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Are older women better in bed then younger women???

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By *aptain V OP   Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DEFINITELY mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *rednkatieCouple
over a year ago

orlando

my vote is Yes

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By *aptain V OP   Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Yes "

Do u prefer younger or older guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better at what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite yes!! The confidence is amazing. She knows what she wants she ain't afraid to ask for it. She's perfected her art of pleasing herself and you. Can't beat that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This must be why all those men's age ranges on their profiles start from 40. Oh wait...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got better as I've got older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got better as I've got older "

I'm happy to collect a few together and do a test if anyone fancies it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

without a doubt a big fat YES!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confidence, determination, experience and an insight into how to please yourself and others, m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the number has anything to do with it, and saying an older woman is better in bed than a young woman is a sweeping generalisation.

I mean I can't imagine Susan Boyle being better in bed than Sasha Grey, and that has nothing to do with looks, it comes down to experience

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Yes yes yes...the older ladies I've had anyway.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Are older women better in bed then younger women???

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My personal opinion is that being "good in bed" is all about how compatible two (or 3/4/5 etc) people are sexualy. People have different wants, likes and desires, and your "show stopper" techniques may blow one person away, whilst the next is bored senseless by it.

Not only that though, sex is an interactive process. Like a musical jam session, each person's performance is shaped and inspired by each of the other performers.

Cal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mixed feedback. Some older women were awesome and so were younger. Some do certain things better than others.

Some younger women can make an older woman blush though.

Older women in general do act mature and to the point. Younger at times can be a bit bashful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we are! Experienced, know what we like, and secure in ourselves/our bodies. Not to say that some young women are too, but I would say they are in the minority as they are still getting to know themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got better at sex with age, I was a lazy fucker in my 20's / early 30's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. It's a no brainer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have my own experiences as a point of reference, but it's something which is often said to me. Maybe a generalisation? I don't know. The younger men I see are happy to keep coming back though. Happy me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Fuck this. Really? I think it's been deliberately created to provoke a reaction and I might just be doing so but what utter crap. Some older women can be better, just as some younger can be. Using personal anecdotal stories as evidence it must be so doesn't quite make it so. Yes, being old might mean you have a few more years to develop sexual experience but it doesn't mean someone younger hasn't done so.

So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily true but from my own experience yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are.

Some are not.

I do think that MrsJ is pretty damn good though.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Not necessarily better in bed.. one thing to say one is attracted to the mature lady which is ok.. but to think they are better. No.

Equally is the older male better in bed than younger men

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Of course!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Some are some aren't,

I think this statement sums up most 'are they better ' questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck this. Really? I think it's been deliberately created to provoke a reaction and I might just be doing so but what utter crap. Some older women can be better, just as some younger can be. Using personal anecdotal stories as evidence it must be so doesn't quite make it so. Yes, being old might mean you have a few more years to develop sexual experience but it doesn't mean someone younger hasn't done so.

So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim. "

I think you've bitten a tad quick.

It's not the 1st time this question has been posted & there are differing opinions on the thread.

Most people would think some are, some aren't, others is preference / experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck this. Really? I think it's been deliberately created to provoke a reaction and I might just be doing so but what utter crap. Some older women can be better, just as some younger can be. Using personal anecdotal stories as evidence it must be so doesn't quite make it so. Yes, being old might mean you have a few more years to develop sexual experience but it doesn't mean someone younger hasn't done so.

So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim. "

Wouldn't worry about it. They're playing to the crowd. If this were true, there wouldn't be so many age ranges starting from 18...

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

From my experience... I think is not a correct answear for this.. Depends of each person.. Depends of each "hungry" for partner.... I had some unexpected surprises when person who i thought is going to be a wow in a good way.. Was a wow in the bad way ... So... Diversity =more exerience...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Are older women better in bed then younger women???

My personal opinion is that being "good in bed" is all about how compatible two (or 3/4/5 etc) people are sexualy. People have different wants, likes and desires, and your "show stopper" techniques may blow one person away, whilst the next is bored senseless by it.

