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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've never had a guy make me orgasm from any other position than me being on top...and even then it's rare! I guess I've accepted the fact that I require clitoral stimulation to climax and being on top gives me the ability to control this.

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find the right cock

hope this is helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had a guy make me orgasm from any other position than me being on top...and even then it's rare! I guess I've accepted the fact that I require clitoral stimulation to climax and being on top gives me the ability to control this.

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

its all about good curvature and a good girth

, not that i would know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Find the right cock

hope this is helpful

Insightful. Lol

I've had a fair few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A willing tongue, time & lots of attention! I can demonstrate my technique if you like!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

its all about good curvature and a good girth

, not that i would know

So size matters? If it's purely clitoral stitulation I need then is size important? Mmmmmmm.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find the right cock

hope this is helpful

Insightful. Lol

I've had a fair few

But you aint had the right cock for the job

Inbox me if you like :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

its all about good curvature and a good girth

, not that i would know

So size matters? If it's purely clitoral stitulation I need then is size important? Mmmmmmm....."

girth much more so then length, length is all just waisted over 6 inches...oh amf curvature, its all about that curvature for g-spot stimulation, and well worthy stamina

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Find the right cock

hope this is helpful

Insightful. Lol

I've had a fair few

But you aint had the right cock for the job

Inbox me if you like :p"

That's what they all say.

I'm wondering if tantric massage may help...

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

If it's clitoral stimulation she needs then cock doesn't matter..

Sorry boys it's not all about the cock..

A man that's willing to try different things to give you pleasure is what I think you need.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

its all about good curvature and a good girth

, not that i would know

So size matters? If it's purely clitoral stitulation I need then is size important? Mmmmmmm.....

girth much more so then length, length is all just waisted over 6 inches...oh amf curvature, its all about that curvature for g-spot stimulation, and well worthy stamina

Oh don't talk to me about the g-spot. That's another issue all together haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find the right cock

hope this is helpful

Insightful. Lol

I've had a fair few

But you aint had the right cock for the job

Inbox me if you like :p

That's what they all say.

I'm wondering if tantric massage may help..."

Have you not experienced tantric ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol inbox me if you like hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's clitoral stimulation she needs then cock doesn't matter..

Sorry boys it's not all about the cock..

A man that's willing to try different things to give you pleasure is what I think you need.

Man of woman...I'm open to both haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol inbox me if you like hahaha"

Lol this could well become a...

Who can make me orgasm thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cocks need to be bent but with style and that bend/s need to be in the correct place, length and girth also has to be in perfect tandum to be a top cum creator

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Find the right cock

hope this is helpful

Insightful. Lol

I've had a fair few

But you aint had the right cock for the job

Inbox me if you like :p

That's what they all say.

I'm wondering if tantric massage may help...

Have you not experienced tantric ? "

Once and he made me cum from oral. Only a handful have done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha.. clever!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cocks need to be bent but with style and that bend/s need to be in the correct place, length and girth also has to be in perfect tandum to be a top cum creator

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cool story bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cocks need to be bent but with style and that bend/s need to be in the correct place, length and girth also has to be in perfect tandum to be a top cum creator

Designer penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find the right cock

hope this is helpful

Insightful. Lol

I've had a fair few

But you aint had the right cock for the job

Inbox me if you like :p

That's what they all say.

I'm wondering if tantric massage may help...

Have you not experienced tantric ?

Once and he made me cum from oral. Only a handful have done that. "

Tantric is in my opinion a must, before, during and long after

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By *exmanMan
over a year ago

Stainforth

Whenever I go on meet I always take my toy collection with me with lots of sensual play first use of the toys to make sure the lady is happy and has cum several times before penetration starts that way it doesn't matter if she doesn't cum during penetration then useing the Toys and some cuddles to finish up with and hopefully making her cum again

I'm kind of guessing during general play time it doesn't really matter at what point you cum so long as the lady come several times during the session

Let's face it guys there is more to it than just raming your cock in that pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cocks need to be bent but with style and that bend/s need to be in the correct place, length and girth also has to be in perfect tandum to be a top cum creator

Designer penis

You could say that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

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Perhaps you are trying too hard? Its an overused saying but the mind plays the major part in sexual fulfilment. Also I am picking up that you have orgasms with clitoral simulation and masturbation with toys? If this is the case then why worry? Just relax and enjoy your sexuality and have fun !

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By *irl86Woman
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I am exactly the same! Although can though oral but sometimes takes a while.

I find it's easier with guys that are not too skinny as gives you a bit more friction on top.

