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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady " Especially when her other half finds out,plenty on here . Miss | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun!" Good luck...is Ashley Madison still going? | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun!" Have you a partner who guys could chat up etc behind your back? | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun!" I'm sorry, i'll have to stop you there sir, you're under arrest by the moral police, you have the right to go unlos, but anything you say can and will be judged in a forum of swingers  | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun! I'm sorry, i'll have to stop you there sir, you're under arrest by the moral police, you have the right to go unlos, but anything you say can and will be judged in a forum of swingers "hahahahaha brilliant | |||
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"Lots of lady's on here for discreet fun behind hubby back who seem to be accepted but as soon as a man does it he's crucified " . Fully agree.....the old pot and kettle comes to mind  | |||
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"Lots of lady's on here for discreet fun behind hubby back who seem to be accepted but as soon as a man does it he's crucified . Fully agree.....the old pot and kettle comes to mind "I think its more that the married women on her, don't tend to keep starting threads about it or justify cheating.I've seen the ones that do get laid into too. Miss | |||
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"That would be cheating then, not "swinging"" Correct! | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun! I'm sorry, i'll have to stop you there sir, you're under arrest by the moral police, you have the right to go unlos, but anything you say can and will be judged in a forum of swingers "Excellent! | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun! I'm sorry, i'll have to stop you there sir, you're under arrest by the moral police, you have the right to go unlos, but anything you say can and will be judged in a forum of swingers
Excellent! "For real | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun! I'm sorry, i'll have to stop you there sir, you're under arrest by the moral police, you have the right to go unlos, but anything you say can and will be judged in a forum of swingers "Hahahaha that's class. | |||
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"That would be cheating then, not "swinging" Correct!" Incorrect. Married people can swing. | |||
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"Yes love married women " Ahhhh....finally someone who doesn't think we should all be burned st the stake  | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady " What is wrong with a single lady? | |||
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"Lots of lady's on here for discreet fun behind hubby back who seem to be accepted but as soon as a man does it he's crucified " I've seen many a married women get crucified on these forums you just don't see it as often as they tend to just quietly go about getting their fun without drawing constant attention to it through threads like men tend to | |||
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"Lots of lady's on here for discreet fun behind hubby back who seem to be accepted but as soon as a man does it he's crucified I've seen many a married women get crucified on these forums you just don't see it as often as they tend to just quietly go about getting their fun without drawing constant attention to it through threads like men tend to" I'd agree. People say others should not moralise about cheating, but whilst it's a free site and everyone can use it as they wish. The name fabswingers suggests a target audience of swingers. So you can understand why some may wish to differentiate swinging were openness and honesty is part of the idea behind it, to just any other sexual contact site. If I was on Ashley madison I would imagine honesty and openness to not be as high on the list of ideal meets. It's not unusual for online communities to set their own culture. Ie nothing to stop religious people joining an online atheist community, but don't expect your _iews to be the standard or accepted _iew. | |||
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" as a single woman, sought after to play with married couples, who is it that tells me which married man, i can meet? on one hand encouraging me for their own fantasies, because that is right and proper, of course as they are in control of their adultery, where as they dont like the fact that they aren't in control, of everyone, because they would hate it, if it happened to them...thus they think anyone who doesn't agree with their little _iew of the world, is despicable..because they are a threat to everyone, everywhere. ..it's not my circus... i shall continue to meet with whom i feel attracted to. men, couples, women no one controls me..no man, no woman. if that means i am immoral, then so be it..." Now that is the difference between a swinging site and a sex site. We in my world. | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun! I'm sorry, i'll have to stop you there sir, you're under arrest by the moral police, you have the right to go unlos, but anything you say can and will be judged in a forum of swingers "And we will take down your pants and spank you for punishment XXX | |||
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" as a single woman, sought after to play with married couples, who is it that tells me which married man, i can meet? on one hand encouraging me for their own fantasies, because that is right and proper, of course as they are in control of their adultery, where as they dont like the fact that they aren't in control, of everyone, because they would hate it, if it happened to them...thus they think anyone who doesn't agree with their little _iew of the world, is despicable..because they are a threat to everyone, everywhere. ..it's not my circus... i shall continue to meet with whom i feel attracted to. men, couples, women no one controls me..no man, no woman. if that means i am immoral, then so be it... Now that is the difference between a swinging site and a sex site. We in my world." i have just as many valued and mutually respectful interactions as anyone else on here, i just don't need a wedding ring to keep asserting my relationships are great and open, wonderful and 'honest', nothing to defend and, nothing to lose.. | |||
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"That would be cheating then, not "swinging"" That doesnt stop many fabbers. There must be as many cheats here as swingers | |||
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" You can't help it if women are more clever than men, at least we don't go and advertise it, that if it ever happen "It happens and she did advertise it here. Got pregnant as a result. Hence ex wife. She still here too | |||
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I have no issues playing with a married woman, regardless of her hubby's knowledge, or whether she tells me the truth about her marital status or not. It's None of my business, it's not like I'm trying to date her or steal her away. It's just sex. She has her reasons for cheating and makes her own decisions. Who is anyone else to judge her?
