FabSwingers.com forum: New men getting a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK I am a new male to the site and finding it hard to not only get a meet but also a reply! It's hard work as I am always polite and never offensive, either I am pig ugly or the men on here are all hot. Could anyone give me some tips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK I am a new male to the site and finding it hard to not only get a meet but also a reply! It's hard work as I am always polite and never offensive, either I am pig ugly or the men on here are all hot. Could anyone give me some tips!"

Treat em meen, keep em keen might work ?

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Ahh we're all just that hot

Perseverance my old chap is required, post in the forums, wink fab and message well and you shall reap the rewards of your hard work.

Good luck and welcome my young padawan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile,while perfectly pleasant and polite,doesn't really say much about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. I try and show respect and be courteous in any message I send but maybe it's my pic or maybe it's my profile but I very rarely get a reply. It seems you need lots of verifications to get replies but new folk find it difficult to get verifications. Just one big circle.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Well for starters you've only been on here a week and have a veri already, so you're not doing so bad. Patience is the key, along with a decent profile and pics.

So advice would be to take a look at your profile blurb and ask yourself if it really sells you, lays out who you are, what you're looking for and most importantly what you have to offer, and amend it accordingly. Other than that give it some time, a week is nothing in Fab terms. Tailor your messages to the individuals you're contacting as well, don't just send generic one liner messages to everyone.

After that it's down to luck and patience I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your profile,while perfectly pleasant and polite,doesn't really say much about you."

tbf the OP didn't ask for profile advice and as per forum rules we cant help unless asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your profile,while perfectly pleasant and polite,doesn't really say much about you.

tbf the OP didn't ask for profile advice and as per forum rules we cant help unless asked"

i think the question 'could anyone give me any tips?' covers that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Feel free to give me suggestions

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Go gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat em meen, keep em keen might work ?"

No no no

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would that be not to go gay lol...I wouldn't dream of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smile "

Yea, that's most likely why I'm not getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many views you get a day?

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I'd change your pics, I only use my phone and they aren't very clear I have to click on them and enlarge and that would put me off

I also like to see what's on offer if you know what I mean although I understand some may not like that but I think one more personal pic should be included

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