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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() I often think the more they declare they don't do this and that, the more it's for effect. | |||
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"Oh, if only you were closer OP" We hope to do a bit of a tour next summer , so who knows ![]() | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() This is very often the case . We have met so many people who say on their profile they prefer quality over quantity , social first etc..... yet they are completely the opposite in reality ![]() | |||
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"I'm not fond of outdoor sex or car sex, mainly because I'm a scaredy cat and don't like being cold. Plus, I'm too big to get comfy in a car with my dodgy knees. I don't want to go to clubs because people leave body fluids and stuff behind ![]() You haven't lived until you've stood barefoot in a strangers cum in a club!!! ![]() | |||
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"Why would you think that? I read profiles on this site that are looking for the complete opposite to me - I concentrate on the ones who are looking for the same as me. And if it's everyone on the forum who aren't what you're looking for then maybe don't bother reading the profiles of those on the forum. Easy. Or maybe you just wanted to tell us all again how you think socials are a waste of time and everyone is doing it all wrong." Not at all , it's just more apparent now than ever before that we buck the forum trend . Hence why we rarely post now . Fab has the forum for everyone to use , and it's a shame we rarely see an influx of new posters . I wonder if the general _iews of regulars on it don't match the overall site ? It's not like we read profiles with a _iew to meet where the criteria is clearly not the same . But given that we have met so many on here who clearly see things the same as we do , it's odd that there are so few forum users like us isn't it ? | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() Could have written this ourselves We are not into the social thing, we don't want/need a new set of friends I do want a cock pic sent through with a message if all you've got is a blurry chest pic I like to see what's being offered & we also plan to spend our weekends next year traveling to meet people we are attracted to & want to f*ck, not to meet them for a glass of wine or a beer | |||
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"Why would you think that? I read profiles on this site that are looking for the complete opposite to me - I concentrate on the ones who are looking for the same as me. And if it's everyone on the forum who aren't what you're looking for then maybe don't bother reading the profiles of those on the forum. Easy. Or maybe you just wanted to tell us all again how you think socials are a waste of time and everyone is doing it all wrong. Not at all , it's just more apparent now than ever before that we buck the forum trend . Hence why we rarely post now . Fab has the forum for everyone to use , and it's a shame we rarely see an influx of new posters . I wonder if the general _iews of regulars on it don't match the overall site ? It's not like we read profiles with a _iew to meet where the criteria is clearly not the same . But given that we have met so many on here who clearly see things the same as we do , it's odd that there are so few forum users like us isn't it ? " Not really, I assume those who just want to meet and fuck use the site to do that. Why would they even bother venturing into the forums? They don't want to talk about it, they want to do it. Those who want to meet, and chat and fuck will be naturally more drawn to forums where there can chat to people. And there are always new people joining the forums, to replace those who leave. If there weren't, there would only be about 3 posters left. | |||
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"Oh, if only you were closer OP We hope to do a bit of a tour next summer , so who knows ![]() if you get up north ![]() | |||
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"Oh, if only you were closer OP" drive? public transport? travel is easy in the uk ![]() | |||
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"I'm not fond of outdoor sex or car sex, mainly because I'm a scaredy cat and don't like being cold. Plus, I'm too big to get comfy in a car with my dodgy knees. I don't want to go to clubs because people leave body fluids and stuff behind ![]() ![]() I'd have to carry a Dettol spray and disposable cloths with me ![]() | |||
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"I mostly just use it for the forum, it is comedy gold ![]() And showing off your pics. | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() That's just disgusting.. what kind of site do you think this is??? . . Sorry, what's that?, it's a swingers site.. What this place.. fab?? Really?? So it's not like Facebook?? Ahhhhh, my bad.... . . Well, it looks like you can carry on then.. As you were... ![]() | |||
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"I look for meets away from the forums if I can. Things can soon go sour ![]() Good point. | |||
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"Oh, if only you were closer OP We hope to do a bit of a tour next summer , so who knows ![]() You visited that cemetery on cannock chase yet? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm not fond of outdoor sex or car sex, mainly because I'm a scaredy cat and don't like being cold. Plus, I'm too big to get comfy in a car with my dodgy knees. " I don't mind outdoor/car sex but only if the weather is warm. Things have a tendancy to shrivel up in the cold, lol. How many fair weather doggers on here? ![]() | |||
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"I mostly just use it for the forum, it is comedy gold ![]() That is right as well. I like to do that ![]() | |||
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"Im unsure if i would even bother wasting my time or energy in meeting with anyone off the forums to be straight, im thinking i would have to turn up with a dictionary, text book, spread sheets, a full description of my entire life from birth ![]() ![]() Lol, I get what you mean but I don't think everyone is like that. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry too much. I would guess 100-200 go on the forums regularly??? Then there are often 25,000 online. It's also interesting to see on the forum, sometimes when there is a 'last time you had sex' or 'when was your last meet' , lot's of prolific posters haven't met anybody in ages. Lots do of course. But, the forum, isn't a mirror to the site as a whole." ![]() | |||
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"Im unsure if i would even bother wasting my time or energy in meeting with anyone off the forums to be straight, im thinking i would have to turn up with a dictionary, text book, spread sheets, a full description of my entire life from birth ![]() ![]() So far i think theres only 2 people on the forums i think that id have a decent conversation with Diamondjoe and sexybrain Im straight though | |||
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"Im unsure if i would even bother wasting my time or energy in meeting with anyone off the forums to be straight, im thinking i would have to turn up with a dictionary, text book, spread sheets, a full description of my entire life from birth ![]() ![]() Don't forget the photograph of your personality ![]() | |||
