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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To ask for a body pic if someone doesn't have one displayed on there profile? Especially if they want to meet?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's not out of order but they may reasonably refuse

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not out of order, but it doesn't mean they will acquiesce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. But they may not give you one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not out of order but they may reasonably refuse "

Pretty much sums it up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel like they are hiding something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like they are hiding something? "

Like what a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like they are hiding something? "

I wouldn't meet someone if I hadn't seen their body and their face before a meet. Regardless of what they are hiding. But then, that's just me.

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By *irstTime4everythingCouple
over a year ago

Reading


"It's not out of order but they may reasonably refuse

Pretty much sums it up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not out of order but they may reasonably refuse "

first post = nail/head

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I feel like they are hiding something?

I wouldn't meet someone if I hadn't seen their body and their face before a meet. Regardless of what they are hiding. But then, that's just me. "

Neither would I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think it's out of order to ask at all...

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"To ask for a body pic if someone doesn't have one displayed on there profile? Especially if they want to meet? "

No, not if that is what you want to make your decision

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't have body pics, I have hardly any pics as I have too much respect for the internet. I do have face pics.

If I get asked for a body pic I realise the guy is too concerned about a woman's figure and won't be my type.

I meet socially first time so I can always be 'checked out' then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

asking for a naked body pic is rude. clothed pic fair question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send naked or underwear pics to anyone I haven't met, unless I'm pretty sure we are going to meet. Which is extremely rare.

I'm not giving anyone something to wank over just so someone who is worried my body might make them throw up can see it, just to be on the safe side. I'd rather those people moved on. I'm totally honest about my flabby stomach with it's stretch marks, and my huge butt and thighs. If that's not enough to put them off tough luck, they ain't getting a pic.

I've met lots of men whose bodies and cocks I haven't seen and not sent them my pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't take the OP's question to be about a naked pic. A body pic doesn't have to be naked. I wouldn't request a naked body pic, if that's the question.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I feel like they are hiding something? "

That's what we would think and the reason we want to see face, body and cock pics before more than a couple of messages.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I feel like they are hiding something? "

Yeah I know what you mean!

*tucks TV remote safely up jumper*

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's ok to ask for whatever you like, subject to fab rules and being respectful. It doesn't mean you'll get what you fancy.

If it's a toss-up between one party which wants something extra and another that doesn't, then the simpler meet may go ahead.

It's always good to give something when making demands of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't take the OP's question to be about a naked pic. A body pic doesn't have to be naked. I wouldn't request a naked body pic, if that's the question. "

More often than not they want naked ones but you're right, ge didn't specify naked. I'll send a fully clothed body pic but then nothing else. Some will keep asking and hint at naked ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like they are hiding something? "

Then give it a miss.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I know you didn't specify naked but I don't do nudey pics for nobody. If someone asks, usually game over. It's another filter.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I know you didn't specify naked but I don't do nudey pics for nobody. If someone asks, usually game over. It's another filter. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know you didn't specify naked but I don't do nudey pics for nobody. If someone asks, usually game over. It's another filter.

+1 "

Under wear is fine, if nude , no face. I should of specified my preference in my post. Call me shall or vain but physical attraction is important to me. I'm sure all of you have encountered a fake or 2 on here

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I feel like they are hiding something?

Like what a cock "

Shush!

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Surely there is no real reason to not show your body? Unless you have have a unique mark or tattoo I guess.

Face pics I get why some don't share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know you didn't specify naked but I don't do nudey pics for nobody. If someone asks, usually game over. It's another filter.

+1

Under wear is fine, if nude , no face. I should of specified my preference in my post. Call me shall or vain but physical attraction is important to me. I'm sure all of you have encountered a fake or 2 on here

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If they won't send a picture I'd definitely be weary. One way round that is to do a social meet only first. That way you make sure you don't get any nasty shocks !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's out of order and if they are being evasive then I would steer clear. However a guy just asking to see my body pics, particularly if them contacting me was unsolicited, they would get a big bog off from me!

If you prefer a particular body type then perhaps mention that in your profile...you don't have to be rude or crude about it...a simple line like "I love slender ladies"or "curvy ladies get my attention" would suffice. It might alienate some who may take offence but then that's their issue.

I think you can only have a certain number of words on your profile though so if you were considering changing it then perhaps you could cut some of it, and to that END you may get better results

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not at all,some profiles are a bit misleading as people show only bits of themselves at flattering angles.

If they are interested in meeting, I dont know why they wouldnt send a pic,will the hide in a sack when you meet?.

If someone won't send a pic,we would move on.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn't ask, I just wouldn't take it much further with that profile.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We wouldn't ask, however, a subtle hint we would, if nothing came of that then we'd probably stop the convo but in fairness we'd probably not have engaged in the first place.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd just move on. They must have a profile with no face pic and no body pics either. Eg no pics??

It must be very good text!

If they are verified from trustworthy profiles maybe a social meet if you are keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who you're asking, I would not give a naked body shot, I go to meets in a Basque and stockings so my body pic would be in those XXX

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