Not only that though, sex is an interactive process. Like a musical jam session, each person's performance is shaped and inspired by each of the other performers.

Cal. "

This!!

Couldn't have put it better myself.

Of course experience comes into it too, but age doesn't have to dictate experience.

To use an example I was recently in a play situation where the female of the couple (who was in her mid to late forties so I guess would qualify as "older" for the purposes of this thread) mechanically worked my cock with her hand to the point it actually hurt and I had to ask her to stop. Certain facts that came out later suggested she may not have been particularly either experienced, or into swinging (sounded to us like she was doing it to please her other half) - either way the chemistry obviously wasn't there, and made for a not great experience as a result.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Depends what the sexual chemistry is like between you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I predict sitting on the fence type posts from this moment onwards.....

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

I have to say I'll take experience over youth every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. It all depends on the woman. Some of the best sex I've had, over the many years, has been with women in their late teens, early twenties. Some get more adventurous and more skilled with age, others lose the interest and youthful enthusiasm. Generalising like this is not particularly helpful as it is alienating, unless it's simply a vain attempt to curry favour with a certain demographic. Then it is a bit too transparent and obvious to catch many unaware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The experienced and mature mindset is most desirable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all my ladies have been younger

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Looking at the "Number of shags this year" thread I'd say age has fuck all to do with it..

We know a girl who had more experience than us put together before she was eighteen!! But that's not a good thing either, now twenty five & a complete mess..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think older women are better in bed thats why i prefer to sleep with older women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that it's down to the individual, not some ridiculous generalisation about age.

Good sex often comes with experience, and there are plenty of inexperienced women both older and younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found that it's down to the individual, not some ridiculous generalisation about age.

Good sex often comes with experience, and there are plenty of inexperienced women both older and younger."

And the same goes for blokes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was awesome in bed 25 years ago - now I'm just as awesome but a bit kinkier.

To say older women are better is too much of a generalisation. Some are obviously terrible which is why their husbands are on Fab...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim.

Wouldn't worry about it. They're playing to the crowd. If this were true, there wouldn't be so many age ranges starting from 18..."

I know. I might have posted it before caffeine had entered my bloodstream. It riles me slightly (as is slightly evident in my post) but then again any sort of generalisation does and I do feel this one is to appeal to the main demographic on here. Maybe some men are willing to settle for an eighteen year old before they meet that firecracker of a forty something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have been an amazing fuck when I was in my 20s. If I had married someone different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have been an amazing fuck when I was in my 20s. If I had married someone different. "

you know what - that sums me up - 20 yrs of boring sex or no sex - talk about being woken up when i was mid 40s - i remember a conversation with the ex towards the end of it all - he said i know you really dont enjoy the sex side - i could cry laughing at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have been an amazing fuck when I was in my 20s. If I had married someone different.

you know what - that sums me up - 20 yrs of boring sex or no sex - talk about being woken up when i was mid 40s - i remember a conversation with the ex towards the end of it all - he said i know you really dont enjoy the sex side - i could cry laughing at that "

It always irks me with middle age dominant men when they try to tell me that they know more than me about BDSM, are more experienced etc because they are older.

It usually comes out that they've been doing it for a handful of years since they divorced their wife. Whereas I've been doing BDSM since I could legally have sex.

Just because someone is older, doesn't mean they're more experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have been an amazing fuck when I was in my 20s. If I had married someone different.

you know what - that sums me up - 20 yrs of boring sex or no sex - talk about being woken up when i was mid 40s - i remember a conversation with the ex towards the end of it all - he said i know you really dont enjoy the sex side - i could cry laughing at that "

My husband liked the idea of us being seen by strangers, the actual sex was cold, emotionless and bland. I wasn't allowed to look at him as I gave him oral, and he never kissed me. And he had the nerve to say I was a plank in bed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have been an amazing fuck when I was in my 20s. If I had married someone different.

you know what - that sums me up - 20 yrs of boring sex or no sex - talk about being woken up when i was mid 40s - i remember a conversation with the ex towards the end of it all - he said i know you really dont enjoy the sex side - i could cry laughing at that

It always irks me with middle age dominant men when they try to tell me that they know more than me about BDSM, are more experienced etc because they are older.

