FabSwingers.com forum: What is sex to you?

By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It can't just be (for men) putting bits of yourself in ladies and then taking them out again quite fast and then putting them back in again, surely?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It can't just be (for men) putting bits of yourself in ladies and then taking them out again quite fast and then putting them back in again, surely? "

Bloody hope not. That would be boring as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about a fucking good connection for moi.

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Staines

To me, having sex is about discovering the other person's body for the human body is a beautiful thing and everyone has a different body. It is also about understanding their sensual needs, and I find providing it can be quite euphoric for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex to me is touching. Caressing. Kissing. Exploring with the tongue and the mind. Giving each other enjoyment. Have rough sex. Sensual sex. Orgasm. Then lay in each others arms. Sleep then start all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, sex is me giving myself to someone

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"For me, sex is me giving myself to someone"
like a Christmas card.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. I enjoy animalistic sex with strangers, but also love experimental sex with those I've connected with and trust.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"To me, having sex is about discovering the other person's body for the human body is a beautiful thing and everyone has a different body. It is also about understanding their sensual needs, and I find providing it can be quite euphoric for me. "

That's a really good description

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It can't just be (for men) putting bits of yourself in ladies and then taking them out again quite fast and then putting them back in again, surely?

Bloody hope not. That would be boring as hell."
maybe with a little wriggle now and then.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

I'd definitely buy that!

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

I'd definitely buy that!"

I wonder if there are pop up picture versions available.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, sex is me giving myself to someone like a Christmas card. "

Yeah but a really nice one, like a snow scene one with glitter

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

I'd definitely buy that!

I wonder if there are pop up picture versions available....."

You'd have someone's eye out!

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

I'd definitely buy that!

I wonder if there are pop up picture versions available....."

Speak to your publisher 'wink, wink!' Just don't put someones eye out

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

I'd definitely buy that!

I wonder if there are pop up picture versions available.....

You'd have someone's eye out!"

Eye, eye...snap

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

To me sex is like a high, not that I've ever done drugs but I love the buzz you get after sex that happy feeling

Best anti depressant out there

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Connection and exploration x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex?

A pain in the ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

I'll take three please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just something I have to do before I get a cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

I'll take three please

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....

Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..

What bits to put in, where and when...

'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'

Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works

I'll take three please

The book should have those cardboard sliding things to make the pop-uos move, maybe to some music like J'Taime or Love to love you Baby....this book will be a sell out

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Naked body exploring for starters sounds good. Sweet dreams for me

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Bloody typical, give the OP a cracking bookselling idea and he goes to bed!

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Bloody typical, give the OP a cracking bookselling idea and he goes to bed!

It's 10.30pm zzzzzzZzzzzzZzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex to me is letting go of one's unihibitations and the restraints of societies expectations.

It's about living in the moment of bliss and passion. It's about skin on skin. It's about the pleasure of everyone involved and the ecstacy of a fantastic sex session.

It's about being horny as hell!

Eve. X

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

It's the anticipation and the build up to something beautiful.....

if it stays like that then you've cracked it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I master myself and I don't respond to my instinctual drives, I see Sex as

A unique connection between two people in a specific given moment. It is about sensuality, sensitivity, intensity, firmness as well as finess.

Sex is about feelings, not perfoming.

Sex doesn't confine to genitals only.

It is like a sensuous art to me, I see it as two bodies dancing in rhythm with each other, on a melody, only they can hear.

Two naked lovers, using each other as blankets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An exchange of an amazing energy and good vibes with orgasms as a non-always essential accompaniment.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Relaxation, sport, play, relief, excitement; vital to happiness.

Something like that

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley

When a mummy and a daddy love each other very much they have a special hug.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

ha a big game of sex on here or dogging or clubs .or house meets ect.or the most amazing feeling between people that love and care about each other in private .

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

This...

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"Sex to me is touching. Caressing. Kissing. Exploring with the tongue and the mind. Giving each other enjoyment. Have rough sex. Sensual sex. Orgasm. Then lay in each others arms. Sleep then start all over again "

And this also ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I master myself and I don't respond to my instinctual drives, I see Sex as

A unique connection between two people in a specific given moment. It is about sensuality, sensitivity, intensity, firmness as well as finess.

Sex is about feelings, not perfoming.

Sex doesn't confine to genitals only.

It is like a sensuous art to me, I see it as two bodies dancing in rhythm with each other, on a melody, only they can hear.

Two naked lovers, using each other as blankets.

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like the sound of this

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Yes must agree with you,you must give a lot of pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me having sex involves intimacy, closeness, pleasure, self expression, trust and that wonderful feeling of being wanted and needed and attractive. It honestly makes me feel so good about life and definitely relieves stress.

I love the excitement, the tingling and aching body hunger I feel: the ultimate body sense high.

I've had some shit shags though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is.......a steam train hurtling into a darkened tunnel. Waves crashing on the shingle. A rocket exploding into the sky. Followed by a chimney stack crashing to the ground. All in black and white. But then my real name is Sven and I'm full of angst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A distant dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't know, but these song lyrics sum up a lot:

Recollect me darling raise me to your lips

Two undernourished egos four rotating hips

Hold on to me tightly I'm a sliding scale

Can't endure then you can't inhale

Clearly

Out of body experience interferes

And dreams of flying I fit nearly

Surrounds me though I get lonely

Slowly

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Getting lost in someone else hopefully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's that nasty thing I have to do with a girl for a few minutes before I can have a fag and a fucking good sleep.....

