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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm struggling here ladies, Ive been on fab for a little while and found that nobody wants to meet a guy without a verification. But I can't get verified if nobody wants too meet. I'm in the essex area and willing to travel for the right lady, it's really frustrating I'm here for the same thing as everyone else and no one will give you a chance what can I do to change this?

TIA

Jay

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Have you no idea at all why?

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

But you are verified???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have no idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get verified on the cams

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any women that would like to see me on cam and verify me?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have no idea why "

There are lots of men on here so you're in competition in some respects with those so you need to ask yourself why a lady would have sex with you and not me, for example. If you're able to answer that then you'll have an insight into how to present yourself in the best way to be attractive to potential sex partners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand what your saying but there is so many fakes and liers it is hard to compete with sometimes

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Why would you want to compete with fakes and liars?

As a random point, many women read a profile before they answer a message. Maybe your problem lies there.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

You have the green veri tick on your profile op.

We can't give profile advice as you havent asked,but I think the reason you are struggling could lie there.

Miss

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Is there any women that would like to see me on cam and verify me? "

Cam verification doesent really count ,the don't say your safe ,clean or a nut job,I know your probably not but meet verification kind of sorts that out ,I know it's a bit chicken and egg ,but some ppl will meet without verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please do directly ask for profile advice and people may be able to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit that I was quite lucky that my first meet met me when I had nothing but a photo verification, but years down the line people wish to approach internet meetings safer. So my advice to you is get to a social or club as thats your best bet.

Wouldn't hurt to ask if your profile needs some advice either.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Wouldn't hurt to ask if your profile needs some advice either."

Or it might...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met unverified - we were all there once upon a time - just be safe and sensible about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your advice I just spoke to a very helpful couple and I will have a little change of my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on OP. Think about it. You say you're amazing but surely that depends on what the recipient thinks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time and effort to get to that first meet. But people will meet someone who isn't verified if you put the effort in to demonstrate you're for real.

Putting some more detail and pics on your profile wouldn't hurt your chances either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can only say what I have been told from previous encounters

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm glad you're fairly open op.

I am potentially happy to meet with you in January, around London, when I return from the USA, to verify you as met in real life.

99% of the time we don't know why we've not succeeded with a prospect meet - and we can deduce the wrong conclusions.

Everyone here does better if their profile is as great as possible, they're targeting potential meets well and they dedicate themselves for the longer term - particularly true for single men.

Guys here generally don't get overloaded with demands for sex from their preferred gender. It puts the onus on them to outflank the competition. Most of them could easily improve things but they don't.

The balls in your court.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have changed my profile any advice and reviews welcomed and appreciated

TIA

Jay

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

But as I've already pointed out, you've already been verified!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I met a lady 3rd week I was on here she verified me then a few weeks later deleted her account so I have the tick but nothing to display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But as I've already pointed out, you've already been verified!!! "

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