FabSwingers.com forum: Closing our eyes

By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Giving away secrets tut tut

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It would have been kinder if you said you were counting the veins in your eyelids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I close my eyes so I think he can't see the wrinkles. Hahahahahaha. Silly cow its him thst needs to close them. I do it for him lol

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"I close my eyes so I think he can't see the wrinkles. Hahahahahaha. Silly cow its him thst needs to close them. I do it for him lol "

Haha wrinkles what wrinkles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about anyone else but I can't cum with my eyes open. A bit like sneezing

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Don't know about anyone else but I can't cum with my eyes open. A bit like sneezing

I'm, not sure if I do or don't... I'll remember to open my eyes next time and see of there's a noticeable difference.

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"Don't know about anyone else but I can't cum with my eyes open. A bit like sneezing

Same here hence he asked and got my reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know about anyone else but I can't cum with my eyes open. A bit like sneezing

Yes I know what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I close my eyes so I think he can't see the wrinkles. Hahahahahaha. Silly cow its him thst needs to close them. I do it for him lol

Haha wrinkles what wrinkles

On my face. They are there. I know lol. He laughs at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know about anyone else but I can't cum with my eyes open. A bit like sneezing

I'm, not sure if I do or don't... I'll remember to open my eyes next time and see of there's a noticeable difference. "

I only know because I met someone who demanded eye contact all the time and was left disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closing your eyes enhances all your other senses. It could be that.

In my case I think its the 'if I close my eyes I cant see you, therefor I can't see your reaction to seeing me

I have them open if the lights are dim though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I close my eyes when I cum on my own so I don't squirt it in my eyes .... as doing it during sex I like to keep them open so I can see what's happening, unless it's a very intense orgasm then I don't know what the fuck I'm doing

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

People close their eyes while kissing to allow the brain to properly focus on the task in hand, psychologists have said.

A study on vision and tactile sensory experience at Royal Holloway, University of London, concluded the brain finds it difficult to process another sense while also concentrating on the visual stimuli.

Cognitive psychologists Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy found “tactile [sense of touch] awareness depends on the level of perceptual load in a concurrent visual task".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People close their eyes while kissing to allow the brain to properly focus on the task in hand, psychologists have said.

Cognitive psychologists Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy found “tactile [sense of touch] awareness depends on the level of perceptual load in a concurrent visual task".

Lifted from the independent

Yes, and at the risk of hijacking the thread, that's part of the reason those with autism struggle to make eye contact and listen to people at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People close their eyes while kissing to allow the brain to properly focus on the task in hand, psychologists have said.

Cognitive psychologists Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy found “tactile [sense of touch] awareness depends on the level of perceptual load in a concurrent visual task".

Lifted from the independent

Yes, and at the risk of hijacking the thread, that's part of the reason those with autism struggle to make eye contact and listen to people at the same time. "

That makes perfect sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I close mine because it makes me tense when a guy keeps looking at ur eyes dureing sex .. who wants states at .when there trying to enjoy thereselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People close their eyes while kissing to allow the brain to properly focus on the task in hand, psychologists have said.

Cognitive psychologists Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy found “tactile [sense of touch] awareness depends on the level of perceptual load in a concurrent visual task".

Lifted from the independent

Yes, and at the risk of hijacking the thread, that's part of the reason those with autism struggle to make eye contact and listen to people at the same time.

That makes perfect sense

Doesn't make sense to a lot of people unfortunately

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"People close their eyes while kissing to allow the brain to properly focus on the task in hand, psychologists have said.

Cognitive psychologists Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy found “tactile [sense of touch] awareness depends on the level of perceptual load in a concurrent visual task".

Lifted from the independent

Yes, and at the risk of hijacking the thread, that's part of the reason those with autism struggle to make eye contact and listen to people at the same time.

That makes perfect sense

Doesn't make sense to a lot of people unfortunately

I guess she did not get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being stared at too intently during sex, i get a bit shy about it, so i kiss them to distract them. My eyes closed. Sometimes i open my eyes to take a peek at them only to find they are still looking at me.

It gives me the nervous giggles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People close their eyes while kissing to allow the brain to properly focus on the task in hand, psychologists have said.

Cognitive psychologists Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy found “tactile [sense of touch] awareness depends on the level of perceptual load in a concurrent visual task".

Lifted from the independent

Yes, and at the risk of hijacking the thread, that's part of the reason those with autism struggle to make eye contact and listen to people at the same time.

