like without the mess of having a man around 24/7 but she wouldn't understand. I am not sure if i would want another man permanently around though after the last one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine too and my dad is always trying to marry me off but the fact is I am having too much fun being single. And I am married to my children and I cant see how a guy will fit into my life right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And my mother she just said it today isn't it time you found someone? yeah right and spoil all my fun. I didn't tell her that bit though

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Right after coming off a rather long phone conversation with my mother who for the whole conversation was questioning me as to why I am still single after 3 years.

I said I don't know why I am single if I had the answer I'd be with someone. Now I have never thought about my relationship status as I have had some great laughs. However my dear mother made me think for about 20 mins after ohh god yes I am single... yikes "

I used to get the same off my Mother for years since I left home in the early 70's. But it is what mothers do!

And I have lots of female friends (they are all married too -damn!), who'd love the opportunity to get their best hat out to go to my wedding! The lengths they go to to try and match make is worthy of a gold medal!

They'll be waiting for some time yet!

Look at it this way, everyone has your best interests at heart... or think they do! I believe it'd human nature.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again "
They will always have an answer lol

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again They will always have an answer lol"

She is funny and does have an answer for everything she is the only person that knows what buttons to push to get me angry...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again "

ive been single for 3yrs too

but how, when you fill out a dating site application could you possibly word

doesnt do vanilla, looking for a sub cumslut and must be willing to fuck loads of other people to keep me happy

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again

ive been single for 3yrs too

but how, when you fill out a dating site application could you possibly word

doesnt do vanilla, looking for a sub cumslut and must be willing to fuck loads of other people to keep me happy"

That is what I mean I don't want a nilly relationship got to into swinging but how do you broach it on a dating site like you said... I was open with one date and he walked on the date and mutted slag under his breath..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again

ive been single for 3yrs too

but how, when you fill out a dating site application could you possibly word

doesnt do vanilla, looking for a sub cumslut and must be willing to fuck loads of other people to keep me happy

That is what I mean I don't want a nilly relationship got to into swinging but how do you broach it on a dating site like you said... I was open with one date and he walked on the date and mutted slag under his breath.. "

exactly, and to me, i dont want to waste time with someone only to find out 6 months down the line they arnt as open minded as they said, missionary stylee lights off kinda shit, time wasted although i seem to have all the time in the world at the moment...

theres a song in there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think society expects us to want to be in couples and when we aren't and particularly when we are honest enough to admit we don't want one and are happy that way it almost scares people.

I was singke for a couple of years and the amount of people that tried to pair me up was incredible. Interestingly many of those people now find the fact that my new g/f and I lead fairly seperate lives extremely odd.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again

ive been single for 3yrs too

but how, when you fill out a dating site application could you possibly word

doesnt do vanilla, looking for a sub cumslut and must be willing to fuck loads of other people to keep me happy

That is what I mean I don't want a nilly relationship got to into swinging but how do you broach it on a dating site like you said... I was open with one date and he walked on the date and mutted slag under his breath..

exactly, and to me, i dont want to waste time with someone only to find out 6 months down the line they arnt as open minded as they said, missionary stylee lights off kinda shit, time wasted although i seem to have all the time in the world at the moment...

theres a song in there somewhere "

I know what you are saying as I don't want to lead anyone on or to hurt anyone and I am not one to hide things from the people I care about.. but how do you disclose that actually I love sex and all forms of it with different people??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been single and my mom didnt bat an eyelid.

I once heard to her say to my aunt.."she,s too much woman for any man to deal with" lmao.

She knew i was an independant spirit and couldnt do the "happy little housewife" thing.

Im now at an age that i dont think i will ever marry but dont feel cheated in the slightest.

It would take an extra special guy to get through my walls now anyways.

