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By *workout OP   Man
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

That Mmm when someone's profile takes your fancy!

So if I send someone a message and it's read and deleted with no reply on assume they're not interested and move on.

If there's no reply for a while but the message is unread I wonder if my message got lost in the deluge of messages women receive and wait a little while before trying again.

Those are my mmms

Do they sound reasonable and what are yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete my sent box after every message.

No need to think then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That Mmm when someone's profile takes your fancy!

So if I send someone a message and it's read and deleted with no reply on assume they're not interested and move on.

If there's no reply for a while but the message is unread I wonder if my message got lost in the deluge of messages women receive and wait a little while before trying again.

Those are my mmms

Do they sound reasonable and what are yours?"

Sometimes I'd imagine your quite right, other times it may be that there isn't really anything to reply to, (hey, how's you? Type msg), or it may be that your profile isn't what he/she is looking for.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it goes unread I don't try again.

Whether it was lost or not doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That Mmm when someone's profile takes your fancy!

So if I send someone a message and it's read and deleted with no reply on assume they're not interested and move on.

If there's no reply for a while but the message is unread I wonder if my message got lost in the deluge of messages women receive and wait a little while before trying again.

Those are my mmms

Do they sound reasonable and what are yours?"

They do sound reasonable. I'm sure I've missed out on chatting to some lovely people due to missing their message, and also lost touch with some over it. There's also some profiles I'll look on, as the catch my attention, then see 'they mailed you two months ago'.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You've seen my box....sometimes it can get very full

I'll have a day where I go through and have a sort out. Sometimes I'll find loads that I never even knew had been sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That Mmm when someone's profile takes your fancy!

So if I send someone a message and it's read and deleted with no reply on assume they're not interested and move on.

If there's no reply for a while but the message is unread I wonder if my message got lost in the deluge of messages women receive and wait a little while before trying again.

Those are my mmms

Do they sound reasonable and what are yours?

They do sound reasonable. I'm sure I've missed out on chatting to some lovely people due to missing their message, and also lost touch with some over it. There's also some profiles I'll look on, as the catch my attention, then see 'they mailed you two months ago'.

"

I'm the same, missed out on some lovely sounding/looking men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know where you are coming from, but we usually ignore our sent messages or delete them.

Saves a lot of stress.

Although we're never sure what to do when we exchange a lot of messages with another profile and discuss meeting, then they go quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That Mmm when someone's profile takes your fancy!

So if I send someone a message and it's read and deleted with no reply on assume they're not interested and move on.

If there's no reply for a while but the message is unread I wonder if my message got lost in the deluge of messages women receive and wait a little while before trying again.

Those are my mmms

Do they sound reasonable and what are yours?"

Simple. Send a message. Delete sent. If no reply, don't bother again.

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By *workout OP   Man
over a year ago

Cradley Heath


"You've seen my box....sometimes it can get very full

I'll have a day where I go through and have a sort out. Sometimes I'll find loads that I never even knew had been sent. "

I was impressed with how full it could get too

In general though it seems a few people delete once sent, a kind of fire and forget tactic. Not a bad one to adopt it seems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Simple. Send a message. Delete sent. If no reply, don't bother again."

This.

Or just don't send messages, that's basically what I do, or don't. You get the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind multiple messages as they sometimes get lost in my inbox.

However there is one guy that sends me a message every minute if i dont reply. With titles such as 'please read'

'Really important'

Thats fucking annoying as shit. Id block him but he provides a source of amusement when im bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally put "not meeting" on your profile. You'll be surprised how much it attracts women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just delete my sent box after every message.

No need to think then "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Simple. Send a message. Delete sent. If no reply, don't bother again.

This.

Or just don't send messages, that's basically what I do, or don't. You get the idea. "

A pretty foolproof and cunning strategy, what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you say catches your eye when scrolling through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That Mmm when someone's profile takes your fancy!

So if I send someone a message and it's read and deleted with no reply on assume they're not interested and move on.

If there's no reply for a while but the message is unread I wonder if my message got lost in the deluge of messages women receive and wait a little while before trying again.

Those are my mmms

Do they sound reasonable and what are yours?"

Agree. Sounds reasonable. Where I am there just aren't huge numbers of women I'd be interested in meeting. Worth making a bit of extra effort with those I am. Not much to lose really. Different for women and couples who have lots to chose from.

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Today I had someone message 5 times in an hour. Did have to message back and ask him to stop. And he replies to that!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

My profile says I delete messages with no effort and to take that as their choice of try hard if really interested or no thanks. If your message had effort I'd assume it's a no thanks. If you're really interested though try another approach a different way in a month?

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