That makes perfect sense

Doesn't make sense to a lot of people unfortunately

It's maybe hard sometimes for people to remember that something which comes naturally to them can be really difficult for someone else...I know I'm probably guilty of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People close their eyes while kissing to allow the brain to properly focus on the task in hand, psychologists have said.

Cognitive psychologists Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy found “tactile [sense of touch] awareness depends on the level of perceptual load in a concurrent visual task".

Lifted from the independent

Yes, and at the risk of hijacking the thread, that's part of the reason those with autism struggle to make eye contact and listen to people at the same time.

That makes perfect sense

Doesn't make sense to a lot of people unfortunately

It's maybe hard sometimes for people to remember that something which comes naturally to them can be really difficult for someone else...I know I'm probably guilty of that. "

Oh of course I don't expect people to be mind readers, and I don't take it personally. It's just frustrating when no matter how I explain it, it doesn't make sense to some, that's more my point.

But anyway, yes just discussing this with the Mrs and always closes her eyes when she orgasms.

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

It seem to be all in the same boat

Closing eyes are the way to enjoy ourselves not just hating to see the guys enjoying it and having fun then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seem to be all in the same boat

Closing eyes are the way to enjoy ourselves not just hating to see the guys enjoying it and having fun then

I will add that I enjoy eye contact from a woman when I'm getting a blow job. Not sure why exactly, but I love it.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I've always found making, never mind maintaining, eye contact in social situations quite excruciating ... it nearly always makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and panicked, and I have to trust someone a *lot* before I feel relaxed about it. Paradoxically however, although I appreciate closing your eyes during sex (or indeed being blindfolded and having that sense cut off) I do actually find lots of eye contact very very hot and will therefore make myself open my eyes even when my first instinct is to shut them to take advantage of that sensation.

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"I've always found making, never mind maintaining, eye contact in social situations quite excruciating ... it nearly always makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and panicked, and I have to trust someone a *lot* before I feel relaxed about it. Paradoxically however, although I appreciate closing your eyes during sex (or indeed being blindfolded and having that sense cut off) I do actually find lots of eye contact very very hot and will therefore make myself open my eyes even when my first instinct is to shut them to take advantage of that sensation. "

In some situation eye contact is very important but in the case of you concentrating on pleasure givin closing your eyes make it more intense beside the fact who want see a man enjoying himself anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will admit, us men pull weird faces when we are enjoying ourselves

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

But that's it - I like watching their faces

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

But that's it - I like watching their faces

Well the eyes is not going to be shut during the whole session it is more when you are just about to orgasm as you feel so intense and you can see their expiration in between so win win situation

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

Laughing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

Oh comepletely. The cum face is hysterically funny! Laughing is not the best thing to do when a guy's about to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

Oh comepletely. The cum face is hysterically funny! Laughing is not the best thing to do when a guy's about to cum

Completely*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

Oh comepletely. The cum face is hysterically funny! Laughing is not the best thing to do when a guy's about to cum

Completely*"

Hence why I enjoy taking a woman from behind. Not only can I look at the fabulous arse, she don't have to put through with my orgasm face

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

Oh comepletely. The cum face is hysterically funny! Laughing is not the best thing to do when a guy's about to cum

Completely*

Hence why I enjoy taking a woman from behind. Not only can I look at the fabulous arse, she don't have to put through with my orgasm face"

I like that

That is a man that know his place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

I thought it was so you could think that brad pit was inside you rather than your hubby? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

I thought it was so you could think that brad pit was inside you rather than your hubby? ??"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Hubby asking me why women close their eyes during love making or sex so I said because we hate to see the man enjoying themselves

Was I right in saying that

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I close my eyes ...because I'm enjoying the moment

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"I close my eyes ...because I'm enjoying the moment "

That is indeed as my hubby to me better than 10 of Brad Pitt

Not a dreamer here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I close my eyes ...because I'm enjoying the moment

That is indeed as my hubby to me better than 10 of Brad Pitt

Not a dreamer here

Good save

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"I close my eyes ...because I'm enjoying the moment

That is indeed as my hubby to me better than 10 of Brad Pitt

Not a dreamer here

Good save

Cheers

merry

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I like to see her eyes dilate as she orgasms, massive turn on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to see her eyes dilate as she orgasms, massive turn on...

You do have a point.

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"I like to see her eyes dilate as she orgasms, massive turn on...

You do have a point. "

Well we are malti tasked but when it come to orgasms I am afraid eyes shut for me

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