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"Laying on the pavement 3 yards from what appears to be a destitute person sleeping on a filthy blanket surrounded by the mishmash of their entire worldly goods wrapped in two carrier bags,,, Over to you? " Give it to them in one way or another buy them food with it book them into a b&b for the night Money isn't everything and doesn't always make you happy... | |||
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"hes asleep Oi....who said its a he? " dont want to get to near incase i wake them shhh sorry creeps off | |||
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"Found a fiver on the street and asked a homeless person if it was his and he said no! Gave it to him then I went straight to put lottery ion and I didn't win a thing! Karma pfft X " | |||
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"hes asleep Oi....who said its a he? dont want to get to near incase i wake them shhh sorry creeps off " | |||
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"share it - 50-50 - " You can't there is only 50 - it'd be 25-25 lol MrB | |||
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"Wave it in his face shouting 'you make your own luck in life!' No, seriously, I'd want to give it him and at the same time be worried it'd all go on booze in one go. If you could trust a local shop, I'd get them to give him a meal every day for so long. Or maybe buy a load of food for the homeless shelter, so it's spread out??" Of all of the things you have suggested, donating it to a homeless shelter would be the best. | |||
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"How do I know if he's really destitute and homeless rather than one of those who makes a living pretending to be? " At the point of finding the money you no nothing about the person other than what you see right there in front of you... | |||
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"How do I know if he's really destitute and homeless rather than one of those who makes a living pretending to be? At the point of finding the money you no nothing about the person other than what you see right there in front of you... " know* | |||
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"How do I know if he's really destitute and homeless rather than one of those who makes a living pretending to be? " ahhh that's how you afford that shoe collection... | |||
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"Found a fiver on the street and asked a homeless person if it was his and he said no! Gave it to him then I went straight to put lottery ion and I didn't win a thing! Karma pfft X " Maybe you should have bought a couple of tickets for karma | |||
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"We once found $300 in $20 bills on the floor of a store. We brought it to the cashier to ask if anyone has reported losing it. She acted all weird and said she thinks maybe she might have dropped it herself. Seemed sketchey and we didn't believe her. Turned out to belong to a guy who had walked out to his car and ran back in looking for it. People are fucking horrible. " . That pales into comparison to my experience. I found a very nice leather purse in a local small supermarket just lying on the floor, as I bent down to pick it up I could see this well dressed woman rushing towards me.... Oh that's mine she said very pleasantly,i was worried sick, it's got all cards in!. . I was just about to hand it her and for some reason I stopped opened it up looked at the bank card and said yeah I bet, these cards are such a pain phoning everybody to cancel... Mrs... She looked me dead in the eyes and said pardon, I said Mrs... What's your name, just so I know it's yours. And she unleashed the most foul mouthed tongue lashing on me, I was actually a bit taken back as the shop was really busy. She then tried snatching it from my hand screaming give me the fucking purse and I couldn't walk away as I felt like I was mugging her lol, in the end she told me to fuck off and stormed off outside, I watched a gog as got into a brand new range rover and tootled off... Some people are what's known as brazen fuckers | |||
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"Drop some coppers in his cup whole stuffing the fifty in your pocket and a bacon butty in your mouth!" I'd probably do this...but I'd have a coffee instead of a bacon butty. | |||
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"We once found $300 in $20 bills on the floor of a store. We brought it to the cashier to ask if anyone has reported losing it. She acted all weird and said she thinks maybe she might have dropped it herself. Seemed sketchey and we didn't believe her. Turned out to belong to a guy who had walked out to his car and ran back in looking for it. People are fucking horrible. . That pales into comparison to my experience. I found a very nice leather purse in a local small supermarket just lying on the floor, as I bent down to pick it up I could see this well dressed woman rushing towards me.... Oh that's mine she said very pleasantly,i was worried sick, it's got all cards in!. . I was just about to hand it her and for some reason I stopped opened it up looked at the bank card and said yeah I bet, these cards are such a pain phoning everybody to cancel... Mrs... She looked me dead in the eyes and said pardon, I said Mrs... What's your name, just so I know it's yours. And she unleashed the most foul mouthed tongue lashing on me, I was actually a bit taken back as the shop was really busy. She then tried snatching it from my hand screaming give me the fucking purse and I couldn't walk away as I felt like I was mugging her lol, in the end she told me to fuck off and stormed off outside, I watched a gog as got into a brand new range rover and tootled off... Some people are what's known as brazen fuckers " Doorsy my man,,,,don't worry mate.....you cant help having one of those faces... | |||
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"Drop some coppers in his cup whole stuffing the fifty in your pocket and a bacon butty in your mouth! I'd probably do this...but I'd have a coffee instead of a bacon butty." . Well it worked for Ed | |||
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" Doorsy my man,,,,don't worry mate.....you cant help having one of those faces... " . I've still got the purse... You can have it for a fiver | |||
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" Doorsy my man,,,,don't worry mate.....you cant help having one of those faces... . I've still got the purse... You can have it for a fiver " It's a deal.... | |||
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"Give it in the closest cafe or take away and ask them to credit to him, then leave him a note explaining what I have done. The local homeless man where I live has accounts at two different places, that we (the community) top up for him so he can always get something to eat." | |||
