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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you know when swinging isn't for you anymore?

Is it when it all seems to much hassle for little return? The thrill of the chase perhaps disappeared?

Or when you look through profiles and can't see any that grab your attention anymore?

Maybe when reading the forums they just seem so full of shite these days?

And I know in all the above cases, the common denominator is me. Is it time to move on?

And if so, I'll have to broach the subject tomorrow as I suspect only one might want to give up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could change how you do things and see how that goes?

i don't hardly meet now, not many guys float my boat any more really. but i still want to meet, just got really fussy about who with ages ago.

if i ever get a good enough excuse to stop meeting i probably will.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you just don't want to do it. Maybe you just need a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a sabbatical and agree that your partner can still play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe a sabbatical is required.

To be honest, the swinging doesn't bother me but it just doesn't seem much fun or exciting at the moment. Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a sabbatical is required.

To be honest, the swinging doesn't bother me but it just doesn't seem much fun or exciting at the moment. Does that make sense?

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Yes it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its no longer fun or exciting you definitely need a break from it all we had 8 months out and it definitely helped xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't meet that much anymore, just stick around for the socials and the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lifestyle can leave you feeling jaded. Especially when you feel you've been there, done that and got a wardrobe full of t-shirts. When that happens it's time to do something different, at least for a while, until your appetite returns or you find a different more satisfying hobby

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"This lifestyle can leave you feeling jaded. Especially when you feel you've been there, done that and got a wardrobe full of t-shirts. When that happens it's time to do something different, at least for a while, until your appetite returns or you find a different more satisfying hobby"

First read of that I read it as "or you find a different more satisfying hubby" and was all

Wise advice though, take some time out OP, re-assess what you're looking for, talk to your other half, tell them how you're feeling and why, then if/when you're ready step back into it.

Good luck

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