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Single girl can get cam verified but a single guy has to meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't quite get this as people I have messaged say sorry don't meet not verified people . So it's kind of a catch 22 for genuine guys .But not for ladies .I looked at the faq for this information. Isn't this rule kind of sexist I know some men can be bad like but can not women also?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I´ve no idea if that rule is true but it makes some sort of sense to me.

Guys do pose as women, I doubt many women pose as men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which begs the question,,,,, would you rather have .... a cock and no webcam verification or a webcam verification and no cock..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not true. men can get cam verified ...before people start saying this site is sexist to men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It does state this in the faq at the bottom this is why I'm asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I have had a good old think about this, and think I have figured out a solution, boys night out. Lads from site meet up and go out on the town get pissed and chase women around town. No antics just a night out and you can verify each other after eg. Best wingman ever etc.

Guys can meet guys even gay or bi and have no intention other than a night out and libations. It's fun its social and can get you verified. Hanging around everyday on site or going out for a drink with likeminded guys to watch the rugby.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I don't quite get this as people I have messaged say sorry don't meet not verified people . So it's kind of a catch 22 for genuine guys .But not for ladies .I looked at the faq for this information. Isn't this rule kind of sexist I know some men can be bad like but can not women also? "

Meet folk that will meet non verified members ...simples...

Sodareyou's third law of fab..

The more genuine a person is, is inversely proportional to the amount of genuines used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for cam veris at all

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"It does state this in the faq at the bottom this is why I'm asking

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I've seen web cam verifications on guys profiles .. not sure what benefit a web cam verification proves other than it's a bloke, he still might not turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to the relative over supply of men on this site the women and couples are able to be very selective and still get meets. Demanding verifications and other criteria is part of that selectivity.

It's the nature of Fab and sexuality in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point of cam veri's anyway. All they do is show that you look like the people in the photographs.

A cam veri' doesn't say that you'll turn up to a meet when you say you will.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

A webcam verification of a single man means nothing to me. Not only is he a man but a lot of the 'couples' and 'single females' are men too

A webcam verification of couples and women simply says that they are a couple or a woman and not some sad little man behind a keyboard w**king away ferociously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I bet there are 10 fold more fake women profiles than men profiles I seen 3 the other day all withe same kik username at the bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the point of cam veri's anyway. All they do is show that you look like the people in the photographs.

A cam veri' doesn't say that you'll turn up to a meet when you say you will. "

I agree, cam and photo verifications are worthless unless they are combined with 'meet in person' veris

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

No catch 22. Go to an organised social or a club. There are loads of clubs in Lancashire, go to one, have a beer, chat to the bar staff, you can be verified this afternoon.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet there are 10 fold more fake women profiles than men profiles I seen 3 the other day all withe same kik username at the bottom"

True, i think about 80% of female profiles are either fake and or time wasters .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A webcam verification of couples and women simply says that they are a couple or a woman and not some sad little man behind a keyboard w**king away ferociously "

Hey! Some of us with male profiles are more than capable of sadly w**king ferociously behind a keyboard too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fake xxx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Due to the relative over supply of men on this site the women and couples are able to be very selective and still get meets. Demanding verifications and other criteria is part of that selectivity.

It's the nature of Fab and sexuality in general.

"

It's the desperate that pander to the demands that create the problem, any gender can post a list of whatever they wish ... Doesn't mean to say any one has to jump through those hoops..

Know your worth ...I know mine if folk ask too much and make demands I'll be on the fast track to another profile that interests me.. folk that demand this and that chances are I'd not wish to meet them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet there are 10 fold more fake women profiles than men profiles I seen 3 the other day all withe same kik username at the bottom"

Yeah, men wanting to know what it's like to be a woman here . Mind you your stats are likely to be wrong - if there is a 10:1 ratio of men to women but 10:1 ratio of fake women to men, would that equate to 100:1 genuine men to genuine women?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Due to the relative over supply of men on this site the women and couples are able to be very selective and still get meets. Demanding verifications and other criteria is part of that selectivity.

It's the nature of Fab and sexuality in general.

It's the desperate that pander to the demands that create the problem, any gender can post a list of whatever they wish ... Doesn't mean to say any one has to jump through those hoops..