Sorry if this post annoys those on the moral high ground, but I don't particularly care, it's just my opinion. | |||
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"There's been a lot of judgement of married folks who play behind their partners backs, and the people who want to play with them lately, and it stinks in my opinion. To those who play with strangers at clubs, do you know if those strangers are cheating? Probably not. But either you don't ask, or you accept the lie they tell you, so you can claim your conscience is clear
I have no issues playing with a married woman, regardless of her hubby's knowledge, or whether she tells me the truth about her marital status or not. It's None of my business, it's not like I'm trying to date her or steal her away. It's just sex. She has her reasons for cheating and makes her own decisions. Who is anyone else to judge her?
Sorry if this post annoys those on the moral high ground, but I don't particularly care, it's just my opinion."Great to see someone with some common sense | |||
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"There's been a lot of judgement of married folks who play behind their partners backs, and the people who want to play with them lately, and it stinks in my opinion. To those who play with strangers at clubs, do you know if those strangers are cheating? Probably not. But either you don't ask, or you accept the lie they tell you, so you can claim your conscience is clear
I have no issues playing with a married woman, regardless of her hubby's knowledge, or whether she tells me the truth about her marital status or not. It's None of my business, it's not like I'm trying to date her or steal her away. It's just sex. She has her reasons for cheating and makes her own decisions. Who is anyone else to judge her?
Sorry if this post annoys those on the moral high ground, but I don't particularly care, it's just my opinion.
Great to see someone with some common sense "Indeed | |||
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"To cheaters this would be common sense To their partners who are blissfully ignorant of what is going on behind their backs, it would be hurtful and humiliating, I guess" But you said it yourself...blissfully ignorant. What they don't know can't hurt them. | |||
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"To cheaters this would be common sense To their partners who are blissfully ignorant of what is going on behind their backs, it would be hurtful and humiliating, I guess But you said it yourself...blissfully ignorant. What they don't know can't hurt them." And when they find out as that is what invariably happens? Do cheaters have a conscience? | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun! I'm sorry, i'll have to stop you there sir, you're under arrest by the moral police, you have the right to go unlos, but anything you say can and will be judged in a forum of swingers "I love the way the moral warriors come out to play on threads like this one.. Me, I prefer married ladies anyway simply because they are usually in the same boat as me.. Stuck in a shit marriage, and invariably cos it was their partner that screwed up the relationship in the first place... 'Scuse me guys, could you just pause for a second while I go and get a pen to take notes on how I should live my life... P's. If anyone responds with "you could always leave", I will bitch slap you so hard even Google won't be able to find you!!! | |||
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"So this is becoming a judgement site rather than a swinging site" Exactly! I dont care about that mate. I'm just after a good time with people who want the same. | |||
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"Anymore for anymore? Still very hot for me" Plaster it on your profile,put it on your status,stick posters up in your local area,just don't start a thread about it that won't work. | |||
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"Anymore for anymore? Still very hot for me Plaster it on your profile,put it on your status,stick posters up in your local area,just don't start a thread about it that won't work." At least one good idea in that. Will give it a go. | |||
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"Anymore for anymore? Still very hot for me Plaster it on your profile,put it on your status,stick posters up in your local area,just don't start a thread about it that won't work. At least one good idea in that. Will give it a go. " Poster's?  | |||
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"Anymore for anymore? Still very hot for me Plaster it on your profile,put it on your status,stick posters up in your local area,just don't start a thread about it that won't work. At least one good idea in that. Will give it a go. Poster's? "Haha..printing them now | |||
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"So this is becoming a judgement site rather than a swinging site" People pass judgements in all walks of life so why would a swingers site be any different? Firm believer in not doing something unless you can accept the consequences of your actions and making decisions that people will judge me for is one of those consequences. Not that I'm married and playing away, but even in this day and age promiscuous women are still frowned upon so I know some will judge me as good enough to fuck but too much of a "slag" to marry and that's fair enough | |||
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"Anymore for anymore? Still very hot for me Plaster it on your profile,put it on your status,stick posters up in your local area,just don't start a thread about it that won't work. At least one good idea in that. Will give it a go. Poster's?
