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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Being slim. Having your quim out. Asking for popularity. Having your face on display. If we're going by top fabbed that would be four slightly generalising things that help.

On the forums? Flirting. Wherever possible.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Oh and having a fanny that's not already attached to a cock (or is but not on the site). If you have that you'll do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the forum I think you've got to have a very quick wit and a very thick skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky "

1) Tits and foof

2) If no tits and foof ..... sycophancy and posting on every topic with with comments that offend no one!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Some people are just more attractive to others. And I don't necessarily mean lookswise.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Popularity on here can come and go.

Sought after is not the same as being liked and admired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts."

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts."

What's the number and if one of that number goes UNLOS does someone else get promoted to his position?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

What's the number and if one of that number goes UNLOS does someone else get promoted to his position? "

No they just start chatting to the outcasts till they rejoin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have any strong opinions on anything, apart from telling others to stop being judgemental and to stop seeing everything in black and white terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock."

You ain't one of them. I'm sure others can pick up on the ones who I mean but won't say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Popularity on here can come and go.

Sought after is not the same as being liked and admired.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being flirty and asking for fabs and fafs helps

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

You ain't one of them. I'm sure others can pick up on the ones who I mean but won't say so "

Then don't give them a thought.

I've been on here for 6 years. I've seen the popular people come, and I've seen them go. They're like flies on my Fab experience - noisy but short lived. The ones I have connected with are the only one I care about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People love me because I'm an easy lay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's exactly the same as you'd find in real life if a load of strangers were put in a room together.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock."

There's a big difference between rudeness (which I think does happen, but is generally deserved) and being regularly overlooked (which does happen to a degree). But then, some men are more active than others, so get better engagement.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It's exactly the same as you'd find in real life if a load of strangers were put in a room together."

Naked or dressed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky "

Dunno but when you find out please keep it between you and me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

There's a big difference between rudeness (which I think does happen, but is generally deserved) and being regularly overlooked (which does happen to a degree). But then, some men are more active than others, so get better engagement.

"

I'm regularly overlooked, but you don't hear me moaning. Much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

There's a big difference between rudeness (which I think does happen, but is generally deserved) and being regularly overlooked (which does happen to a degree). But then, some men are more active than others, so get better engagement.

"

The in crowd can be rude and it does get over looked. Anyone else though and all hell kicks off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

There's a big difference between rudeness (which I think does happen, but is generally deserved) and being regularly overlooked (which does happen to a degree). But then, some men are more active than others, so get better engagement.

I'm regularly overlooked, but you don't hear me moaning. Much."

I regularly look at your bum!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

There's a big difference between rudeness (which I think does happen, but is generally deserved) and being regularly overlooked (which does happen to a degree). But then, some men are more active than others, so get better engagement.

I'm regularly overlooked, but you don't hear me moaning. Much."

Pfft! I'm always overlooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lick anyone's arse, it's too much effort to be popular.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

There's a big difference between rudeness (which I think does happen, but is generally deserved) and being regularly overlooked (which does happen to a degree). But then, some men are more active than others, so get better engagement.

I'm regularly overlooked, but you don't hear me moaning. Much.

Pfft! I'm always overlooked.

"

Wear stilts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies: Foof on show,

regular cam users and generally speaking ladies over 30 are far more popular than the younger ladies.

Men: 6 pack, a touch of arrogance, flirty, white knight type.

But that's just my opinion

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't lick anyone's arse, it's too much effort to be popular."

I call it Forimming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't lick anyone's arse, it's too much effort to be popular.

I call it Forimming. "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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What is this popularity you speak of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God knows. It's the same reason football is the most popular sport in the world. There's no real great reason for it. That's just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand your question to be about the site in general as opposed to the forum, though I could undrstand you incorrectly. But with that understanding I'd say that being a single woman on here in a region that is heavily or somewhat heavily populated is a good start. Add to that sexy pictures, especially with their face showing, and you've got a good recipe, if not the winning formula.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't lick anyone's arse, it's too much effort to be popular.

