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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens

Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.

I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am into an age but more so the maturity of the mind of a person.

Having say that about age, I do have principles and morals though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am into an age but more so the maturity of the mind of a person.

Having say that about age, I do have principles and morals though. "

You also like anyone that'll provide Kinder Bueno!

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

Yeah I find I get attention on here from men in their 20's not that I am complaining!!

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By *roubleinparadise27Man
over a year ago

Heathrow


"I am into an age but more so the maturity of the mind of a person.

Having say that about age, I do have principles and morals though.

You also like anyone that'll provide Kinder Bueno! "

Amen to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are of similar age and I'd say experience. Also your both fit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself love older women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am into an age but more so the maturity of the mind of a person.

Having say that about age, I do have principles and morals though.

You also like anyone that'll provide Kinder Bueno! "

I am just a Man goddammit haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

filters are a fabulous thing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the experience, the confidence and the maturity of a older woman that is such a turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me..... mrs s I'm early thirties and prefer people 35+ mainly go for late 30s - 40s as I find conversations better and also feel they know more of what they like and dislike as more life experiences, nothing against younger but definitely prefer older.....

mr s would probably say he Likes younger but he's not a massive social person so age does not bother him either x X

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I had a very nice meet with a pair of much younger FBs last week who are certainly into us older Silver Foxes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yeah, it's fashionable. Wrinkles and grey hair are the new black.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal opinion but I find the more mature woman much more attractive and much more responsive during meets

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

The younger of you is only 36, so that's not exactly ancient. As a rough rule of thumb we go for 10 years older or younger than us, so if others do the same that still puts you within range of people in their twenties.

Also you look like an attractive couple so you will always get attention.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Yeah, it's fashionable. Wrinkles and grey hair are the new black."

Thank fook for that.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"We are of similar age and I'd say experience. Also your both fit!!"

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my older women

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"filters are a fabulous thing!! "

Sometimes

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"I had a very nice meet with a pair of much younger FBs last week who are certainly into us older Silver Foxes"

Yes. Same here.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"The younger of you is only 36, so that's not exactly ancient. As a rough rule of thumb we go for 10 years older or younger than us, so if others do the same that still puts you within range of people in their twenties.

Also you look like an attractive couple so you will always get attention. "

Thankyou and yes I'd never really thought about the age bracket. That would make sense with the interest from 20 somethings

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"Yeah, it's fashionable. Wrinkles and grey hair are the new black."

What about bald with middle age spread?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Yeah, it's fashionable. Wrinkles and grey hair are the new black."

They are? No-one seems to have got that memo from where I'm sat (present company excepted of course!! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal go both it the law of attraction for me age is sort of just a number

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"Personal go both it the law of attraction for me age is sort of just a number "

Oh I'd agree. There are 40yr olds out there that look like they're 30 and 30yr olds that look like theyre 40+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never really think of age, just if there's an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes so true and 20s that look 40s I have noticed that most of the older persons care less and actually look better for it as some of these young ones look really old but its all in the eye of the beholder and the chemistry so each to there own

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.

I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also."

I like the older lady, but as I am 47 I'm off to the old peoples home.

Infamy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you're not exactly old, especially compared to other swinging couples.

You both look great from your pics, plus you have a great profile. So you're bound to get attraction from all ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine you get alot of attention from all ages, IMHO the Mrs in your profile is smoking hot so kind of expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea I find all ages find me hard to resist

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

As a young man I had no interest in the older generation(s), I had an interest inladies of my own age group .. it does seem to be a new(ish) thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"filters are a fabulous thing!!

Sometimes "

always...

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness


"Yeah, it's fashionable. Wrinkles and grey hair are the new black."

My other half is a fashion item

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would personally say yes being a younger guy an older lady is something to look out for. I definatly try my luck with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOVE older men, always have done, always will

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will fuck anything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm absolutely way in to older woman, and couples. And will intently message older (generations) over my own age.

