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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After being on and of this site I have to saye that certain terms are getting a little bit boring.'no blacks' is staring to feel like it should be followed by or dogs or children???! Everybody is welcome to there own preferences but I think going to clubs and taking a break from this site is the way forward. And maybe an ethnicity option that shows black, asian etc where to search for people that have NO issues with people of colour......

Just a thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it's been suggested already ..

Just a thought

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Or you could just ignore the profiles that don't suit you? If everyone is welcome to their own preferences why do you the need to leave the site?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

You should already be trying clubs if you aren't getting any joy. You can do both you know clubs and stay on here

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There's a feel missing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure it's been suggested already ..

Just a thought "

Thanks for telling heads up I wasn't aware but if no one speaks up or pushes the issue I doubt there be a change any time soon

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"There's a feel missing! "

Ain't that the truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm bout to start work so I'll respond later but if YOU saw this and YOU felt it was being said more than could be ignored YOU would probably feel like leaving too I've left before an I feel it's time for ME if there's no change.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like sex with black people as skin colour isn't one of my selection criteria.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm bout to start work so I'll respond later but if YOU saw this and YOU felt it was being said more than could be ignored YOU would probably feel like leaving too I've left before an I feel it's time for ME if there's no change. "

Yeah? How do you think I feel about people who don't want to meet bisexual men. You don't, do you? See? Goes both ways (haha)....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"There's a feel missing!

Ain't that the truth "

Seriously though OP... there are lots of us who give not a hoot what colour people are... although I'm a bit partial to purple with green spots. I like cool people. They come in all sorts of flavours.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'm bout to start work so I'll respond later but if YOU saw this and YOU felt it was being said more than could be ignored YOU would probably feel like leaving too I've left before an I feel it's time for ME if there's no change.

Yeah? How do you think I feel about people who don't want to meet bisexual men. You don't, do you? See? Goes both ways (haha)...."

Narrows yer options even more when yer a 54 yr old bisexual smoker. I still get a

little bit of interest though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm bout to start work so I'll respond later but if YOU saw this and YOU felt it was being said more than could be ignored YOU would probably feel like leaving too I've left before an I feel it's time for ME if there's no change.

Yeah? How do you think I feel about people who don't want to meet bisexual men. You don't, do you? See? Goes both ways (haha)....

Narrows yer options even more when yer a 54 yr old bisexual smoker. I still get a

little bit of interest though "

It makes me laugh when people blame their skin colour for their lack of sexual activity on here because I know there are many profiles who only want black people and there's a black mans fan club group too. It's always something they can't change like age or colour. Loads of people don't want to meet bisexual men but guess what? I've found those who do. Same rules apply. Seek out those who do want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just saying op but there isn't a "white mans fan club" group of women.

I think you'll find your skin colour is a fairly large arvantage for NSA meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being on and of this site I have to saye that certain terms are getting a little bit boring.'no blacks' is staring to feel like it should be followed by or dogs or children???! Everybody is welcome to there own preferences but I think going to clubs and taking a break from this site is the way forward. And maybe an ethnicity option that shows black, asian etc where to search for people that have NO issues with people of colour......

Just a thought..."

Plenty of profiles seeking black men.

Just focus on those who's preferences match rather than those who don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dear me ....... so next time I feel a slightly let down but this site I'll keep it to myself and stay hey in the knowledge that ignorance is rife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't let it get to me. There are lots of people who don't meet 51 yr old fat women. I move on and enjoy the people who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear me ....... so next time I feel a slightly let down but this site I'll keep it to myself and stay hey in the knowledge that ignorance is rife "

You're well within your rights to complain about something on the site, or off, pertaining to your sexual activity. How people respond is out of your control, and some people will respond with negativity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dear me ....... so next time I feel a slightly let down but this site I'll keep it to myself and stay hey in the knowledge that ignorance is rife

You're well within your rights to complain about something on the site, or off, pertaining to your sexual activity. How people respond is out of your control, and some people will respond with negativity. "

Ain't that the truth lol

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I only go to clubs meeting people for real

I use the site to find out what's on and where

To keep in touch with people I've already met at clubs,private meets may occasionally happen from people I've met already

I think the site is brilliant for my requirements

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Some people will only meet tall men, some people won't meet black guys, some people will only meet black guys, some people won't meet asians, some people won't meet bisexual guys, some people will only meet bisexual guys, some people will only meet VWE guys, some people won't meet VWE guys, some people will only meet 'gym fit' guys, some people won't meet guys who smoke, some people won't be guys who are outside a certain age range, some people won't meet guys at all.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I'm bout to start work so I'll respond later but if YOU saw this and YOU felt it was being said more than could be ignored YOU would probably feel like leaving too I've left before an I feel it's time for ME if there's no change. "

for every ad that says no black guys i bet i can show you one that ask "black guys/BBC preferred"...

wanna take me up on it.........

the reality of life is that you are not going to be to everyones taste.... guess what? neither am i!.... and i guess that you are not going to like every profile you read either...

life.....

i wonder why people take every single rejections so personally.... guess what, if you think you are not going to be rejected in clubs either, you are in for a nasty shock!!!!!

not every one likes everyone.... you ain't a saint and even those are disliked by one or two...

sometimes i think people need a change of mindset... if you celebrate every yes thinking it was going to a no.... as opposed to whinging over every no that you thought may be a yes...... there would be a lot less angst in swinging in general!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm bout to start work so I'll respond later but if YOU saw this and YOU felt it was being said more than could be ignored YOU would probably feel like leaving too I've left before an I feel it's time for ME if there's no change.

for every ad that says no black guys i bet i can show you one that ask "black guys/BBC preferred"...

wanna take me up on it.........

the reality of life is that you are not going to be to everyones taste.... guess what? neither am i!.... and i guess that you are not going to like every profile you read either...

life.....

i wonder why people take every single rejections so personally.... guess what, if you think you are not going to be rejected in clubs either, you are in for a nasty shock!!!!!

not every one likes everyone.... you ain't a saint and even those are disliked by one or two...

sometimes i think people need a change of mindset... if you celebrate every yes thinking it was going to a no.... as opposed to whinging over every no that you thought may be a yes...... there would be a lot less angst in swinging in general!!!!!"

Well put and I agree, but for the fact that I will go out of my way not to offend others maybe I'm just old school

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