Know your worth ...I know mine if folk ask too much and make demands I'll be on the fast track to another profile that interests me.. folk that demand this and that chances are I'd not wish to meet them anyway. "

I'm with you, on jumping through ridiculous hoops.

Getting meet verified isn't hard and just shows someone is real and can turn up. I think it's the base requirement and shows genuine interest and character.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Due to the relative over supply of men on this site the women and couples are able to be very selective and still get meets. Demanding verifications and other criteria is part of that selectivity.

It's the nature of Fab and sexuality in general.

It's the desperate that pander to the demands that create the problem, any gender can post a list of whatever they wish ... Doesn't mean to say any one has to jump through those hoops..

Know your worth ...I know mine if folk ask too much and make demands I'll be on the fast track to another profile that interests me.. folk that demand this and that chances are I'd not wish to meet them anyway. "

Spot on, demanding profiles make me cringe, especially when they are written by flabby arsed munters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Due to the relative over supply of men on this site the women and couples are able to be very selective and still get meets. Demanding verifications and other criteria is part of that selectivity.

It's the nature of Fab and sexuality in general.

It's the desperate that pander to the demands that create the problem, any gender can post a list of whatever they wish ... Doesn't mean to say any one has to jump through those hoops..

Know your worth ...I know mine if folk ask too much and make demands I'll be on the fast track to another profile that interests me.. folk that demand this and that chances are I'd not wish to meet them anyway.

I'm with you, on jumping through ridiculous hoops.

Getting meet verified isn't hard and just shows someone is real and can turn up. I think it's the base requirement and shows genuine interest and character.

MrB"

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't quite get this as people I have messaged say sorry don't meet not verified people . So it's kind of a catch 22 for genuine guys .But not for ladies .I looked at the faq for this information. Isn't this rule kind of sexist I know some men can be bad like but can not women also? "

As others have said, webcam veris hold zero worth other than confirmation of gender, same as pic veri sent to site. Everyone can get them but not everyone values them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is what I'm on about in the faq

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Due to the relative over supply of men on this site the women and couples are able to be very selective and still get meets. Demanding verifications and other criteria is part of that selectivity.

It's the nature of Fab and sexuality in general.

It's the desperate that pander to the demands that create the problem, any gender can post a list of whatever they wish ... Doesn't mean to say any one has to jump through those hoops..

Know your worth ...I know mine if folk ask too much and make demands I'll be on the fast track to another profile that interests me.. folk that demand this and that chances are I'd not wish to meet them anyway.

Spot on, demanding profiles make me cringe, especially when they are written by flabby arsed munters "

More like flabby tummies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Due to the relative over supply of men on this site the women and couples are able to be very selective and still get meets. Demanding verifications and other criteria is part of that selectivity.

It's the nature of Fab and sexuality in general.

It's the desperate that pander to the demands that create the problem, any gender can post a list of whatever they wish ... Doesn't mean to say any one has to jump through those hoops..

Know your worth ...I know mine if folk ask too much and make demands I'll be on the fast track to another profile that interests me.. folk that demand this and that chances are I'd not wish to meet them anyway.

Spot on, demanding profiles make me cringe, especially when they are written by flabby arsed munters

More like flabby tummies "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone."

Exactly! Go out and meet someone. It doesn't need to be for sex plenty of women will meet just for a brew to confirm your real and you will turn up when you say you will. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what I'm on about in the faq"

It's not a rule otherwise men wouldn't be able to receive them. It's more like acknowledgement that females and couples are less likely to value them.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone."

Look in the forums and go to an organised social.

Or go to any club. Check out opening times for single guys. Just go, they'll give you a tour. You can just stay in the social area if you like, have a chat with other people or bar staff. They can then verify you.

MrB

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"A webcam verification of couples and women simply says that they are a couple or a woman and not some sad little man behind a keyboard w**king away ferociously

Hey! Some of us with male profiles are more than capable of sadly w**king ferociously behind a keyboard too.

"

I didn't mean single men's profiles. They are alright. Just those guys who pretend to be couples or women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone."

