FabSwingers.com forum: Singles

By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Just out of curiosity, how many single women on this site actally meet single men? I say this because it's rarer than a unicorn fucking a chipmunk lately. If your a woman and don't ever meet please answer this for all us lads that spend the time reading your profiles and messaging you.

Why for the love of sexy times are you on a swingers sex site if you won't meet?????

P.s. if you say to stay in touch with friends or forums then use bloody Facebook !!!!!!!

Rant over pmsl xxx

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Of course we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single men

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Thank you hun your the start of restoring my faith lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Em I meet. Just recently too

but I am on a mini break until after xmas. Is this okay????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men are my favourite, and what I'm here for. But only those guys who get out from behind their laptops and venture to a local club, spa or party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh FFS!

I tell you what I'll let you read my inbox for a couple of hours and see how much will to live you've got after!

We do meet but not just because someone says "hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybes aye maybes naw

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Mini breaks are cool with me lol how ever I will check in in the new year. Lol

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

True

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Nah. I never meet single men.

Anyway, just because it's a swingers site it does not mean a woman needs to be actively seeking and meeting single men. Let them get on with what the fuck they want and fuck those who want to be by you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few, I'm certainly not fighting them off but there's enough nice ladies to keep me happy so far.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Someone is obviously a bit of a grumpypants tonight.....

I meet but I am a fussy bitch and if your pics and profile are shit then men shouldn't bother messaging me. Yes I would rather go without than fuck most of the men on here.

Most men seem to think they only need to have a cock....Me? I think if that is what they think is the best thing about them and sells them, they must be a cock! But then that is just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are a lot of single women on here meeting single men. They're just not meeting you.

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By *r tool 77Man
over a year ago

Derby

Well I have had the chance to meet a few single lady's and stayed friends with most of them haha so they are real just hope you approach them

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

I really dont know what it's like to have such a full box. It must be such an inconvenience sifting through the stacks of men wanting to meet you. I have no idea how your confidence can take a bashing like that lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I really dont know what it's like to have such a full box. It must be such an inconvenience sifting through the stacks of men wanting to meet you. I have no idea how your confidence can take a bashing like that lol"

OP, to help people understand who your sarcasm is directed at, use the 'reply + quote' option on a person's post.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

The first line of your profile says you don't judge. Yet here we are!

Maybe a better question to ask would be why don't single women want to meet you. As it does appear they are meeting!

Forum users are such a small part of the site, that it's unlikely you'll get every woman who isn't meeting here, so you'll still have to read some profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single men

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Who said they are not meeting me ???????? I said it's rare lately. Plus I do got out socially and meet women that Ard not on this site. I just think it's very weird to be a member of a swinging site and not meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some of us meet couples and ladies. If I wanted to fuck a random fella I'd pull down the pub. Less hassle. Singles meeting singles isn't swinging in my opinion. It's just people shagging.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Who said they are not meeting me ???????? I said it's rare lately. Plus I do got out socially and meet women that Ard not on this site. I just think it's very weird to be a member of a swinging site and not meet!"

Swinging is as equally about the social side as the sexual side. Some people decide they prefer to concentrate on the former for a while.

Leave them t it and concentrate on the ones meeting.

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Good point x

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By *ips n NipsWoman
over a year ago

in dreams

I do. But I'm also on here to chat.

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Your absolutely right great point xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service.

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service."

In what way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single men. I'm not single though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service."

Exactly!

Boring!

I barely get to cum let alone paid!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I meet but like the lady further up I'm not 'officially' planninb on meeting at the moment as I havent much time.

I'm here as I like the forums

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

"I meet single men. I'm not single though. "

Thank you ruby your restoring my faith lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single men, when I have the time & inclination to do so.

I do work & have a life outside of Fabs, hard to believe I know...

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I meet single men, when I have the time & inclination to do so.

I do work & have a life outside of Fabs, hard to believe I know...

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can do whatever they like on here provided they play by the rules. If they are clear they don't wish to meet then I cannot see a problem. Many who don't meet have filters so people cannot message them anyway. I only meet single guys on here.

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service.

Exactly!

Boring!

I barely get to cum let alone paid!

How in God's earth does a man leave you high and dry????

That's heart breaking for us genuine pleasers I mean come on men please this woman if your lucky enough to meet her!!!!!

(Hope that does the trick love)!!! Mwah

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just out of curiosity, how many single women on this site actally meet single men? I say this because it's rarer than a unicorn fucking a chipmunk lately. If your a woman and don't ever meet please answer this for all us lads that spend the time reading your profiles and messaging you.

Why for the love of sexy times are you on a swingers sex site if you won't meet?????

P.s. if you say to stay in touch with friends or forums then use bloody Facebook !!!!!!!