I call it Forimming. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos wise, face and tits as a combo seems to be a winner. Giving people the impression you might have sex with them seems to render people popular on the forums. That little bit of hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your question to be about the site in general as opposed to the forum, though I could undrstand you incorrectly. But with that understanding I'd say that being a single woman on here in a region that is heavily or somewhat heavily populated is a good start. Add to that sexy pictures, especially with their face showing, and you've got a good recipe, if not the winning formula. "

Location definitely plays a part. I uploaded a photo when I was down in London for work once and had changed location, and I got about three times as many messages, fabs and _iews as normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky "

Three things you need to be popular as a single male;

Beard.

Six pack.

Big cock.

Sense of humour.

Thankfully I've got all four.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea what the common denominator is regarding this. When I first joined I just thought some of these people actually knew each other via clubs and socials, hence the familiarity. Now 4 years down the line I just don't know. As Wyrdwoman says, People come and go but there's always a few that stick around. Perhaps a dry wit or an acerbic tongue is needed? I'm just not sure.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Photos wise, face and tits as a combo seems to be a winner. Giving people the impression you might have sex with them seems to render people popular on the forums. That little bit of hope "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this popularity you speak of? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your question to be about the site in general as opposed to the forum, though I could undrstand you incorrectly. But with that understanding I'd say that being a single woman on here in a region that is heavily or somewhat heavily populated is a good start. Add to that sexy pictures, especially with their face showing, and you've got a good recipe, if not the winning formula.

Location definitely plays a part. I uploaded a photo when I was down in London for work once and had changed location, and I got about three times as many messages, fabs and _iews as normal. "

yes - the _iew numbers spike when you visit London village

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"What is this popularity you speak of? "

I don't show my face or boobs often. Can't play this game

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" Perhaps a dry wit or an acerbic tongue is needed? "

It's interesting that you mention that - someone else did as well, and yet I feel that description applies to me, but has recently been counting against me.

I need to borrow Markoh's sixpack...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this popularity you speak of?

I don't show my face or boobs often. Can't play this game "

Aww I don't show my boobies either lol x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

Three things you need to be popular as a single male;

Beard.

Six pack.

Big cock.

Sense of humour.

Thankfully I've got all four.

"

Counting isn't one of them then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's people who have more time to spend on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean forum popular or hot pics popular OP? I think they are mostly very different.

Sense of humour for the first and photoshop for the second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What is this popularity you speak of?

I don't show my face or boobs often. Can't play this game

Aww I don't show my boobies either lol x"

I sometimes offer cleavage. Although my most fabbed picture was of a tray of cupcakes I'd made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo "

I challenge you to do all four in one pic

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Does it really matter at the end of the day? We're all here for our own reasons and to get out of the site what we can in whatever way we choose, and so long as we each individually enjoy doing so (and yeah I know there are those that don't appear to, which I always scratch my head amd wonder why they're here in the first place) then that is what's important.

I know for sure I don't particularly care whether I'm popular or not, just enjoy the site for what it is without seeing it as any kind of popularity contest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your question to be about the site in general as opposed to the forum, though I could undrstand you incorrectly. But with that understanding I'd say that being a single woman on here in a region that is heavily or somewhat heavily populated is a good start. Add to that sexy pictures, especially with their face showing, and you've got a good recipe, if not the winning formula.

Location definitely plays a part. I uploaded a photo when I was down in London for work once and had changed location, and I got about three times as many messages, fabs and _iews as normal.

yes - the _iew numbers spike when you visit London village"

London or another major city helps with upping the _iews. I went to Coventry for work and my inbox went crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Perhaps a dry wit or an acerbic tongue is needed?

It's interesting that you mention that - someone else did as well, and yet I feel that description applies to me, but has recently been counting against me.

I need to borrow Markoh's sixpack...

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You'll do ok as you are me 'andsome

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo "

Combine with all 4 for number one spot?

