FabSwingers.com forum: hidden profiles

By *ukkakecoupleuk OP Couple
over a year ago

horsham

this week I have had about 4 people inc couples asking to friend me . when you click on the profile to see if this is the type of person you would like to befriend you find it is a hidden profile. so you cannot see anything about them . so I simply decline friend. then 4 times this week they have asked again and then again .. does anyone else have this problem ? and why hide your profile ? what does that do for meeting people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't accept a friend request from anyone I haven't met or already spoken to extensively.

If they keep requesting, block them.

I'm hidden because I'm not going to be meeting anyone new until after the new year as I'm too busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this often too. I think people just want to look at my private picture. I simply ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably single males pretending to be a couple.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

People hide their profile for all sorts of reasons (taking a break, minimising messages etc) although it is strange that they'd send a Friend Request and then expect you to accept based on their profile being hidden.

Quick tip though if you don't do anything (i.e. accept or delete) with the friend request they can't send you another and their original request just sits in the list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think there are a lot of hidden profiles at the moment - maybe time of year

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I have noticed a few have their profile hidden then take part in a send a picture or would you kiss or avoid thread. I find it bizarre. It's nearly as frustrating as those who take part in the Face Pic Friday thread with lots of filters.

I understand some people hide profiles to have a quiet spell but to then send requests is strange. Have you been chatting with said people before the friend request?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I haven't deleted my friends request or winks list for 3 years. Just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't accept a friend request from anyone I haven't met or already spoken to extensively.

If they keep requesting, block them.

I'm hidden because I'm not going to be meeting anyone new until after the new year as I'm too busy."

This....it's not Blind Date ffs! How can you judge if they are people you want to meet? And how arrogant to assume just because you tick their boxes that they will tick yours!? They would go straight into my Block List.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time don't delete the friend request, just ignore it. This prevents them being able to send them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got two requests sitting there now. Both hidden profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really think their should be a filter so people with empty text no pic/ no membership profiles can't view others who have, its pointless and bit creepy them looking at you all the time.

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By *ukkakecoupleuk OP Couple
over a year ago

horsham

"People hide their profile for all sorts of reasons (taking a break, minimising messages etc) although it is strange that they'd send a Friend Request and then expect you to accept based on their profile being hidden.

Quick tip though if you don't do anything (i.e. accept or delete) with the friend request they can't send you another and their original request just sits in the list."
thanks I never knew that xx

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