Rant over pmsl xxx"

I'm not meeting and I'm pretty sure it says that in my profile. Sadly it doesn't stop people messaging me but I don't whinge about it, I reply with a polite no thank you. I didn't waste anyone's time.

I'm here cause I want to be and I generally don't leave my Facebook open to randoms so I'll stick around if it's all the same to you.

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Why for the love of sexy times are you on a swingers sex site if you won't meet?????

P.s. if you say to stay in touch with friends or forums then use bloody Facebook !!!!!!!

Rant over pmsl xxx

I'm here cause I want to be and I generally don't leave my Facebook open to randoms so I'll stick around if it's all the same to you.

It's perfectly fine with me now you've explained it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service.

In what way x"

no chat to reassure me they're ok to to even meet, no expectation that i'll turn them down, presumption that i'm free to meet right there and then. just act like i'm on here to service them and haven't got a choice about it.

it's kind of weird tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service.

In what way x

it's kind of weird tbh.

There are some exceptions to the rule thankfully

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service.

In what way x

it's kind of weird tbh.

Very true I have a fem friend on here we meet occasionally and she said the same thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service.

In what way x

it's kind of weird tbh.

There are some exceptions to the rule thankfully

thankfully yes else i'd be celibate lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service.

In what way x

it's kind of weird tbh.

Very true I have a fem friend on here we meet occasionally and she said the same thing x"

my best friend left because of it.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'm attached, but also meet solo sometimes .... however, you know, I don't actually *want* to meet everyone who suggests it and I like doing other stuff with my time too. Such is life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single, I'm here to meet single guys but with a view to date rather than a one off shag. For that reason it takes a bit longer to find someone that I like who is also looking to date and not just a rub. I also have some things going on that's quite stressful, I'm not looking to add guys to the mix because courting is stress that I can do without at the moment so I'm only here for the forums until things are sorted out in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single men

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've met a few single guys.

I've met a few single girls.

I've met a few couples.

I am greedy! But.....with everyone I've met, there's been some kind of connection, whether it's been we share similar humour, similar sexual desires etc. For me there needs to be something.

It's rare as rocking horse shit I just meet to get fucked. I can do that myself with toys if I'm horny.

It's a case of finding someone you click with, or maybe those who don't need a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'd meet more often if most guys didn't treat me like an escort service.

Exactly!

Boring!

I barely get to cum let alone paid!

Clearly meeting the wrong men then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh FFS!

I tell you what I'll let you read my inbox for a couple of hours and see how much will to live you've got after!

We do meet but not just because someone says "hi"

You always sound so angry!?! Have a virtual cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh FFS!

I tell you what I'll let you read my inbox for a couple of hours and see how much will to live you've got after!

We do meet but not just because someone says "hi"

You always sound so angry!?! Have a virtual cuddle.

Haha

Do I?

I'm not angry....

Exasperated maybe!

Or maybe just plain frustrated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh FFS!

I tell you what I'll let you read my inbox for a couple of hours and see how much will to live you've got after!

We do meet but not just because someone says "hi"

Saves me typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what I find most frustrating are the single females who insist on a detailed message/essay then delete it upon receipt without even reading it or looking at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh FFS!

I tell you what I'll let you read my inbox for a couple of hours and see how much will to live you've got after!

We do meet but not just because someone says "hi"

You always sound so angry!?! Have a virtual cuddle.

Haha

Do I?

I'm not angry....

Exasperated maybe!

Or maybe just plain frustrated!

Ah, that's good. I was starting to worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think what I find most frustrating are the single females who insist on a detailed message/essay then delete it upon receipt without even reading it or looking at your profile

Women tend to look at profiles in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think what I find most frustrating are the single females who insist on a detailed message/essay then delete it upon receipt without even reading it or looking at your profile

Women tend to look at profiles in stealth mode

Ah explains a lot then

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Why for the love of sexy times are you on a swingers sex site if you won't meet?????

P.s. if you say to stay in touch with friends or forums then use bloody Facebook !!!!!!!

Rant over pmsl xxx"

No way people on a swingers site are getting on my facebook!I meet single men, but I was fussy when I came here and I'm getting moreso - bored with sex for the sake of it, I want more now. Men who want sex do not interest me - only men who want me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single guys but i happen to be fussy who i meet

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single guys but I've no desire to sleep my way round my local area, so standards come into play. Just because a single man or any man messages me, it doesn't suddenly make me think oh I need to fuck them! They have to able interest me from the general chit chat to the downright dirty.

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By *igjrv OP Man
over a year ago

blackwood

"I think what I find most frustrating are the single females who insist on a detailed message/essay then delete it upon receipt without even reading it or looking at your profile

That's my point mate its just so frustrating lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"That's my point mate its just so frustrating lol"

What's funny about frustration?

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