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"Give him the 50 and ask him to buy me a tea for a change! " Lmao quality | |||
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"Spend it on my kids with out a doubt it a only end up in a smack or crack dealers pocket or neared of license fact a life harsh but true " faa-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-laa | |||
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"Give it to 'Shelter' or another local homeless charity " ...is a much better suggestion than any other on the thread. I worked extensively with homeless people. Not everyone on the streets is who they profess to be. Giving money sounds nice, might assuage your liberal guilt, whatever, but it could be spent on booze, drugs, given to a pimp... There's just *no* audit trail! So. Either give goods - food, sleeping bags, whatever - or give the money to Shelter or a food bank or someone who'll deffo make sure it gets used well. | |||
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"Give it in the closest cafe or take away and ask them to credit to him, then leave him a note explaining what I have done. The local homeless man where I live has accounts at two different places, that we (the community) top up for him so he can always get something to eat. " That's a good idea. | |||
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"Laying on the pavement 3 yards from what appears to be a destitute person sleeping on a filthy blanket surrounded by the mishmash of their entire worldly goods wrapped in two carrier bags,,, Over to you? " Change the £50 into fivers and give them to him/her. Far too many shops refuse to take fifties and it might be embarrassing to them if refused. | |||
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"Laying on the pavement 3 yards from what appears to be a destitute person sleeping on a filthy blanket surrounded by the mishmash of their entire worldly goods wrapped in two carrier bags,,, Over to you? Change the £50 into fivers and give them to him/her. Far too many shops refuse to take fifties and it might be embarrassing to them if refused." | |||
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"It's a difficult one. As much as I would like to say I'd give it to him, my current position means I would probably take it (not for myself, but because I have two kids, one of whom is severely disabled and requires a lot of equipment. And the likelihood that I'll be able to go back to work because of this is slim). Plus, I have seen too many "homeless" people who aren't actually homeless and in fact drive BMW'S and change back into their normal clothes when the day is done, or homeless people who do spend it on booze - I know that's a generalisation, but it does happen. So I would probably use a tenner/twenty of it to buy him some food or donate it to a local homeless charity. - Amy. x" Have you actually really seen this? Really? You ought to take down the number plate of the BMWs they are driving and report them to the police if you have. | |||
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"Give it to 'Shelter' or another local homeless charity ...is a much better suggestion than any other on the thread. I worked extensively with homeless people. Not everyone on the streets is who they profess to be. Giving money sounds nice, might assuage your liberal guilt, whatever, but it could be spent on booze, drugs, given to a pimp... There's just *no* audit trail! So. Either give goods - food, sleeping bags, whatever - or give the money to Shelter or a food bank or someone who'll deffo make sure it gets used well. " Local shelters would be better than Shelter the charity though. They don't do anything immediately for homeless people. I am basing this on having worked alongside two Shelter advisors for 2 years, who always expressed their feelings of helplessness when a homeless person attended a drop-in session and the best they could do *there and then* was signpost them to the local shelter. | |||
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"Laying on the pavement 3 yards from what appears to be a destitute person sleeping on a filthy blanket surrounded by the mishmash of their entire worldly goods wrapped in two carrier bags,,, Over to you? " It's obvious every one is going to say give it to the destitute person | |||
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"Wave it in his face shouting 'you make your own luck in life!' No, seriously, I'd want to give it him and at the same time be worried it'd all go on booze in one go. If you could trust a local shop, I'd get them to give him a meal every day for so long. Or maybe buy a load of food for the homeless shelter, so it's spread out??" Of course he is going to buy booze | |||
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"How do I know if he's really destitute and homeless rather than one of those who makes a living pretending to be? ahhh that's how you afford that shoe collection... " Yep. I find all my money on the floor. Well on the bedside table usually as they leave Last time I went to give a homeless person money his iPhone rang | |||
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"Laying on the pavement 3 yards from what appears to be a destitute person sleeping on a filthy blanket surrounded by the mishmash of their entire worldly goods wrapped in two carrier bags,,, Over to you? It's obvious every one is going to say give it to the destitute person " Of course they are the same as mist men on here will quickly jump to the aid of any woman. Thinking it will get them browny points. They are just sheep..... id keep the money. | |||
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"Laying on the pavement 3 yards from what appears to be a destitute person sleeping on a filthy blanket surrounded by the mishmash of their entire worldly goods wrapped in two carrier bags,,, Over to you? It's obvious every one is going to say give it to the destitute person Of course they are the same as mist men on here will quickly jump to the aid of any woman. Thinking it will get them browny points. They are just sheep..... id keep the money." I must remember to change the way I comb my hair ..... I wouldn't want anyone thinking I had a sheep's head | |||
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"Spend it on my kids with out a doubt it a only end up in a smack or crack dealers pocket or neared of license fact a life harsh but true " Have you ever been Street homeless? | |||
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"Some of them arent really homeless but i think the majority of them are because it happens a lot that people lose their jobs or housing benifits, dont get on with their parents, get divorced or have mental health problems, Most of the ones on the streets are single men." Oh really? Did you know... * There are 16 million people in the UK with savings of less that £100. * 37% of households are a paycheck away from being unable to pay rent/mortgage. * The single largest cause of homelessness (31% of cases) is due to the loss of a short-hold tenancy. * 1 in 10 adults will experience homelessness at some point. * Males are more likely to be street homeless - 14% are female. * 20% of homeless women are on the street because they fled domestic violence. | |||
