FabSwingers.com forum: do woman tell there friends about fab??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering how the ladys tell the tale. I personally wouldnt but often here guys talk freely about fab publicly.

Feel free to comment ladys.... Just out of interest!!! Xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't discuss my sex life with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tell anybody in my none sexual life about my sexual life, why would i

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I've told three people that I'm on here.

All fine with it, one she joined up, one he has been to some clubs with us and the other she doesn't want to do either but is jealous of the regular sex I'm getting lol

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Just wondering how the ladys tell the tale. I personally wouldnt but often here guys talk freely about fab publicly.

Feel free to comment ladys.... Just out of interest!!! Xx"

Never speak about fab to anyone.

It's my little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My friends are my safety back up when I'm on fab business. They've even joined me on a fab date. They've even saved me on occasion with the words 'don't just shag him because you're horny. You'll regret it in the morning'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My vanilla friends? Good Lordy Lord no; they think I'm a candidate for padded walls and a straight jacket my virtue of being 42, never married and childless! Their heads would implode if they knew and I'd probably be packed off to a nunnery!

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"My vanilla friends? Good Lordy Lord no; they think I'm a candidate for padded walls and a straight jacket my virtue of being 42, never married and childless! Their heads would implode if they knew and I'd probably be packed off to a nunnery! "

Nice baubles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some friends know.

They find it all fascinating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like most of us are big secret. Those of you who are brace enough to bare all (face included) I salute you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice baubles

Thank you kindly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told my 2 best friends, but we've been friends forever (literaly) so pretty much share everything.

They had loads of questions, have seen the pics we had on at the time (they only contain us anyway) and didnt care as long as I'm happy.

And Mr's best friend knows as it was him who recomnended fab to us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told my best friend when I was d*unk the next day I said I was joking. I don't know if she believed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one my friend know abouy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only tell them if i thought they might join the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell the truth

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I don't discuss my sex life with anyone."

This exactly

Miss

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Just wondering how the ladys tell the tale. I personally wouldnt but often here guys talk freely about fab publicly.

Feel free to comment ladys.... Just out of interest!!! Xx"
yep my friends know im on here and that i go to clubs. its my choice of lifestyle..so what?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I though the first rule of fab club is we don't speak about fab club

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum!

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thats a shame they arent more supportive, mine say its the happiest they've seen me in years..bless them i have very good friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one friend who knows but not the full details, it's hard as sometimes you want to tell someone all about meets etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my friends have a select group that know they are on here

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I though the first rule of fab club is we don't speak about fab club

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why im not ashamed that i like sex and that i am on the scene..its part of me, why should i hide my involvement..i dont talk details or talk about anyone else..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum!

thats a shame they arent more supportive, mine say its the happiest they've seen me in years..bless them i have very good friends x"

Me too - but I am a monogamist by nature, not a swinger, and they know it.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum!

thats a shame they arent more supportive, mine say its the happiest they've seen me in years..bless them i have very good friends x

Me too - but I am a monogamist by nature, not a swinger, and they know it.

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ahhhh ok..then i hope you find your man xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum!

thats a shame they arent more supportive, mine say its the happiest they've seen me in years..bless them i have very good friends x

Me too - but I am a monogamist by nature, not a swinger, and they know it.

ahhhh ok..then i hope you find your man xx"

Thanks........meanwhile...

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

I've never told anyone,a lady I used to see told a couple of her mates about me and how we met,that was through swinging heaven.

We always met on a Sunday due to our work commitments and just by chance that was the day her friend/s would phone or even knock on the door.it was pretty funny really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't discuss Fab with anyone other than my partner outside of the site

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And all of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And all of us "

I said outside of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I though the first rule of fab club is we don't speak about fab club

why im not ashamed that i like sex and that i am on the scene..its part of me, why should i hide my involvement..i dont talk details or talk about anyone else.."

It was a joke based on the movie fight club!! No insult intended! Was only trying to have light hearted fun

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I though the first rule of fab club is we don't speak about fab club

why im not ashamed that i like sex and that i am on the scene..its part of me, why should i hide my involvement..i dont talk details or talk about anyone else..

It was a joke based on the movie fight club!! No insult intended! Was only trying to have light hearted fun "
xx

i wasnt insulted,x. i picked up on the joke, however, i was making the point that, too many people think its not alright to talk about lifestyle choice on here, apparently, we all have to lie to people, but, we have to abide by 'moral' rules when it comes to who we meet and play with...err no.

i'm discreet about people, but not about my lifestyle.there is a difference.

people go round saying they are married, in love, etc and i say i have several lovers whom i care for, value and respect.