Flirting, on the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo

I challenge you to do all four in one pic

"

Ha! Well I am a woman & therefore can multitask

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"What is this popularity you speak of?

I don't show my face or boobs often. Can't play this game

Aww I don't show my boobies either lol x

I sometimes offer cleavage. Although my most fabbed picture was of a tray of cupcakes I'd made.

"

I do love a cupcake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't lick anyone's arse, it's too much effort to be popular.

I call it Forimming. "

That one did make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo

Combine with all 4 for number one spot?

Flirting, on the forums? "

If i was you i'd back away from the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo

Combine with all 4 for number one spot?

Flirting, on the forums? "

I know - needs to be a clamp down or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't mind it I am not popular or fated buy lots .

I am just happy being me , and of course Pooches' mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo

I challenge you to do all four in one pic

Ha! Well I am a woman & therefore can multitask "

I look forward to the end product

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo

Combine with all 4 for number one spot?

Flirting, on the forums?

If i was you i'd back away from the thread "

can't see me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't mind it I am not popular or fated buy lots .

I am just happy being me , and of course Pooches' mate "

With a chest like that, how can you not be popular?!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo

Combine with all 4 for number one spot?

Flirting, on the forums?

I know - needs to be a clamp down or something

"

anyone would think such behaviour might lead to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the popular people spend hours and hours and hours chatting. They appear on virtually every thread, post continually, flirt with every man and his dog, are nearly always nicey pie and literally make everybody know their name. I honestly think you can make yourself popular if you want to and have the time to? I also think that popular Forumites are pretty confident people and are very good at expressing themselves well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as being in the top fabbed goes,then I'd have to say being generically good looking n a willingness to get yer fanny oot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Popularity on here can come and go.

Sought after is not the same as being liked and admired.

"

Good point

Popularity can be short lived on here if there's no substance.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I think the popular people spend hours and hours and hours chatting. They appear on virtually every thread, post continually, flirt with every man and his dog, are nearly always nicey pie and literally make everybody know their name. I honestly think you can make yourself popular if you want to and have the time to? I also think that popular Forumites are pretty confident people and are very good at expressing themselves well. "

I only flirt with pooch, are there more hounds on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum wise, people flirting their arses off seems to have some fawning. If it's one of the popular ones then there's a snowball effect.

Photo wise, face pics seem to grace page 1 of hot pics a lot, combine with tits / minge / wanking for a wining combo

Combine with all 4 for number one spot?

Flirting, on the forums?

I know - needs to be a clamp down or something

anyone would think such behaviour might lead to sex "

Eww really? Actual sex? Perverts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

There's a big difference between rudeness (which I think does happen, but is generally deserved) and being regularly overlooked (which does happen to a degree). But then, some men are more active than others, so get better engagement.

I'm regularly overlooked, but you don't hear me moaning. Much.

Pfft! I'm always overlooked.

"

I Wouldn't say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post endlessly on kiss/fuck/avoid, who's on your hotlist, message someone you fancy threads. You may want to gnaw your own face off with boredom but you'll get attention...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't mind it I am not popular or fated buy lots .

I am just happy being me , and of course Pooches' mate

With a chest like that, how can you not be popular?! "
oh my heavens well I am glad you like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the popular people spend hours and hours and hours chatting. They appear on virtually every thread, post continually, flirt with every man and his dog, are nearly always nicey pie and literally make everybody know their name. I honestly think you can make yourself popular if you want to and have the time to? I also think that popular Forumites are pretty confident people and are very good at expressing themselves well.

I only flirt with pooch, are there more hounds on here? "
and pooch is such a flirt too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have to look on this thread to see people chasing each other's tails!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only have to look on this thread to see people chasing each other's tails! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

Four things you need to be popular as a single male;

Beard.

Six pack.

Big cock.

Sense of humour.

Thankfully I've got all four.

Counting isn't one of them then?