It's the way of there mind, they know what they want, how they want it, and when they want it

Plus

Been a young man boosted in to adulthood and the responsibilitys that fall with it, I find I resonate better on a level with them

I find your selfs eaiser to talk to and able to see eye to eye on a better level, but maybe I'm just an old soul

Plus I love to appreciate a plesure a beautiful filthy fit older woman and show tham what a younger gentleman can do for them

But who knows everyone will be different, iv naturally had experiences with older woman from a younger age, so maybe that has a big thing to do with it.

personally i find older woman irresistible, especially tasty edible looking cougars with a undeniable Un questioned love for some younger meat that love to get stuck in and eat me all up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a weakness for older woman but I don't mind age as long as there is a mutual attraction.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

OP, good post. I would say you are well within the interest of that age group. You have a good profile and look attractive. The younger generation do seem to like more mature and experienced people. We were seeing people of that age when we were younger, now we are just out to grass! Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, good post. I would say you are well within the interest of that age group. You have a good profile and look attractive. The younger generation do seem to like more mature and experienced people. We were seeing people of that age when we were younger, now we are just out to grass! Enjoy! "

For myself 30+ Isint mature I'm mostly looking for 40-55 is my biggest turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40s is my ideal

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"40s is my ideal"

Amen sister...!

Men in their...

20's... are like puppies, uncontrollable and exhausting!

30's... where are they? Too busy with work and young children I guess...???

***********************

40's... perfect. Nicely rounded and still fit to fuck all night!!!

***********************

50's... those that are not ageing well are beginning to fray at the edges.

60's plus ... its not really about sex anymore but can be great company!

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"40s is my ideal"

Your profile definitely looks ideal to to us

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"40s is my ideal

Amen sister...!

Men in their...

20's... are like puppies, uncontrollable and exhausting!

30's... where are they? Too busy with work and young children I guess...???

***********************

40's... perfect. Nicely rounded and still fit to fuck all night!!!

***********************

50's... those that are not ageing well are beginning to fray at the edges.

60's plus ... its not really about sex anymore but can be great company!"

I would wager there's a few 60 yr olds out there up in arms with regards that comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a twenty-something, I don't particularly have age preferences, but since I've started swinging I've generally had more fun and positive experiences with older ladies/couples. I really don't like generalising, but so far I've found that they tend to have personality, know what they like/don't like etc, and are often more relaxed which is all very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Dad was 20 yrs older than my Mom......

Therefore it's in my gene's to be attracted to much younger guys at my age right

I have yet to find a guy at the age of 50 or above that I'm physically attracted to and want to explore! I've tried and hunted them but do hot older guys actually exist on here??? Not in my in-box they don't.

Of course I wish I were back in my early 30's...at my peak so to speak but right now, my in-box is telling me that younger guys definitely do like the older woman....or am I dilusional...just pussy???????? Fucked if I know!!!!!

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By *eryCuriousCouple2012Couple
over a year ago

Funville


"Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.

I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also."

Hmmm you do seem to be an attractive couple so it doesn't really surprise us that you're attracting attention, regardless of age. Not that you're exactly pushing the old zimmer just yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The youngest we've played with was a couple she was 25 and he was 28

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"40s is my ideal

Amen sister...!

Men in their...

20's... are like puppies, uncontrollable and exhausting!

30's... where are they? Too busy with work and young children I guess...???

***********************

40's... perfect. Nicely rounded and still fit to fuck all night!!!

***********************

50's... those that are not ageing well are beginning to fray at the edges.

60's plus ... its not really about sex anymore but can be great company!

I would wager there's a few 60 yr olds out there up in arms with regards that comment "

Hello...

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


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Hmmm you do seem to be an attractive couple so it doesn't really surprise us that you're attracting attention, regardless of age. Not that you're exactly pushing the old zimmer just yet lol"

Thankyou x

We did meet a couple lastweek at a club who initially Contacted us on here. He was 29 and she was 25. We've stayed in contact and they want to meet us again at some point. Probably in the Newyear.

