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"I suggest you look at the threads about improving your profile. That might help. Good luck " This completely!! It takes time and effort OP, be patient, be respectful and you'll find there's something for everyone | |||
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"I've decided this site should be for couples and single females only cause being a single man on here your about as popular as having Ebola yes people put meets up but unless your hung like a donkey and have the body of a God you got no chance lol I've do have a body of a good shame it bubda " Even if you were hung like a donkey you'd still have to treat women with respect, good humour and charm. And even then plenty would say, "Nah, that's coming no-where near me - just look at the SIZE of it! " Diff'rent stroke for diff'rent folks. But I like the Ebola metaphor | |||
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"I am not hung like a donkey, and the only god I have the body of is Buddha. But I seem to do OK. I even have the added disadvantage that I'm married (though playing with her full knowledge). I suspect I do OK because I actually have a profile and I get out to events. I engage people on conversation, and decline from ranting about how crap Fab is for men when I'm going through a less successful patch. " | |||
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"I suggest you look at the threads about improving your profile. That might help. Good luck " 100% this!!! | |||
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"A lot of couples and single females do treat single guys like rats. But I avoid them and only put my time in with the ones who treat me with the same respect they get " Like me? | |||
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"I meet plenty of single men on here!? " Oo I like your new pics you sassy bitch! Yes OP I like single guys too but _loppsy's advice is right, as is absinthes | |||
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"I meet plenty of single men on here!? Oo I like your new pics you sassy bitch! Yes OP I like single guys too but _loppsy's advice is right, as is absinthes " Thank you my lovely xx xx | |||
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"A lot of couples and single females do treat single guys like rats. But I avoid them and only put my time in with the ones who treat me with the same respect they get Like me? " Most definitely hanky. Still the same you from day one | |||
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"It's all about effort. Just because women are using this site doesn't mean they will message any man for sex straight away. It's not different to dating tbh, attraction, connection and trust all have to be there in my opinion. " Yep it's the same as in the outside world I'm finding, I've never have success with woman being single all my life so i can't be surprised when it's the same on here. But yes it dose hurt sometimes! But you can't give up hope! | |||
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"I'm hung like a hamster and have the body of a pensioner but I do ok. Personality is everything on this site or you don't stand out..... (PS: Disclaimer For The Ladies - it's a big hamster and the pensioner is a tri-athlete) " | |||
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"I suggest you look at the threads about improving your profile. That might help. Good luck " What profile? | |||
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"I've decided this site should be for couples and single females only cause being a single man on here your about as popular as having Ebola yes people put meets up but unless your hung like a donkey and have the body of a God you got no chance lol I've do have a body of a good shame it bubda " I did OK on my single male profile, and I don't have the body of a god. I relied on humour and respect. | |||
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"I've decided this site should be for couples and single females only cause being a single man on here your about as popular as having Ebola yes people put meets up but unless your hung like a donkey and have the body of a God you got no chance lol I've do have a body of a good shame it bubda " Negative profile what there is of it. No decent pics. Sell yourself dnt put negativity in it. No one wants to meet a guy who as a downer before he starts | |||
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"I've decided this site should be for couples and single females only cause being a single man on here your about as popular as having Ebola yes people put meets up but unless your hung like a donkey and have the body of a God you got no chance lol I've do have a body of a good shame it bubda " Easy fella the usual suspects will discredit u & label u "entitled" which in this case is out of context & unwarranted | |||
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"I've decided this site should be for couples and single females only cause being a single man on here your about as popular as having Ebola yes people put meets up but unless your hung like a donkey and have the body of a God you got no chance lol I've do have a body of a good shame it bubda " It's not easy for anyone unless you lower your standards buddy which I definitely wouldn't advise. You could change your profile but that rarely works. Chatting on the forums and getting to know people is probably your best bet but nothings guaranteed. | |||
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"A lot of women don't really like the "woe is me, i can't get a meet" type. You need to be confident, self assured and stick at it. There are a lot of men on here, why would a woman want the man who is a moaner? " It seems like you need to give poeple a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. | |||
