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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it piss any other guy off that no matter what you do as an individual, no matter what improvements you make, how hard you work, how hard you push yourself up and to the front of the crowd, unless you find a partner then you CANNOT shake that fucking label?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The label thats on your cock you mean .... soap and water might help

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am happy as a single guy and no need for it to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it piss any other guy off that no matter what you do as an individual, no matter what improvements you make, how hard you work, how hard you push yourself up and to the front of the crowd, unless you find a partner then you CANNOT shake that fucking label?

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Its slightly annoying as there are so many that let the genuine ones down. However everyones is looking for something different and patience is the key.

I've only had a couple of meets off here and its been great. Good things come to those who wait and don't hound potential meets. In all meets with couples I've had they've contacted me first so that's how I do things other wise you'll be sat in their inbox with thousands of others where the majority of singles may mess them around.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Constantly overlooked? Watch the other gender get all the attention and best stuff?

Must be a bit like being 'just a woman' in the real world...

Eye opener isn't it?

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By *ightfall79Man
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

I dreaded being single after being separated took me months to adjust.However now I can watch I want , see who I want and do what I want.

I would not give all that up.So happy with my single tag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say it's high on my non existent list of things to be bothered about

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Duh??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single (and married) men are at the front of my queue. In fact if they got themselves a partner they meet with, they'd be out of the queue altogether because that's not what I'm here for. I'm not the only woman this applies to. I read plenty of woe is me from couples too.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Although I was happy in ma last long term relationship (7 years), I'm loving the single life and can't say it's done me any disfavours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to talk to women about some stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your that desperate to change the label, join a dating site for singles. A swinging site is not the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it piss any other guy off that no matter what you do as an individual, no matter what improvements you make, how hard you work, how hard you push yourself up and to the front of the crowd, unless you find a partner then you CANNOT shake that fucking label?

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What does piss me off is that you thought of writing your name on your cock and using it as your avatar before me, so if I do it now it's blatant copying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame yes for couples too, we have to block ALL single guys because a fair amount of them just don't bother to make an effort, or are downright obnoxious.

It's a shame because most couples would love a supply of quality single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single (and married) men are at the front of my queue. In fact if they got themselves a partner they meet with, they'd be out of the queue altogether because that's not what I'm here for. I'm not the only woman this applies to. I read plenty of woe is me from couples too."

Same for me, but im after a local single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish there was some kind of way of filtering us single guys so you could actually find those genuine ones of us. It's so frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give yourself a label.... be human.... It's quite surprising just how many fail to be the most simple of things and yet contrive to complicate their lives by giving themselves or allowing others labels to be battered with......

You walk this green earth, as you choose to be, no one has a right to deny you that.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I never ralised that writing your name in felt pen on yor penis was either working hard or pushing yourself to the front of a queue.

I'm learning a lot on the forum today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a shame yes for couples too, we have to block ALL single guys because a fair amount of them just don't bother to make an effort, or are downright obnoxious.

It's a shame because most couples would love a supply of quality single guys."

I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

The swinging scene doesn't care, because it's a business that exists to make money - most (deduced by the fact that it requires a majority action to render a situation this shitty) single males are happy to pay into this scene to get fuck all out, hence why single males have so little individual power.

The swinging scene values males for their wallets, that's it.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years."

And what would these multiple categories be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I don't pay attention to people who carry prejudice against me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What different categories of single men would you suggest?....ones people would avoid?

Single (but really married)

Single virgins who would bottle it

Single time wasters taking the piss

Single wankers/pic collectors

Single moaners who make no effort but have a huge sense of entitlement

Single with a felt pen

Single...who are actually single and do meet ladies and couples. (The few of us?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shame yes for couples too, we have to block ALL single guys because a fair amount of them just don't bother to make an effort, or are downright obnoxious.

It's a shame because most couples would love a supply of quality single guys.

I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

The swinging scene doesn't care, because it's a business that exists to make money - most (deduced by the fact that it requires a majority action to render a situation this shitty) single males are happy to pay into this scene to get fuck all out, hence why single males have so little individual power.

The swinging scene values males for their wallets, that's it."

Ell oh Ell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be? "

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Constantly overlooked? Watch the other gender get all the attention and best stuff?

Must be a bit like being 'just a woman' in the real world...

Eye opener isn't it? "

Horseshit

Don't believe the hype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade."

I've had some of my best meets with unverified men who don't collect many fabs on their photos, because they aren't of their cock or stolen from the net, who have short witty profiles and hadn't been on the site long when we met. How would my fab experience be enhanced by having to sift through what someone else thinks is higher quality before I can get to who I might like to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we are going about things wrong!!! I think we need to turn our backs on the rest of fab and create the single male exclusive club that couples and single women aren't allowed to involved with, which in turn will make them curious and BOOOOMMMM then that's when they come begging us

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade.

