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"Or send this: "Thank you for your message but it has not been deemed interesting enough to warrant a reply" " But then you've replied?! Haha. Might try that one though. Mix it up a bit. | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! " I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored" What if it was "no thanks ya cocks too small"? | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature" What! That would be ace on here. They'd still ask why the auto response has been sent, methinks! | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature" Yes that would be very useful - a button delete and say no thanks in one hit. | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored" What if you've not read the profile of the person or meet their requirements? Should they still reply with a no thanks? Just curious and playing Devil's Advocate. | |||
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"I just delete now when someone asks me why. A while ago someone really forced the issue and so I finally told him the truth - that I just wasn't attracted to his face pic...he told me I was being harsh What gets me a little annoyed, though, is when people presume to tell me why I said no. After a generic "no thanks" message, one guy said it was clear I just didn't like black guys and went on to tell me it was obvious from our verifications and so on. Huh. Interesting seeing as how we don't even display all of our veris. How people's minds work boggles me. " Hmm yeah I've had a few like that. Asian, black disliking accusations and people saying it's because I clearly think they're ugly. I don't get it. It's like some people just don't understand preferences. Sometimes I even say, 'sorry, do you go around asking every woman in real life who doesn't want you, why she doesn't want you?' | |||
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"its not the abuse I mind so much as the arrogance... I once told someone he wasn't my type, to which he responded 'well it cant be because I'm not good looking so what is it?' " Dear Lord!!! Asshole! Hope you shot him down in flames haha. | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature" I dream of this | |||
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"its not the abuse I mind so much as the arrogance... I once told someone he wasn't my type, to which he responded 'well it cant be because I'm not good looking so what is it?' Dear Lord!!! Asshole! Hope you shot him down in flames haha." that's always the best bit | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature Yes that would be very useful - a button delete and say no thanks in one hit." Has this been suggested to admin? | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature Yes that would be very useful - a button delete and say no thanks in one hit. Has this been suggested to admin? " I've suggested it before as have others x | |||
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"its not the abuse I mind so much as the arrogance... I once told someone he wasn't my type, to which he responded 'well it cant be because I'm not good looking so what is it?' Dear Lord!!! Asshole! Hope you shot him down in flames haha. that's always the best bit " Even better when you see they've then left the site! | |||
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"I do sometimes reply with a polite thanks but no thanks, especially if they have put some thought and effort into their message. The majority accept it but occasionally I receive abuse back for rejecting them. So then I delete and block." I've never got that, do they think insulting you will change your mind? | |||
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"I do sometimes reply with a polite thanks but no thanks, especially if they have put some thought and effort into their message. The majority accept it but occasionally I receive abuse back for rejecting them. So then I delete and block. I've never got that, do they think insulting you will change your mind? " They know they're getting nowhere on the shag front, so just try and drag out some attention for as long as poss. | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature" That would be good. Especially if it read,No thank you and please don't message again asking me why. | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! " That's why we just delete | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! " Flip it and ask why you should like them | |||
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"I do sometimes reply with a polite thanks but no thanks, especially if they have put some thought and effort into their message. The majority accept it but occasionally I receive abuse back for rejecting them. So then I delete and block." done the same I usually find they send the rejection abuse and block so you can't tell them what you think about them back not that I'd want to give them that much time, but to me it just proves saying no was the right choice so they don't gain anything | |||
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"I keep knocking Annie Lennox back (No really. She's on here). And that's all I get from her....... " | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored What if it was "no thanks ya cocks too small"?" Even more respect given for her honesty | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored What if you've not read the profile of the person or meet their requirements? Should they still reply with a no thanks? Just curious and playing Devil's Advocate. " if someone hasn't had the manners to read your profile and they don't meet your requirements then they don't deserve a message back. If someone does read your profile and feels they meet your requirements but you feel they don't float your boat then I'd class it as very polite if you to say thanks but no thanks | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature That would be good. Especially if it read,No thank you and please don't message again asking me why. " Actually laughed out loud then | |||
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"Well we've just had strange message off single guy.. Why dnt you want to meet couples ever?? . Because it's not our preference But why not. I'm not a couple I'm a single guy I used the block button marie x" Hahaha, what a demanding little so-and-so x | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! " I always thank the person for replying and leave it at that, because i dont want to be told a) they find me unattractive and b) what ever reason they have as it is not gonna boost my ego. | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! Flip it and ask why you should like them" You know, I have done that on occasion and I get promised orgasms and all manner of tongue play, to the point I'm nauseous. So I daren't now! | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature" And as we live in a world where you can't please everyone I'd wager someone would still moan that replying like that isn't an personal enough approach | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored What if you've not read the profile of the person or meet their requirements? Should they still reply with a no thanks? Just curious and playing Devil's Advocate. if someone hasn't had the manners to read your profile and they don't meet your requirements then they don't deserve a message back. If someone does read your profile and feels they meet your requirements but you feel they don't float your boat then I'd class it as very polite if you to say thanks but no thanks " I don't normally reply that's all. People don't always put every requirement on a profile so it's impossible to know if you fulfill them all. It's time consuming to reply to people you'll