Otherwise I think I think it's finding a guy willing to experiment and is patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cocks need to be bent but with style and that bend/s need to be in the correct place, length and girth also has to be in perfect tandum to be a top cum creator

Designer penis

i would also say its down to surprise, your probably doing some too regularly too often and too repeatedly...lol, or their being too eager, you need some one that actually makes you wait so your whole body is excited for the experience

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

You are not alone in this. I can't PM you because of your filters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about this just makea me want to jump in my phone and make her orgasm

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney

Yeah

Spending a bit of time on the clit is always a winner

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Whenever I go on meet I always take my toy collection with me with lots of sensual play first use of the toys to make sure the lady is happy and has cum several times before penetration starts that way it doesn't matter if she doesn't cum during penetration then useing the Toys and some cuddles to finish up with and hopefully making her cum again

I'm kind of guessing during general play time it doesn't really matter at what point you cum so long as the lady come several times during the session

Let's face it guys there is more to it than just raming your cock in that pussy "

Couldn't agree more. I have no issues cumming from toys. I'd just like to be able to cum from sex too.

I've had a few threesomes recently and it's annoying how easily a lot of women cum from getting fucked lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Talking about this just makea me want to jump in my phone and make her orgasm"

If this was possible, I would definitely be game

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

some men make me cum through oral or using finger, some dont. I only ever came close to having an orgasm once when having full sex. My rabbit vibrator makes me cum every time so if the man doesnt i can use that, it doesnt matter either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a position where you or me can rub your clut while fucking xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

You are not alone in this. I can't PM you because of your filters x"

Phew, I'm glad I'm not the only one. Any insightful suggestions? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find rubbing the cock against the clit before penetration and after orgasming helps and also reaching round and teasing with fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of it is really wanting the other person and them making you feel alive! Teaseing and taking there time to find what get you going and then sticking to that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some men make me cum through oral or using finger, some dont. I only ever came close to having an orgasm once when having full sex. My rabbit vibrator makes me cum every time so if the man doesnt i can use that, it doesnt matter either way."

The rabbit is genius. The wand is even better. Sometimes I just want a cock and no toys.

Out of interest, how does a guy feel when he can't make a woman cum without toys or at all? And don't say it's never happened lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try a position where you or me can rub your clut while fucking xxx"

Tried. Doesn't work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find rubbing the cock against the clit before penetration and after orgasming helps and also reaching round and teasing with fingers "

Rubbing the cock against my can make me squirt but not orgasm.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

[Removed by poster at 13/12/16 09:23:32]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of it is really wanting the other person and them making you feel alive! Teaseing and taking there time to find what get you going and then sticking to that xx"

Who wants to make me feel alive??? It's nearly Christmas

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I am very similar op.

Do you think that it is more what is going on in your head than the physical parts of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find rubbing the cock against the clit before penetration and after orgasming helps and also reaching round and teasing with fingers

Rubbing the cock against my can make me squirt but not orgasm.

lay off the coffee or other stimulants for a few days, that can fuck up the body if taken too much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am very similar op.

Do you think that it is more what is going on in your head and the physical parts of it?"

I suspect it's physical but I have no idea. Perhaps some hypnotherapy is in order. It could go wrong and I may end up having an organs every time I go over a speed bump

On the plus side, it does mean I can get fucked for hours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find rubbing the cock against the clit before penetration and after orgasming helps and also reaching round and teasing with fingers

Rubbing the cock against my can make me squirt but not orgasm.

lay off the coffee or other stimulants for a few days, that can fuck up the body if taken too much

I don't drink coffee or take stimulants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even orgasm from being on top OP. You are luckier in that regard. In fact, I find it doesn't happen for me most of the time with clitoral stimulation, unless I bring toys to the party

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

The rabbit is genius. The wand is even better. Sometimes I just want a cock and no toys.

Out of interest, how does a guy feel when he can't make a woman cum without toys or at all? And don't say it's never happened lol "

Unless they are very insecure then i doubt it would bother them as long as they cum. Most men are inteligent enough to know that a lot of women dont cum when having intercourse alone, some men are good with their fingers and some good with their tongues and different women like different things. Some women fake their orgasms and some men dont know if you have cum or not.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Do you mind if I ask if you have guys you meet regularly? It takes me ages to reach orgasm sometimes so I find if I meet up with someone a few times I'm more relaxed with them and able to cum easier! But I do usually have to bring my wand into the mix!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fb. Cums every time from oral. Really fast too. But when fucking. Always got to have some clitoral stimulation. Whether it's her finger, mine, or some toys. I just go with it now! It's great fun as long as you cum does it matter how you get there!! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The rabbit is genius. The wand is even better. Sometimes I just want a cock and no toys.

