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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm lay in the bath listening to Gnossienne No. 1, piano by Erik Satie trying to switch off from the stresses of life. What makes you relax, switch off and imagine beautiful things? This piece makes me so at ease.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I daren't say I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so busy, I don't actually relax much... maybe on a saturday night watching match of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a bath in years, maybe I'll treat myself later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm so busy, I don't actually relax much... maybe on a saturday night watching match of the day "

I'm so busy at the moment but have to have some downtime. Classical music relaxes and calms me. I feel better for those 20 mins of me time.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"I'm lay in the bath listening to Gnossienne No. 1, piano by Erik Satie trying to switch off from the stresses of life. What makes you relax, switch off and imagine beautiful things? This piece makes me so at ease. "

It's an exquisite piece of music but it always has me welling up, I find it really poignant

The most relaxed I ever feel is when I can lie with very little on in boiling hot sun, crystal clear sea close at hand, feeling the warmth penetrate my bones. Unfortunately that's not so easily available all year round though ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't had a bath in years, maybe I'll treat myself later"

Draw a hot bath, add some essence, play my tune... imagine something beautiful in your mind.... it really helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to lie in the dark. Other than that, I can't say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my bath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss my bath. "

Was about to say that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss my bath.

Was about to say that !

"

*cue bath montage of the good times*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I daren't say I "

I would love to know what makes you relax.... oh hang on, I remember..... it's Secret Tea Parties... or did I miss something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jazz music.......and nice nice essential oils being burnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to lie in the dark. Other than that, I can't say. "

Me too but only with someone as I'm scared of the dark x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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A soak in the bath with some candles and music blisses me out

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I ring my bikes neck and all she ever screams is more more more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm lay in the bath listening to Gnossienne No. 1, piano by Erik Satie trying to switch off from the stresses of life. What makes you relax, switch off and imagine beautiful things? This piece makes me so at ease.

It's an exquisite piece of music but it always has me welling up, I find it really poignant

The most relaxed I ever feel is when I can lie with very little on in boiling hot sun, crystal clear sea close at hand, feeling the warmth penetrate my bones. Unfortunately that's not so easily available all year round though ..."

Oh god, yes, exquisite describes the piece perfectly. It doesn't make me cry but it definitely moves me and actually gives me horny thoughts; erotic feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laying my head on breasts with candle lights

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A soak in the bath with some candles and music blisses me out "

Me too... Candles, classical music and bubbles.... heaven.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

A good way to relax is laying in the bath with someone, listening to Erik Satie's piano concerto. That would be a wonderful way to get rid of the day's stresses

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Music, either headphones in or recently I've dusted off my sax.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Laying my head on breasts with candle lights "

That's a delicious thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go the gym and spar it out. Followed my some intense skipping and bag work.

It works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classical music usually does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laying my head on breasts with candle lights

That's a delicious thought "

your would be just perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I miss my bath.

Was about to say that !

"

Would love to be in a bath with you; help you remember how good it is to use a loofah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, good old alternative music

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"A soak in the bath with some candles and music blisses me out

Me too... Candles, classical music and bubbles.... heaven. "

It really is. Stay in until the water is almost cold. Perfect

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I relax in different ways for different reasons.

Love a hot bath to soak in, but I'm not truly relaxed.

Minimum would be : Music, a space I feel safe, a quietness within my head. Occasionally : a couple of drinks although that can also work against me clearing my head.

With hopefully : Great company someone I trust fully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's relaxing at this time of year I've only just finished work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm lay in the bath listening to Gnossienne No. 1, piano by Erik Satie trying to switch off from the stresses of life. What makes you relax, switch off and imagine beautiful things? This piece makes me so at ease. "

My Dojo.

It's the most serene and tranquil place I know.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"What's relaxing at this time of year I've only just finished work "

At least you're more relaxed than you were 8 hours ago?

I'm a bit crap at this positive thinking stuff, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is one of my all time classics I only heard it again the other day and got it I didntbknow what it was called x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I relax in different ways for different reasons.

Love a hot bath to soak in, but I'm not truly relaxed.