It usually comes out that they've been doing it for a handful of years since they divorced their wife. Whereas I've been doing BDSM since I could legally have sex.

Just because someone is older, doesn't mean they're more experienced."

I met a 22 yr old who was naturally dominant with more experience in BDSM than me, when I was 48.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking for myself here, but I always worry I'm shit in bed so I'd say yes, older women will be better in bed than I am at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my ex's left me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me try lovely

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

Yes they are, they know what they want and take it

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Speaking for myself here, but I always worry I'm shit in bed so I'd say yes, older women will be better in bed than I am at least "

Well H is 50% older, let's try out your hypothesis

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck this. Really? I think it's been deliberately created to provoke a reaction and I might just be doing so but what utter crap. Some older women can be better, just as some younger can be. Using personal anecdotal stories as evidence it must be so doesn't quite make it so. Yes, being old might mean you have a few more years to develop sexual experience but it doesn't mean someone younger hasn't done so.

So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim.

Wouldn't worry about it. They're playing to the crowd. If this were true, there wouldn't be so many age ranges starting from 18..."

Absolutely right

Age has nothing to do with how good or bad you are in bed.

If hazard a guess that if the forum was full of younger women in their early 20s, younger women would get voted better in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck this. Really? I think it's been deliberately created to provoke a reaction and I might just be doing so but what utter crap. Some older women can be better, just as some younger can be. Using personal anecdotal stories as evidence it must be so doesn't quite make it so. Yes, being old might mean you have a few more years to develop sexual experience but it doesn't mean someone younger hasn't done so.

So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim.

Wouldn't worry about it. They're playing to the crowd. If this were true, there wouldn't be so many age ranges starting from 18...

Absolutely right

Age has nothing to do with how good or bad you are in bed.

If hazard a guess that if the forum was full of younger women in their early 20s, younger women would get voted better in bed "

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I met a younger man once who said he liked older women because they are so dirty, i suppose when you get older youre more laid back you dont feel you have to impress anyone or worry quite as much about what people think about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you possibly ever say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a younger man once who said he liked older women because they are so dirty, i suppose when you get older youre more laid back you dont feel you have to impress anyone or worry quite as much about what people think about you."

So dirty? What did she have... Mucky hands, smelly etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more confident in myself as ive got older but don't think ya can say older better in bed really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are older women better in bed then younger women???

My personal opinion is that being "good in bed" is all about how compatible two (or 3/4/5 etc) people are sexualy. People have different wants, likes and desires, and your "show stopper" techniques may blow one person away, whilst the next is bored senseless by it.

Not only that though, sex is an interactive process. Like a musical jam session, each person's performance is shaped and inspired by each of the other performers.

Cal. "

This I have met some people who had raving veris about their prowess in the bedroom, who quite frankly left me underwhelmed after the meet. Confidence does grow with age, for both sexes, as does respect for the other participant's pleasure, (for some, anyway). Techniques can always be improved on if you are willing to learn and want to please your partners. I do like a younger guy's energy and ability to repeat quickly, but there is a lot to be said about a more mature lover who takes his time to make sure you are enjoying yourself too.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

How about sleep with an 85 year old and then an 18 year old. Will the older woman still be better??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been with an older woman, so I cant comment.

Though the thought of being with an old women does turn me though, but they normally tell me im too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cal and Doc - spot on.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"How can you possibly ever say. "

meet a few and find out i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking for myself here, but I always worry I'm shit in bed so I'd say yes, older women will be better in bed than I am at least "

Exactly how I feel xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my saxophonist left me "

You need a hug from a violonist mate ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it all comes down to experience in life it's not about a number"

Oh and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think age has anything to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my saxophonist left me

You need a hug from a violonist mate ? "

No thanks, it appears in French culture hug means "grab them by the penis" so I'll pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my saxophonist left me

You need a hug from a violonist mate ?

