FabSwingers.com forum: Mean Girls

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yesterday I cleared my inbox - it was a slow day at work. I'm a nice lady if you send me a nice message I'm gonna message back even if it's to politely say thanks but no thanks.

Twice, the female half of seperate couples I replied to sent me hateful messages outlining reasons why they didn't want me anyway yet it's single men that get all the bad press.

Don't be a douche ladies.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Yesterday I cleared my inbox - it was a slow day at work. I'm a nice lady if you send me a nice message I'm gonna message back even if it's to politely say thanks but no thanks.

Twice, the female half of seperate couples I replied to sent me hateful messages outlining reasons why they didn't want me anyway yet it's single men that get all the bad press.

Don't be a douche ladies. "

And the NHS also advised against using one either. But that being the case, I won't be able to reply to most of my messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And the NHS also advised against using one either. But that being the case, I won't be able to reply to most of my messages

Brilliant. That gave me a giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit film!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women can be very bitchy on here at times

its so childish.

Sending kisses OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got that from the female half of a couple I had arranged to meet,called me a fake, said she didn't like their time wasted ect.ect, I was looking forward to the meet. fk knows why anyone would be jealous of me. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shit film!!!"

Imma gonna wear my Mean Girls vest next time you take me out for lunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit film!!!

Imma gonna wear my Mean Girls vest next time you take me out for lunch. "

Err next time I take you out.....your turn to pay Mrs...

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

Jealousy and insecurities are rife in this lifestyle. It's supposed to be about having fun......and sex. .....and even friendship......but some people make it so much harder than it should be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shit film!!!

Imma gonna wear my Mean Girls vest next time you take me out for lunch.

Err next time I take you out.....your turn to pay Mrs...

I forgot my purse already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to hear some balance at last so thank you for pointing this out'

Is there an unwritten rule on here that men are fair game to be rejected but how dare anyone reject a couple or female? It seemed to be that way when I was here before anyway. People seemed amazed that anyone with at least one vagina on offer might not be wanted and took rejection badly so I agree with you it's not just men that can't take being turned down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ego can be a beeyatch on here. There's a thin veneer of niceness on the forum that soon gets shed in PM by some. That said, others come straight out with it both barrels on the forum too, but at least you know where you are with them!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

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People seemed amazed that anyone with at least one vagina on offer might not be wanted and took rejection badly so I agree with you it's not just men that can't take being turned down.

At least!

Watching too much sci-fi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why a social first is always good so u can see what is on offer and if there's the attraction and also you can judge if they are genuine

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Jealousy and insecurities are rife in this lifestyle. It's supposed to be about having fun......and sex. .....and even friendship......but some people make it so much harder than it should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single ladies are just as bad, OP, but they seem to get away with it more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Single ladies are just as bad, OP, but they seem to get away with it more!"

I blame Beyoncé woah oh oh!

I don't get mail from single ladies and I'm glad of this now. If I'm ever guilty of such behaviour please feel free to kick me in the faff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urgh... How bloody rude!

I'm sure there are more shitheads than normal at the moment. I also wish this site gave us loads more emojis to send. Sometimes you just gotta flip someone off!

Hope it hasn't bothered you Mac!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit film!!!

Imma gonna wear my Mean Girls vest next time you take me out for lunch.

Err next time I take you out.....your turn to pay Mrs...

I forgot my purse already"

Did you leave it with those dougnuts.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single ladies are just as bad, OP, but they seem to get away with it more!

I blame Beyoncé woah oh oh!

I don't get mail from single ladies and I'm glad of this now. If I'm ever guilty of such behaviour please feel free to kick me in the faff. "

I doubt that'll ever be necessary, you're lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single ladies are just as bad, OP, but they seem to get away with it more!

I blame Beyoncé woah oh oh! "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yesterday I cleared my inbox - it was a slow day at work. I'm a nice lady if you send me a nice message I'm gonna message back even if it's to politely say thanks but no thanks.

Twice, the female half of seperate couples I replied to sent me hateful messages outlining reasons why they didn't want me anyway yet it's single men that get all the bad press.

Don't be a douche ladies. "

I've had this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single ladies are just as bad, OP, but they seem to get away with it more!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had it quite recently where we replied back to a hi how are you message from a couple. They werent for us but were newbies so engaged in polite none sexual conversation. Ie how they were finding fab.. giving some advice.. they then asked when we were free to meet .. so said sorry but not for us and ohhhh the abuse.