I queried this on another thread and a mod said that single men can be cam verid (can't find the thread now tho). I agree with you tho OP, from the FAQ it does look like single men can't be cam verid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just clicked on your profile o.p.

i was one click from giving you a cam veri..even wrote one out, just to show men can be cam verified but thought i'd best not make that last click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/576662

Read this thread op. I asked the same question a week or so ago xxx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone."

Fella forget about cam verifications,

you've been given various pieces of advice on how to meet folk,

I'm going to waste my time posting on other threads..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone.

I queried this on another thread and a mod said that single men can be cam verid (can't find the thread now tho). I agree with you tho OP, from the FAQ it does look like single men can't be cam verid."

IT does put men in the corner on this site especially for the genuine guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just clicked on your profile o.p.

i was one click from giving you a cam veri..even wrote one out, just to show men can be cam verified but thought i'd best not make that last click"

Ha ha thanks any way was it like pressing the doomsday button

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"To be honest I have had a good old think about this, and think I have figured out a solution, boys night out. Lads from site meet up and go out on the town get pissed and chase women around town. No antics just a night out and you can verify each other after eg. Best wingman ever etc.

Guys can meet guys even gay or bi and have no intention other than a night out and libations. It's fun its social and can get you verified. Hanging around everyday on site or going out for a drink with likeminded guys to watch the rugby. "

I'm sorry you're far too sensible to be here. Go back under the stairs until you're called back... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone.

I queried this on another thread and a mod said that single men can be cam verid (can't find the thread now tho). I agree with you tho OP, from the FAQ it does look like single men can't be cam verid.

IT does put men in the corner on this site especially for the genuine guys"

the only thing that will put a guy in a corner on here is himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just clicked on your profile o.p.

i was one click from giving you a cam veri..even wrote one out, just to show men can be cam verified but thought i'd best not make that last click

Ha ha thanks any way was it like pressing the doomsday button

"

i just wanted to follow the cam veri proscess through to see if it was doable...it is..you can veri a guy by cam no worries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha not a problem

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

If you think it will help you go in a chatroom, get on cam, message me which room you´re in and I´ll give you a veri.

But it won´t help you at all. All it will confirm is that you´re a man. Nobody doubts that.

It´s the unverified women that are doubted because lots of them are men.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Verifications are so 2014, darling.

I don't display any and it hasn't stopped me meeting people.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Verifications are so 2014, darling.

I don't display any and it hasn't stopped me meeting people."

If that's the case, you're lucky. How can anyone distinguish between a real guy who meets, and a keyboard warrior who's mate verified him 3 years ago?

The OP needs to get meet verified to be in with a shout IMO.

MrB

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Verifications are so 2014, darling.

I don't display any and it hasn't stopped me meeting people.

If that's the case, you're lucky. How can anyone distinguish between a real guy who meets, and a keyboard warrior who's mate verified him 3 years ago?

The OP needs to get meet verified to be in with a shout IMO.

MrB"

The sheer magnitude of my awesomeness knows no bounds then, clearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fake

I'm really a Cyborg

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"V

The OP needs to get meet verified to be in with a shout IMO.

MrB

The sheer magnitude of my awesomeness knows no bounds then, clearly. "

That could be it. But anyone who doesn't possess your awesomeness should get verified and display something useful from them. It's handy for a lady to know that she won't be left standing on her own waiting in a pub, while a 56 year old guy is wanking at the thought in his bedsit in John O'Groats.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"V

The OP needs to get meet verified to be in with a shout IMO.

MrB

The sheer magnitude of my awesomeness knows no bounds then, clearly.

That could be it. But anyone who doesn't possess your awesomeness should get verified and display something useful from them. It's handy for a lady to know that she won't be left standing on her own waiting in a pub, while a 56 year old guy is wanking at the thought in his bedsit in John O'Groats.

MrB"

You been chattin to him too? xxx

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"V

The OP needs to get meet verified to be in with a shout IMO.

MrB

The sheer magnitude of my awesomeness knows no bounds then, clearly.

That could be it. But anyone who doesn't possess your awesomeness should get verified and display something useful from them. It's handy for a lady to know that she won't be left standing on her own waiting in a pub, while a 56 year old guy is wanking at the thought in his bedsit in John O'Groats.

MrB"

He said his name was Peter, not John

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