"

No idea what you mean.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"You only have to look on this thread to see people chasing each other's tails! "

Sniffing bums too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO "

This

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This "

Thanks lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Perhaps a dry wit or an acerbic tongue is needed?

It's interesting that you mention that - someone else did as well, and yet I feel that description applies to me, but has recently been counting against me.

I need to borrow one of Markoh's shirts...

"

Yup, that'll do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO "

Not sure that's true tbh, even if it's not deliberate. If you're not online much to be noticed, no one will notice you. Pretty much everyone is quickly forgotten if they stop posting or leave, it's the nature of the beast.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" I need to borrow one of Markoh's shirts...

Yup, that'll do it. "

Cheeky git, I'm not going that plain...I have standards you know...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"

Nothing to do with how much time you spend on here IMO

Not sure that's true tbh, even if it's not deliberate. If you're not online much to be noticed, no one will notice you. Pretty much everyone is quickly forgotten if they stop posting or leave, it's the nature of the beast. "

Sorry, I meant in reference to being online for hours on end. Not in general.

People are forgotten? Not with 'those' threads surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady. "

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I need to borrow one of Markoh's shirts...

Yup, that'll do it.

Cheeky git, I'm not going that plain...I have standards you know..."

Pfffffft. Same old tosh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*."

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*."

But if you look at hot photos for instance not many of those are forumites. So how do they get 'noticed'

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!) "

Which one though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no idea, but it usually tends to have boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

But if you look at hot photos for instance not many of those are forumites. So how do they get 'noticed' "

Popularity in hot pics & forums aren't in the same playing field imo.

Hot pics reaches a wider audience than the forums. Lots of different ways (mentioned already) can get a person onto page 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!) "

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough. "

I'm still looking for it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough. "

The table tennis comments perhaps give the impression of a clique. If 4 or 5 people dominate a thread, and others that post are effectively drowned out then they are going to feel ignored. A lot of the ping pong should go into PMs really.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

But if you look at hot photos for instance not many of those are forumites. So how do they get 'noticed'

Popularity in hot pics & forums aren't in the same playing field imo.

Hot pics reaches a wider audience than the forums. Lots of different ways (mentioned already) can get a person onto page 1."

Still...the winning formula is work your profile how you like, spend your time on fa as you wish. We are all marmite after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Which one though? "

there's more than one? feck, now I'm confuddled

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Which one though?

there's more than one? feck, now I'm confuddled "

I know, my brain is fried. Sleep time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough. "

what if you are in it...which is why you can't see it?

actually I was only joking to see what sort of response the comment would get, and who from

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"It's exactly the same as you'd find in real life if a load of strangers were put in a room together."

This sums it up for me, just like the talkative, popular ones in your local pub....yet reveals nothing about the real person, the same for the quieter ones on site......there will be some beautiful people there that we will never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough.

The table tennis comments perhaps give the impression of a clique. If 4 or 5 people dominate a thread, and others that post are effectively drowned out then they are going to feel ignored. A lot of the ping pong should go into PMs really."

But that happens to everyone at some point ( being drowned out, ignored). Different people dominate different threads... That's why I see no clique.. Just banter on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Which one though?

there's more than one? feck, now I'm confuddled "

There's the clique clique and the anti clique clique and the we're too cool to be in a clique clique.

And that's without the cake clique, married guys should be stoned clique, bareback is evil clique.

Fuck it, it's all one clique and we're all in it! Merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

But if you look at hot photos for instance not many of those are forumites. So how do they get 'noticed'

Popularity in hot pics & forums aren't in the same playing field imo.

Hot pics reaches a wider audience than the forums. Lots of different ways (mentioned already) can get a person onto page 1.

Still...the winning formula is work your profile how you like, spend your time on fa as you wish. We are all marmite after all. "

Of course.

I was just musing as to what makes a person popular as per the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Which one though?

there's more than one? feck, now I'm confuddled

There's the clique clique and the anti clique clique and the we're too cool to be in a clique clique.