Yes thanks, it appears in French culture hug means "grab them by the penis" so I'll well up for it "

I think you are confused with the Polish culture there^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my saxophonist left me

You need a hug from a violonist mate ?

No thanks, it appears in French culture hug means "grab them by the penis" so I'll pass

I think you are confused with the culture, we meant, grab them by the testis, in French when referring to a hug"

I'll pass to that as well but thank you for the kind offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha. Definitely not. Experienced doesn't always mean older.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think it all comes down to experience in life it's not about a number

Oh and chemistry"

And socks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it all comes down to experience in life it's not about a number

Oh and chemistry

And socks.... "

Your horrible to me you are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about anyone else but I know I am!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think it all comes down to experience in life it's not about a number

Oh and chemistry

And socks....

Your horrible to me you are lol"

Yeah but you love it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you possibly ever say.

meet a few and find out i guess."

How do you know I haven't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my saxophonist left me

You need a hug from a violonist mate ?

Yes thanks, it appears in French culture hug means "grab them by the penis" so I'am wel up for that

I think you are the best Sir bearded need to hug you;-)

I am up for that as well, thank you for the kind offer Sir you are the best "

Easy tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we are

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"dont think age has anything to do with it"

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Definitely! some sometimes are and some sometimes are not !

Or my other answer is

Its a stupid question that will attract stupid answers by some xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my saxophonist left me

You need a hug from a violonist mate ?

Yes thanks, it appears in French culture hug means "grab them by the penis" so I'am wel up for that

I think you are the best Sir bearded need to hug you;-)

I am up for that as well, thank you for the kind offer Sir you are the best

Easy tiger "

Always needs to have the last word

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

What answer do we put so all the ladies like us??

We like fun and sexy. We've played with a broad range of ladies and age doesn't seem to have been a factor either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think the number has anything to do with it, and saying an older woman is better in bed than a young woman is a sweeping generalisation.

I mean I can't imagine Susan Boyle being better in bed than Sasha Grey, and that has nothing to do with looks, it comes down to experience"

I suspect that with a fortune of around £22m some guys would find SuBo more attractive than Sasha Grey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my saxophonist left me

You need a hug from a violonist mate ?

Yes thanks, it appears in French culture hug means "grab them by the penis" so I'am wel up for that

I think you are the best Sir bearded need to hug you;-)

I am up for that as well, thank you for the kind offer Sir you are the best

Easy tiger

Always needs to have the last word "

Moi ??

Noooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha. Definitely not. Experienced doesn't always mean older. "

True! I've known 22yr old women who've had many times more sex already than women who've lived for 90 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely more confident about my sexuality and my body...and love sex more than I ever have...I think those make me better in some way....and we are always better at things we enjoy right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the one to judge, I'm pretty sure I'm horrible myself, that's why my saxophonist left me

You need a hug from a violonist mate ?

No thanks, it appears in French culture hug means "grab them by the penis" so I'll pass

I think you are confused with the culture, we meant, grab them by the testis, in French when referring to a hug

I'll pass to that as well but thank you for the kind offer "

Ah yes! That's the basis of "Hello lady" in Trumpish. Translation: Grab them by the pussy!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"How can you possibly ever say.

meet a few and find out i guess.

How do you know I haven't?

"

then you should know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is like asking if blondes are better in bed! Age does not equal experience and experience does not guarantee honed skills or techniques that may hit your pleasure zones. By the same token youth does not always equal energy, entheusiasm (in the wrong circumstances), or indeed a lack of experience. Possibly some compatibility in likes, chemistry, a capacity on each part to sense what is working and what isn't and a willingness to modify technique to give the other pleasure may help provide a better overall experience despite which stereotype box they/you fit into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another way at looking at the question is this. If you consider the old saying that a car is only as good as the driver, you could say sex is only as good as the man. This has the advantage of removing any blame from women for bad sex. Let's face it guys, it's pretty obvious the quality of sex is largely up to us anyway! If you have crap sex, don't blame the lady. You needed to do better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the amount of sex you have had equals experience....you can have a small amount of great lovers and have more experiences than a ton of crap ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another way at looking at the question is this. If you consider the old saying that a car is only as good as the driver, you could say sex is only as good as the man. This has the advantage of removing any blame from women for bad sex. Let's face it guys, it's pretty obvious the quality of sex is largely up to us anyway! If you have crap sex, don't blame the lady. You needed to do better! "

I'm not sure about the analogy. It suggests the woman is completely passive and the guy is a mind reader and is completely in charge.