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By *rs ColourfulCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again

ive been single for 3yrs too

but how, when you fill out a dating site application could you possibly word

doesnt do vanilla, looking for a sub cumslut and must be willing to fuck loads of other people to keep me happy"

Lmao I totally agree with you on this one x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I know then she said when are you going to have kids I said when I find a sperm doner.. with that I got told off felt about 10 again

ive been single for 3yrs too

but how, when you fill out a dating site application could you possibly word

doesnt do vanilla, looking for a sub cumslut and must be willing to fuck loads of other people to keep me happy

Lmao I totally agree with you on this one x "

Should of said that to me mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its great being single!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am lucky mine no i never settle down again or get married been there done it g-tshirt .if i did meet some one he would have to swing 2 but i could never live full time with a man am 2 independent .my parents no i swing so as long as am safe there fine dnt say out

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My mum used to be really sneaky, she would wait until we where in the car going somewhere then start as she knew i couldnt escape. Even offered to pay for me to join a dating site

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"My mum used to be really sneaky, she would wait until we where in the car going somewhere then start as she knew i couldnt escape. Even offered to pay for me to join a dating site "

I get the sly comments my dad tries to set me up with men in their village. Thanks but no thanks

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My mum used to be really sneaky, she would wait until we where in the car going somewhere then start as she knew i couldnt escape. Even offered to pay for me to join a dating site

I get the sly comments my dad tries to set me up with men in their village. Thanks but no thanks "

My son tried to set me up with the guy from the video shop, didnt go in for about six months after

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"My mum used to be really sneaky, she would wait until we where in the car going somewhere then start as she knew i couldnt escape. Even offered to pay for me to join a dating site

I get the sly comments my dad tries to set me up with men in their village. Thanks but no thanks

My son tried to set me up with the guy from the video shop, didnt go in for about six months after "

HAHAHA thats funny xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My mum used to be really sneaky, she would wait until we where in the car going somewhere then start as she knew i couldnt escape. Even offered to pay for me to join a dating site

I get the sly comments my dad tries to set me up with men in their village. Thanks but no thanks

My son tried to set me up with the guy from the video shop, didnt go in for about six months after

HAHAHA thats funny xx"

You should of seen the guy, all my son was thinking about was free dvds i think

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"My mum used to be really sneaky, she would wait until we where in the car going somewhere then start as she knew i couldnt escape. Even offered to pay for me to join a dating site

I get the sly comments my dad tries to set me up with men in their village. Thanks but no thanks

My son tried to set me up with the guy from the video shop, didnt go in for about six months after

HAHAHA thats funny xx

You should of seen the guy, all my son was thinking about was free dvds i think"

But did the guy have the wow factor??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My mum used to be really sneaky, she would wait until we where in the car going somewhere then start as she knew i couldnt escape. Even offered to pay for me to join a dating site

I get the sly comments my dad tries to set me up with men in their village. Thanks but no thanks

My son tried to set me up with the guy from the video shop, didnt go in for about six months after

HAHAHA thats funny xx

You should of seen the guy, all my son was thinking about was free dvds i think

But did the guy have the wow factor?? "

He had the runaway quick factor lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a serious relationship for over 2 years, been single for 2months if that, and its great! do what I want, live on my own, planning to travel, loving single life!

People assume if your single your lonely........and its bollocks, not allways the case, last thing I want is a girlfriend, dont care if the sun shines out her ass lol

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"My mum used to be really sneaky, she would wait until we where in the car going somewhere then start as she knew i couldnt escape. Even offered to pay for me to join a dating site

I get the sly comments my dad tries to set me up with men in their village. Thanks but no thanks

My son tried to set me up with the guy from the video shop, didnt go in for about six months after

HAHAHA thats funny xx

You should of seen the guy, all my son was thinking about was free dvds i think

But did the guy have the wow factor??

He had the runaway quick factor lol"

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh no!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

anyway i got the best of both worlds now, live on my own with a wonderful boyfriend. I will never want to live with anyone again

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

my mother always says no-one is daft enough or brave enough to take me on... little does she know mwahahahaha

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap I have had that in the past - I'm single now for about 5 years, got asked the same question about when am I going to meet someone, I waited until she had had a few drinks and replied, I'm single but I'm not a nun.....

Didn't go down to well I must say!! And yes she did remember the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for 23 years, had four kids and was on my own for five years.

I'm seeing someone but have no desire to live with another man again. My younger sister and a couple of my single friends are on a mission to find a husband by the end of the year.

They think there's something wrong with me. If I were younger without children I might have a different view, but I'm happy with the arrangement I have now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After my last so-called relationship that lasted a few months, my mum now encourages me to be single, and not to be so soft and let people take advantage of me!

She used to worry about me being single, not anymore!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Can you get your mum to phone my mum cause I'd rather have that conversation with her than the one about my weight!

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