Haha..printing them now "Good man,print them as big as you can and get yourself to the gym! You'll need to be either strong or fast for when that huge fucker of a husband catches you  | |||
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"Anymore for anymore? Still very hot for me Plaster it on your profile,put it on your status,stick posters up in your local area,just don't start a thread about it that won't work. At least one good idea in that. Will give it a go. Poster's?
Haha..printing them now
Good man,print them as big as you can and get yourself to the gym! You'll need to be either strong or fast for when that huge fucker of a husband catches you "Can move pretty quick already. Won the dad race at my kids school  | |||
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"Anymore for anymore? Still very hot for me Plaster it on your profile,put it on your status,stick posters up in your local area,just don't start a thread about it that won't work. At least one good idea in that. Will give it a go. Poster's?
Haha..printing them now
Good man,print them as big as you can and get yourself to the gym! You'll need to be either strong or fast for when that huge fucker of a husband catches you
Can move pretty quick already.
Won the dad race at my kids school "Oh well it's been nice knowing you | |||
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"Anymore for anymore? Still very hot for me Plaster it on your profile,put it on your status,stick posters up in your local area,just don't start a thread about it that won't work. At least one good idea in that. Will give it a go. Poster's?
Haha..printing them now
Good man,print them as big as you can and get yourself to the gym! You'll need to be either strong or fast for when that huge fucker of a husband catches you "
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun!" have fun just ignore the police xx | |||
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"So this is becoming a judgement site rather than a swinging site" Only on the forum. Forums are there so that people with little else to do can pass judgement on others and improve their lives vicariously though the perceived failings of other's lives. That's why we come here. Makes us feel fantastic that we are better than literally everyone on earth. | |||
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"overwhelming sense of piousness in the air..its the stench of the forum messiahs again.. "He's not the messiah, he's a very naughty boy..The virgin Mary however, she wasn't a bareback swinger who got caught out, she was a virgin..
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"this might be controversial but I wonder how many couples on here that have a dominant partner who is into swinging with a 'weaker' other half who does it just to please their partner. which is worse? cheating or having your partner do something they don't want to just to please you? Just thought..." I really can't see anyone admitting to this | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady " They are in here, they just know the meaning of 'discreet' | |||
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"this might be controversial but I wonder how many couples on here that have a dominant partner who is into swinging with a 'weaker' other half who does it just to please their partner. which is worse? cheating or having your partner do something they don't want to just to please you? Just thought..." Loads & we get lots of messages from them too, which if you think about it is in itself proof because it's usually a him looking and perving pics without recourse to the printed bit (or his Mrs opinion most of the time) 
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!"I agree. There are people just getting on with meeting people and never talk down the absent partner | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady " Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. " Hahah | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Hahah "ive been caught in the act with a married woman. Was pretty unpleasant at the time but I get hard thinking about it. | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. " *off to check on compare_the_tits.com | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Hahah ive been caught in the act with a married woman. Was pretty unpleasant at the time but I get hard thinking about it. "Well that's psychological excitment, the danger element..... got nothing to do with the woman and everything to do with the situation. | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. " Married pussy tastes sweetest of all | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Married pussy tastes sweetest of all "Unless you eat a lot of garlic! | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. *off to check on compare_the_tits.com " | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Married pussy tastes sweetest of all
Unless you eat a lot of garlic! "
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Married pussy tastes sweetest of all
Unless you eat a lot of garlic!
