FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking frustrations

By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

How frustrating is it when someone you feel some synergy with randomly blocks you for no reason and you don't ever get the chance to ask why??

Fully get it if you're over stepping things etc but when it happens for no reason?? Bah Hunbug!! Your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens , don't let it bother you

I may have been blocked by heaps of people I will never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my thoughts...forget and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres always a reason, but if you feel they were ignorant, no loss eh.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My thoughts, in no particular order:

Let it go

They're not interested in you

Let it go

It's their choice

Read the 2,000 other threads making the same complaint

Why would you be interested in pursuing someone who isn't interested in hearing from you?

Just because you're interested doesn't mean they are

They don't want you to explain anything

Ah, diddums... it's so sad and frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like a forum domestic, its Christmas for fuck sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My thoughts, in no particular order:

Let it go

They're not interested in you

Let it go

It's their choice

Read the 2,000 other threads making the same complaint

Why would you be interested in pursuing someone who isn't interested in hearing from you?

Just because you're interested doesn't mean they are

They don't want you to explain anything

Ah, diddums... it's so sad and frustrating

pretty much 100% right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My thoughts, in no particular order:

Let it go

They're not interested in you

Let it go

It's their choice

Read the 2,000 other threads making the same complaint

Why would you be interested in pursuing someone who isn't interested in hearing from you?

Just because you're interested doesn't mean they are

They don't want you to explain anything

Ah, diddums... it's so sad and frustrating

dont be holding back if youve got something to say go for it

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Hey...,I wasnt sulking or having a meltdown etc or that bothered, I agree if they're not interested move on but some good chat that seems to be progressing nicely moves into a blocking...I'm the type who likes to know the ins and outs ....it's called learning from situations presented to you!?

Good reply though..

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Haha...Christmas spirit eh

Mate!?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"My thoughts, in no particular order:

Let it go

They're not interested in you

Let it go

It's their choice

Read the 2,000 other threads making the same complaint

Why would you be interested in pursuing someone who isn't interested in hearing from you?

Just because you're interested doesn't mean they are

They don't want you to explain anything

Ah, diddums... it's so sad and frustrating

Everything after "let it go!" superfluous. Then again you have to labour the point to the entitled!

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"My thoughts, in no particular order:

Let it go

They're not interested in you

Let it go

It's their choice

Read the 2,000 other threads making the same complaint

Why would you be interested in pursuing someone who isn't interested in hearing from you?

Just because you're interested doesn't mean they are

They don't want you to explain anything

Ah, diddums... it's so sad and frustrating

My reply was below...pressed the wrong button it seems!!

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"My thoughts, in no particular order:

Let it go

They're not interested in you

Let it go

It's their choice

Read the 2,000 other threads making the same complaint

Why would you be interested in pursuing someone who isn't interested in hearing from you?

Just because you're interested doesn't mean they are

They don't want you to explain anything

Ah, diddums... it's so sad and frustrating

Everything after "let it go!" superfluous. Then again you have to labour the point to the entitled!

Agreed

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hey...,I wasnt sulking or having a meltdown etc or that bothered, I agree if they're not interested move on but some good chat that seems to be progressing nicely moves into a blocking...I'm the type who likes to know the ins and outs ....it's called learning from situations presented to you!?

Good reply though.."

You're assuming something that triggers a block from one person will apply to all?!!

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Good reply though..

You're assuming something that triggers a block from one person will apply to all?!!

Yes maybe...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There are always reasons - but they're private and personal to the other party.

Don't take things personally - people are here for no strings fun and will have life circumstances and their own backgrounds behind their actions.

It can be much simpler and cleaner to not explain why they're not continuing dialogue. This is facilitated by blocking.

It's a core part of fab and it's important to deal with your reaction to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say this OP making a thread about it isn't a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say live up to your username OP

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

It never happens for no reason. It may just be that you never learn or understand the reason.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It never happens for no reason. It may just be that you never learn or understand the reason. "

Best answer ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yawn. I often block people simply because I'm bored of them. Happens a lot. I don't want to waste my time with polite chit chat when I know I'm not going to meet them. Even more don't want to waste my time explaining and having to go back and forth when they push.

Block button is there for a reason and I'm grateful for it.

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

If it bother you so much and you really need to know why

That is what to do

Creat a new account and ask them, as in the new account you won't be blocked by them so now you can ask why, in the other hand they might block you again

We say ignore them and move on, people are people what ever you do abd the find the good and the bad and many ugly

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"Oh yawn. I often block people simply because I'm bored of them. Happens a lot. I don't want to waste my time with polite chit chat when I know I'm not going to meet them. Even more don't want to waste my time explaining and having to go back and forth when they push.

Block button is there for a reason and I'm grateful for it. "

We disagree a no lite no thank you is more than enough to finish the conve but if they get nasty then use your button

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

+1 for there is never 'no reason'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is what it is - people might wonder the same when i hit block

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If someone messages me and gets dirty immediately I block them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and you don't ever get the chance to ask why??"

that's exactly why they block, usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just always say to yourself " They probably know me in real life "

It will make you feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone messages me and gets dirty immediately I block them!"

If someone messages me and they don't I immediately block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah well such is life could be worse (first fab problems)

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"If someone messages me and gets dirty immediately I block them!

If someone messages me and they don't I immediately block them

Ooo you so naughty

Don't block me now

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"I'd say live up to your username OP

A good point and taken on board x

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"If someone messages me and gets dirty immediately I block them!

If someone messages me and they don't I immediately block them

Haha!! Fantastic!!!

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"it is what it is - people might wonder the same when i hit block

You hit it often?? Great profile by the way,,,don't block me!! Lol x

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Block button is there for a reason and I'm grateful for it.

We disagree a no lite no thank you is more than enough to finish the conve but if they get nasty then use your button

Agreed!! No need to ever get nasty or aggressive, if people do...I agree...block away!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha...Christmas spirit eh

Mate!? "

I always block if someone is boring me it saves the endless messages and sends a clear message ok it's a bit rude but it does give a clear message. What more could you want to know they block you because they don't see things going further it's simple x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"There are always reasons - but they're private and personal to the other party.

Don't take things personally - people are here for no strings fun and will have life circumstances and their own backgrounds behind their actions.

It can be much simpler and cleaner to not explain why they're not continuing dialogue. This is facilitated by blocking.

It's a core part of fab and it's important to deal with your reaction to it.

I also know that sometimes people on here can be too nice and continue conversations to be polite. The other person is oblivious since the conversation was apparently flowing. Blocking probably makes them feel awful in that case but after a while it seems the only option if they don't want to flat out tell the other person it wasn't going as well as they thought. That's another avenue of fab logic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone messages me and gets dirty immediately I block them!

If someone messages me and they don't I immediately block them

Ooo you so naughty

Don't block me now

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By *ifestoooooshort OP Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"There are always reasons - but they're private and personal to the other party.

Don't take things personally - people are here for no strings fun and will have life circumstances and their own backgrounds behind their actions.

It can be much simpler and cleaner to not explain why they're not continuing dialogue. This is facilitated by blocking.

It's a core part of fab and it's important to deal with your reaction to it.

Some good points!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"It never happens for no reason. It may just be that you never learn or understand the reason.

Best answer ever.

I bet you've missed my infinite forum wisdom, dear lady?

Now do I get to see your boobs?

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