Or, it's a mental spiritual and emotional connection between two like minded human beings.

It's a sensation.

It's a breathless anticipation.

It's something that makes my pulse race and my heart beat like a hammer.

It's sometimes spontaneous, frequently planned but rarely goes to plan.

It's something that feels like nothing else on earth......

It's moreish.

It's intense, but it's often accompanied by both laughter and tears.

It's something to share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The connection, and merging of two to become one. Highly erotic and sensual. the initial penetration can take your breath away a little, then the rhythmic movements which attunes you to the others movements, and the physical pleasure derived from the act. That's sex to me

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Most people seem to be talking about ideal sex...

Sex and what it means for me has changed over the years...

An awkward, rubbish fumbling with someone where there is a real mental/spiritual connection will always be more memorable than a great shag where you think yeah! Wow but not for me in the long term....

There is great sex in the swinging community but sex accompanied by love, well I do not think it can be compared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people seem to be talking about ideal sex...

Sex and what it means for me has changed over the years...

There is great sex in the swinging community but sex accompanied by love, well I do not think it can be compared"

Best comment so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do none of you just have a quick fuck anymore? All this spiritual meeting of minds and perfectly in wonderous harmony with each other's bodies as you soar together towards elysium is nice and all, but sometimes sex is just a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Becoming less important

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Do none of you just have a quick fuck anymore? All this spiritual meeting of minds and perfectly in wonderous harmony with each other's bodies as you soar together towards elysium is nice and all, but sometimes sex is just a fuck."

Like a quick bend me over and fuck me then fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed Ruby. Let the animal inside take over and fuck like you depend on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who I'm with as to what sex means to me.

What I feel or desire from one person won't be the same as from another.

That's one of the reasons why I'm on here, vive le difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a great man once said, it's just a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends I guess, sometimes as said above, esp in a club, it can just be a quick shag. Othertimes it's a whole different scenario with bondage, cane and ball gag etc.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering I only have sex with my partner, and our time is scarce with the little one, we make the most of the time we do have when we are free... And it's never a quick fuck

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Hell yeah........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting your rocks off and having a laugh. Unless you're in lurve when it gets all deep and meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried it, didnt you like it?? What does it mean for you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting your rocks off and having a laugh. Unless you're in lurve when it gets all deep and meaningful

Even with luuuuurrrve, it's sometimes nice to just have a quick fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Euphoria.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Too big a question to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with feelings exposed , id rather put it, because love is a social construct when all is said and done sure , trust, belonging mutual attraction empathy are able to sustain being together and we all agree there is nothing quite like sex after making up following a quarrel, . Love and sex, implies some spiritual attainment which lets face it we can all look forward to surplus of ,when were dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting your rocks off and having a laugh. Unless you're in lurve when it gets all deep and meaningful

Even with luuuuurrrve, it's sometimes nice to just have a quick fuck. "

It is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lost far too often for comfort these days

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

" Sex with feelings exposed , id rather put it, because love is a social construct when all is said and done sure , trust, belonging mutual attraction empathy are able to sustain being together and we all agree there is nothing quite like sex after making up following a quarrel, . Love and sex, implies some spiritual attainment which lets face it we can all look forward to surplus of ,when were dead!"

I think love is shorthand for all the feelings you describe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and go does me lol

None of that feelings crap.

Have to be attracted to them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/12/16 10:08:35]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this! why can't swinging sex be intense and passionate, you need a strong chemistry for awesome sex!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"For me having sex involves intimacy, closeness, pleasure, self expression, trust and that wonderful feeling of being wanted and needed and attractive. It honestly makes me feel so good about life and definitely relieves stress.

I love the excitement, the tingling and aching body hunger I feel: the ultimate body sense high.

I've had some shit shags though

Definetly this and we've all had shit shags xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the excitement, the tingling and aching body hunger I feel: the ultimate body sense high.

I've had some shit shags though

Definetly this and we've all had shit shags xx"

Not me, Ive never had a shit shag

-Mr

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The best use of time for two+ inclined people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything is about sex, except sex, sex is about power".

. Frank Underwood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its alright I suppose

passes a few hours

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Its alright I suppose

passes a few hours

If I didn't know you better I'd say you were a tad underwhelmed by it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its alright I suppose

passes a few hours

If I didn't know you better I'd say you were a tad underwhelmed by it all

It gets in the way of my soaps

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"It can't just be (for men) putting bits of yourself in ladies and then taking them out again quite fast and then putting them back in again, surely? "

Sounds like you're describing the hokey y.

In out , in out, shake it all about ...

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the excitement, the tingling and aching body hunger I feel: the ultimate body sense high.

I've had some shit shags though

Definetly this and we've all had shit shags xx"

I've never had a shit shag but it's possible I've been a shit shag.

But not as shit as Steve.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

[Removed by poster at 20/12/16 11:36:16]

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Extrated from my profile:

" SEX?

It's not just sex. It's the music of an ORGASM, nude bodies mixed in a room, tongues exploring every hidden angle, open mouths searching for others in obscene MOANS, sperm drops sliding over the wet skin, feel oneself ALIVE!

PASSION is my drive, my virtue...my curse. I will adore you, possess you, devour you... "

Adrian

^ bunny boiler

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Extracted from my profile:

" SEX?

PASSION is my drive, my virtue...my curse. I will adore you, possess you, devour you... "

Any question...?

Adrian

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Fantastic replies. Very illuminating.

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