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Married pussy tastes sweetest of all
Unless you eat a lot of garlic!
Care to test that theory?
I'm not married. "Let's test the garlic pussy thing (I'll bring a ring for your finger if you like, got the perfect one from a cracker) | |||
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!" | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Hahah ive been caught in the act with a married woman. Was pretty unpleasant at the time but I get hard thinking about it.
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!"
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"FFS!! Can the moral police please put a sock in it!! I'm not justifying anything, nor giving excuses or reasons. I want NSA fun with like minded people. If you don't agree or like it, I don't really want to know." i you don't care about their opinion why are you ranting about it and screaming moral police? | |||
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"FFS!! Can the moral police please put a sock in it!! I'm not justifying anything, nor giving excuses or reasons. I want NSA fun with like minded people. If you don't agree or like it, I don't really want to know. i you don't care about their opinion why are you ranting about it and screaming moral police? " Because it is clogging up this thread. | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Hahah ive been caught in the act with a married woman. Was pretty unpleasant at the time but I get hard thinking about it. "First rule of cheating (in her case) DON'T GET CAUGHT! | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Hahah ive been caught in the act with a married woman. Was pretty unpleasant at the time but I get hard thinking about it.
First rule of cheating (in her case) DON'T GET CAUGHT! "Second rule is don't get caught getting caught. You need to be Ninja Style (closest I could find for a ninja) | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Hahah ive been caught in the act with a married woman. Was pretty unpleasant at the time but I get hard thinking about it.
First rule of cheating (in her case) DON'T GET CAUGHT!
Second rule is don't get caught getting caught. You need to be Ninja Style (closest I could find for a ninja)"She told me he knew...... I believed her. I'd have still been there if she'd told me. I'd have been more cautious though. | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady " You are right it is hot My wife is married I love to fuck her discreetly I also love fucking her indiscreetly In fact I just love to fuck her | |||
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"Where are you all? So hot to have discret fun with an attached or married lady Im with you there. Married womens tits are tittier and their fannies are fannier. Hahah ive been caught in the act with a married woman. Was pretty unpleasant at the time but I get hard thinking about it.
First rule of cheating (in her case) DON'T GET CAUGHT!
Second rule is don't get caught getting caught. You need to be Ninja Style (closest I could find for a ninja)" | |||
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!
Exactly. If that is how little they respect their partner of years, how little would they respect the sh*g-meat, a bit on the side, the floozie "I would think it depends on how / why you meet to how much respect you want. For example, those who go dogging, ask no names, never had any contact before/after give a monkeys if the person who they're fucking 'treats them with respect'...? More of a longer term arrangement i.e. a FB I can understand wanting respect. Which why it's easier to meet someone in the same boat, both know where you stand. | |||
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"Lots of lady's on here for discreet fun behind hubby back who seem to be accepted but as soon as a man does it he's crucified " because guys are stupid enough to post about it.iv never seen a woman post a cheating thread.yes there are women that are at it like guys but the difference is they arnt as dumb about it and keep it discreet.iv never cheated (dont understand why you would want to disrespect someone you care about) but wouldn't rule number 1 be discretion . | |||
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"Plenty of married women on here to play with as long as their husband knows about it, it isn't cheating" open relationship is the word thou words can still be lies...  | |||
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"Plenty of married women on here to play with as long as their husband knows about it, it isn't cheatingopen relationship is the word thou words can still be lies... "that was the very lie I was told...... he wasn't open to me fucking his wife in the marital bed... | |||
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!
Exactly. If that is how little they respect their partner of years, how little would they respect the sh*g-meat, a bit on the side, the floozie
I would think it depends on how / why you meet to how much respect you want.