And that's without the cake clique, married guys should be stoned clique, bareback is evil clique.

Fuck it, it's all one clique and we're all in it! Merry Christmas"

Stop ruining my 'no clique' debate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Which one though?

there's more than one? feck, now I'm confuddled

There's the clique clique and the anti clique clique and the we're too cool to be in a clique clique.

And that's without the cake clique, married guys should be stoned clique, bareback is evil clique.

Fuck it, it's all one clique and we're all in it! Merry Christmas

Stop ruining my 'no clique' debate! "

Cliquist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough.

The table tennis comments perhaps give the impression of a clique. If 4 or 5 people dominate a thread, and others that post are effectively drowned out then they are going to feel ignored. A lot of the ping pong should go into PMs really.

But that happens to everyone at some point ( being drowned out, ignored). Different people dominate different threads... That's why I see no clique.. Just banter on the forums. "

Agreed. It's how you feel about being drowned out whether you see a clique or not. Some will take it on the chin and move on, others will take umberage and see a conspiracy.

In all fairness, you don't see the,pack mentality you used to see on this forum.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

But if you look at hot photos for instance not many of those are forumites. So how do they get 'noticed'

Popularity in hot pics & forums aren't in the same playing field imo.

Hot pics reaches a wider audience than the forums. Lots of different ways (mentioned already) can get a person onto page 1.

Still...the winning formula is work your profile how you like, spend your time on fa as you wish. We are all marmite after all.

Of course.

I was just musing as to what makes a person popular as per the OP."

I don't think we will ever know the answer. A bit like school right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough.

The table tennis comments perhaps give the impression of a clique. If 4 or 5 people dominate a thread, and others that post are effectively drowned out then they are going to feel ignored. A lot of the ping pong should go into PMs really."

A clique isn't necessarily a bad thing, it's a pretty normal occurrence amongst a group of people.

I agree re some of the ping pong comments should go to a pm. I've been guilty of it too but I do try not to carry it on throughout the thread as it pisses me off when I read others...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Which one though?

there's more than one? feck, now I'm confuddled

There's the clique clique and the anti clique clique and the we're too cool to be in a clique clique.

And that's without the cake clique, married guys should be stoned clique, bareback is evil clique.

Fuck it, it's all one clique and we're all in it! Merry Christmas"

Don't stoned the married men please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

1) Tits and foof

2) If no tits and foof ..... sycophancy and posting on every topic with with comments that offend no one!

"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As I said further up before getting lost in my cloak of invisibility (and yes my tongue is firmly in my cheek!!)

Does it really matter so long as each individual is getting what they want out of the site? I know I am and really couldn't give too hoots as to who is "popular" or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough.

The table tennis comments perhaps give the impression of a clique. If 4 or 5 people dominate a thread, and others that post are effectively drowned out then they are going to feel ignored. A lot of the ping pong should go into PMs really.

But that happens to everyone at some point ( being drowned out, ignored). Different people dominate different threads... That's why I see no clique.. Just banter on the forums.

Agreed. It's how you feel about being drowned out whether you see a clique or not. Some will take it on the chin and move on, others will take umberage and see a conspiracy.

In all fairness, you don't see the,pack mentality you used to see on this forum."

That's because most people lick each other's arse's to come across more popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough.

The table tennis comments perhaps give the impression of a clique. If 4 or 5 people dominate a thread, and others that post are effectively drowned out then they are going to feel ignored. A lot of the ping pong should go into PMs really.

But that happens to everyone at some point ( being drowned out, ignored). Different people dominate different threads... That's why I see no clique.. Just banter on the forums.

Agreed. It's how you feel about being drowned out whether you see a clique or not. Some will take it on the chin and move on, others will take umberage and see a conspiracy.

In all fairness, you don't see the,pack mentality you used to see on this forum.

That's because most people lick each other's arse's to come across more popular "

*sluuuuuurp...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"As I said further up before getting lost in my cloak of invisibility (and yes my tongue is firmly in my cheek!!)