I've had some of my best meets with unverified men who don't collect many fabs on their photos, because they aren't of their cock or stolen from the net, who have short witty profiles and hadn't been on the site long when we met. How would my fab experience be enhanced by having to sift through what someone else thinks is higher quality before I can get to who I might like to meet?"

Oh Ruby. I was about to post this but instead I'll just say, yeah. Also, is eligibility really defined by text amount and fabbed photos? Or is that just so you reach the definition of good quality single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was gonna write my name on my penis I think I'd have to change my name to A or any other single digit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade.

I've had some of my best meets with unverified men who don't collect many fabs on their photos, because they aren't of their cock or stolen from the net, who have short witty profiles and hadn't been on the site long when we met. How would my fab experience be enhanced by having to sift through what someone else thinks is higher quality before I can get to who I might like to meet?"

Same here

Most of my best meets have been newbies and unverified men

Only had two no shows on here and both where well verified

Being verified means nothing, all because they turned up for their last meet does not mean they will for their next

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade.

I've had some of my best meets with unverified men who don't collect many fabs on their photos, because they aren't of their cock or stolen from the net, who have short witty profiles and hadn't been on the site long when we met. How would my fab experience be enhanced by having to sift through what someone else thinks is higher quality before I can get to who I might like to meet?"

Me too!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't want to meet guys with a partner. I just want to meet guys. They don't have to be hot (but it helps), fit (but it helps), or intelligent (but it helps). They just have to be the kind of guy I want to meet at the time I am in the mood to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh the single male... they are my favourite preference on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh the single male... they are my favourite preference on here "

good to know

FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade."

None of those would make the slightest difference to me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ahhh the single male... they are my favourite preference on here "

There are a few with almighty chips on their shoulders, but the majority are lovely.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't want to meet guys with a partner. I just want to meet guys. They don't have to be hot (but it helps), fit (but it helps), or intelligent (but it helps). They just have to be the kind of guy I want to meet at the time I am in the mood to meet them."

You need to lower your standards ffs woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't want to shake that! I'm single and proud (through choice)

It's ultimately the others on here that spoil the fab experience.

You know who you are.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't want to meet guys with a partner. I just want to meet guys. They don't have to be hot (but it helps), fit (but it helps), or intelligent (but it helps). They just have to be the kind of guy I want to meet at the time I am in the mood to meet them.

You need to lower your standards ffs woman "

Start getting the vodkas in then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males are my preference and if they have a liking for peanut butter then lets Marvin Gaye and get it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't want to shake that! I'm single and proud (through choice)

It's ultimately the others on here that spoil the fab experience.

You know who you are..... "

The ignorers? So bad! How dare they!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade.

I've had some of my best meets with unverified men who don't collect many fabs on their photos, because they aren't of their cock or stolen from the net, who have short witty profiles and hadn't been on the site long when we met. How would my fab experience be enhanced by having to sift through what someone else thinks is higher quality before I can get to who I might like to meet?"

You've just described your own individual set of standards, which do nothing to discredit anything I posted, nor would your own personal preferences be jeopardised by the implementation of my ideas.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade.

I've had some of my best meets with unverified men who don't collect many fabs on their photos, because they aren't of their cock or stolen from the net, who have short witty profiles and hadn't been on the site long when we met. How would my fab experience be enhanced by having to sift through what someone else thinks is higher quality before I can get to who I might like to meet?

You've just described your own individual set of standards, which do nothing to discredit anything I posted, nor would your own personal preferences be jeopardised by the implementation of my ideas."

The implementation of your ideas exactly. The idea that the quality men are those who match the ideas of yours are subjective - they are your ideas after all. I understand it can be tough OP but you do seem to bemoan it quite often.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't want to meet guys with a partner. I just want to meet guys. They don't have to be hot (but it helps), fit (but it helps), or intelligent (but it helps). They just have to be the kind of guy I want to meet at the time I am in the mood to meet them.

You need to lower your standards ffs woman

Start getting the vodkas in then. "

You drive a hard bargain missus, but I suppose I could be tempted to travel to Moscow and bring back a 1 ltr bottle of Svedka, or nip over the road to the 24/7 and pick up a miniature of Chekov

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't want to meet guys with a partner. I just want to meet guys. They don't have to be hot (but it helps), fit (but it helps), or intelligent (but it helps). They just have to be the kind of guy I want to meet at the time I am in the mood to meet them.

