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By *AK74 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hereford

is it rude/arrogant/ignorant NOT to reply to an introductory first message?

we understand some of the most popular fabbers get inundated but politeness costs nothing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the FAQ's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it rude/arrogant/ignorant NOT to reply to an introductory first message?

we understand some of the most popular fabbers get inundated but politeness costs nothing!!!"

no its not rude or ignorant nor arrogant,,perhaps it is expecting a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it rude/arrogant/ignorant NOT to reply to an introductory first message?

we understand some of the most popular fabbers get inundated but politeness costs nothing!!!"

FFS, read the FAQ and come back when you have.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No. There's no entitlement to a reply here.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm far from popular or 'hot' but get around 50 messages a day. That's a lot of admin. Only the strongest profiles and messages survive to the next round

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I'm far from popular or 'hot' but get around 50 messages a day. That's a lot of admin. Only the strongest profiles and messages survive to the next round

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It's a brutal elimination process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAQ's or 'Frequently Asked Questions' are so called for a reason and are designed to pre-empt the most common questions that are likely to be asked.

It has been made very clear that a non-response should be taken as a 'No Thank You' and is NOT considered rude on fab.

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By *AK74 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hereford


"is it rude/arrogant/ignorant NOT to reply to an introductory first message?

we understand some of the most popular fabbers get inundated but politeness costs nothing!!!

no its not rude or ignorant nor arrogant,,perhaps it is expecting a reply "

REALLY !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete my inbox on a daily basis without replying to most of your messages. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete my inbox on a daily basis without replying to most of your messages. Xxx"

My not your

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, green arrow shows you done loads of forumming, surely you've seen this answered to death?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call us rude, ignorant, or whatever you want, will continue to not read and delete without reply, those messages we feel are worthy of the treatment.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There have been at least 3 of these threads today alone

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By *AK74 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hereford


"OP, green arrow shows you done loads of forumming, surely you've seen this answered to death?"

Not new to FAB , but relatively new to the forums !

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By *AK74 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hereford


"Call us rude, ignorant, or whatever you want, will continue to not read and delete without reply, those messages we feel are worthy of the treatment. "

asking a question ,NOT making a statement

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"FAQ's or 'Frequently Asked Questions' are so called for a reason and are designed to pre-empt the most common questions that are likely to be asked.

It has been made very clear that a non-response should be taken as a 'No Thank You' and is NOT considered rude on fab."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it rude not to read the guidelines of a site you joined?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"is it rude/arrogant/ignorant NOT to reply to an introductory first message?

we understand some of the most popular fabbers get inundated but politeness costs nothing!!!"

No. If I'm not interested replying to someone who would know I'm not interested if they'd bothered to read my profile wastes my time. If I reply to an introductory message then it invites further messages and wastes both party's time. So I have message filters on. Even when I don't have them on I have my looking for boxes unselected so people get a warning I am not looking to meet whatever gender type they happen to be. If they still message despite that I owe them nothing. Politeness goes both ways.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"OP, green arrow shows you done loads of forumming, surely you've seen this answered to death?

Not new to FAB , but relatively new to the forums ! "

I'd just use the forum search feature for answers to this one. Reason is, it gets asked so often, people get upset about it, maybe unfairly on the person asking..

Go on search and you'll see lots of answers

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By *AK74 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hereford


"is it rude/arrogant/ignorant NOT to reply to an introductory first message?

we understand some of the most popular fabbers get inundated but politeness costs nothing!!!

No. If I'm not interested replying to someone who would know I'm not interested if they'd bothered to read my profile wastes my time. If I reply to an introductory message then it invites further messages and wastes both party's time. So I have message filters on. Even when I don't have them on I have my looking for boxes unselected so people get a warning I am not looking to meet whatever gender type they happen to be. If they still message despite that I owe them nothing. Politeness goes both ways."

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"There have been at least 3 of these threads today alone "

Ah fuck it, I'm off to start a bareback with a beard thread

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

From the sites FAQ section:

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!"

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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So what can we deduce from this ?

RTBM

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By *AK74 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hereford


"From the sites FAQ section:

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!"

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

.

.

.

So what can we deduce from this ?

RTBM "

did you read the original question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, green arrow shows you done loads of forumming, surely you've seen this answered to death?

Not new to FAB , but relatively new to the forums ! "

Green arrow says different my friend

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Is 37 weeks considered new to the forums?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"OP, green arrow shows you done loads of forumming, surely you've seen this answered to death?

Not new to FAB , but relatively new to the forums ! "

You posted a thread 37 weeks ago.

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