Does it really matter so long as each individual is getting what they want out of the site? I know I am and really couldn't give too hoots as to who is "popular" or not"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Which one though?

there's more than one? feck, now I'm confuddled

There's the clique clique and the anti clique clique and the we're too cool to be in a clique clique.

And that's without the cake clique, married guys should be stoned clique, bareback is evil clique.

Fuck it, it's all one clique and we're all in it! Merry Christmas

Don't stoned the married men please "

no intentions here - I'm not into the bdsm stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts."

Well u seem to be a hit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

What's the number and if one of that number goes UNLOS does someone else get promoted to his position? "

It's a long waiting list. It's like dead mans shoes syndrome....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows what makes anyone popular. Just be yourself, people can like you or not.

Flash the photos you want, whatever, it is your body.

Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

This

Thanks lady.

I'm not so sure..::

Logic applies that the more you're on here, join in, converse with people the better known you'll become, especially if you start threads.

However, there has to be something else that makes a person deemed to be *popular*.

yes....its called being in the clique (obviously!)

Everybody talks about this clique, but I honestly don't see one. I see others who get on well with each other, so table tennis comment back and forth, but that's about it... Perhaps I'm just not looking hard enough.

The table tennis comments perhaps give the impression of a clique. If 4 or 5 people dominate a thread, and others that post are effectively drowned out then they are going to feel ignored. A lot of the ping pong should go into PMs really.

But that happens to everyone at some point ( being drowned out, ignored). Different people dominate different threads... That's why I see no clique.. Just banter on the forums.

Agreed. It's how you feel about being drowned out whether you see a clique or not. Some will take it on the chin and move on, others will take umberage and see a conspiracy.

In all fairness, you don't see the,pack mentality you used to see on this forum."

I see your point. Perhaps it's just my perception. You have people who have met in real life, or are planning on meeting, or like each other etc... So I see the commenting back and forth as quite a natural thing. People like to comment on the ones they like. I can understand that others may sometimes feel a little sidelined as a result and see a clique mentality. I just see it as friends interacting.

I also agree that the forums are a lot more welcoming than yesteryear. There was a very strong hierarchy attitude back then .

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over a year ago

I think the cliques are only apparent because of the relatively small number of people who use the forums. If more people realised the value of the forums and used them regularly then the cliques themselves would be downed out by the sheer volume of posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky "

Popularity is about perception. Some people may believe themselves to be popular but not be. Some people may feel unpopular but in reality be admired by many.

In all walks of life those who are considered to be physically attractive have a head start in the popularity stakes if they are also willing to make the effort to maintain interest, fab is no different.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

There's a lot of pixels here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

photogenic tits.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


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Nothing to do with who how much time you spend on here IMO

Not sure that's true tbh, even if it's not deliberate. If you're not online much to be noticed, no one will notice you. Pretty much everyone is quickly forgotten if they stop posting or leave, it's the nature of the beast. "

Exactly. And popular in the forum community and popular on hot pics are two different things, the latter is semi-professional in some cases lol.....actually the former seems that way at times too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got an awful lot of ass kissing to do if popularity's your goal.

And they're a broad range of arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

You ain't one of them. I'm sure others can pick up on the ones who I mean but won't say so "

I never understand a grown man (or woman) engaging is these petty little games of "ohh not naming names but...."

Either have the balls to stand behind what you say or don't say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I'll have another drink

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I believe I'll have another drink "

I might have to join you

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over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

Popularity is about perception. Some people may believe themselves to be popular but not be. Some people may feel unpopular but in reality be admired by many.

In all walks of life those who are considered to be physically attractive have a head start in the popularity stakes if they are also willing to make the effort to maintain interest, fab is no different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people."

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

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over a year ago


"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular "

Erm...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular "

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like. "

I like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like.

I like your style "

I think we have found our niche ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People love me because I'm an easy lay "

Fantastic, made me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like.