You need to lower your standards ffs woman

Start getting the vodkas in then.

You drive a hard bargain missus, but I suppose I could be tempted to travel to Moscow and bring back a 1 ltr bottle of Svedka, or nip over the road to the 24/7 and pick up a miniature of Chekov "

I consider myself a cheap date actually.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't want to meet guys with a partner. I just want to meet guys. They don't have to be hot (but it helps), fit (but it helps), or intelligent (but it helps). They just have to be the kind of guy I want to meet at the time I am in the mood to meet them.

You need to lower your standards ffs woman

Start getting the vodkas in then.

You drive a hard bargain missus, but I suppose I could be tempted to travel to Moscow and bring back a 1 ltr bottle of Svedka, or nip over the road to the 24/7 and pick up a miniature of Chekov

I consider myself a cheap date actually. "

Even fish'n'chips ain't cheap anymore, pot noodle on a park bench then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more down to the individual male as opposed to the single man label....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Erm, it's late and I may be a little hard of thinking at the moment but... If you're single and male then that that's the label unless you become part of a couple.

If it's about the associations of that label then I'd say it's much more about how you present your single maleness. I'm here for single men... just not all of them and not without some sort of connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade.

I've had some of my best meets with unverified men who don't collect many fabs on their photos, because they aren't of their cock or stolen from the net, who have short witty profiles and hadn't been on the site long when we met. How would my fab experience be enhanced by having to sift through what someone else thinks is higher quality before I can get to who I might like to meet?

You've just described your own individual set of standards, which do nothing to discredit anything I posted, nor would your own personal preferences be jeopardised by the implementation of my ideas."

But if your ideas were implemented, those men would be at some form of disadvantage compared to your "quality" men with their long winded profiles and verifications from people I want no involvement with. So my preferences would have been adversely affected. Far better for everyone to have the same opportunity, be presented with the same prominence, and then people can make their own minds up based on what's important to them.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It's a shame yes for couples too, we have to block ALL single guys because a fair amount of them just don't bother to make an effort, or are downright obnoxious.

It's a shame because most couples would love a supply of quality single guys.

I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

The swinging scene doesn't care, because it's a business that exists to make money - most (deduced by the fact that it requires a majority action to render a situation this shitty) single males are happy to pay into this scene to get fuck all out, hence why single males have so little individual power.

The swinging scene values males for their wallets, that's it."

I'd have thought the scene valued their cocks too. A man with a decent wallet but a flaccid cock, no oral skills and pawing hands is no use to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

And what would these multiple categories be?

Verified

Has feedback from verified profiles

Been a member for so long

Has pictures

Profile contains a certain number of characters

Has accrued a certain number of fabs on pictures

That's just a few off the top of my head, basically the more of these boxes a single male can tick, the higher up the eligibility scale he goes, the better the category he filters into. Women and couples who want to meet good quality single guys can then just look at the higher categories, and filter lower ones who don't make the grade.

I've had some of my best meets with unverified men who don't collect many fabs on their photos, because they aren't of their cock or stolen from the net, who have short witty profiles and hadn't been on the site long when we met. How would my fab experience be enhanced by having to sift through what someone else thinks is higher quality before I can get to who I might like to meet?

You've just described your own individual set of standards, which do nothing to discredit anything I posted, nor would your own personal preferences be jeopardised by the implementation of my ideas.

But if your ideas were implemented, those men would be at some form of disadvantage compared to your "quality" men with their long winded profiles and verifications from people I want no involvement with. So my preferences would have been adversely affected. Far better for everyone to have the same opportunity, be presented with the same prominence, and then people can make their own minds up based on what's important to them."

Thank Fab for you Ruby.

It amazes me how quick people are to put you in a box, without knowing the first thing about you.

I would never get through all those hoops. I'm not overly fussed about verifications. If I meet someone that's verified and they choose to verify me, great. If not, I can't say I'm too bothered really.

I've been here 3/4 weeks and haven't met anyone. Hell, I haven't even messaged anyone yet, as I'm still seeing who's who and what's what. Does that make me a time waster? In some people's eyes it will, although I've never wasted anyone's time in my life..

As for the Original Post... Can't say I'm fussed. I am a single male, so what else would I be labelled as!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personallY couldnt give a fuck..

I'm single,been a couple(lets say proper couple)...

if I miss out on fanny..its simply that..

I have a dim _iew of people thinking their status(relationship wise) somehow qualifies them to be or act like a cunt.