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"Give it in the closest cafe or take away and ask them to credit to him, then leave him a note explaining what I have done. The local homeless man where I live has accounts at two different places, that we (the community) top up for him so he can always get something to eat." Absolutely love this. I'm going to do this and have a person in mind. Him | |||
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"Some of them arent really homeless but i think the majority of them are because it happens a lot that people lose their jobs or housing benifits, dont get on with their parents, get divorced or have mental health problems, Most of the ones on the streets are single men. Oh really? Did you know... * There are 16 million people in the UK with savings of less that £100. * 37% of households are a paycheck away from being unable to pay rent/mortgage. * The single largest cause of homelessness (31% of cases) is due to the loss of a short-hold tenancy. * 1 in 10 adults will experience homelessness at some point. * Males are more likely to be street homeless - 14% are female. * 20% of homeless women are on the street because they fled domestic violence." Disturbing facts and all the more reason to give generously. | |||
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"Luckily we dont see homeless people where we live but one christmas there was an old tramp by the shops so my husband gave him £5, i dont care if they do spend it on booze, living on the streets especialy in this weather would make anyone want to drink." Damn right and good on him. | |||
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"Lets hope some of you lot don't fall on hard times...it's really not difficult to end up street homeless..I've been there, done that and worn the tshirt " I'm self employed in a manual profession and just a broken leg away from losing everything. I'm glad things have worked out for you. | |||
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"Luckily we dont see homeless people where we live but one christmas there was an old tramp by the shops so my husband gave him £5, i dont care if they do spend it on booze, living on the streets especialy in this weather would make anyone want to drink." That's my opinion too... | |||
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"Lets hope some of you lot don't fall on hard times...it's really not difficult to end up street homeless..I've been there, done that and worn the tshirt I'm self employed in a manual profession and just a broken leg away from losing everything. I'm glad things have worked out for you." It has I'm one of the lucky ones | |||
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"Apparently no 1 has to spend more than 1 night on the street. After the 1st night there's help to be had. " Is there? Where from and how is it accessed? | |||
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"...hang on. It might be glued to the pavement. Some sort of ambush?? " I once tried to pick up a euro coin in Italy and it was glued to the sidewalk. All the Italians laughed at me. | |||
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"...hang on. It might be glued to the pavement. Some sort of ambush?? I once tried to pick up a euro coin in Italy and it was glued to the sidewalk. All the Italians laughed at me. " There used to be a gaybar in South Shields with a coin like that ..... I fell for it every time I went in ... | |||
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"Apparently no 1 has to spend more than 1 night on the street. After the 1st night there's help to be had. Is there? Where from and how is it accessed?" Usually from rough sleepers team that each local authority commission HOWEVER due to government cuts a lot of hostels that are supporting people funded are having their budgets slashed....this time of year some charities are doing cold weather provisions..there is a website called streetlink where you can let them know if you see someone sleeping rough.. | |||
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"I've done some volunteering for the homeless; a realy eye opener!!! I'd pick up the £50, go to the nearest shop and buy food and drink and give it to him. Whether he was genuine or not, I'd still feel good for doing that " Yes, i'd rather risk wasting money on a scammer than not giving to someone who really needs it. | |||
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"I was in worthing and had to sleep outside in a bus shelter for a coupla days...the police suggested i use the toiletts nearby to freshen up as i was looking for work in the town...i was able to warm up etc. And look half decent for my interview...i had to wait a day to get a yes or no...whent back to the toilets the next day and they had been locked up..had complaints about me using the facilities... maybe some people felt uncomfortable but sleeping outside in winter all night is fucking uncomfortable..so a quick freshen up and get warm was a godsend in the morning. i got the job and moved in to a really nice room overlooking the sea " That's a great story and a happy ending. It shows that there's always hope. Thanks for sharing. | |||
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"I wouldn't bother picking it up, my police station is too far away and it could be theft by finding if I didn't hand it in, especially if it was in CCTV area XXX" I've been off reading up on this. You have to take 'reasonable steps' to find the owner. So, if it was a pound you might glance round. For a £1 that is reasonable. For £50 it could be considered reasonable to hand it in. If the police station was miles away, it wouldn't be reasonable to go there, so you ccould keep it. If you found £50k in a bag, then what to do?? Well if you hand it in and nobody claims it, then it's yours. But if they think it could be the proceeds of crime, then it will be confiscated. | |||
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"Give it in the closest cafe or take away and ask them to credit to him, then leave him a note explaining what I have done. The local homeless man where I live has accounts at two different places, that we (the community) top up for him so he can always get something to eat." That is a really good idea. My church along with other ones in our area provide shelter and hot meals in the coldest weeks of the year together with the YMCA. But if we had a scheme like this going all year round I would donate. | |||
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