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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ex bf texted me today. Breakup was mutual. He got bitter when he saw me dressed as Minnie mouse for haloween ( short skirt pink sweater and looking darn hot). Anyways he texted today asking how I am how are things. I texted back. " whose this?"

I know I shouldn't have. But I couldn't help myself. ??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Wait till he tell you his name then txt back 'who?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hehehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman's scorn.............cruel and unending!

I like your style!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He didn't reply ... think he got the message???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A woman's scorn.............cruel and unending!

I like your style!"

Why thank you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha that was very ruthless but I like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ha ha that was very ruthless but I like it

He wasn't very nice when he got bitter with me at Haloween ... karma is a bitch at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha that was very ruthless but I like it

He wasn't very nice when he got bitter with me at Haloween ... karma is a bitch at times "

Karma can be a cruel bitch when she wants, best way to get over someone old is to get under someone new

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

He didn't mail Brighton Steve did he

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

ha ha it's a guilty pleasure but I love doing it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just remind them what tears they've been ...it seems to stop them messaging again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Best way to get revenge is be happy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Without them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without them... "

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I like your style OP

"Wait till he tell you his name then txt back 'who?' "

Harsh. And I like your style too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dudes probably crying about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looked at your pics I'd be txt you back to if I was him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He had 15 months with me and decided it was too serious

His loss

Gained my freedom again wohoooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was mutual, why the games!?!

My last breakup was mutual and we still get on pretty well, although don't go out so much now that she has a new fella.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's no games

I blocked him on what's app and all social media

Deleted his number

He still texts me

I am perfectly correct answering

Who is this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no games

I blocked him on what's app and all social media

Deleted his number

He still texts me

I am perfectly correct answering

Who is this

Couldn't agree more and if it give a nice bit satisfaction then fair play to ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dude has a problem

Regretting his decision

Too bad

When I am done with someone I am done for good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you blocked him on whatsapp and social media why not also block him from texting you aswell ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I forgot about the " old fashioned way " of texting...

Silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forgot about the " old fashioned way " of texting...

Silly me

Tell the truth you wanted/hoped hed text you lol

When im done everything gets erased from my mind, numbers social media and the ability to ever contact me again, if i could change my address without moving trust me i would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics by the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I forgot about the " old fashioned way " of texting...

Silly me

Tell the truth you wanted/hoped hed text you lol

When im done everything gets erased from my mind, numbers social media and the ability to ever contact me again, if i could change my address without moving trust me i would lol

No I hadn't hoped he texted me

When I am done I am done

Doors closed forever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nice pics by the way

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forgot about the " old fashioned way " of texting...

Silly me

Tell the truth you wanted/hoped hed text you lol

When im done everything gets erased from my mind, numbers social media and the ability to ever contact me again, if i could change my address without moving trust me i would lol

No I hadn't hoped he texted me

When I am done I am done

Doors closed forever

Did you guys both have an interest in swinging or was he not into it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am on fab because I want to get a gentleman to satisfy my needs on a regular basis without relationship attached to it

I don't know where he is or what he is doing

He was on tinder less than 24 hours after we broke up

Friend found him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am on fab because I want to get a gentleman to satisfy my needs on a regular basis without relationship attached to it

I don't know where he is or what he is doing

He was on tinder less than 24 hours after we broke up

Friend found him

Ha ha his loss, I've got a feeling you'll do okay on this site :-

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Ex bf texted me today. Breakup was mutual. He got bitter when he saw me dressed as Minnie mouse for haloween ( short skirt pink sweater and looking darn hot). Anyways he texted today asking how I am how are things. I texted back. " whose this?"

I know I shouldn't have. But I couldn't help myself. ?? "

Are you fkin Goofy? (Joke)

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Doesn't sound like a very mutual break up to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn't sound like a very mutual break up to me "

Does it really matter??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done the same. I've also answered the phone and asked who it was. When she said '"------ey", I said, "------ey who?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't sound like a very mutual break up to me

Does it really matter?? "

Yes, sort of. It looks like you still have feelings for him by trying to hurt him.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Doesn't sound like a very mutual break up to me

Does it really matter?? "

Just all seems a bit childish really and it clearly matters to you as you made a point of saying it was mutual in your opening post then aimed karma was a bitch. Perhaps you need to sort your emotions out regarding this guy or it will screw you up for a long time.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I know I shouldn't have. But I couldn't help myself. ?? "

Why the childishness if the breakup was mutual?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"He had 15 months with me and decided it was too serious

His loss

Gained my freedom again wohoooo "

Methinks you protest too much!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If it was mutual, why the games!?!

My last breakup was mutual and we still get on pretty well, although don't go out so much now that she has a new fella."

Not just me then?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"There's no games

I blocked him on what's app and all social media

Deleted his number

He still texts me

I am perfectly correct answering

Who is this

Couldn't agree more and if it give a nice bit satisfaction then fair play to ya

Some of you love drama.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Doesn't sound like a very mutual break up to me "

Of course it wasn't! Only the white knights on here are pandering to her pretence it was.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"There's no games

I blocked him on what's app and all social media

Deleted his number

He still texts me

I am perfectly correct answering

Who is this

Couldn't agree more and if it give a nice bit satisfaction then fair play to ya

Some of you love drama.

Drama llama is my new term for these people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message from my ex wife that an ex gf (who I met after I separated from the wife) had collared her in the local supermarket and given her a massive rant about what a twat I was and all the shit I had done (all false btw...I left the crazy bitch after she assaulted my daughter)

My response...oh it's nice to know I still mean that much to her after 2 years of not seeing her and her getting married. I never even think of her..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Doesn't sound like a very mutual break up to me

Does it really matter??

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Oh well, you must feel better for it

Sticking it to the bitter ex and telling others about it.

What a hoot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Drama ... childish ... it was himself who found a way to text me ... not the other way round ... how I responded was my way of showing him I don't care anymore... nothing else... once a door is closed its closed forever with me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drama ... childish ... it was himself who found a way to text me ... not the other way round ... how I responded was my way of showing him I don't care anymore... nothing else... once a door is closed its closed forever with me ... "

If you didn't care, you wouldn't have replied or even replied saying I am fine. The breakups obviously hurt you somehow and it was your way of showing it.

Which I perfectly understand, if hurt, I lose my rational way of thinking and I'd exactly the same.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Best way to get revenge is be happy... "

His loss our gain sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to be clear ... I answered " who is this " then blocked him

Saying to myself how the hell did he get through I blocked his ass everywhere... I hadn't put a block on Texts...

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