For example, those who go dogging, ask no names, never had any contact before/after give a monkeys if the person who they're fucking 'treats them with respect'...?
More of a longer term arrangement i.e. a FB I can understand wanting respect.
Which why it's easier to meet someone in the same boat, both know where you stand.
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!
Exactly. If that is how little they respect their partner of years, how little would they respect the sh*g-meat, a bit on the side, the floozie "The two are not necessarily correlated. Respect is based on a person's attitude towards an entire person, involving all facets of that person known to the respector. Not just their sexual juxtaposition in the life of the person doing the respecting. But it does make for a nice point to think that it does. | |||
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!
Exactly. If that is how little they respect their partner of years, how little would they respect the sh*g-meat, a bit on the side, the floozie
The two are not necessarily correlated.
Respect is based on a person's attitude towards an entire person, involving all facets of that person known to the respector.
Not just their sexual juxtaposition in the life of the person doing the respecting.
But it does make for a nice point to think that it does."I don't think that people who lie and cheat on their partners, respect them | |||
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!
Exactly. If that is how little they respect their partner of years, how little would they respect the sh*g-meat, a bit on the side, the floozie
The two are not necessarily correlated.
Respect is based on a person's attitude towards an entire person, involving all facets of that person known to the respector.
Not just their sexual juxtaposition in the life of the person doing the respecting.
But it does make for a nice point to think that it does.
I don't think that people who lie and cheat on their partners, respect them"I was talking about the third person in the relationship. The point of your post appeared to be that the lack of perceived respect from the cheater towards their spouse infers that they have also little respect for the person they are cheating with. That is not necessarily the case. | |||
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!
Exactly. If that is how little they respect their partner of years, how little would they respect the sh*g-meat, a bit on the side, the floozie
The two are not necessarily correlated.
Respect is based on a person's attitude towards an entire person, involving all facets of that person known to the respector.
Not just their sexual juxtaposition in the life of the person doing the respecting.
But it does make for a nice point to think that it does.
I don't think that people who lie and cheat on their partners, respect them
I was talking about the third person in the relationship.
The point of your post appeared to be that the lack of perceived respect from the cheater towards their spouse infers that they have also little respect for the person they are cheating with.
That is not necessarily the case."Oh, I see | |||
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"I just wish people would just get on with it. About 1% of the entire site uses the forums so why not put a meet request, status update etc to reach more people? The people I despise are those that attribute 100% of the blame to their spouse with terms like boring, shit marriage etc for a relationship they're 50% responsible for. Honestly, who would really want to touch such despicable, disrespectful people with someone else's?!! Everyone talks about respect from playmates. If someone shows such disrespect to their spouse do you really expect, as a casual fuck, to be treated better?!! get real!
Exactly. If that is how little they respect their partner of years, how little would they respect the sh*g-meat, a bit on the side, the floozie
The two are not necessarily correlated.
Respect is based on a person's attitude towards an entire person, involving all facets of that person known to the respector.
Not just their sexual juxtaposition in the life of the person doing the respecting.
But it does make for a nice point to think that it does.
I don't think that people who lie and cheat on their partners, respect them
I was talking about the third person in the relationship.
The point of your post appeared to be that the lack of perceived respect from the cheater towards their spouse infers that they have also little respect for the person they are cheating with.
That is not necessarily the case.