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"A lot of women don't really like the "woe is me, i can't get a meet" type. You need to be confident, self assured and stick at it. There are a lot of men on here, why would a woman want the man who is a moaner? It seems like you need to give poeple a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. " Why? The profile is your public face on fab so why shouldn't they choose whether to get to know someone based on that first impression. It's the way someone can decide if they're going to be compatible. | |||
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"A lot of women don't really like the "woe is me, i can't get a meet" type. You need to be confident, self assured and stick at it. There are a lot of men on here, why would a woman want the man who is a moaner? It seems like you need to give poeple a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. " ...but on fab it's pretty much all anyone has to go on | |||
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"A lot of women don't really like the "woe is me, i can't get a meet" type. You need to be confident, self assured and stick at it. There are a lot of men on here, why would a woman want the man who is a moaner? It seems like you need to give poeple a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. Why? The profile is your public face on fab so why shouldn't they choose whether to get to know someone based on that first impression. It's the way someone can decide if they're going to be compatible. " Just because poeple can say any old BS and there not really what thay make out to be. | |||
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"A lot of women don't really like the "woe is me, i can't get a meet" type. You need to be confident, self assured and stick at it. There are a lot of men on here, why would a woman want the man who is a moaner? It seems like you need to give poeple a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. Why? The profile is your public face on fab so why shouldn't they choose whether to get to know someone based on that first impression. It's the way someone can decide if they're going to be compatible. Just because poeple can say any old BS and there not really what thay make out to be. " Those type of people are usually found out pretty quickly though. | |||
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"A lot of women don't really like the "woe is me, i can't get a meet" type. You need to be confident, self assured and stick at it. There are a lot of men on here, why would a woman want the man who is a moaner? It seems like you need to give poeple a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. " I don't need to give anyone a break, just stating my view as others have | |||
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"I'm hung like a hamster and have the body of a pensioner but I do ok. Personality is everything on this site or you don't stand out..... (PS: Disclaimer For The Ladies - it's a big hamster and the pensioner is a tri-athlete) " That made me laugh. And hi | |||
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"I meet plenty of single men on here!? " We know | |||
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"I meet plenty of single men on here!? We know " You can rant at me anytime Mrs s b x | |||
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"I meet plenty of single men on here!? We know You can rant at me anytime Mrs s b x" Awww. I like your new pic. Cute Fabbed too | |||
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"I meet plenty of single men on here!? We know You can rant at me anytime Mrs s b x Awww. I like your new pic. Cute Fabbed too " Thanks Mrs s b x | |||
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" It seems like you need to give poeple a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. " A profile is all one has to 'judge' someone on | |||
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" It seems like you need to give people a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. " How else would you suggest making that first judgement as to who you choose to get to know better with a view to potentially being intimate with them then? Lottery draw perhaps? Or maybe closing your eyes and sticking pins in a list of names? I personally will always take the preference of someone that's put time and effort into their profile over someone who's only been bothered to write a line or two. | |||
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"It's all about effort. Just because women are using this site doesn't mean they will message any man for sex straight away. It's not different to dating tbh, attraction, connection and trust all have to be there in my opinion. " Totally agree !! | |||
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"I'm hung like a hamster and have the body of a pensioner but I do ok. Personality is everything on this site or you don't stand out..... (PS: Disclaimer For The Ladies - it's a big hamster and the pensioner is a tri-athlete) " | |||
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"I'm hung like a hamster and have the body of a pensioner but I do ok. Personality is everything on this site or you don't stand out..... (PS: Disclaimer For The Ladies - it's a big hamster and the pensioner is a tri-athlete) " Great profile | |||