never meet. I'd rather focus on finding people I actually want to fuck. That's me though. | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature And as we live in a world where you can't please everyone I'd wager someone would still moan that replying like that isn't an personal enough approach " they would as well | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored What if you've not read the profile of the person or meet their requirements? Should they still reply with a no thanks? Just curious and playing Devil's Advocate. if someone hasn't had the manners to read your profile and they don't meet your requirements then they don't deserve a message back. If someone does read your profile and feels they meet your requirements but you feel they don't float your boat then I'd class it as very polite if you to say thanks but no thanks I don't normally reply that's all. People don't always put every requirement on a profile so it's impossible to know if you fulfill them all. It's time consuming to reply to people you'll never meet. I'd rather focus on finding people I actually want to fuck. That's me though." Your profile was one of the first I'd seen when I joined and it made me think "Jesus she knows what she wants" | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored What if you've not read the profile of the person or meet their requirements? Should they still reply with a no thanks? Just curious and playing Devil's Advocate. if someone hasn't had the manners to read your profile and they don't meet your requirements then they don't deserve a message back. If someone does read your profile and feels they meet your requirements but you feel they don't float your boat then I'd class it as very polite if you to say thanks but no thanks I don't normally reply that's all. People don't always put every requirement on a profile so it's impossible to know if you fulfill them all. It's time consuming to reply to people you'll never meet. I'd rather focus on finding people I actually want to fuck. That's me though. Your profile was one of the first I'd seen when I joined and it made me think "Jesus she knows what she wants" " LOL | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored What if you've not read the profile of the person or meet their requirements? Should they still reply with a no thanks? Just curious and playing Devil's Advocate. if someone hasn't had the manners to read your profile and they don't meet your requirements then they don't deserve a message back. If someone does read your profile and feels they meet your requirements but you feel they don't float your boat then I'd class it as very polite if you to say thanks but no thanks I don't normally reply that's all. People don't always put every requirement on a profile so it's impossible to know if you fulfill them all. It's time consuming to reply to people you'll never meet. I'd rather focus on finding people I actually want to fuck. That's me though. Your profile was one of the first I'd seen when I joined and it made me think "Jesus she knows what she wants" LOL " Ooohhhh if only I was three years younger I'd message you | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored What if you've not read the profile of the person or meet their requirements? Should they still reply with a no thanks? Just curious and playing Devil's Advocate. if someone hasn't had the manners to read your profile and they don't meet your requirements then they don't deserve a message back. If someone does read your profile and feels they meet your requirements but you feel they don't float your boat then I'd class it as very polite if you to say thanks but no thanks I don't normally reply that's all. People don't always put every requirement on a profile so it's impossible to know if you fulfill them all. It's time consuming to reply to people you'll never meet. I'd rather focus on finding people I actually want to fuck. That's me though. Your profile was one of the first I'd seen when I joined and it made me think "Jesus she knows what she wants" LOL Ooohhhh if only I was three years younger I'd message you " And you'd get no reply... | |||
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"I used to be on a site where you could set an auto response. I miss that feature" I agree - an auto-response, with the option to block at the same time, would be great. | |||
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"just block and move on why does this bullshit have to be dragged up every other day. same with guys bitching about getting ignored, blocked or told no thanks just move on we are all here for fun not to be interegated " Just a thought Wouldn't it be great if that simple logic could be applied to passing by threads that piss us off without commenting on them as well | |||
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"The types that wanna know "why" are maybe a little insecure and cannot comprehend how you could decline them or their superb cock pic they included.. Invariably, they have all the social charms of a hemorrhoid. It does sometimes go a long way to explaining why they are unmarried, on fab and hassling you. Maybe create your own auto response and include in it a link to Radioheads Creepy on YouTube as reason why you don't want to chat with them... Does that seem harsh.. Nahh.. " Hilarious! | |||
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"just block and move on why does this bullshit have to be dragged up every other day. same with guys bitching about getting ignored, blocked or told no thanks just move on we are all here for fun not to be interegated " Bullshit? It's a fact of Fab and it was purely for the amusement of some, as I clearly said. Don't like it, tough. | |||
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"just block and move on why does this bullshit have to be dragged up every other day. same with guys bitching about getting ignored, blocked or told no thanks just move on we are all here for fun not to be interegated Just a thought Wouldn't it be great if that simple logic could be applied to passing by threads that piss us off without commenting on them as well " | |||
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"Many of us have been there... You get a message from someone who doesn't float your boat...you can choose to ignore, delete, block...but you just politely decline with a 'no thanks'...after all, that's what many Fabbers ask for instead of being ignored. Then you get: 'Why?' 'Because I'm not interested.' 'But why? There must be a reason?' 'Erm...choice?' 'What?' Delete. No real point in this thread, just an amusing observation! I'm definitely more happy when I get a no thanks as i find it more polite than being ignored What if you've not read the profile of the person or meet their requirements? Should they still reply with a no thanks? Just curious and playing Devil's Advocate. if someone hasn't had the manners to read your profile and they don't meet your requirements then they don't deserve a message back. If someone does read your profile and feels they meet your requirements but you feel they don't float your boat then I'd class it as very polite if you to say thanks but no thanks I don't normally reply that's all. People don't always put every requirement on a profile so it's impossible to know if you fulfill them all. It's time consuming to reply to people you'll never meet. I'd rather focus on finding people I actually want to fuck. That's me though. Your profile was one of the first I'd seen when I joined and it made me think "Jesus she knows what she wants" LOL Ooohhhh if only I was three years younger I'd message you And you'd get no reply... " Why??? How come???? What's up with me??? #%**+ lots of abuse !!!! | |||
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