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By *iceguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I had arranged a meet last night just for a drink and see how we get on and she didn't turn up and didn't have the decency to let me know.

How many of you has arranged a meet and been stood up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only twice so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever by the one guy ... but he always had some excuse and use to come back. In the end I stopped holding my breath and every Time we arranged a meet I would have a back up plan ... he didn't always stand me up though probably a ratio of like 1:3..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Never been stood up. I've had a social where there was no attraction but I wouldn't stand someone up and haven't been so far. It's quite crappy but sadly it happens.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

3 times.

Twice by the same guy, he had got called into work.

Once by a couple that had been messaging me for ages to meet....they messaged saying they'd be 10 mins and that was the last I heard until a few weeks later.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

And you are 100% it's was a female ?? Did you speak on phone or go on cam to confirm? Unfortunately guys do set up fake fem profiles so if you didn't speak before meet arranged then best to use it as a learn .

If you had spoke to 'her" and arranged date ,place and time and they got cold feet I'm afraid that happens and yes ideally they should have the guts to just tell you . Ive had guys go silent on day im meant to meet them ,I text them the day before to confirm and if I don't hear back I text on the day confirming as I heard nothing I take it they aren't interested in meeting and a good bye from me!

Saves wasted hair, makeup ,petrol and time .

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've not yet been stood up but i have inadvertantly stood someone up. A case of crossed wires and i thought we were meeting the following day.

Thankfully it didn't cause him too much inconvenience - it was a social in a coffee shop a few minutes walk from his place. We did meet the following day and have a lovely meet but there was no chemistry so we didn't do anything more than have a cuppa and a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been stood up as yet so I consider myself lucky really. It can happen it's just nice to receive some honesty about the situation rather than no communication at all

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Nil.... Either I'm very lucky (my lottery tickets tell a different story) or my selection process is very good. ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only twice so far "

Sorry, I was busy watching paint dry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only twice so far

Sorry, I was busy watching paint dry "

Thought you had to feed the horses! Woman at least stick to your original story haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not stood up as such. But I arranged a short notice meet with a couple. They gave me the address and said what car would be outside. I pulled up and everything seemed normal. Knocked on the door to find the angriest man alive. Pissed off because I was the 4th guy to knock on his door that night and he knew nothing about it.

Logged back into fab and found myself blocked. Guessing it was an account just looking to piss of a neighbour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only twice so far

Sorry, I was busy watching paint dry

Thought you had to feed the horses! Woman at least stick to your original story haha "

Damn! Wrong person I stood up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had arranged a meet last night just for a drink and see how we get on and she didn't turn up and didn't have the decency to let me know.

How many of you has arranged a meet and been stood up? "

So far, not yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never got stood up unless you count getting blocked on the day of the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only twice so far

Sorry, I was busy watching paint dry

Thought you had to feed the horses! Woman at least stick to your original story haha

Damn! Wrong person I stood up "

How many they were ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute excuses tend to be the thing on here.

I've had friends who have been in a pub, waiting, and their date just hasn't turned up. It's brutal.

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

As a couple we used to get blokes let us down all the time ! One night tho we decided To arrange several to come as we knew They would back out and oops they all wanted To come along !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She could of made it. Seen you and ran. Happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She could of made it. Seen you and ran. Happened to me "

I was testing out my new running shoes... I told you this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had arranged a meet last night just for a drink and see how we get on and she didn't turn up and didn't have the decency to let me know.

How many of you has arranged a meet and been stood up? "

Yep. Happened to me on Saturday.

Reported, deleted and blocked, but don't dwell on it. Most likely a fake

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"I had arranged a meet last night just for a drink and see how we get on and she didn't turn up and didn't have the decency to let me know.

How many of you has arranged a meet and been stood up? "

Me but not of fab

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not whilst part of a couple,on my old single profile I arranged to meet a man for a social.He stood me up,left site soon after.

When he rejoined ,which i knew he would I had great pleasure reminding him what he did,when he messaged to meet!.

Hope you reported her op x

Miss

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Just once so far on fab..

But I made the most of it and had a few nice drinks in a bar in London..

And sobbed inconsolably into them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort of. Arranged a meet with a guy I'd been chatting with for weeks. I messaged him when I was in the taxi (as planned), only for him to tell me he thought I was fake as I wouldn't give him my phone number, so he wasn't dressed! I went out anyway, sat in the pub for an hour, had a drink of courage, ticked the 'meet today' section, met a lovely bloke and...... Was a nice day in the end

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