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By *andorasSecret OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Birmingham

Just watching a news report on loneliness, especially at Christmas. The report is focusing on the elderly. But wondering how others interpret being lonely? Do people use Fab to combat their loneliness?

Ali xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ no. If I did it would tip me over the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loneliness at Xmas? Yes.

Using fab to combat it? Errr, no.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Fab - no. I use it for cock and quim. And the forums. Not loneliness.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I sort of chat with you lot about sex and stuff but I'm not lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't use the word loneliness but I do use the forums to chat with others, not because I feel lonely but to have an interaction with people, on subject I wouldn't necessarily talk about in my regular life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't use the word loneliness but I do use the forums to chat with others, not because I feel lonely but to have an interaction with people, on subject I wouldn't necessarily talk about in my regular life.

"

same here :D

Being a lone parent, means my social life with physical people/friends is over when my daughter goes to bed.

Using the internet as a tool makes me feel like i am still interacting with people in some form.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Being alone doesnt always equate to being lonely. You can be surrounded by people on a daily basis and still feel lonely.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I think people use all kinds of media to combat loneliness not just fab. Though Fab obviously combats loneliness as you can literally fuck your friends.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not loneliness, I pass time reading threads that interest me or created by people I admire. I could watch TV or find other things to do. I post very little these days but it still passes the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely yes I do use fab to combat my loneliness as it's not that easy for me to get out. But I know that when I'm down in the dumps and my usual things don't lift me that it's time for me to force myself out of my flat. I'm at that point atm so tomorrow I'm going to make the effort and go into town n have a coffee at Costa. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come onto the forums to get away from the people I'm surrounded by daily. It empties my head and helps me forget my busy life.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Yes i like meeting men for company and sex, a couple of men on here who i talk to about every day things like what we are up to as well as sex.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Although I'm always around people, due to a total lack of intimacy in my life, I feel incredibly lonely - chatting on fab helps and gives me some hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness at Xmas? Yes.

Using fab to combat it? Errr, no. "

I will say, the fab forums do allow me to interact with types of people I don't normally get a chance to, especially on subjects I can rarely broach in the vanilla world.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Loneliness at Xmas? Yes.

Using fab to combat it? Errr, no.

I will say, the fab forums do allow me to interact with types of people I don't normally get a chance to, especially on subjects I can rarely broach in the vanilla world. "

Stop wearing your woman's dress!

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness at Xmas? Yes.

Using fab to combat it? Errr, no.

I will say, the fab forums do allow me to interact with types of people I don't normally get a chance to, especially on subjects I can rarely broach in the vanilla world.

Stop wearing your woman's dress!

Ffs

"

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just watching a news report on loneliness, especially at Christmas. The report is focusing on the elderly. But wondering how others interpret being lonely? Do people use Fab to combat their loneliness?

Ali xx"

Nothing wrong with admitting to being lonely. Happily admit that i get lonely a lot of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't use the word loneliness but I do use the forums to chat with others, not because I feel lonely but to have an interaction with people, on subject I wouldn't necessarily talk about in my regular life.

same here :D

Being a lone parent, means my social life with physical people/friends is over when my daughter goes to bed.

Using the internet as a tool makes me feel like i am still interacting with people in some form. "

Snap!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Being alone doesnt always equate to being lonely. You can be surrounded by people on a daily basis and still feel lonely."

Agreed. It's possible to feel very lonely next to someone in a double bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't use the word loneliness but I do use the forums to chat with others, not because I feel lonely but to have an interaction with people, on subject I wouldn't necessarily talk about in my regular life.

same here :D

Being a lone parent, means my social life with physical people/friends is over when my daughter goes to bed.

Using the internet as a tool makes me feel like i am still interacting with people in some form. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I use fab in an attempt to negate my loneliness..... But I have to be honest, it doesn't help and lots of the time it probably makes things worse.

Sob sob xxxx

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By *andorasSecret OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Birmingham

Interesting responses...for me, I'm not sure loneliness is an issue. I enjoy time on my own or at least in my own head. I have however, struggled with self worth and that can be a lonely place, even when those around you 'sing your praises'. I didn't join fab because I was lonely, more so I was very intrugued and somewhat plagued about my idea of sexuality.

And in doing so met someone very special. I guess therefore that every quandary has the possibility of something amazing.

Ali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honestly yes ,reason I joined fab mostly not just the sex just meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being alone doesnt always equate to being lonely. You can be surrounded by people on a daily basis and still feel lonely.

Agreed. It's possible to feel very lonely next to someone in a double bed."

This is so true, and possibly the hardest form of loneliness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend a lot of time on my own, that doesn't mean I'm lonely

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Fab is my TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've brought up 4 kids, hardly had a minute to myself until this past couple of years, love being on my own now. that might change one day.

i use fab as a time pass and place to think about sex and meeting for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've brought up 4 kids, hardly had a minute to myself until this past couple of years, love being on my own now. that might change one day.

i use fab as a time pass and place to think about sex and meeting for sex."

pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've brought up 4 kids, hardly had a minute to myself until this past couple of years, love being on my own now. that might change one day.

i use fab as a time pass and place to think about sex and meeting for sex.

pervert "

says the corrupter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've brought up 4 kids, hardly had a minute to myself until this past couple of years, love being on my own now. that might change one day.

i use fab as a time pass and place to think about sex and meeting for sex.

pervert

says the corrupter. "

surely not

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"i use fab as a time pass and place to think about sex and meeting for sex.

pervert

says the corrupter.

surely not "

Surely yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i use fab as a time pass and place to think about sex and meeting for sex.

pervert

says the corrupter.

surely not

Surely yes "

oh come on 2 on 1. no wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i use fab as a time pass and place to think about sex and meeting for sex.

pervert

says the corrupter.

surely not

Surely yes

oh come on 2 on 1. no wait "

this is exactly what i was referring to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i use fab as a time pass and place to think about sex and meeting for sex.

pervert

says the corrupter.

surely not

Surely yes

oh come on 2 on 1. no wait

this is exactly what i was referring to. "

oh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being alone doesnt always equate to being lonely. You can be surrounded by people on a daily basis and still feel lonely.

Agreed. It's possible to feel very lonely next to someone in a double bed.

This is so true, and possibly the hardest form of loneliness."

yep

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm frequently surrounded by people but often feel lonely. There was a period where I was using meets to escape it but realised that way silly and unfair for all concerned. Now I tend to keep my social life separate. Even stopped the hanky panky with my longest FB and we've become very good friends instead

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