FabSwingers.com forum: Gone off sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?"

Going through it right now. Last week and probably all of this week.

Had sex yesterday, felt like i was doing it under duress. Couldnt cum so lasted forever. She came twice and had a great time all i was thinking is when is this over.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Hope she's not reading

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Absolutely normal!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

Going through it right now. Last week and probably all of this week.

Had sex yesterday, felt like i was doing it under duress. Couldnt cum so lasted forever. She came twice and had a great time all i was thinking is when is this over. "

Some comfort at least to know I'm not alone.

Just not finding that spark at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people do.

I can't say I'm too interested at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am currently in that phase. You are not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could go without sex today easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel it's like chocolate cake, when you eat too much it feels like you'd never have it again but when there's no chocolate cake around you'd go to any old shop for a slice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have times when I've gone off swinging, but not when I've gone off sex more more than a day or two.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

If I'm off sex something is very wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not alone there, I have had long spells of no sex and even since joining here ( not that there are too many offers here either) I'm getting to stage I am like oh why bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope mate, we are in the same boat.

My mojo must have stayed in the uk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?"

It's called swinging burn out. The cure is to take a long break and come back only when you start missing swinging again.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

I'm really horny. Sorry I'm not help

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

It's called swinging burn out. The cure is to take a long break and come back only when you start missing swinging again."

Yes that's happened to us.

Although a lack of interest in sex doesn't necessarily mean losing interest in swinging.

For me losing interest in sex is usually a sign of depression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we are all depressed ?

That's true my recent posts seemed rather depressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

It's called swinging burn out. The cure is to take a long break and come back only when you start missing swinging again.

Yes that's happened to us.

Although a lack of interest in sex doesn't necessarily mean losing interest in swinging.

For me losing interest in sex is usually a sign of depression. "

Very true.... I noticed when work/finances stress me out. I can't get horny

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?"

Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?

All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".

Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat

meh! Couldn't tell you the last time I was horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?"

Never, I'm pleased to say

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By *eoffinthecityMan
over a year ago

Wigan

100% normal. Especially if the weight of the world is in you.

This can be a hectic time of year, too. Lots of distractions and stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we are all depressed ?

That's true my recent posts seemed rather depressive "

I can only speak for myself. My posts have been on the grumpy side. But then I'm quite enjoying being a bit more blunt.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My mojo has been missing for quite some time.

I don't know if it's normal or not. I just figure it'll turn up when it's ready. Longest I've gone without sex though that's for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?

All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".

Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.

56 weeks of the year?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds pretty normal to me. I was pretty meh for 6 months earlier this year. It came back

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Frequently in the last 12 month's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not alone there, I have had long spells of no sex and even since joining here ( not that there are too many offers here either) I'm getting to stage I am like oh why bother"

I know that feeling very well....going thru it at the moment...couldn't give a damn if I get it or not right now....partly due to illness and partly to can't be bothered as nothing if interest has come along!!!

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Definitely not alone there, I have had long spells of no sex and even since joining here ( not that there are too many offers here either) I'm getting to stage I am like oh why bother"

Same here, must be the time of year?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not alone there, I have had long spells of no sex and even since joining here ( not that there are too many offers here either) I'm getting to stage I am like oh why bother

Same here, must be the time of year?"

Ditto......must be catching .

Perhaps we should all meet up to rid ourselves of this angst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stop getting horny when l feel low.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's always time and energy for it - though when I'm tired it can be an effort. Give me sex every day. But I lost it after death for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife hasnt really been into sex for 5 years, since our daughter was born. Frustrating but that's why I'm here - but not getting any here either! Oh well, I'm becoming an expert wanker...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mojo is bipolar!

it's either non existent or through the roof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swings and roundabouts for some people, for some of us it's always deeply routed inside us. Maybe you should take a break ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can take it or leave it. I've not had sex since beginning of August and prior to June this year I'd not had sex since September 2014! If there's no one around to have it with I don't think about sex.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?

All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".

Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.

56 weeks of the year

bloody hell, that's a long year in your lives. I want 56 weeks in my year, just lately the years are going by too quickly, maybe that's the answer

xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?

All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".

Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.

56 weeks of the year

bloody hell, that's a long year in your lives. I want 56 weeks in my year, just lately the years are going by too quickly, maybe that's the answer

xxxxx Suzi "

That's elite life membership. You get an extra month each year.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?

All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".

Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.

56 weeks of the year

bloody hell, that's a long year in your lives. I want 56 weeks in my year, just lately the years are going by too quickly, maybe that's the answer

xxxxx Suzi

That's elite life membership. You get an extra month each year. "

Where do I sign

I need to do it quickly, it's very nearly another new year

xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm iin this phase now. Have been in this phase for 2 weeks

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

You aren't alone.

My mojo buggered off months ago, I've looked everywhere for it, down the back of the sofa, in the fridge where the sky remote has been found (bloody kids) but no sign of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather have a wank tbh

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

A couple of months ago, it was all meh, but the past week has rocketed.

Hope I can make it to the weekend

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?

All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".

Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.

56 weeks of the year?

it was early and on planet Nice there are 56 weeks in a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking hell, reading that we are all sad fuckers

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?

All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".

Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.

56 weeks of the year

bloody hell, that's a long year in your lives. I want 56 weeks in my year, just lately the years are going by too quickly, maybe that's the answer

xxxxx Suzi "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all for the messages, really good to know that I'm not the only one.

I hope I snap out of it soon, but there are other things on my mind right now. Would be good to get excited about sex again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went through it a month or 2 ago, maybe 3 but now im bouncing and back to my old self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.

But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?

Going through it right now. Last week and probably all of this week.

Had sex yesterday, felt like i was doing it under duress. Couldnt cum so lasted forever. She came twice and had a great time all i was thinking is when is this over. "

That's horrendous. I do hope the lady in question isn't reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most people do.

I can't say I'm too interested at the moment.

Your username is LOLZ

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