Out of interest, how does a guy feel when he can't make a woman cum without toys or at all? And don't say it's never happened lol

I'm a bitch for faking it haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't even orgasm from being on top OP. You are luckier in that regard. In fact, I find it doesn't happen for me most of the time with clitoral stimulation, unless I bring toys to the party

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Always someone worse off than yourself. Lol. I best stock up on batteries...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mind if I ask if you have guys you meet regularly? It takes me ages to reach orgasm sometimes so I find if I meet up with someone a few times I'm more relaxed with them and able to cum easier! But I do usually have to bring my wand into the mix!!

Yes, it doesn't make any difference. I see the logic though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax and try not to think about it! The more your worry the more the power of the mind kicks in x Forget all the crap about curves girth and length as you've prob had range of different cocks x (not suggesting anything lol) try something different x maybe outside sex where there's a risk of being caught x that may turn you on x relax lovely and I'm sure the flood gates will open and you'll be grinning like a Cheshire Cat x good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even orgasm from being on top OP. You are luckier in that regard. In fact, I find it doesn't happen for me most of the time with clitoral stimulation, unless I bring toys to the party

Always someone worse off than yourself. Lol. I best stock up on batteries..."

Toys can be your best friend sometimes. Luckily my partner is aware of my mental block, and isn't insecure... He's great in bed, got me closer than most... Before anybody says I need someone better in bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just relax and try not to think about it! The more your worry the more the power of the mind kicks in x Forget all the crap about curves girth and length as you've prob had range of different cocks x (not suggesting anything lol) try something different x maybe outside sex where there's a risk of being caught x that may turn you on x relax lovely and I'm sure the flood gates will open and you'll be grinning like a Cheshire Cat x good luck x "

Well I've had a string of offers so I may take your advice. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

go for a guy the morning after the night before skin full, i always perform so much better the morning after the night before.....and have soo much more stamina

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All this chat about orgasms is making me horny

I'm off to give myself a good wanding. I'll be two minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you just havent had the right man who takes time to find out what gets you going and then puts the effort in to make it even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All this chat about orgasms is making me horny

I'm off to give myself a good wanding. I'll be two minutes

hoe you have batteries for the whole day

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I also don't orgasm without toys. For me it's not the cock, the position or the dreaded comment 'you just haven't met the right man yet'. I know what gets me closer is connection, regular meetings so I relax and their skills and attention on me. I can't even make myself cum manually. Ironically on the other side I've been able to help a lot of women with this same issue so it's part skill, part dedication and helping to release the mind and body

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I also don't orgasm without toys. For me it's not the cock, the position or the dreaded comment 'you just haven't met the right man yet'. I know what gets me closer is connection, regular meetings so I relax and their skills and attention on me. I can't even make myself cum manually. Ironically on the other side I've been able to help a lot of women with this same issue so it's part skill, part dedication and helping to release the mind and body

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Octopus position, that way the guy can give you clit stimulation with one of his hands or a toy.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"A lot of it is really wanting the other person and them making you feel alive! Teaseing and taking there time to find what get you going and then sticking to that xx

Who wants to make me feel alive??? It's nearly Christmas

Hopefully you will be feeling very alive tonight at Cupids

I (or even better we) love to pleasure a lady and take time to find out what she wants and needs, it's especially nice when you find out

I think you will enjoy the ladies only fun, it will certainly get you warmed up

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

So few good mind/body connections though. Argh that's exactly what I need right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

So few good mind/body connections though. Argh that's exactly what I need right now!

takes alot to find the correct connection of minds

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

So few good mind/body connections though. Argh that's exactly what I need right now!

takes alot to find the correct connection of minds

I know it does. Still rueful I've just lost the best one I'd ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

So few good mind/body connections though. Argh that's exactly what I need right now!

takes alot to find the correct connection of minds

I know it does. Still rueful I've just lost the best one I'd ever had

my minds been totally corrupted by the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral very rarely works too"

I do like a challenge...

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By *exmanMan
over a year ago

Stainforth

I'm kind of guessing during general play time it doesn't really matter at what point you cum so long as the lady come several times during the session

Let's face it guys there is more to it than just raming your cock in that pussy

Couldn't agree more. I have no issues cumming from toys. I'd just like to be able to cum from sex too.