These days I'm happier saying I dont want to meet certain people..not because I wasnt attracted...but more about my terms..

if people cant do my terms(like i do with theirs)...am happy to say fuck off...I'm usually politer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shame yes for couples too, we have to block ALL single guys because a fair amount of them just don't bother to make an effort, or are downright obnoxious.

It's a shame because most couples would love a supply of quality single guys.

I've suggested multiple categories for single males many, many times over the years.

The swinging scene doesn't care, because it's a business that exists to make money - most (deduced by the fact that it requires a majority action to render a situation this shitty) single males are happy to pay into this scene to get fuck all out, hence why single males have so little individual power.

The swinging scene values males for their wallets, that's it.

I'd have thought the scene valued their cocks too. A man with a decent wallet but a flaccid cock, no oral skills and pawing hands is no use to me."

If they don't have anything but money to bring to the party, women won't want to fuck them. No point them being there, if that's the case.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Single male here and happy with the label.

On here five months before my first meet, it wasn't my first offer.

I appreciate the ladies who give newbies like me a chance, it's not always about amount or quality of veris, how many fabs you have or how long you've been here.

I put effort into my profile, I try to take tasteful yet sexy pictures, with the exception of the blatant gym selfies obviously, and I talk to women on here like people and not sex toys.

If I get overlooked due to the overwhelming amount of shit single profiles then so be it but I've had some wonderful interactions with those that have noticed me and shown an interest.

Nobody owes me attention.

Feel like I've gone off track here lost the point I was trying to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think a lot of single men use other people's profiles as just an excuse for them not getting meets

Nobody is going to turn you down because of somebody else's shit profile

Many guys do well on here, I've seen loads of men's profiles who have had several meets

I've had guys turn me down, well it must be because of all the princesses on here giving me a bad name

If you don't do well on here maybe your profile and pics are not as good as you think and looking a little closer to home may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just the joys of being single. I made two very good friends on here. But I still can't seem to find a full time meet up.all am doing now is taking it slowly. It's not that dear to be on here. So I just talking away here. And trying to stand out

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Ahhh the single male... they are my favourite preference on here

There are a few with almighty chips on their shoulders, but the majority are lovely."

Thanks Love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I think a lot of single men use other people's profiles as just an excuse for them not getting meets

Nobody is going to turn you down because of somebody else's shit profile

Many guys do well on here, I've seen loads of men's profiles who have had several meets

I've had guys turn me down, well it must be because of all the princesses on here giving me a bad name

If you don't do well on here maybe your profile and pics are not as good as you think and looking a little closer to home may help"

I'd turn ya down cos of those feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't accept the negative stereotype. I don't accept that the actions of any other guys on here effect me negatively.

I wouldn't want to change anything but I guess I'm a glass half full kind of a guy.

Being single on this scene has been brilliant.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I'm currently really enjoying my single status, in the real world and the swinging one.

I'm enjoying being able to do what I want, when I want and I'm perfectly happy on the club scene as a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try doing socials and that

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By *_89Man
over a year ago

Here and there

Being single is awesome, you just need to enjoy doing your own thing, and then good things will come along. I understand what you mean though OP, it can be like being a small fish in big ocean, but you just need to bide your time. Maybe have a think about joining a dating site if you're fed up/bored on here?

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By *ickedguy1Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Single can mean diffrent things to diffrent people. I class myself as single but do have a gf. Mind she has no idea about this site.

I guess it doesent really matter if you are single or a couple if you use this site your looking for extras

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Does it piss any other guy off that no matter what you do as an individual, no matter what improvements you make, how hard you work, how hard you push yourself up and to the front of the crowd, unless you find a partner then you CANNOT shake that fucking label?

"
you come across as a very eloquent and intelligent guy, although sometimes slightly cynical, but never in my time here, have i thought that you wanted to be anything but a single guy..just saying x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Single can mean diffrent things to diffrent people. I class myself as single but do have a gf. Mind she has no idea about this site.

I guess it doesent really matter if you are single or a couple if you use this site your looking for extras "

Sorry to break it to you, but you are not single, you are attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it piss any other guy off that no matter what you do as an individual, no matter what improvements you make, how hard you work, how hard you push yourself up and to the front of the crowd, unless you find a partner then you CANNOT shake that fucking label?

"

As far as we're concerned theres noothing wrong with single men Thats all we meet.

Some peope on here enjoy slagging off certain sections of the membership as a sort of online "bonding" exercise.

You see it in different guises here, Almost llike cyber bullying to be honest

There are knobheads singles but that also applies for couples and single women.

As always .....Block and move. Wait for exactly the kind of person youre going to enjoy a bit of fun with and its well worth it.

Most of all dont let negativity from the fukwits into your head.

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