. they are rpoud of whom they are with , i am proud to be who i am in my relationships too. just my thoughts..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tell my friends. Saying that one of my friends knows cos she introduced me to this site. Other than her no one in my friends circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I've told people who I thought would be interested. Some of them have signed up. Some of them meet people regularly on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both quite open about swinging with our friends...

Although I have one particular mate that I wish to keep it from..

Harry

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I don't tell my friends. Saying that one of my friends knows cos she introduced me to this site. Other than her no one in my friends circle. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of friends that I talk to about this place. Some, I know wouldn't get it even though they have casual Tinder hook ups!

Personally, I'm not ashamed of being on here, but you have to know your audience!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

No, why would I tell my best friend about FabS. But when I did meet people outside of clubs, I did tell her who, where and when I am meeting and to call the police if she did not get a call from me by a certain time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the friend who introduced us to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya I have. Have 2 close friends and have told them both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only person who knows I'm on here is my accountant

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A couple of my friends who are as openminded as I am. They are both on here now and it's good to have honest chats about things related to this.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Some do, some other parents who we see as friends do too, oddly when H talks to the female on girly chat some want to know "everything" so are obviously interested. Then I talk yo the guy and usually get "Lucky b'stard! I wish xyz would be like that". We reckon most need to talk more and if our being honest and open about ourselves causes that to happen then great

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Its mostly on a need to know basis and they mostly dont need to know but a couple of really close friends know, particularly for safety reasons.

I think the increase in sexual offences and murders caused from sex site contacts means that we should all take precautions. Discretion and modosty are useful but safety is top priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two of my best friends know I'm on here, one is now also a member and the other lives vicariously through me!! She doesn't judge me at all, she's says she's never seen me happier or looking so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell everyone and anyone...my boss and colleagues know, my mates all know. If they didn't accept it I wouldn't be working where I am or friends with those who know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok im not a woman but I do wish I had some mates on here to talk to about fab related stuff, that must be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three of my close friends know. One joined for a year, the other two love the stories!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't told anyone I'm on here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I have told a few people, including my sister.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

have told 3 good friends- one joined, one checkes that I am ok and the other other one always wants to hear the stories but would never do it himself lol. don't share it w everyone but then I don't share my life w everyone in General...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't discuss my sex life with anyone."

Except those involved in it, neither do I.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

No, only on here is the world of fab mentioned, outside world is seperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tell women friends DON'T JOIN SITES BECAUSE THE MEN TREAT YOU LIKE A CUM BUCKET

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i tell women friends DON'T JOIN SITES BECAUSE THE MEN TREAT YOU LIKE A CUM BUCKET"

Well that escalated quickly!

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By *0sumthincoupleCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

who's business is it but ours?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I told 3 of my friends when we were out one night. Two of them were great about it, the other one was really concerned about my safety and found it difficult until she found out another friend of hers has a lover. Now she's as intrigued as the other two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 2 closest friends know. We talk about everything though

and their only concern is my safety, they love hearing about it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my long time friends know. In fact when discussing this place, seems they've been on here too. Only one is still active on here now though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way fab is my quilty pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all my friends know, and a fair few of my colleagues.

I've nothing to hide and when I've had a spectacular weekend I can openly discuss it and show off about 14 men gangbangs, filthy sex parties and the benefits of offering haribos in exchange for a good licking

As an added bonus, if I ever get brutally murdered, two of my friends can access my fab account to help identify the suspect, and they also have access to my house keys to remove any evidence of kink and bondage gear so as not to embarrass whoever has to sort my crap out when I'm gone.

Win win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend knows. She's the one who checks up on my and knows where I am and who with

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Everyone in our life knows we met on a swingers site and know we are swingers takes all the bullshit out of it ...

At first we got loads of questions and was asked loads of advice no one treated us any different and makes for instrestin convos on normal nights outs

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

No I Don,t discuss this with friends.....whether fem/ male.

Find vanilla( think thats right term) to judgemental and opinionated....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"No I Don,t discuss this with friends.....whether fem/ male.

Find vanilla( think thats right term) to judgemental and opinionated...."

Blooming eck my non swinger friends are much less judgmental and opinionated than some swingers I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bloke but I don't discuss fab with anyone - with the exception, of course, of other fabsters and forumites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of our friends knows, only because one day she unexpectedly showed me Fab on her phone.

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