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"That would be cheating then, not "swinging" Correct! Incorrect. Married people can swing." But if only one of thems in the know then its not is it | |||
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"this might be controversial but I wonder how many couples on here that have a dominant partner who is into swinging with a 'weaker' other half who does it just to please their partner. which is worse? cheating or having your partner do something they don't want to just to please you? Just thought..." An extremely valid point. I know which I would rather be. | |||
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"this might be controversial but I wonder how many couples on here that have a dominant partner who is into swinging with a 'weaker' other half who does it just to please their partner. which is worse? cheating or having your partner do something they don't want to just to please you? Just thought... An extremely valid point. I know which I would rather be." I'd personally choose to walk away from both situations and have in the past. Because I choose to have love and respect for myself and the people that can't offer me the opportunity to do that aren't worth my time | |||
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"this might be controversial but I wonder how many couples on here that have a dominant partner who is into swinging with a 'weaker' other half who does it just to please their partner. which is worse? cheating or having your partner do something they don't want to just to please you? Just thought... An extremely valid point. I know which I would rather be. I'd personally choose to walk away from both situations and have in the past. Because I choose to have love and respect for myself and the people that can't offer me the opportunity to do that aren't worth my time " | |||
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"Ok, are we done with the ethics and morals now? Can we get back to.....who wants to have some fun??? " I'm having loads of fun Watching this train wreck unfold | |||
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"Ok, are we done with the ethics and morals now? Can we get back to.....who wants to have some fun??? " Some people just seem to thrive on making threads of this nature negative. I'm with you...keep it fun everyone, after all it's meant to be the season of goodwill | |||
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"FFS!! Can the moral police please put a sock in it!! I'm not justifying anything, nor giving excuses or reasons. I want NSA fun with like minded people. If you don't agree or like it, I don't really want to know." I assume by this you are going to want everyone to stop posting. There are moral police on both sides. You too have posted your own moral stance. As have others. Your pushing your values just as hard as any one else. | |||
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"Ok, are we done with the ethics and morals now? Can we get back to.....who wants to have some fun??? " I did say these threads don't work! | |||
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"Ok, are we done with the ethics and morals now? Can we get back to.....who wants to have some fun??? I did say these threads don't work! "Haha..well, I am if nothing a trier. I'm not one to give up or stop at an I told you so. Press on is what I say.. So, come on, anyone out there? Dont be shy, message me | |||
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"FFS!! Can the moral police please put a sock in it!! I'm not justifying anything, nor giving excuses or reasons. I want NSA fun with like minded people. If you don't agree or like it, I don't really want to know. I assume by this you are going to want everyone to stop posting. There are moral police on both sides. You too have posted your own moral stance. As have others. Your pushing your values just as hard as any one else." You make a fair point, but my intention for this thread was for people with like minded morals to me. If others want to moan about cheaters etc.., by all means start their own thread, lets leave this for those who want to cheat..mmm, so hot | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? " They don't meet other cheaters | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? " Some are too far away, one is work in progress ( I hope) and some dont want to know. Anyone else? | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters ". I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own | |||
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"Does that mean you just have to create a thread like this and available women come running? I'm definitely missing a trick "Nothing to lose, so you gotta try right? I think of it as an online, no likey, no lighty | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? " I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. " Why do you assume couples that don't approve of cheating are insecure of their relationships? | |||
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"this might be controversial but I wonder how many couples on here that have a dominant partner who is into swinging with a 'weaker' other half who does it just to please their partner. which is worse? cheating or having your partner do something they don't want to just to please you? Just thought... An extremely valid point. I know which I would rather be." That's for me is the saddest side of swinging. There are lots of couples who do this. I guess like a lot of things it's easy to judge, people have their reasons. | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own "A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'. Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen...... | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
"Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least "Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances. We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people. | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people."I'm not trying to foist anything. I just think it's a bit of a double standard to say I'm a cheat but I won't meet one. No one as to agree with me but I have the right to that opinion | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun! Have you a partner who guys could chat up etc behind your back? " I like that comment | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people."This is a practical consideration; synchronised clock-watching (erm, otherwise known as, 'discretion', in some exclusive circles) | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people.
This is a practical consideration; synchronised clock-watching (erm, otherwise known as, 'discretion', in some exclusive circles) "*clock watching* ~ known as a sweeping generalisation in said circle. The only man I've ever met who clock watched was single & had a plane to catch. | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people.
I'm not trying to foist anything. I just think it's a bit of a double standard to say I'm a cheat but I won't meet one. No one as to agree with me but I have the right to that opinion "I never said anything about that. What an extraordinary response. I was speaking about the "clock watching" behaviour and suggesting that not all people in a similar situation will necessarily act in the same way or be constrained by the same boundaries. This ridiculous tendency to revert to the "that is my opinion and you cannot say anything about it" is a bit silly. | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people.