We'd sex as more like dancing, it takes 2 to tango.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women seem dirtier

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Another way at looking at the question is this. If you consider the old saying that a car is only as good as the driver, you could say sex is only as good as the man. This has the advantage of removing any blame from women for bad sex. Let's face it guys, it's pretty obvious the quality of sex is largely up to us anyway! If you have crap sex, don't blame the lady. You needed to do better!

I'm not sure about the analogy. It suggests the woman is completely passive and the guy is a mind reader and is completely in charge.

We'd sex as more like dancing, it takes 2 to tango. "

Ssshh, it was a moaning tangent presented as tongue in cheek. Don't highlight the post, just leave it be.

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By *heplayerMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I want to fuck a really older woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another way at looking at the question is this. If you consider the old saying that a car is only as good as the driver, you could say sex is only as good as the man. This has the advantage of removing any blame from women for bad sex. Let's face it guys, it's pretty obvious the quality of sex is largely up to us anyway! If you have crap sex, don't blame the lady. You needed to do better!

I'm not sure about the analogy. It suggests the woman is completely passive and the guy is a mind reader and is completely in charge.

We'd sex as more like dancing, it takes 2 to tango.

Ssshh, it was a moaning tangent presented as tongue in cheek. Don't highlight the post, just leave it be."

Not at all! I was absolutely serious! But yes, sex is like dancing with a bit of extra intimacy. The dance is as only as good as the way the man leads and guides the lady. Dance, nor sex, is an entirely equal thing. And it is up to the man in both cases to determine the success or failure of the venture!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Older women seem dirtier "

Really ? Or are you just trying to white Knight our over 40s ?

Infact your statement is meaningless as it has no context ? Or are you genuinely telling me you have experience of 90 year old ladies and as a majority they prefer anal sex when compared to 28 year olds ?

In fact I often find it rude , disrespectful or just simplistic binary thinking to just assess an erotic encounter as better best, worse worst?

Differences in encounters do NOT need to be assessed in linear one dimensional terms , encounters can be vastly different yet equally good

An analogy for this would be wine, beer , malt whiskies . There are hundreds some genuinely bad some note worthy and excellent , yet amongst the good we will find none comparable attributes . Guinness vs shock top for example neither are better but differ to the extreme it would be missing the point of ale appreciation to dismiss either as sub standard to the other the same surely should be thought about women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like anything else, some will be, some won't.

We have a 24 year old female friend who is from a couple who are part of the party scene we're involved with and she's dynamite, she really is.

We also have a 70 year old lady who has had her eyes well and truly opened by the same scene. As she so succinctly put it:"I must've led a sheltered life" which is also hard to believe having been married thrice. Still it's all subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck this. Really? I think it's been deliberately created to provoke a reaction and I might just be doing so but what utter crap. Some older women can be better, just as some younger can be. Using personal anecdotal stories as evidence it must be so doesn't quite make it so. Yes, being old might mean you have a few more years to develop sexual experience but it doesn't mean someone younger hasn't done so.

So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim. "

Thank you! Someone said it. If you are good or not has nothing to do with age and more to do with experience and knowledge. But I know who not to disappoint as well when they come begging to fuck "my tight teen pussy" as those seem to be the majority of messages we get.