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By *ips n NipsWoman
over a year ago

in dreams

I think it's a bit of a kink though. No one in their early to mid-twenties would ever actually walk up to me and have a conversation in real life. But here they have the opportunity to.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I think it's a bit of a kink though. No one in their early to mid-twenties would ever actually walk up to me and have a conversation in real life. But here they have the opportunity to. "

Really? Because I don't know if it's because I'm an arrogant gobshite but when I was in late teens to early twenties, I would frequently go up to people older than me. And there was one bar in Aberdeen that was notorious for older women and younger rugger buggers. I just think on here it's more of a 'thing'. Rather than just being two people.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"I think it's a bit of a kink though. No one in their early to mid-twenties would ever actually walk up to me and have a conversation in real life. But here they have the opportunity to.

Really? Because I don't know if it's because I'm an arrogant gobshite but when I was in late teens to early twenties, I would frequently go up to people older than me. And there was one bar in Aberdeen that was notorious for older women and younger rugger buggers. I just think on here it's more of a 'thing'. Rather than just being two people. "

Yes I've had more than a couple of 25yr old girls approach me in a restaurant, a club and Facebook associates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a bit of a kink though. No one in their early to mid-twenties would ever actually walk up to me and have a conversation in real life. But here they have the opportunity to. "

If I knew you were into younger guys I would. In real life it's abit more intimidating because I don't know your preference, it's not what most people would call the norm in real life..

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By *ral DMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ifind theres not many people who want to meet the 35 to 40 catorgory. Luckily im 40 soon so hopefully my luck will be in.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"Ifind theres not many people who want to meet the 35 to 40 catorgory. Luckily im 40 soon so hopefully my luck will be in. "

You best hope the trending age doesn't rise as you age. A bit like the government raising retirement age just as you're getting close

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By *arahandmatCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

I do find myself more attractive to older men,

Sarah

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older. "

I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me

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By *955vintageMan
over a year ago

itchen stoke

Spot on I believe

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.

I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me "

Haha. I knew what you meant x

Do you think Cougars are becoming extinct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I find I get attention on here from men in their 20's not that I am complaining!! "

It at 39 your not actually ancient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.

I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me

Haha. I knew what you meant x

Do you think Cougars are becoming extinct?"

NO still here

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.

I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me

Haha. I knew what you meant x

Do you think Cougars are becoming extinct?

NO still here "

Sorry I worded that wrong.

What I mean is. Is the term cougar a thing of the past?

Are the hunters becoming the hunted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.

I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also."

most of my mail is from guys in their 20s, not sure if thats because they seek out older women or maybe there are just more guys that age on here

Sadly younger guys aren't my thing i prefer guys around my own age but very very few mail me, maybe they are after younger women

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.

I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me

Haha. I knew what you meant x

Do you think Cougars are becoming extinct?"

I have no idea - I don't count myself as a cougar as I have never looked for young men, the most I will do is compliment a nice pic lol! But I may have met one or two that came after me relentlessly.....

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.

I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also.

most of my mail is from guys in their 20s, not sure if thats because they seek out older women or maybe there are just more guys that age on here

Sadly younger guys aren't my thing i prefer guys around my own age but very very few mail me, maybe they are after younger women "

I think you're right, especially on dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the attraction is older folk have life experience, are mature and know what they want!

The older couples or females don't mess around with meets i.e no turning up etc and generally more up to try new things!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Most of my mail is from guys in their 20s, not sure if thats because they seek out older women or maybe there are just more guys that age on here

Sadly younger guys aren't my thing i prefer guys around my own age but very very few mail me, maybe they are after younger women "

Problem I have is the opposite!! Seems I'm just the wrong side of 50 for the majority of ladies profiles, yours included, which is a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of messages from chaps in their twenties. I don't think it's down to much more than the fact that there are a lot of them who join here, the vast majority of whom have slightly misaligned expectations both regarding the nature of the sight and the level of "eagerness" from us old codgers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope for us oldies yay !

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"I get lots of messages from chaps in their twenties. I don't think it's down to much more than the fact that there are a lot of them who join here, the vast majority of whom have slightly misaligned expectations both regarding the nature of the sight and the level of "eagerness" from us old codgers.

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You're far from an old codger. Looks wise or age wise!

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