I would pm you with an idea but I'm 3 years to old messages me and I will tell you the idea x

I've had a few threesomes recently and it's annoying how easily a lot of women cum from getting fucked lol "

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By *exmanMan
over a year ago

Stainforth

I would PM you but your age stops me from doing that as I am apparently to 3 years too old to talk to you lol I have a great idea which would help you achieve your objective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about nutella when having sex it will help

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Never had a penetrative orgasm before. I've given up hope now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to mix things up a bit during sex and try different positions. generally get there in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think about nutella when having sex it will help

Seriously?? Still at it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about trying the man on top but you legs are over his shoulders and he rubs your clitoris while he fucks you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had a penetrative orgasm before. I've given up hope now. "

Aaaand here comes the barrage of offers!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

So few good mind/body connections though. Argh that's exactly what I need right now!

At least you know what you are looking for, some people never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think about nutella when having sex it will help

Seriously?? Still at it??

Until it doesn't work anymore

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

So few good mind/body connections though. Argh that's exactly what I need right now!

At least you know what you are looking for, some people never know.

True. But being quite specific means I don't give those who don't match it a chance so I may be ruling some out who have the capability. Argh frustration. Impatience will be my undoing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

I know a lady that was the same as you, she used to swear the onky way she could cum was by being on top.

She needs a lot of clit stimulation but also vaginal stimulation to tip her over the edge.

I actually found that missionary position did the trick.

I would use small thrusting grinding movements, making sure our pubic areas were pressing tightly together. This i achieved by grabing hold of her tightly so she didnt move away when I thrust.

This allowed my pubic bone to stimulate her clit as I thrust and my cock to stimulate her pussy. It was a shock to her the first time we did it like this and she came. One think I would say is that because you need to be really pressed together you can over heat a little

Another method is if you lay on the edge of the bed and let the guy stand on the floor he can enter you and there is enought room for you or him to play with your clit. Its great to just spread you legs wide whilst doing this turst me this site will drive him wild. This method needs quite a high bed tho a kitchen table or a car bonnet will work equally well

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

So few good mind/body connections though. Argh that's exactly what I need right now!

At least you know what you are looking for, some people never know.

True. But being quite specific means I don't give those who don't match it a chance so I may be ruling some out who have the capability. Argh frustration. Impatience will be my undoing!

Ha ha, a little restraint might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration and Clit stimulation together may give you the orgasm so you want or try hypnotherapy

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

The mind/body balance is is important, well to me. Otherwise it becomes mechanical, which in turn is fun, stimulating, but hey that's as far as it goes.

Thing is, when you find that right connection it is mind blowing, knee shacking, breath taking, Coca Cola (and there are other branded products) marketing type moments.

So few good mind/body connections though. Argh that's exactly what I need right now!

At least you know what you are looking for, some people never know.

True. But being quite specific means I don't give those who don't match it a chance so I may be ruling some out who have the capability. Argh frustration. Impatience will be my undoing!

Ha ha, a little restraint might help.

Oo now you're talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are not in the right frame of mind then you're not going to orgasm very easily sex is after all a lot in the mind as well as the physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the size of the tool its the skill of the craftsman that produces quality

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford

The rabbit is genius. The wand is even better. Sometimes I just want a cock and no toys.

Out of interest, how does a guy feel when he can't make a woman cum without toys or at all? And don't say it's never happened lol "

That's a good question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rabbit is genius. The wand is even better. Sometimes I just want a cock and no toys.

Out of interest, how does a guy feel when he can't make a woman cum without toys or at all? And don't say it's never happened lol

That's a good question! "

the orgasm and more importantly the woman then becomes a challenge to me, and we all know what a challenge does to a man, theirs those that run and theirs those that fight, fight or flight syndrome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely related as unable to orgasm from penetrative sex and even foreplay is difficult...think the pressure to orgasm quickly is off putting as it takes a while to warm up....yet with toys alone no problem...yet I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow. Lots of opinions. Can't reply to all but thanks for sharing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow. Lots of opinions. Can't reply to all but thanks for sharing xx"

How rude hahaha

Ghosting us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

I know a lady that was the same as you, she used to swear the onky way she could cum was by being on top.

She needs a lot of clit stimulation but also vaginal stimulation to tip her over the edge.

I actually found that missionary position did the trick.

I would use small thrusting grinding movements, making sure our pubic areas were pressing tightly together. This i achieved by grabing hold of her tightly so she didnt move away when I thrust.

This is my favourite response

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow. Lots of opinions. Can't reply to all but thanks for sharing xx

How rude hahaha

Ghosting us

I liked the idea of Nutella too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brilliant idea gets unnoticed

. Nutella takeover

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of it is really wanting the other person and them making you feel alive! Teaseing and taking there time to find what get you going and then sticking to that xx

Who wants to make me feel alive??? It's nearly Christmas

Hopefully you will be feeling very alive tonight at Cupids

I (or even better we) love to pleasure a lady and take time to find out what she wants and needs, it's especially nice when you find out

I think you will enjoy the ladies only fun, it will certainly get you warmed up

xx"

Warn me up! Haha.