~Mia

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Not at all! I was absolutely serious! But yes, sex is like dancing with a bit of extra intimacy. The dance is as only as good as the way the man leads and guides the lady. Dance, nor sex, is an entirely equal thing. And it is up to the man in both cases to determine the success or failure of the venture! "

What about when two women have sex? I know when I meet a man to fuck it's down to us both as to how successful it is. Not just the man sorry. Obviously if you're a pillow princess than yes, the man can take control. But sex for many is equal or it's not going to happen successfully.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

What is younger and when do you class as older women to begin with.

General rule of thumb women with (....) years of sexual experience old or young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had the chance to see if a younger woman lived up to the women around my age range lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all! I was absolutely serious! But yes, sex is like dancing with a bit of extra intimacy. The dance is as only as good as the way the man leads and guides the lady. Dance, nor sex, is an entirely equal thing. And it is up to the man in both cases to determine the success or failure of the venture!

What about when two women have sex? I know when I meet a man to fuck it's down to us both as to how successful it is. Not just the man sorry. Obviously if you're a pillow princess than yes, the man can take control. But sex for many is equal or it's not going to happen successfully. "

What on earth is a pillow princess? Duchess of Cambridge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was awesome in bed 25 years ago - now I'm just as awesome but a bit kinkier.

To say older women are better is too much of a generalisation. Some are obviously terrible which is why their husbands are on Fab..."

I think Belladonna is right. I fall into the 'older' category (life's a bitch) and the only difference between the 20 year old me and the aged hag on here now is the experience that nearly 30 years of exploration has brought. You have to try it before you can decide if you like it .. and that takes time, perseverance and lube. Cxx

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

I'm not sure.... I'll have to put some effort in to testing.

Now where to begin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know cause im young and very confident and i have never had any complaints although i have been told im quite mature for my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am willing to fully test this theory out so volunteers please meet me at my inbox

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I don't think the number has anything to do with it, and saying an older woman is better in bed than a young woman is a sweeping generalisation.

I mean I can't imagine Susan Boyle being better in bed than Sasha Grey, and that has nothing to do with looks, it comes down to experience"

Lol

Sorry shouldn't laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck this. Really? I think it's been deliberately created to provoke a reaction and I might just be doing so but what utter crap. Some older women can be better, just as some younger can be. Using personal anecdotal stories as evidence it must be so doesn't quite make it so. Yes, being old might mean you have a few more years to develop sexual experience but it doesn't mean someone younger hasn't done so.

So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim.

Thank you! Someone said it. If you are good or not has nothing to do with age and more to do with experience and knowledge. But I know who not to disappoint as well when they come begging to fuck "my tight teen pussy" as those seem to be the majority of messages we get.

~Mia

"

We got into swinging in our early 20s, and there were lots of reasons related to our age as to why people wouldn't meet us. But lack of 'experience' was a funny one to hear. We were glad to prove people wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck this. Really? I think it's been deliberately created to provoke a reaction and I might just be doing so but what utter crap. Some older women can be better, just as some younger can be. Using personal anecdotal stories as evidence it must be so doesn't quite make it so. Yes, being old might mean you have a few more years to develop sexual experience but it doesn't mean someone younger hasn't done so.

So OP. I think it's a no to the resounding generalisation but thank you for the good notes on who not to disappoint with this young, inexperienced, unconfident quim.

Thank you! Someone said it. If you are good or not has nothing to do with age and more to do with experience and knowledge. But I know who not to disappoint as well when they come begging to fuck "my tight teen pussy" as those seem to be the majority of messages we get.

~Mia

We got into swinging in our early 20s, and there were lots of reasons related to our age as to why people wouldn't meet us. But lack of 'experience' was a funny one to hear. We were glad to prove people wrong. "

Yep that's an issue we have. But we have plenty experience so it doesn't phase us when people say daft shite like that

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please can someone tell me when did sex become an art?

Why the competition between young women and experienced ones?

Or is someone trying to start a fire?

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I'm looking to try a variety of ages, for research purposes obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course we are! Experienced, know what we like, and secure in ourselves/our bodies."

this was me aged 19 in my first serious relationship. got the chance to explore and do what i wanted.

i was better in bed when i was younger.

now my hips and pelvis are a bit fucked up so i can't keep going for as long. plus not enough guys give me enough time to give us the best experience we could have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you will get a positive correlation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking to try a variety of ages, for research purposes obviously "

In the name of research I'll volunteer on behalf of the golden oldies... :

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Please can someone tell me when did sex become an art?

