FabSwingers.com forum: Out of place...

By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm currently sitting in the Barbers round from the office... the funny looks I'm getting are hilarious.

I have a massive amount of hair so I got an undercut done a while ago...it's the best thing ever but no-one would ever guess that half my hair is missing.

So the men in here clearly think I'm not in the right place and the barber has just decided to put a pattern in for me... bargain fiver hairdo! Win!

Where's the last place you felt out of place?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Hmmm. Hanley in Stoke. My accent and colouring mean I can stick out like a sore thumb and I get old dears asking to touch my hair and where am I from.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Planet Earth. I generally feel out of place wherever I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In an night out with staffs, as I don't drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Planet Earth. I generally feel out of place wherever I am."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pubs generally

Specifically a school reunion earlier in the year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always out of place, but the most extreme recent example was at swingers social a few weeks back

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Planet Earth. I generally feel out of place wherever I am."

For me I term it as out of place in 'this life'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Planet Earth. I generally feel out of place wherever I am.

For me I term it as out of place in 'this life'

Oh, how do you mean?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Planet Earth. I generally feel out of place wherever I am.

For me I term it as out of place in 'this life'

I see it as just the way I am. I've learned to embrace it as much as I can. Though at times it can be a bit of a pain in the arse.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Planet Earth. I generally feel out of place wherever I am.

For me I term it as out of place in 'this life'

Oh, how do you mean? "

Just don't fit in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm currently sitting in the Barbers round from the office... the funny looks I'm getting are hilarious.

I have a massive amount of hair so I got an undercut done a while ago...it's the best thing ever but no-one would ever guess that half my hair is missing.

So the men in here clearly think I'm not in the right place and the barber has just decided to put a pattern in for me... bargain fiver hairdo! Win!

Where's the last place you felt out of place?

There are very few locations either of us feel in place

we're odd and no mistake.

Now I want to know what pattern you've had put in and can you ask why they charge treble the amount for a woman's hair cut...thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Planet Earth. I generally feel out of place wherever I am.

For me I term it as out of place in 'this life'

I see it as just the way I am. I've learned to embrace it as much as I can. Though at times it can be a bit of a pain in the arse."

Yes I know what you mean. I'm trying to roll with it and accept it. Although I think it makes me a better social chameleon.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Now I've read this thread through I see that we're not alone. Maybe we should make a "place" for all of us who don't quite fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now I've read this thread through I see that we're not alone. Maybe we should make a "place" for all of us who don't quite fit

But we would want to socialise with each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel out of place at work occasionally as im usually the only one actually doing any work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe they know you from fab lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm currently sitting in the Barbers round from the office... the funny looks I'm getting are hilarious.

I have a massive amount of hair so I got an undercut done a while ago...it's the best thing ever but no-one would ever guess that half my hair is missing.

So the men in here clearly think I'm not in the right place and the barber has just decided to put a pattern in for me... bargain fiver hairdo! Win!

Where's the last place you felt out of place?

I want l to have an undercut but she is a bit nervous about work, but she has a lot of thick hair that could cover it day to day, and then have it on show when out

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm currently sitting in the Barbers round from the office... the funny looks I'm getting are hilarious.

I have a massive amount of hair so I got an undercut done a while ago...it's the best thing ever but no-one would ever guess that half my hair is missing.

So the men in here clearly think I'm not in the right place and the barber has just decided to put a pattern in for me... bargain fiver hairdo! Win!

Where's the last place you felt out of place?

There are very few locations either of us feel in place

we're odd and no mistake.

Now I want to know what pattern you've had put in and can you ask why they charge treble the amount for a woman's hair cut...thank you

They charged the guy before me twelve quid so I thought I did pretty well. It'll be a different story tonight when I part with eighty quid for my Brazilian blow dry but that's once every three months so I can live with that. He just did some stripes... I don't really wear my hair up apart from when I'm at home so it doesn't really make any odds.

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm currently sitting in the Barbers round from the office... the funny looks I'm getting are hilarious.

I have a massive amount of hair so I got an undercut done a while ago...it's the best thing ever but no-one would ever guess that half my hair is missing.

So the men in here clearly think I'm not in the right place and the barber has just decided to put a pattern in for me... bargain fiver hairdo! Win!

Where's the last place you felt out of place?

I want l to have an undercut but she is a bit nervous about work, but she has a lot of thick hair that could cover it day to day, and then have it on show when out"

It's seriously saved me a shed load of time when it comes to drying my hair not to mention being boiling in the summer. I don't think I'll bother growing it back ever.

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Now I've read this thread through I see that we're not alone. Maybe we should make a "place" for all of us who don't quite fit

Or learn to embrace it. I really don't give a shit whether I fit in or not... I am who I am and that's okay with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much whenever I go into Topshop...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"In a room full of friends you can still be totally alone".