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"I've decided this site should be for couples and single females only cause being a single man on here your about as popular as having Ebola yes people put meets up but unless your hung like a donkey and have the body of a God you got no chance lol I've do have a body of a good shame it bubda " Well, we're a couple and we're looking for single men. Unfortunately, notwithstanding the distance, theres precious little about your profile that would make us want to chat to you. It tells us nothing about you, what you're really looking for or what you can offer. Show us a bit of your personality. | |||
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"A lot of women don't really like the "woe is me, i can't get a meet" type. You need to be confident, self assured and stick at it. There are a lot of men on here, why would a woman want the man who is a moaner? It seems like you need to give poeple a brake. A Profile is such a poor way to judge people. " Giving people a break.... If you ask men what they find sexy about a woman many of them would say confidence is sexy. Why should that be any different for women .....ultimately we are all here to meet our own sexual need/desire not to provide sympathy sex! Negativity begets negativity A profile is a poor way to judge people: If I am shopping for clothes, shoes, bags, furniture, food etc I am drawn to what I know I like .... we all make initial judgements based on how something is promoted | |||
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"We meet single guys, you wouldn't be for me (female). I like fun sexy guys. I also suspect you may be married as well " That seems like quite a leap of judgment. What makes you say that? Forgive any naivety, we're new to Fab and the forums. M | |||
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"I'm hung like a hamster and have the body of a pensioner but I do ok. Personality is everything on this site or you don't stand out..... (PS: Disclaimer For The Ladies - it's a big hamster and the pensioner is a tri-athlete) " | |||
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"We meet single guys, you wouldn't be for me (female). I like fun sexy guys. I also suspect you may be married as well That seems like quite a leap of judgment. What makes you say that? Forgive any naivety, we're new to Fab and the forums. M " Because most of the guys who message us that cannot accomodate eventually say they are married. To be sexy is a slim guy - my preference | |||
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"We meet single guys, you wouldn't be for me (female). I like fun sexy guys. I also suspect you may be married as well That seems like quite a leap of judgment. What makes you say that? Forgive any naivety, we're new to Fab and the forums. M Because most of the guys who message us that cannot accomodate eventually say they are married. To be sexy is a slim guy - my preference " Ah well, that explains it. We'll make we steer clear of all single males who can't accommodate then. We didn't realise that was a hard and fast rule..... Thanks. | |||
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"We meet single guys, you wouldn't be for me (female). I like fun sexy guys. I also suspect you may be married as well That seems like quite a leap of judgment. What makes you say that? Forgive any naivety, we're new to Fab and the forums. M Because most of the guys who message us that cannot accomodate eventually say they are married. To be sexy is a slim guy - my preference Ah well, that explains it. We'll make we steer clear of all single males who can't accommodate then. We didn't realise that was a hard and fast rule..... Thanks. " That isn't a hard and fast rule, it's just their rule. I don't accomodate and I'm totally single, unless you count the dog (he is a commitment after all). I doubt very much that I'm the only non accomodating single male, or that I'm in the minority of non accomodating single males. I think too many people on here make across the board judgments and then wonder why they can't find any genuine playmates!?! | |||
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"I've decided this site should be for couples and single females only cause being a single man on here your about as popular as having Ebola yes people put meets up but unless your hung like a donkey and have the body of a God you got no chance lol I've do have a body of a good shame it bubda " It's something you need to decide is fab for you as you can sometimes get a wham bam meet but if you want more then you need to have patience because the right person is out there on fab you just haven't met yet | |||
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"Backtracking quicker than a politician " yes very true but look at all the free advice I got lol | |||
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"Backtracking quicker than a politician yes very true but look at all the free advice I got lol " All of which is wasted if you choose to do nothing with it. | |||
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"Backtracking quicker than a politician yes very true but look at all the free advice I got lol All of which is wasted if you choose to do nothing with it. " Manners aren't your thing either are they ?? | |||
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"Backtracking quicker than a politician yes very true but look at all the free advice I got lol All of which is wasted if you choose to do nothing with it. Manners aren't your thing either are they ?? " Mine? How so? | |||
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"Backtracking quicker than a politician yes very true but look at all the free advice I got lol All of which is wasted if you choose to do nothing with it. Manners aren't your thing either are they ?? Mine? How so? " Sorry ... meant the OP ... not you ... you are very nice ... | |||
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