Why the competition between young women and experienced ones?

Or is someone trying to start a fire?

"

'Younger women and older ones'. Not experienced. I think OP wanted to appeal to the masses or start a thread that would amuse him.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I was awesome in bed 25 years ago - now I'm just as awesome but a bit kinkier.

To say older women are better is too much of a generalisation. Some are obviously terrible which is why their husbands are on Fab..."

As are some men - which is why their wives are on fab!

How good someone is in bed is as much about confidence, experience etc as technical ability IMHO - and some young women are just as confident and experienced as many older women!

Agree with Bella though about the kinky part - I do things now that would make my younger self rather shocked! Xx

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By *aptain V OP   Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"I was awesome in bed 25 years ago - now I'm just as awesome but a bit kinkier.

To say older women are better is too much of a generalisation. Some are obviously terrible which is why their husbands are on Fab...

As are some men - which is why their wives are on fab!

How good someone is in bed is as much about confidence, experience etc as technical ability IMHO - and some young women are just as confident and experienced as many older women!

Agree with Bella though about the kinky part - I do things now that would make my younger self rather shocked! Xx"

You both make a fair point

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I was awesome in bed 25 years ago - now I'm just as awesome but a bit kinkier.

To say older women are better is too much of a generalisation. Some are obviously terrible which is why their husbands are on Fab...

As are some men - which is why their wives are on fab!

How good someone is in bed is as much about confidence, experience etc as technical ability IMHO - and some young women are just as confident and experienced as many older women!

Agree with Bella though about the kinky part - I do things now that would make my younger self rather shocked! Xx

You both make a fair point "

We do! That's because we're awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was awesome in bed 25 years ago - now I'm just as awesome but a bit kinkier.

To say older women are better is too much of a generalisation. Some are obviously terrible which is why their husbands are on Fab...

As are some men - which is why their wives are on fab! "

Miaow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is like full moon tonight ? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is like full moon tonight ? Haha "

Nope just a slow day in the forums

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I was awesome in bed 25 years ago - now I'm just as awesome but a bit kinkier.

To say older women are better is too much of a generalisation. Some are obviously terrible which is why their husbands are on Fab...

As are some men - which is why their wives are on fab!

Miaow! "

Actually I was just flipping the coin on the comment - wasn't intending to be bitchy or personal!

There are loads of dissatisfied husbands AND wives on fab! That's the only point I was making!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it can be generalised simply as older versus younger. More years having sex does not make someone better...Exploration, and the want to please a partner does. Some younger women can be just as good as older women, and likewise, they can also be shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it can be generalised simply as older versus younger. More years having sex does not make someone better...Exploration, and the want to please a partner does. Some younger women can be just as good as older women, and likewise, they can also be shit. "

What she said ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i got more confidence as I got older but age is just a number xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

Profoundly

And

Equivocally

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better at what?

"

Being santa ?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more sexually confident, self assured and know what I want. I really wasn't in my younger days, but I put that down to experience, not age.

Age is just a number, it's experience and confidence that makes a person a good lover in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe experience is a better description rather than age. Depending on boundaries and what they are willing to discover. Saying that I've always been a sucker for the older lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older are more fun and willing to do what you both enjoy.

But Younger you can do things they never experienced and blow their mind and they come begging for more with ever excuse under the sun for a reason to invite you over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To OP. I would lean more towards experience than age. It does come naturally with age but you get young ladies with decent experience and also older ladies with very little

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Some maybe, some maybe not...

I prefer a lady with the mental and physical scars from life, yet with a lust for life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To OP. I would lean more towards experience than age. It does come naturally with age but you get young ladies with decent experience and also older ladies with very little "

I think you've hit the nail on the head with that term 'decent experience'... Someone can have a lot of sex, but it does not necessarily make them better lovers.

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