A quote from my ex at a party.. True sometimes too. But not for a long long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find undercuts on women quite sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now I've read this thread through I see that we're not alone. Maybe we should make a "place" for all of us who don't quite fit

Erm... they did. It's called fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a crowd. I'm happiest in smaller groups. Even happier alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now I've read this thread through I see that we're not alone. Maybe we should make a "place" for all of us who don't quite fit

Erm... they did. It's called fab

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Yes but fab has been infiltrated by normies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That will be choosing the wrong queue for the till at a local fuel station which apparently not only sells petrol and diesel it also stocks newspapers and confectionary, hot and cold foods a selection of freshly made Danish pastries and sandwiches , hot and cold beverages and a cash back payment scheme , lottery tickets and a chance to settle household bills or top up pay as you go devises,,,

I just wanted to pay for my petrol,..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty much whenever I go into Topshop... "

Well you know the answer to that

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

How do you get a barber to cut your hair for a fiver! And too, I am really surprised they do women. Score

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty much whenever I go into Topshop...

Well you know the answer to that

Don't wear clothes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The staffroom at work. Try and avoid it like the plague.

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"How do you get a barber to cut your hair for a fiver! And too, I am really surprised they do women. Score

I just went in and asked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When out clothes or make up shopping.

Or in normal night clubs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Now I've read this thread through I see that we're not alone. Maybe we should make a "place" for all of us who don't quite fit

But we would want to socialise with each other?

well I can act normal for about three hours to fool people in to a false sense of security. After that my lizard scales start breaking through

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Now I've read this thread through I see that we're not alone. Maybe we should make a "place" for all of us who don't quite fit

Or learn to embrace it. I really don't give a shit whether I fit in or not... I am who I am and that's okay with me.

Oh we embrace it alright. We find it quite amusing sometimes though. We were at a party on Saturday where we knew nobody. We made ourselves pleasant and chatted with anyone who didn't back away making the sign of the cross but we're clearly the object of much scrutiny

I got Mr N to check and my devil's tail and horns definitely didn't show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anywhere people are drinking...can't stand the shit or people when they're on that particular drug.

weddings and christenings and all that stuff i avoid like the plauge, even family ones as i won't wear shirts and trousers and all that crap, i feel very stupid trussed up like a bloody penguin.

actually...any family gatherings annoy me, alot of my family i can't really be arsed with at all.

shops and town in general...was there the other day watching people roving around the shops pawing at products and crap they don't need like some kind of gullible zombies..i feel very out of place amongst these types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty much whenever I go into Topshop...

Well you know the answer to that

Don't wear clothes?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Works Xmas meal. I was bored to tears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anywhere people are drinking...can't stand the shit or people when they're on that particular drug.

weddings and christenings and all that stuff i avoid like the plauge, even family ones as i won't wear shirts and trousers and all that crap, i feel very stupid trussed up like a bloody penguin.

actually...any family gatherings annoy me, alot of my family i can't really be arsed with at all.

Orrrrr they could just be buying items they need. Blimey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now I've read this thread through I see that we're not alone. Maybe we should make a "place" for all of us who don't quite fit

But we would want to socialise with each other?

well I can act normal for about three hours to fool people in to a false sense of security. After that my lizard scales start breaking through

Oh yes I can do normal, just need a lie down and stiff drink afterwards.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I was with this Spanish bird, Manu, one new year's eve. We were at a silver screen fancy dress party/club night. Great fun. We're all off our tits &c. I'm dressed as Charlie Chaplain (Hitler mustache, bowler hat, cane, jacket and oversize trousers n' that).

So Manu and I are having a cigarette out the back and she's going on about the back door of an adjoining building.

"It's amazing! Wait 'till someone opens the door!"

What is it?

"You'll see, someone came out for a fag and I had a look inside, it's magical!"

Ok.

So, frankly, nothing happened. And after 15 mins of getting cold, Manu drags me out of the club, round the front of the building and into...

A Colombian tango parade!

It's like Strictly Ballroom in there.

And in staggers Charlie Chaplain on the arm of some pissed Spanish fat bird and I swear the record jumped and everyone stopped and stared.

Manu! We're going to the bar and YOU'RE buying!

I hissed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Works Xmas meal. I was bored to tears. "

Did you not cause mischief?

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Works Xmas meal. I was bored to tears. "

It's ours on Wednesday. I'm going to get trollied!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anywhere people are drinking...can't stand the shit or people when they're on that particular drug.

weddings and christenings and all that stuff i avoid like the plauge, even family ones as i won't wear shirts and trousers and all that crap, i feel very stupid trussed up like a bloody penguin.

actually...any family gatherings annoy me, alot of my family i can't really be arsed with at all.

Orrrrr they could just be buying items they need. Blimey. "

no, definitely zombies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go girl.

