FabSwingers.com forum: People getting nasty towards you because you haven't had chance to reply to there messages

By *eatrice! OP Woman
over a year ago

Wales

I seem to get this a lot, due to being a single female on here I get a lot of messages, so when I can't reply straight away a lot of people message me things like "ignore me then!" Etc. I thought it was understandable that people can't get to everyone straightaway and that we have other things to do that sit replying and messaging all day. Thoughts guys?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It happens

Block and search for guys at your pace

May be easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what I use the block button for when if cant be bothered to type fook-off......

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You do say let's talk filth, that may confuse

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Thoughts guys?"

I don't think saying "ignore me then" is nasty

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By *eatrice! OP Woman
over a year ago

Wales

Ignore me then, was one of the more polite messages I get lol

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

It happens most of them don't read your profile. Some think they have a god given right to meet you. Best way is just to block them if they send you messages like that. There usually the guys that have a cock picture as a profile picture. A good response though is "sorry I was just getting enlarging you picture so I could see it"

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"I seem to get this a lot, due to being a single female on here I get a lot of messages, so when I can't reply straight away a lot of people message me things like "ignore me then!" Etc. I thought it was understandable that people can't get to everyone straightaway and that we have other things to do that sit replying and messaging all day. Thoughts guys?"

We only joined a few weeks ago & had the same thing we almost closed our account

Advice I was given was block anyone rude of abusive, do not even give them a reply, another option is setting your filters so people can't message you initially i.e. You do the searching

I really think everyone on here needs to respect that just because you show up as online it doesn't mean you have time to respond to a message or 20, we are all entitled to a quick peak at our inbox while we are at work & reply once we are home, but showing as having been on line seems to signify it's ok to start sending abusive messages as to why you haven't yet responded to a message that may have only been sent 10 mins earlier

It does get easier, it took weeks but touchwood we haven't had anything nasty for a week now, stay strong & keep the faith for every 10 idiots there does seem to be at least 1 genuine one, they just aren't as easy to find as they are patient & not so in your face

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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Thankfully not all people are like that we never stress people over not getting back and often don't get replies, but like people say just block them as unfortunately a lot of people think because you are on here as a single fem you are st their beck and call, and that u don't have a life

Hope things get better for u and good luck xx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Top tips..

1. You aren't meant to post private messages in the forum.. a trip to the naughty step beckons.

2. Block single guy or those who offend you. That way they can't message you.

3. Search for the guys or others you find interesting and initiate contact with them.

4. Read tips 1-3.

Have fun.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It is against rules to post messages on the forum ( posts removed )

The best thing to do is report the mails and let Admin deal with it

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