FabSwingers.com forum: Are men more openly bi?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are a happily married couple and have played together with other but are now wishing to explore my husbands bi curious side!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No but the ones who are might be more genuinely bi than females who declare they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea of the overall numbers but I would say the majority of messages I receive are from guys whose profile information claims they are straight in direct contradiction to the content of their message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,every guy on here is straight,,trust me I get a lot of messages n there mostly from straight guys

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

No, it's the opposite, they hide it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you get a lot of message from guys wanting sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi bi birdy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but the ones who are might be more genuinely bi than females who declare they are."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

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By *inful pairCouple
over a year ago

Montrose

Must admit I do love bi guys x

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I can't say any of the ladies who watched me indulge my bi side were frowning

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?"

Homophobia in many cases, not all but a lot.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?"

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"No but the ones who are might be more genuinely bi than females who declare they are."

A perfect way of summing it up!!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"We are a happily married couple and have played together with other but are now wishing to explore my husbands bi curious side!"

I'd certainly like to explore your hubby OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?"

Many men seem to believe that stating that they are bisexual in their profile will mean that they have less of a chance with the ladies.

Our response is always that if they can't be honest about that in their profile, what the heck else can we believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want."

You may not frown upon it, but others do.

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By *otwife8690Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want."

So bi guys are not able to want straight meets? You're going on a fact that because a guy is bi that he would *want* to play with you. Maybe you aren't his type at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a happily married couple and have played together with other but are now wishing to explore my husbands bi curious side!"

As a newbie and as a bi curious bloke, I do think being truthful can be a hurdle. I was told to fuck off by one lady for having it on my profile.

It may be 2016 but some people are still stuck in 1916

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

You may not frown upon it, but others do. "

If they do, would you want to meet them anyway?

To me, hiding your sexuality is just a step backwards.

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

Bi bi baby baby bi bi

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

So bi guys are not able to want straight meets? You're going on a fact that because a guy is bi that he would *want* to play with you. Maybe you aren't his type at all? "

My straight fab friends know I'm not going to be making a pass at them during any of our group meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Openly bi, and we get very little interest but maybe we're just ugly

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

So bi guys are not able to want straight meets? You're going on a fact that because a guy is bi that he would *want* to play with you. Maybe you aren't his type at all? "

They might do yes. But just list it and put that in the profile. If stuff is hidden, how can people get the right meets? How does a bi guy ever meet and play bi, if he lists as straight?

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

"We are a happily married couple and have played together with other but are now wishing to explore my husbands bi curious side!

As a newbie and as a bi curious bloke, I do think being truthful can be a hurdle. I was told to fuck off by one lady for having it on my profile.

It may be 2016 but some people are still stuck in 1916"

So you'd rather lie about your sexuality so you can shag someone who frowns upon bisexual men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a happily married couple and have played together with other but are now wishing to explore my husbands bi curious side!

As a newbie and as a bi curious bloke, I do think being truthful can be a hurdle. I was told to fuck off by one lady for having it on my profile.

It may be 2016 but some people are still stuck in 1916

So you'd rather lie about your sexuality so you can shag someone who frowns upon bisexual men ?"

No!! Most definitely not. Im here to expand on being curious and I'm being open by declaring I'm curious.

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS
over a year ago

nottingham

"I have no idea of the overall numbers but I would say the majority of messages I receive are from guys whose profile information claims they are straight in direct contradiction to the content of their message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

So bi guys are not able to want straight meets? You're going on a fact that because a guy is bi that he would *want* to play with you. Maybe you aren't his type at all? "

Surely not, all us bi guys will try for whatever we can get regardless of attraction *sticks tongue firmly in cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is full of guys who display a straight profile but are obviously bi from the context of their messages.

With this in mind I'd say that a lot of guys are not openly bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My block list is full of guys who display a straight profile but are obviously bi from the context of their messages.

With this in mind I'd say that a lot of guys are not openly bi."

Are you bi?

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By *otwife8690Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

So bi guys are not able to want straight meets? You're going on a fact that because a guy is bi that he would *want* to play with you. Maybe you aren't his type at all?

Surely not, all us bi guys will try for whatever we can get regardless of attraction *sticks tongue firmly in cheek.

Ess "

Well i guess so, because there is a shortage of men on fab after all xD

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I fucked a straight guy yesterday.

I asked, in passing, about his sexuality, "I'm straight, don't fancy men I just really enjoy the physical sensation," before we double-teamed him.

I dunno. His life, his sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

You may not frown upon it, but others do.

If they do, would you want to meet them anyway?

To me, hiding your sexuality is just a step backwards."

I think you're reading too much into my statement.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I class myself as openly Bi on here and would never seek to hide it, nor would I seek to push it on anyone that was straight (am just as happy playing 'straight' when the situation calls for it as I am playing bi).

If all that means people pass me by, then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My block list is full of guys who display a straight profile but are obviously bi from the context of their messages.

With this in mind I'd say that a lot of guys are not openly bi.

Are you bi?"

Why would I block bi guys if I was bi?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

You may not frown upon it, but others do.

If they do, would you want to meet them anyway?

To me, hiding your sexuality is just a step backwards.

I think you're reading too much into my statement.

Ok, more of a general comment really. If someone is so anti-bi , would a bi person want to meet that type of person anyway? It's a natural filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that it's fine for women to go girl on girl but for guys it's frowned upon?

It's not frowned on. I (Mr) am straight , Bun is bi. I don't frown on bi guys, and a bi guy would be wasting both our times if he was hoping to play.

I'd say list as you are, and you'll get the meets you want.

You may not frown upon it, but others do.

If they do, would you want to meet them anyway?

To me, hiding your sexuality is just a step backwards.

I think you're reading too much into my statement.

Ok, more of a general comment really. If someone is so anti-bi , would a bi person want to meet that type of person anyway? It's a natural filter."

Is that a direct question to me or this thread in general?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ok, more of a general comment really. If someone is so anti-bi , would a bi person want to meet that type of person anyway? It's a natural filter.

Is that a direct question to me or this thread in general? "

haha sorry - no just a general observation / question really.

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