Ive also been the other way where I have decided that after chatting that things said ( apparently by the female half of a couple) that it wasnt for us.. and got back things like being accused of jealousy and insecurities as the other woman was superior to me.. I always wish them well and then block.

Think in that case it was the chat about where both men would cum on her..and how they would do this that and the other and then.. oh cali can join in if she likes..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think in that case it was the chat about where both men would cum on her..and how they would do this that and the other and then.. oh cali can join in if she likes..

What a generous offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post OP thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shit film!!!

Imma gonna wear my Mean Girls vest next time you take me out for lunch.

Err next time I take you out.....your turn to pay Mrs...

I forgot my purse already

Did you leave it with those dougnuts.....

Nope. I haven't seen any of the doughnuts you mention. That's just a line you use to lure me to questionable locations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are a few women in here who if they don't get what they want, turn into a shite. Much respect goes out to good honest people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here for almost a year now and never received a rude message.

Couples (that messaged me) don't read profiles but they're never rude or pushy.

Single women only ever wink or send hi message, the conversation usually ends there because I reply in the same way instead of being creative. Still no rudeness or abuse though, I guess I'm lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a nice couple just of the larger size (Kat) xx

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I replied once to a message from a couple saying thanks for the message but you're not what I'm looking for on here etc.... she replied back well we were desperate for a meet anyway so that's why we messaged the likes of you!

I wouldn't mind but the reason that I responded that way initially was cos they were both smokers, lived miles away and the bloke was 4 inches smaller than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday I cleared my inbox - it was a slow day at work. I'm a nice lady if you send me a nice message I'm gonna message back even if it's to politely say thanks but no thanks.

Twice, the female half of seperate couples I replied to sent me hateful messages outlining reasons why they didn't want me anyway yet it's single men that get all the bad press.

Don't be a douche ladies. "

what alwayw makes me laugh is when you do get rude messages from couples people always say....oh i it was a single man on a couples account

No some woman and couples are cunts too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been on here for almost a year now and never received a rude message.

Couples (that messaged me) don't read profiles but they're never rude or pushy.

Single women only ever wink or send hi message, the conversation usually ends there because I reply in the same way instead of being creative. Still no rudeness or abuse though, I guess I'm lucky

Haha totally tempted to spoil your run of good messages.

Seriously though that's exactly how it should be. No drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I replied once to a message from a couple saying thanks for the message but you're not what I'm looking for on here etc.... she replied back well we were desperate for a meet anyway so that's why we messaged the likes of you! "

ive had that too

i replied to a couple once just saying sorry i dont meet couples and got a message saying you mean couples wont meet you fattie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a horrible message this morning outlining the disgusting bits of my body... tips on how to lose weight and confirming what a riddled whore I was.

Weirdly though it was his intro message... never spoke before.

Why?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We get it from couples, our profile quite clearly says we don't play with them but we don't block them as some play alone. One in particular does seem to go out of their way on occasion to pass the odd barbed comment that others not privy to our "chats" over our rejecting them wouldn't get.

Too many folks of all types & profiles can't read or can't be bothered too. The same people are where most of the angst comes from if our experiences are anything to go by..

We rarely reject though, as we only want a female we rarely get the first message to be able to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some crazy bitches on here...n not in the good way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a horrible message this morning outlining the disgusting bits of my body... tips on how to lose weight and confirming what a riddled whore I was.

Weirdly though it was his intro message... never spoke before.

Why? "

OMG i had that too this morning, was he from Milton Keynes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some crazy bitches on here...n not in the good way!

Fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a horrible message this morning outlining the disgusting bits of my body... tips on how to lose weight and confirming what a riddled whore I was.

Weirdly though it was his intro message... never spoke before.

Why?

OMG i had that too this morning, was he from Milton Keynes?"

I don't know... 'dominating doorman'. Don't wanna unblock him to see location.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are some crazy bitches on here...n not in the good way!

Fact

Ah I love a crazy bitch though. My best friend is one. She scared the absolute bejeezus out of a fab friend on a night out. Priceless. The good thing about crazy bitches is that they don't hide the crazy well. It's a good filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit film!!!"

How dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd love any message from a female lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some crazy bitches on here...n not in the good way!

Fact

Don't get me wrong....I love a few CRAZY bitches...not much of a fan of crazy BITCHES tho...if ya know what I mean?!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I normally just get abuse from guys, but have had one couple tell me upon declining their offer that I looked like I needed a bloody good wash anyway.

I did chuckle!

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