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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That thing where you're having a nice conversation, then a message is read, then it's unread, then nothing. Ever again.

Yeah that. Irritating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got it used it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooohh. That's what you call it? Honestly, I though this thread was going to be about poo that slips straight down the toilet and doesn't leave much to wipe off your bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang-loose....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah. That's what the kidz call it.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Ghosting is looking at others profile, but your not showen up on ... whos look at me,yes i do it all the time

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I often wonder what people who do that actually want and tend to remove any photos I've sent them from messages, but I wouldn't go as far as to say that it actually pisses me off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooohh. That's what you call it? Honestly, I though this thread was going to be about poo that slips straight down the toilet and doesn't leave much to wipe off your bum. "

Doesn't matter how old you are, when this happens you truely believe in magic. If only for a moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure stuff on here, with people you've never met, counts as ghosting. I think of ghosting as, for example, someone who you're dating disappearing out of your life and not responding to any attempts to get in contact.

On here, yeah it's probably annoying if a conversation just tails off, but it's not the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, ghosting is what my OP describes, hence this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, ghosting is what my OP describes, hence this thread. "

It's not though. It's just conversation tailing off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure stuff on here, with people you've never met, counts as ghosting. I think of ghosting as, for example, someone who you're dating disappearing out of your life and not responding to any attempts to get in contact.

On here, yeah it's probably annoying if a conversation just tails off, but it's not the same thing. "

I'm not talking about the conversation tailing off. I'm talking about my OP. A message is read then unread, quite obviously and deliberately, then no response. Did I not already describe this?

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex


"Ooooohh. That's what you call it? Honestly, I though this thread was going to be about poo that slips straight down the toilet and doesn't leave much to wipe off your bum. "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think some people simply enjoy the art of being annoying...

Not that I include myself in that endeavour ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they found the message content off putting or life got in the way, they just lost interest or just genuinely lost track. It happens alot, in fact I generally expect it so if a conversation leads to a meet, I'm pleasantly surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure stuff on here, with people you've never met, counts as ghosting. I think of ghosting as, for example, someone who you're dating disappearing out of your life and not responding to any attempts to get in contact.

On here, yeah it's probably annoying if a conversation just tails off, but it's not the same thing.

I'm not talking about the conversation tailing off. I'm talking about my OP. A message is read then unread, quite obviously and deliberately, then no response. Did I not already describe this? "

How is that ghosting though? They've just ignored your message. I assume you haven't met them. You're not dating them. You're not in a relationship with them. It's not ghosting.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"No, ghosting is what my OP describes, hence this thread. "
nope your wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've lost interest now so I won't be replying on this thread again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost interest now so I won't be replying on this thread again "

Haha very mature ! Hate when ppl ghost they own thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not ghosting. I've just lost interest

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I admit to being a nightmare for it. I'll be replying to messages, my son walks in the room so I lock my phone.

Go back to it later and there's a load more messages in my inbox. It's only when I go through and start deleting loads that I spot the ones I was gonna reply to. Sometimes weeks have passed.

May opinion on ghosting tho, is going around in ninja mode. All hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not ghosting. I've just lost interest "

Glad you understand it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ain't afraid of no ghosts....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not ghosting. I've just lost interest

Glad you understand it now "

Ruby, the reasons for ghosting do not define if the act is considered ghosting. You're confused, and I was taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not ghosting. I've just lost interest

Glad you understand it now

Ruby, the reasons for ghosting do not define if the act is considered ghosting. You're confused, and I was taking the piss "

I'm sarcastic, not confused, and I said nothing of the reasons - just that the act you described isn't ghosting. I'm not sure why that's difficult to grasp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost interest now so I won't be replying on this thread again "

I beg to differ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid but you have NO idea what ghosting means! What you've described is just pure cyberspace happenings. When you've known someone 2 years and then they vanish with no explanation, now thst can be called ghosting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghosting- the act of suddenly ceasing all communication the subject is dating, but who they no longer wish to date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Semantics. Everything is open to evolution. Especially language.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Semantics. Everything is open to evolution. Especially language. "

Though evolution hasnt resulted in this being called ghosting.

Id expect people to initiate and continue conversations with many more potential partners than theyll ever meet. And get ignored or blocked by a good number of them. There is no obligation to explain lack of interest or formally close dialogue - silence or a block is perfectly acceptable and standard here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Didn't we do this yesterday? Deja vu!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosting is looking at others profile, but your not showen up on ... whos look at me,yes i do it all the time "

Thought that was stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm afraid but you have NO idea what ghosting means! What you've described is just pure cyberspace happenings. When you've known someone 2 years and then they vanish with no explanation, now thst can be called ghosting. "

blimmy someone scare them into unlos

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