I'm not trying to foist anything. I just think it's a bit of a double standard to say I'm a cheat but I won't meet one. No one as to agree with me but I have the right to that opinion
I never said anything about that.
What an extraordinary response.
I was speaking about the "clock watching" behaviour and suggesting that not all people in a similar situation will necessarily act in the same way or be constrained by the same boundaries.
This ridiculous tendency to revert to the "that is my opinion and you cannot say anything about it" is a bit silly."I knew what you were referring to it's why I originally said people playing away need discretion to a degree | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people.
This is a practical consideration; synchronised clock-watching (erm, otherwise known as, 'discretion', in some exclusive circles)
*clock watching* ~ known as a sweeping generalisation in said circle.
The only man I've ever met who clock watched was single & had a plane to catch."A 'quickie', was it? Did he catch it? | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people.
I'm not trying to foist anything. I just think it's a bit of a double standard to say I'm a cheat but I won't meet one. No one as to agree with me but I have the right to that opinion
I never said anything about that.
What an extraordinary response.
I was speaking about the "clock watching" behaviour and suggesting that not all people in a similar situation will necessarily act in the same way or be constrained by the same boundaries.
This ridiculous tendency to revert to the "that is my opinion and you cannot say anything about it" is a bit silly.
I knew what you were referring to it's why I originally said people playing away need discretion to a degree "You just wanted to address the clock watching term | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people.
I'm not trying to foist anything. I just think it's a bit of a double standard to say I'm a cheat but I won't meet one. No one as to agree with me but I have the right to that opinion
I never said anything about that.
What an extraordinary response.
I was speaking about the "clock watching" behaviour and suggesting that not all people in a similar situation will necessarily act in the same way or be constrained by the same boundaries.
This ridiculous tendency to revert to the "that is my opinion and you cannot say anything about it" is a bit silly.
I knew what you were referring to it's why I originally said people playing away need discretion to a degree "Forgive me but I cannot understand how, if you knew what I was referring to, your response was on a totally different topic? | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? They don't meet other cheaters
. I have seen that on the odd profile of a person playing away find it a bit weird but each to their own
A person playing away is not a criteria I look for in a man & I wouldn't want to meet someone if I get the inkling that he'd be incapable of being discreet / careful or he can't chat / message because the OH is 'always watching'.
Maybe it's the same for the people on the profiles you've seen......
Could be but if they're also cheating surely they needed the same clock watching discretional aspect, to a degree at least
Not always. Everyone is different and has unique circumstances.
We need to be careful not to foist our own pre conceptions onto people.
This is a practical consideration; synchronised clock-watching (erm, otherwise known as, 'discretion', in some exclusive circles)
*clock watching* ~ known as a sweeping generalisation in said circle.
The only man I've ever met who clock watched was single & had a plane to catch.
A 'quickie', was it? Did he catch it?"No it wasn't a quickie & yes he did.... | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. Why do you assume couples that don't approve of cheating are insecure of their relationships? " I haven't mentioned approving or disapproving. It's simply somebody elses choices, somebody else's business and consenting adults. | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. Why do you assume couples that don't approve of cheating are insecure of their relationships? I haven't mentioned approving or disapproving. It's simply somebody elses choices, somebody else's business and consenting adults." As are couple relationship yet you felt the need to comment on the security of them | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun!have fun just ignore the police xx" | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. Why do you assume couples that don't approve of cheating are insecure of their relationships? I haven't mentioned approving or disapproving. It's simply somebody elses choices, somebody else's business and consenting adults. As are couple relationship yet you felt the need to comment on the security of them " Yes because it all comes down to security. | |||
