FabSwingers.com forum: Message etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies, couples - what's the etiquette for follow up messages?

I've sent a message to a couple that caught my fancy and I receive a positive reply. So far so good. I respond to the reply but then I hear nothing else. My message is sat unread and not deleted.

it could be that my response is unseen amongst all the other mail? Or have they changed they're minds?

What's the etiquette for following up here?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, couples - what's the etiquette for follow up messages?

I've sent a message to a couple that caught my fancy and I receive a positive reply. So far so good. I respond to the reply but then I hear nothing else. My message is sat unread and not deleted.

it could be that my response is unseen amongst all the other mail? Or have they changed they're minds?

What's the etiquette for following up here?"

There isn't one.

Personally, if I send a message and there is no reply, I don't blink an eye (and I delete all sent and received messages in any event).

You could, of course, send half-a-dozen follow up messages and wait for the inevitable block. Your choice.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will pay different things, we would say don't, they have probably read it and marked it as unread until both are there to reply, or they have time to reply

If it was us we would delete the read message then your not torturing yourself

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience.