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It's a numbers game.... but not the ratio numbers.

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I have a theory why so many newbie guys are baffled by the lack of interest they get on sites such as these.

As a result of a number of serious studies on attraction, it is pretty safe to generalise that men more often overrate how attractive they are and women underrate how attractive they are…. hence why you see so many fit women going out with average looking guys.

But sites like this upset the balance of normal life. We see it all the time, woman saying what a confidence boost sites like this have given them… how they can now pick and choose. It is why so many find it difficult to go back to traditional dating in the vanilla world…. no tit shots and all of a sudden the interest and attention fades away.

So anyway, back to the theory. The new guy (still overrating his attractiveness) thinks he’s a 8-9, hits on a 5 (thinking he’s punching well below his weight and so is on to a sure thing) and gets knocked back, as she thinks she is at least an 8 and worthy of a 9-10.

And there ya’ have it.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

that's pretty much how it works I reckon!

That's why I only fuck 1's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a theory why so many newbie guys are baffled by the lack of interest they get on sites such as these.

As a result of a number of serious studies on attraction, it is pretty safe to generalise that men more often overrate how attractive they are and women underrate how attractive they are…. hence why you see so many fit women going out with average looking guys.

But sites like this upset the balance of normal life. We see it all the time, woman saying what a confidence boost sites like this have given them… how they can now pick and choose. It is why so many find it difficult to go back to traditional dating in the vanilla world…. no tit shots and all of a sudden the interest and attention fades away.

So anyway, back to the theory. The new guy (still overrating his attractiveness) thinks he’s a 8-9, hits on a 5 (thinking he’s punching well below his weight and so is on to a sure thing) and gets knocked back, as she thinks she is at least an 8 and worthy of a 9-10.

And there ya’ have it.

"

Worthy of the Sydney University Doctorate i reckon!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think you have hit the nail on the head there miss polo

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

Worthy of the Sydney University Doctorate i reckon! "

Do I need to buy a hat and gown?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


" that's pretty much how it works I reckon!

That's why I only fuck 1's"

Lucky you, i only message number 1's.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


" that's pretty much how it works I reckon!

That's why I only fuck 1's

Lucky you, i only message number 1's."

Yeah 'fucking a number 2' just sounds way too sick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funky and mushy hope yous never mail me i'd feel insulted lol. hope iam higher than a number 1 lol

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"funky and mushy hope yous never mail me i'd feel insulted lol. hope iam higher than a number 1 lol"

That did cross my mind, generally.

I would add that i do go upto 11 but would expect people to think i was exaggerating.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"

Worthy of the Sydney University Doctorate i reckon!

Do I need to buy a hat and gown?"

I think just a cap and gown would suit you perfectly

;-)

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

Worthy of the Sydney University Doctorate i reckon!

Do I need to buy a hat and gown?

I think just a cap and gown would suit you perfectly

;-)"

Awww bless ya... I think... hold on, I need to work out the numbers... where is my calculator?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"

Worthy of the Sydney University Doctorate i reckon!

Do I need to buy a hat and gown?

I think just a cap and gown would suit you perfectly

;-)

Awww bless ya... I think... hold on, I need to work out the numbers... where is my calculator? "

I am not a number........ I am a free man!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now your jst being greedy lol stick to your limit lol

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If I had to pick a number, I would go for a 69!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear... think I better delete my profile!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

well for my first two months on the site last year i had about 10 meets and its never stopped if i can get meets cant see why other guys cant

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

number 4,or number 8 on tuesdays,and fridays.

is there a prize.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like I need to start overrating my looks and head out to the real world then! I've never been over confident looks wise, time to go hypnotise myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe there is a mathematical constant that is used in these equations

it's called cream pi

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