I like your style

I think we have found our niche ladies "

We need a team name...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like. "

I'm a bit of a cunt too, I do find that my cuntishness often goes over heads. I like the way you work Meli

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, OK. This has taken an interesting turn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, OK. This has taken an interesting turn. "

In what way? (genuine question as I find behaviour fascinating).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, OK. This has taken an interesting turn. "

Forimming?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Hmmmm, OK. This has taken an interesting turn. "

Interesting but predictable. Those who feel posts apply to them will take small amount of umbrage and post to suggest otherwise. Those who don't fit the aforementioned popular definition will say why not. Or is there a turn I missed out?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like.

I like your style

I think we have found our niche ladies

We need a team name..."

Team MAC. One, it's decent makeup. Two, it's an acronym for Mostly A Cunt. Three, it has associations with cheese.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really. The hot pics is a different league.

I'm not forum popular, but my inbox does ok and i don't meet from the forums anyway due to distance.

I think if you are flamboyant, charming, flirtatious and outwardly appear to be fun then yes of course you'll be popular, because those types naturally have people gravitate towards them anyway because they make others feel good.

That doesn't mean other forum users aren't as appealing, just you have to put in effort to get to know them and their hidden depths, that takes time and effort and a lot of people can't be arsed with that. Or they are a bit intimidating.

I dunno. It's early and i've not had a tea yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like.

I like your style

I think we have found our niche ladies

We need a team name...

Team MAC. One, it's decent makeup. Two, it's an acronym for Mostly A Cunt. Three, it has associations with cheese."

impressive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends really. The hot pics is a different league.

I'm not forum popular, but my inbox does ok and i don't meet from the forums anyway due to distance.

I think if you are flamboyant, charming, flirtatious and outwardly appear to be fun then yes of course you'll be popular, because those types naturally have people gravitate towards them anyway because they make others feel good.

That doesn't mean other forum users aren't as appealing, just you have to put in effort to get to know them and their hidden depths, that takes time and effort and a lot of people can't be arsed with that. Or they are a bit intimidating.

I dunno. It's early and i've not had a tea yet.

"

I'd agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be yourself and let the real you shine through -

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Being Welsh seems to be a sure fire way to improve popularity!

With notable exceptions..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the popular people, get your arses round here now for a huge naughty towers love in

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like.

I like your style

I think we have found our niche ladies

We need a team name...

Team MAC. One, it's decent makeup. Two, it's an acronym for Mostly A Cunt. Three, it has associations with cheese.

impressive!"

I like words. Plus, being helpful to the pretty posters means I can feel popular by association.

(If the tongue in cheek nature of that comment doesn't come across I may have committed my first ever act of fabicide - although it's only on the forum so won't make a blind bit of difference to my actual fab experience)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like.

I like your style

I think we have found our niche ladies

We need a team name...

Team MAC. One, it's decent makeup. Two, it's an acronym for Mostly A Cunt. Three, it has associations with cheese."

You had me at cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being Welsh seems to be a sure fire way to improve popularity!

With notable exceptions.."

Yeah cheers

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Ah hey it's all bollocks anyway. It would be nice to be popular, but then I'd have to be nice to people and I don't really like people.

I'm too sarcastic to be popular

Nah, you flirt enough. You do fine, don't worry. I'll stick to being a bit of a cunt most of the time and nice to those I like.

I like your style

I think we have found our niche ladies

We need a team name...

Team MAC. One, it's decent makeup. Two, it's an acronym for Mostly A Cunt. Three, it has associations with cheese.

impressive!

I like words. Plus, being helpful to the pretty posters means I can feel popular by association.

(If the tongue in cheek nature of that comment doesn't come across I may have committed my first ever act of fabicide - although it's only on the forum so won't make a blind bit of difference to my actual fab experience)"

Thank you! Perfect name. The only bad thing is I want a cheese toastie now. I think you deserve honorary membership at the very least for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, OK. This has taken an interesting turn.

In what way? (genuine question as I find behaviour fascinating)."