I feel out of place on here sometimes. Then i just think ahhh sod it.

Fyi no how u feel. Ive 7 heads of hair

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"Works Xmas meal. I was bored to tears. "
Only ever worked in one establishment where we had a proper works xmas meal you either like booze or you don,t I like it more when it fits the occasion so when the wine and beer/lager came out you could forget work ..

for the rest of the afternoon it was a way of getting together and saying sh*t to everything even some of the folk that worked there..

it was more like bonding with who you worked with we felt freed up under alcohol alcohol has its uses in the right place.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

On a tram full of wba fans and I am only united fan, also the only united fan on a bus in Liverpool going to anfield

Not good

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

any foray into 'vanilla' land, the town, the pub, anywhere where i have to deal with 'normal' society..i resonate with Howard..planet earth, strange place..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site most of the time tbh. Vanilla and proud.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't feel this really, I just fit in somehow wherever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"any foray into 'vanilla' land, the town, the pub, anywhere where i have to deal with 'normal' society..i resonate with Howard..planet earth, strange place.."

Howard the Duck? Love the reference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a tram full of wba fans and I am only united fan, also the only united fan on a bus in Liverpool going to anfield

Not good "

i was wearing a Swansea shirt on a train and it stopped at Cardiff.. it was pretty scary to be fair. i was 17 and on the way to see my then boyfriend..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

On one level, all my life.

I have never sounded as people expect me too, although that is lessening now that more people sound as I do.

The inverted snobbery on here often makes me uncomfortable.

My mental health can affect whether I feel able to make myself fit in. I mostly do and never feel I don't have a right to to somewhere.

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over a year ago

"anywhere people are drinking...can't stand the shit or people when they're on that particular drug.

weddings and christenings and all that stuff i avoid like the plauge, even family ones as i won't wear shirts and trousers and all that crap, i feel very stupid trussed up like a bloody penguin.

actually...any family gatherings annoy me, alot of my family i can't really be arsed with at all.

Orrrrr they could just be buying items they need. Blimey.

no, definitely zombies

I'm sure you've been a "zombie" at one point. Unless you've never bought a single thing in your life...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

On the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha your trim sounds awesome!! Inbox me pics? ;p X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Planet Earth. I generally feel out of place wherever I am."

Exactly this!

I don't blend!

I never have.

As a kid it was terrible not to blend I wanted to be the same as everyone else.

As a young adult over 18 - 30 - I embraced not blending and enjoyed being a bit different.

Now I just live my life and don't really give a fuck.

I still don't blend ...

I ain't bovvered

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"On one level, all my life.

I have never sounded as people expect me too, although that is lessening now that more people sound as I do.

The inverted snobbery on here often makes me uncomfortable.

My mental health can affect whether I feel able to make myself fit in. I mostly do and never feel I don't have a right to to somewhere.

How do people expect you to sound? And what's the inverted snobbery on here? I was tempted to private message you but filters so am asking you on here - hopefully that's ok.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The inverted snobbery on here often makes me uncomfortable."

Amen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anywhere people are drinking...can't stand the shit or people when they're on that particular drug.

weddings and christenings and all that stuff i avoid like the plauge, even family ones as i won't wear shirts and trousers and all that crap, i feel very stupid trussed up like a bloody penguin.

actually...any family gatherings annoy me, alot of my family i can't really be arsed with at all.

Orrrrr they could just be buying items they need. Blimey.

no, definitely zombies

I'm sure you've been a "zombie" at one point. Unless you've never bought a single thing in your life..."
yup..

braiiiiins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On one level, all my life.

I have never sounded as people expect me too, although that is lessening now that more people sound as I do.

The inverted snobbery on here often makes me uncomfortable.

My mental health can affect whether I feel able to make myself fit in. I mostly do and never feel I don't have a right to to somewhere.

It's funny, the tea party socials are where I felt I sort off fit in. I feel out of place most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Page 1 of Hotpics; I imagine.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"On one level, all my life.

I have never sounded as people expect me too, although that is lessening now that more people sound as I do.

The inverted snobbery on here often makes me uncomfortable.

My mental health can affect whether I feel able to make myself fit in. I mostly do and never feel I don't have a right to to somewhere.

It's funny, the tea party socials are where I felt I sort off fit in. I feel out of place most of the time. "

You are Tea Party... if you don't fit there's no hope for the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On one level, all my life.

I have never sounded as people expect me too, although that is lessening now that more people sound as I do.

The inverted snobbery on here often makes me uncomfortable.

My mental health can affect whether I feel able to make myself fit in. I mostly do and never feel I don't have a right to to somewhere.

It's funny, the tea party socials are where I felt I sort off fit in. I feel out of place most of the time.

You are Tea Party... if you don't fit there's no hope for the rest of us. "

It would be weird if I didn't fit at my own social.

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