Minimum would be : Music, a space I feel safe, a quietness within my head. Occasionally : a couple of drinks although that can also work against me clearing my head.

With hopefully : Great company someone I trust fully.

"

I did have wine I would have loved some company; someone to appreciate the music and the "moment".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had a bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listening to music in my bed with my headphones on...bliss

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love relaxing in the bath with candles and music! Also love reading.

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice hot bath can be good. Previous house owners put in a nice long one so I can lay down properly in it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is one of my all time classics I only heard it again the other day and got it I didntbknow what it was called x"

It really is a special piece of music; so calming but to me...gives me erotic thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice hot bath can be good. Previous house owners put in a nice long one so I can lay down properly in it.

"

You can't beat the whole body being covered in warm water. Big baths should be mandatory in a house

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go the gym and spar it out. Followed my some intense skipping and bag work.

It works for me. "

I would so love to throw some punches at you...or hit you with my large bags....a great way to release those endorphins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go the gym and spar it out. Followed my some intense skipping and bag work.

It works for me.

I would so love to throw some punches at you...or hit you with my large bags....a great way to release those endorphins "

I'll take the second option please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go the gym and spar it out. Followed my some intense skipping and bag work.

It works for me.

I would so love to throw some punches at you...or hit you with my large bags....a great way to release those endorphins

I'll take the second option please "

I'd probably knock you out

10...9....8....7....6...5.... and he's up!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furious masturbation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to have a bath. Haven't had one since 2005

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go the gym and spar it out. Followed my some intense skipping and bag work.

It works for me.

I would so love to throw some punches at you...or hit you with my large bags....a great way to release those endorphins

I'll take the second option please

I'd probably knock you out

10...9....8....7....6...5.... and he's up!!!!"

Knocked out by large bags or a black eye from a woman.

I'm still leaning towards the second option

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*sits on his desert island, listening to Bessie Smith on the gramophone, puffing on a Panama*

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"*sits on his desert island, listening to Bessie Smith on the gramophone, puffing on a Panama*"

Are there pretty dumb waiters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*sits on his desert island, listening to Bessie Smith on the gramophone, puffing on a Panama*"

Desert island, Ludovico Einaudi and "Wilson"

I'm not keen on blues and I only smoke oily stuff but the desert island, right now, oh god yes...I'm there

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"*sits on his desert island, listening to Bessie Smith on the gramophone, puffing on a Panama*

Are there pretty dumb waiters?"

Sadly no... Have to get some in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well what I do is helped by your amazing pictures . Wow

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Well this thread just reminded me how much I miss listening to piano and violin together so I'm currently downloading.

However to relax I find really stressful hobbies weirdly relaxing, in that they make me switch off from the more stressful things in life like work etc.

D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well what I do is helped by your amazing pictures . Wow"

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

I take a walk, past a clock to pass the time

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"*sits on his desert island, listening to Bessie Smith on the gramophone, puffing on a Panama*

Desert island, Ludovico Einaudi and "Wilson"

I'm not keen on blues and I only smoke oily stuff but the desert island, right now, oh god yes...I'm there"

Einaudi you say we've seen him three times

Relaxing for H, bath, rum, co-codamol (back). For me, music, headphones & a room so dark your eyes never adjust to it.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never bathe alone - so when i share my bath its totally relaxing - i often walk or sit outside and just listen to birdsong - love that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*sits on his desert island, listening to Bessie Smith on the gramophone, puffing on a Panama*

Desert island, Ludovico Einaudi and "Wilson"

I'm not keen on blues and I only smoke oily stuff but the desert island, right now, oh god yes...I'm there

Einaudi you say we've seen him three times

Relaxing for H, bath, rum, co-codamol (back). For me, music, headphones & a room so dark your eyes never adjust to it.

S"

His music is "the dogs" ; would love to hear him live.

Bose headphones, darkened room, brandy, hell yeah, but no co-y stuff ~ it makes me doolally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do yoga, but my flat is like a building site at the moment and I have no space... Now it's just curl up on the sofa with the hound and watch Netflix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well what I do is helped by your amazing pictures . Wow

"

I would love to kiss you softly and help you relax

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