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"Not really looking for a definition or a moral compass. Just looking to have some fun!have fun just ignore the police xx "Exactly! And more to the point, also up for 3some with a couple. Just as hot for me. Something so horny about fucking a married or attached woman, with or without their partner being there | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. Why do you assume couples that don't approve of cheating are insecure of their relationships? I haven't mentioned approving or disapproving. It's simply somebody elses choices, somebody else's business and consenting adults. As are couple relationship yet you felt the need to comment on the security of them Yes because it all comes down to security. " But by your own logic you have no business questioning it, yet chose to. You know kinda like the moral police do | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. Why do you assume couples that don't approve of cheating are insecure of their relationships? I haven't mentioned approving or disapproving. It's simply somebody elses choices, somebody else's business and consenting adults. As are couple relationship yet you felt the need to comment on the security of them Yes because it all comes down to security. But by your own logic you have no business questioning it, yet chose to. You know kinda like the moral police do " I haven't suggested people have no business questioning. I am suggesting that secure people are less likely to be bothered. They question other things. | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. Why do you assume couples that don't approve of cheating are insecure of their relationships? I haven't mentioned approving or disapproving. It's simply somebody elses choices, somebody else's business and consenting adults. As are couple relationship yet you felt the need to comment on the security of them Yes because it all comes down to security. But by your own logic you have no business questioning it, yet chose to. You know kinda like the moral police do " He only questions on topics which are other people's business but which he feels he is an authority on | |||
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"Back on track please people, lets get back on track. Any attached or married women want to play with or without their partner? "What happened to the 'work-in-progress' from this thread? | |||
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"Back on track please people, lets get back on track. Any attached or married women want to play with or without their partner?
What happened to the 'work-in-progress' from this thread? "Lol..still exactly that. A WiP, I'm a patient guy for the right lady. | |||
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"Back on track please people, lets get back on track. Any attached or married women want to play with or without their partner?
What happened to the 'work-in-progress' from this thread?
Lol..still exactly that. A WiP, I'm a patient guy for the right lady."Patience is the key, as they say in Penge; keep holding on to the key | |||
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"Back on track please people, lets get back on track. Any attached or married women want to play with or without their partner?
What happened to the 'work-in-progress' from this thread?
Lol..still exactly that. A WiP, I'm a patient guy for the right lady.
Patience is the key, as they say in Penge; keep holding on to the key "Don't get it? The key? Penge? | |||
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"Back on track please people, lets get back on track. Any attached or married women want to play with or without their partner?
What happened to the 'work-in-progress' from this thread?
Lol..still exactly that. A WiP, I'm a patient guy for the right lady.
Patience is the key, as they say in Penge; keep holding on to the key
Don't get it?
The key? Penge?"Never mind; Shag will be along soon to explain | |||
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"Back on track please people, lets get back on track. Any attached or married women want to play with or without their partner?
What happened to the 'work-in-progress' from this thread?
Lol..still exactly that. A WiP, I'm a patient guy for the right lady."Was she really single and lying to you about being married? | |||
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"Back on track please people, lets get back on track. Any attached or married women want to play with or without their partner?
What happened to the 'work-in-progress' from this thread?
Lol..still exactly that. A WiP, I'm a patient guy for the right lady.
Patience is the key, as they say in Penge; keep holding on to the key
Don't get it?
The key? Penge?"Soon to be El Pengo. | |||
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"A few cheating married women have come forward on this thread OP, so as they're your target audience have you attempted to contact them? Has you attempts at contact them failed so now you want more? Or are you just enjoying playing the antagonist? I don't see why you suggest the Op is being antagonistic. If couples are secure in their relationship then this doesn't bother them. If not, it's not the Ops fault. Why do you assume couples that don't approve of cheating are insecure of their relationships? I haven't mentioned approving or disapproving. It's simply somebody elses choices, somebody else's business and consenting adults. As are couple relationship yet you felt the need to comment on the security of them Yes because it all comes down to security. But by your own logic you have no business questioning it, yet chose to. You know kinda like the moral police do He only questions on topics which are other people's business but which he feels he is an authority on "Evidently | |||
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"this might be controversial but I wonder how many couples on here that have a dominant partner who is into swinging with a 'weaker' other half who does it just to please their partner. which is worse? cheating or having your partner do something they don't want to just to please you? Just thought... An extremely valid point. I know which I would rather be. That's for me is the saddest side of swinging. There are lots of couples who do this. I guess like a lot of things it's easy to judge, people have their reasons." Precisely, live and let live is my motto | |||
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