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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I want to divulge is some bondage deubachery. Never tried it before. Any tips

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Giving or taking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Giving or taking? "

Taking

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Giving or taking?

Taking "

Ok main thing then is to trust whoever is doing it. Chat about any hard limits before, what you absolutely don't want to happen. And anything you do. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Giving or taking?

Taking

Ok main thing then is to trust whoever is doing it. Chat about any hard limits before, what you absolutely don't want to happen. And anything you do. Enjoy "

Well thank you. I'll need to find myself a fwb then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look At Knotty Boys on you tube.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Giving or taking?

Taking

Ok main thing then is to trust whoever is doing it. Chat about any hard limits before, what you absolutely don't want to happen. And anything you do. Enjoy

Well thank you. I'll need to find myself a fwb then "

If I weren't so far away I'd come and give you a lovely bondage experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Giving or taking?

Taking

Ok main thing then is to trust whoever is doing it. Chat about any hard limits before, what you absolutely don't want to happen. And anything you do. Enjoy

Well thank you. I'll need to find myself a fwb then

If I weren't so far away I'd come and give you a

lovely bondage experience "

Mmmmm now that made me flutter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look At Knotty Boys on you tube. "

Thank you. Will it make me wet?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Giving or taking?

Taking

Ok main thing then is to trust whoever is doing it. Chat about any hard limits before, what you absolutely don't want to happen. And anything you do. Enjoy

Well thank you. I'll need to find myself a fwb then

If I weren't so far away I'd come and give you a

lovely bondage experience

Mmmmm now that made me flutter "

If you're ever in Leeds I'm part of Eden-events, ladies only bdsm nights

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Giving or taking?

Taking

Ok main thing then is to trust whoever is doing it. Chat about any hard limits before, what you absolutely don't want to happen. And anything you do. Enjoy

Well thank you. I'll need to find myself a fwb then

If I weren't so far away I'd come and give you a

lovely bondage experience

Well I'll hit you up!

Mmmmm now that made me flutter

If you're ever in Leeds I'm part of Eden-events, ladies only bdsm nights "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd not do it on a first meet, ensuring you've developed trust and all sides know the expectations and rules.

Then follow your heart and intuition.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd not do it on a first meet, ensuring you've developed trust and all sides know the expectations and rules.

Then follow your heart and intuition. "

I wouldn't do it on a first meet if need to trust the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safety scissors, always have them to hand, and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Safety scissors, always have them to hand, and enjoy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you're so far away I love domming women

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Sensation play and blindfolds are a gentle starting point. However trust and communication are key before anything else. Its not all whips and chains. Its the mind long before the body

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shame you're so far away I love domming women "

I would love to dom a women too. I'd only be sub to a male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sensation play and blindfolds are a gentle starting point. However trust and communication are key before anything else. Its not all whips and chains. Its the mind long before the body"

Sensation play excites me also. Just need to find a willing man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensation play and blindfolds are a gentle starting point. However trust and communication are key before anything else. Its not all whips and chains. Its the mind long before the body

Sensation play excites me also. Just need to find a willing man lol "
hqave you thought about joining your local munch (fet based social) help you meet people who may be experienced and suitable for you to even just try some ropework or something, non sexually, to find out what you like x

Kitty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safety safety and safety never leave the person tied up alone. Have a safe word or sign if gagged lol easy to remember.

Take it slowly till you learn what you like.

And talk things over with what you want before you start.

If meeting someone for 1st time tell someone you trust or leave a note where you are going etc. Back to safety lol

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA


"have you thought about joining your local munch (fet based social) help you meet people who may be experienced and suitable for you to even just try some ropework or something, non sexually, to find out what you like x

Kitty xx"
thanks Kitty good info for the uninitiated - like myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you thought about joining your local munch (fet based social) help you meet people who may be experienced and suitable for you to even just try some ropework or something, non sexually, to find out what you like x

Kitty xx thanks Kitty good info for the uninitiated - like myself "
you are welcome. there is a cross over with the swinging scene definitely, but if you want to educate yourself, to know what you are looking for, the fet scene is a good place to explore and get information and generally get a feel of whether its for you or not. plenty of people to talk to and mix with, which in the long run, helps you choose a trustworthy play partner,and keep yourself safe, from whichever scene you frequent.

Kitty x

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As someone said above Safety safety safety.

Make sure it is with someone you trust.

Have a safe-word.

Strong scissors.

Make sure you use the right type of ropes.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sensation play and blindfolds are a gentle starting point. However trust and communication are key before anything else. Its not all whips and chains. Its the mind long before the body

Sensation play excites me also. Just need to find a willing man lol hqave you thought about joining your local munch (fet based social) help you meet people who may be experienced and suitable for you to even just try some ropework or something, non sexually, to find out what you like x

No I'm totally new to the scene still finding my feet and my likes dislikes etc

Kitty xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Safety safety and safety never leave the person tied up alone. Have a safe word or sign if gagged lol easy to remember.

Take it slowly till you learn what you like.

And talk things over with what you want before you start.

If meeting someone for 1st time tell someone you trust or leave a note where you are going etc. Back to safety lol"

Thanks for the advice. I would only let someone tie me up that I've built trust up with. Bring on the fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As someone said above Safety safety safety.

Make sure it is with someone you trust.

Have a safe-word.

Strong scissors.

Make sure you use the right type of ropes.

Have fun "

Im hoping to find someone who is already experienced in this area lol

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Again 'Safety!'

Find someone you trust...

Discuss first and decide on your limits, you are in control i.e. safe word, not your Dom!

A good Dom, will appreciate this and help you explore...

There will also be far more emotional attachment than a fwb relationship, there has to be!

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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago

chester/Merseyside

I would love someone near to me in Chester that is fully experienced in bondage and loves to.practice with me

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