Oh I took a pic to didicate to this chat...I think I know the answer x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Octopus position, that way the guy can give you clit stimulation with one of his hands or a toy."

I'm not familiar with octopus

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over a year ago

"Octopus position, that way the guy can give you clit stimulation with one of his hands or a toy.

I'm not familiar with octopus

Its a more adult version of the squid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame...I love nothing more than a woman that can orgasm through just fucking...drives me wild, that bucking and thrusting combined with twitching spasms...

I did have a girl that needed clitoral stimulatiion and she could only seem to cum whilst on top, just got a bit boring after a while really limits the final position..

Just work at it lass, you'll get there.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm another that's with you OP. I feel your frustration x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's clitoral stimulation she needs then cock doesn't matter..

Sorry boys it's not all about the cock..

A man that's willing to try different things to give you pleasure is what I think you need.

Definitely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's clitoral stimulation she needs then cock doesn't matter..

Sorry boys it's not all about the cock..

A man that's willing to try different things to give you pleasure is what I think you need.

Definitely this.

Not ideal for sex if the cock doesn't matter???

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Shame...I love nothing more than a woman that can orgasm through just fucking...drives me wild, that bucking and thrusting combined with twitching spasms...

I did have a girl that needed clitoral stimulatiion and she could only seem to cum whilst on top, just got a bit boring after a while really limits the final position..

Just work at it lass, you'll get there."

It's this kind of pressure that doesn't help things like she's not working hard enough...

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over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

I know a lady that was the same as you, she used to swear the onky way she could cum was by being on top.

She needs a lot of clit stimulation but also vaginal stimulation to tip her over the edge.

I actually found that missionary position did the trick.

I would use small thrusting grinding movements, making sure our pubic areas were pressing tightly together. This i achieved by grabing hold of her tightly so she didnt move away when I thrust.

This is my favourite response

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"A lot of it is really wanting the other person and them making you feel alive! Teaseing and taking there time to find what get you going and then sticking to that xx

Who wants to make me feel alive??? It's nearly Christmas

Hopefully you will be feeling very alive tonight at Cupids

I (or even better we) love to pleasure a lady and take time to find out what she wants and needs, it's especially nice when you find out

I think you will enjoy the ladies only fun, it will certainly get you warmed up

Warn me up! Haha.

Oh I took a pic to didicate to this chat...I think I know the answer x"

Love the pic

I've packed my wand ready for later, along with my other toys

One position I really love is the guy stood up whilst the lady is on her back, and then another lady can be on top in 69. Swapping over to take turns

Always works quite well

Bun

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over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

Come see me I will make you reach orgasam

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"If it's clitoral stimulation she needs then cock doesn't matter..

Sorry boys it's not all about the cock..

A man that's willing to try different things to give you pleasure is what I think you need.

This

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over a year ago

With the exception of toys, any other suggestions? Oral very rarely works too and fingers don't seem to do it either.

So...suggestions for women who find it hard to climax.

Come see me I will make you reach orgasam "

Make an appointment with Dr. Lurve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was exactly the same for me, although my fella has recently made me cum from oral sex but his the only person ever to do that.

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This was exactly the same for me, although my fella has recently made me cum from oral sex but his the only person ever to do that.

Doll x "

Cuming from oral is so intense when it happens. I find it relatively easy when I'm in 69 with the guy on top

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over a year ago

"This was exactly the same for me, although my fella has recently made me cum from oral sex but his the only person ever to do that.

Doll x

Cuming from oral is so intense when it happens. I find it relatively easy when I'm in 69 with the guy on top

let me get my snorkel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't make a clitoral orgasm your goal especially when there are even higher pleasures.

Make pleasure and maximising the connection your goal and orgasms will take care of themselves. In fact you'll develop a desire to delay and build them.

Try a more tantra based approach. Mind and body as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you orgasm yet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So did you orgasm yet ?

Yes. Then fell asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So did you orgasm yet ?

Yes. Then fell asleep

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So did you orgasm yet ?

Yes. Then fell asleep

You're welcome

Best nap I've had in ages. Must orgasm more often x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So did you orgasm yet ?

Yes. Then fell asleep

You're welcome

Best nap I've had in ages. Must orgasm more often x"

No worries, it was a pleasure to help you woman

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over a year ago

"So did you orgasm yet ?

Yes. Then fell asleep

You're welcome

Best nap I've had in ages. Must orgasm more often x"

you cant beat a orgasm nap

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