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"Oh, if only you were closer OP We hope to do a bit of a tour next summer , so who knows ![]() ![]() ![]() Not yet , but it's on our to do list ![]() | |||
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"Oh, if only you were closer OP We hope to do a bit of a tour next summer , so who knows ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Let me know when you plan a visit, I'll pop up. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I look for meets away from the forums if I can. Things can soon go sour ![]() Only if you are crap, or turn out to be a dick haha. The vast majority of my meets have been forumite past and present. | |||
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"I look for meets away from the forums if I can. Things can soon go sour ![]() We're with this. Plus we don't have time to waste playing hours of Snog, Shag, Avoid or any other derivation of kiss chase. | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . " Nonsense. We've always thought you two were the epitome of Fab. ![]() | |||
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"I like the wide variety of people, interests and opinions - as well as sexual tastes - and there are so many users that its easy to pick out your sexual play mates on site. Its the main benefit of fab - choice of partners as well as diversity of things to do on here, such as forum nonsense." ![]() | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() Well I still think you're great guys - even though I don't 'play your way'! A tiny percentage of fab use the forums - and the fact that we chat shit on here for hours rather than 'hunting' for shags kinda proves that we're not representative of fab as a whole! You're probably far more in tune with the rest of the site than we are! Now - gi'z a shag!! ![]() | |||
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"I don't get why things have to be either/or. Some like socials, some don't. Some want to fuck loads, some don't. I've never felt that I can't express my likes and dislikes on the forums. Yes, I enjoy socials, but I also like cock pics. I like chatting about sex in the forums, but I also enjoy having lots of sex with lots of people in clubs/hotels/whatever. I often think, OP, that your outlook on the forums sets up a monumental false dichotomy that simply doesn't exist. " ![]() | |||
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"I don't get why things have to be either/or. Some like socials, some don't. Some want to fuck loads, some don't. I've never felt that I can't express my likes and dislikes on the forums. Yes, I enjoy socials, but I also like cock pics. I like chatting about sex in the forums, but I also enjoy having lots of sex with lots of people in clubs/hotels/whatever. I often think, OP, that your outlook on the forums sets up a monumental false dichotomy that simply doesn't exist. " ![]() | |||
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"I don't match with most of the forum for various reasons but not too bothered by that, i don't meet from the forums anyway. There is much more to the site and there is someone for everyone on here, if you look. ![]() What not anybody ![]() | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() Gloswingers I think you are perfectly cut out for Fab... just different to most of the forum couples. But who cares? I like your attitude to it - you have fun and do things your way. Hope to keep seeing you in the forum. Nita | |||
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"I don't match with most of the forum for various reasons but not too bothered by that, i don't meet from the forums anyway. There is much more to the site and there is someone for everyone on here, if you look. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't get why things have to be either/or. Some like socials, some don't. Some want to fuck loads, some don't. I've never felt that I can't express my likes and dislikes on the forums. Yes, I enjoy socials, but I also like cock pics. I like chatting about sex in the forums, but I also enjoy having lots of sex with lots of people in clubs/hotels/whatever. I often think, OP, that your outlook on the forums sets up a monumental false dichotomy that simply doesn't exist. " Perhaps our outlook does set up a false dichotomy , but to suggest it doesn't exist on the forum is way off the mark . Have you looked at the when did you last have sex posts recently ? This thread has provoked some responses which suggest the forums don't represent the reality of the fab/ swinging lifestyle , and that it is a very diverse thing . Some posters see where we are coming from , and some don't , but generally respect our way . That's very refreshing and quite a surprise ! We fully understand that everyone has their own take on what swinging is to them , but the judgemental way some seem to be towards those who are so different , is a bit baffling given the choices we have all made . | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() Different strokes for differant folks ![]() | |||
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"I don't get why things have to be either/or. Some like socials, some don't. Some want to fuck loads, some don't. I've never felt that I can't express my likes and dislikes on the forums. Yes, I enjoy socials, but I also like cock pics. I like chatting about sex in the forums, but I also enjoy having lots of sex with lots of people in clubs/hotels/whatever. I often think, OP, that your outlook on the forums sets up a monumental false dichotomy that simply doesn't exist. " ![]() | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() ![]() probably should have said bloke and not block, but in my case..... it was probably intentional.... | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() pmsl go on people good to see you still fighting the good fight for the side of the depraved margins lolps merry xmass ![]() | |||
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"I don't match with most of the forum for various reasons but not too bothered by that, i don't meet from the forums anyway. There is much more to the site and there is someone for everyone on here, if you look. ![]() ![]() ![]() Ohhherrr Mrs. Points to neon flashing inbox sign.... ohhh bollex it's broke again ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The more profiles we read on here , well primarily those who post on the forums , the more we realise we aren't really cut out for the fab lifestyle . We love a quantity of quality , and will happily shag everyone on the site that we find attractive . We don't do socials , if there's a mutual attraction we far prefer to meet and have fun . We rarely do repeat meets , much preferring the adrenaline fuelled first meet . We love outdoor / car meets , and enjoy dogging . Single guys ( many probably in relationships ) are most welcome . It's good to see a cock pic . And so on ..... you get the gist . Does anyone else feel the same ? Like maybe every preference you have doesn't match the rest of the forum ? Fortunately it seems the rest of the site has a plethora of people with similar likes to ourselves ![]() You sound like a dream meet ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm not fond of outdoor sex or car sex, mainly because I'm a scaredy cat and don't like being cold. Plus, I'm too big to get comfy in a car with my dodgy knees. I don't want to go to clubs because people leave body fluids and stuff behind ![]() You are clearly going to the wrong clubs. Most people at the clubs I use are very respectful of others | |||
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