I wasn't expecting to define my point more, as I expected my comment to be overlooked.

I kind of meant that judging by some of the posts, and the posters, it maybe shows that if you don't care about being liked, and just beat your own path, you can build up a bit of a following.

I think I'll back away quietly...

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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago

Nice shoes

Who wants to be popular anyway?? Geek is chic

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Brits normally build someone to be popular and then turn on them.

Who would fucking want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brits normally build someone to be popular and then turn on them.

Who would fucking want it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, OK. This has taken an interesting turn.

In what way? (genuine question as I find behaviour fascinating).

I wasn't expecting to define my point more, as I expected my comment to be overlooked.

I kind of meant that judging by some of the posts, and the posters, it maybe shows that if you don't care about being liked, and just beat your own path, you can build up a bit of a following.

I think I'll back away quietly... "

Ah thank you, that's an interesting pov

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky "

Googly eyes on your penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I think someone said above ^^^^

Be yourself ...if you want to be popular ..... haven't a clue how you would do that as I like to hide in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brits normally build someone to be popular and then turn on them.

Who would fucking want it."

Word.

Thought I'd throw that yoof slang in because I know you love it so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

Googly eyes on your penis "

Iv googly eyes on yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of interest over my pics. Guys saying they are tasteful and classy. same ones fab over and over. But I'm not so easy to get a meet. But they appreciate the honesty and its nice they think I'm a lady.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Hmmmm, OK. This has taken an interesting turn.

In what way? (genuine question as I find behaviour fascinating).

I wasn't expecting to define my point more, as I expected my comment to be overlooked.

I kind of meant that judging by some of the posts, and the posters, it maybe shows that if you don't care about being liked, and just beat your own path, you can build up a bit of a following.

I think I'll back away quietly... "

No, don't do that. It's an interesting way of looking at it.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Brits normally build someone to be popular and then turn on them.

Who would fucking want it.

Word.

Thought I'd throw that yoof slang in because I know you love it so much. "

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

Googly eyes on your penis "

I would have said that a heart shaped head on the penis, would work better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky "

Simple....

Just be yourself.

Unless you can be Batman, in which case always be Batman.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Popularity on here can come and go.

Sought after is not the same as being liked and admired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

You ain't one of them. I'm sure others can pick up on the ones who I mean but won't say so

I never understand a grown man (or woman) engaging is these petty little games of "ohh not naming names but...."

Either have the balls to stand behind what you say or don't say it"

I did that before. Never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

Googly eyes on your penis

I would have said that a heart shaped head on the penis, would work better "
That hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes people so popular on here or shall I say more popular than others? I seem to think single ladies profiles do very well ( more than others) as it's normally their pictures that appear top in the hot pics section. So what do you think the "winning formula" is ?

Kinky

Googly eyes on your penis

I would have said that a heart shaped head on the penis, would work better "

I love hearts, so I'm with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well only a certain amount of single guys can be popular. All the others get treated like outcasts.

By whom? I've never been able to muster up the effort to be rude to someone just because they have a cock.

You ain't one of them. I'm sure others can pick up on the ones who I mean but won't say so

I never understand a grown man (or woman) engaging is these petty little games of "ohh not naming names but...."

Either have the balls to stand behind what you say or don't say it

I did that before. Never again "

Sometimes you don't need to say, others will draw their own conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just buy Santa breakfast & ur wish to be popular will be granted that's the secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, OK. This has taken an interesting turn.

In what way? (genuine question as I find behaviour fascinating).

I wasn't expecting to define my point more, as I expected my comment to be overlooked.

I kind of meant that judging by some of the posts, and the posters, it maybe shows that if you don't care about being liked, and just beat your own path, you can build up a bit of a following.

I think I'll back away quietly...

No, don't do that. It's an interesting way of looking at it. "

Thanks

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

And better late than never, enters the most popular person on fab, and the whole world xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Animal magnetism.

Or possibly having the last word!

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